Cheating

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If you are going with a girlfriend or have a wife then NO!!!!! If a guy talked dirty to me he's be blinking out of an orifice where the sun don't shine! If you are in a relationship and your mate and you enjoy talking dirty to each other because it stimulates your love-making that is one thing. Any woman out there that would let a man not having a serious relationship with her talk dirty to her needs her head read! It's time you got a life and by the way ... it's a form of cheating!

Yes, if you ask him too. Yes, if you didn't even ask him too.

yes you would if you did not trust her or he if you totally trust them you you wouldn't but if not you would

• If you are directly speaking to a person and they ask 'how are you' then tell them things are going just fine and how are they doing. If someone asks you that in an email or letter and you are close friends then tell them what has been going on in your life.

They will get worried that you are cheating or thinking about cheating. Most women are insecure that their significant others will lose interest in them and break their heart.

you don't love who he is now but you used to. The faltering in your sentence supports it. If you cant trust there cant be love and with out love of some caliber its only an empty husk of the relationship it once was. You'll even notice things as you go along through time food tastes worse, it gets harder to sleep, you spend a large percent of your day thinking about it. It will slowly tear you apart. Twice he's cheated on you and by you not taking notice to this earlier he has no remorse no sign of a silent sorry. Its not a pretty story to tell the kids years later if it happens again. Really its not your fault all men are capable of restraining themselves just some that think peoples feelings are a game that they have no concern for and just think of themselves before others.

Just let go

You will know real love when a man loves you completely and he does not want anyone else... Someone who cheats on you must not be afraid of losing you...the right man for you to love is out there try not being attracted to the same sort of guy...if a guy ticks all your wants list then he will not be the right man for you. Get rid of him!!! unless that is you are dependant on him?

if he starts getting musical midnight classes out of the blue

It is a huge breach of trust and it is how you deal with it that will decide where you go from here. It really depends on if you want to and feel you can try to forgive him and stay together and if this is the decision it would be in your best interest to attend marriage counselling together. If you decide you just cannot get by this, forgive him or trust him again then it would probably be in your best interest to separate to take time and sort your feelings out to decide what to do from here. Whatever may happen do what is best for you and what you can live with.

(another view)

There is no ricipe for determining if you should get A divorce. The only person who can make that decision is you.,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, Have an open mind on this,, Think on this, Where you happy in your mariage before this new info. Where you satisfied with your sex life? Was your husband attentive to you?,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, I really do not understand where the word "cheat" comes in on this subject, It is "dishonest" but only because someone came up with the idea and everyone said that's A good idea. ,,,,,,,,,,,,,, To cheat you need to (give less or instead of). If he was giving you exactly what he would have in other instance then you were not cheated out of anything. ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, Is this something that you can learn to live with if you wanted to? Are you willing to give up your lifestyle as it is now because of what you think is pride? Just because your husband (or wife for that matter) got some on the side does not mean that they love you any less. (((((((((((((It boils down to this)))))))))))))))),, You love him? He loves you? Is he going to leave you for his woman on the side? Can you trust him to use protection?,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, If you said yes to all except the leaving for other woman then you might want to adjust your thinking A little.,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, BUT!!!!!!! You need to let him know that you are in A relationship with him, and you get to have input in his "X-Tras" ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, If all this makes you crazy as A lune, Then Go today and file for A divorse, And don't back down.

If you are still married, then telling the husband is the best thing to do, since it will come out in the end. The name of the child is the least of the problem--just do what makes sense in the long run for the child.

Men are going to look at other women, even in the pressence of the woman they are with. Looking is not cheating.

The same reason they do any where They like it and they get away with it most of the time.

everyone will have doubts or these thought's running through your mind... the key is how you handle it and if you really can control yourself fairly easily and have the person on your mind most of the time then you do love him... but if you go with your temptations then you obviously do not

• Some men can't commit to one woman and some other men never mature and think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence (a better and more interesting woman.) You have done nothing wrong, but there is a lack of communication skills between both of you and your marriage is in trouble. Remember that you can control your own life even if you can not control his. Let him be angry all he wants, but let him know you are not going to share him with another woman. You deserve respect and if he isn't going to give it to you then move on from him as you deserve better.
  
• THANK YOU... HE SEEMS TO ALWAYS BE SEARCHING FOR SOME OTHER WOMAN, THROUGH FLIRTING AND SUCH, GOING TO BARS, ETC. WE WERE GOING TO CHURCH FAITHFULLY AND HE WAS SLEEPING WITH HER. ANOTHER MAN HAD BROUGHT HER TO OUR HOME AND SHE SPRAWLED OUT ON MY COUCH, SITTING LIKE A TRAMP. I SAW THE WAY THAT HE LOOKED AT HER AND I KNEW RIGHT THEN THAT HE WANTED TO, AND WAS GOING HAVE SEX WITH HER. I KNOW WHAT HE IS LIKE AND I NEED TO STOP BELIEVING HIM WHEN HE SAYS THAT HE WILL CHANGE, AND THAT HE LOVES ME. HE IS AN ALCOHOLIC AND WILL NOT WORK. HE HAS ENTIRELY WAY TOO MUCH TIME AVAILABLE FOR HIS EVIL DEEDS. I TRULY BELIEVE THAT THIS MAN THAT I HAVE MARRIED AND HAVE BEEN WITH FOR 9 YEARS, IS A NARCISSIST. HE SURE DOES FIT THE DESCRIPTION...GOD BLESS & THANK YOU AGAIN FOR YOUR SUPPORT AND ADVICE...REGINA...

There is nothing to say. Cheating, if you want to cheat then face the consequences. Just stay single if you want to flirt like crazy; don't hurt someone because of your recklessness.

Granny smith is the name of the green apple.

It is possible. He might do this in order to keep an emotional connection with his wife.

Time to end the marriage and move on to someone who will be a real husband.

• It isn't just a matter of the wife would do learning about the affair, but how hurt the wife would be and how crushed and shocked she is that she put so much trust into her husband. Once a bond of trust has been broken it is difficult to earn it back and sometimes it cannot be earned back. Some wives may give their husband a second chance if he has not cheated before; some won't. Other wives may have the attitude 'You started the cheating so that means I can too!' Other wives may not accept their husbands having an affair at all and go into immediate divorce proceedings. Cheating is low; spineless and the cheater generally pays dearly for that mistake.

• If a spouse has only one extramarital affair then it does not mean the end of a marriage, but only that the marriage is in trouble and most of it is caused by lack of communication so each spouse knows how the other feels. Sometimes spouses are married so long that the magic has gone out of their marriage and they may need to get away together on a bit of a romantic holiday even if it is just a weekend away at something you both enjoy. If a spouse is constantly having affairs then yes, it is probably the end of the marriage because the spouse cannot commit to one person and has a disregard for their spouse. Marriage counseling is another good way to learn tools to save the marriage, but often the male spouse is not open to airing out his marriage problems with a counselor.

No, but most do.

Now, scientists know that the seemingly meaningless and frequent lies that the sociopath tells may not all be actual lies. Some are lies, particularly in sociopaths who have broken the law and are trying to charm or bully their way out of trouble.

But some -- especially impulsive-sounding bragging or announcements of lofty intent ("I'm gonna get out of this bugbox and write a best-selling novel, climb Mount Everest, and go work for NASA!") -- are not intended to deceive others so much as to tell them "I want to do something with my life!"

But, sadly, lacking the means and wherewithal to do this, the sociopath will undoubtedly end up in trouble all over again.

Sociopaths do very bad things. But branding them all "pure evil" isn't going to help anyone. It's just more hate.

I have commented elsewhere that the human brain is the greatest new frontier in many ways. (Although I certainly have no lack of interest in space.)

Sociopaths, along with other "hopeless cases" like people with Alzheimer's disease, Down Syndrome, Asperger's, ADD, ADHD, autism, and the schizophrenias, along with more common disorders such as depression and addiction, and so on, are a mystery, but scientists have a way of hammering away at mysteries until they unravel them, and they are well on their way to the core of this one.

If one says that sociopaths aren't worth helping, one rather misses the point, after all. The price the world pays for not being able to help these unhappy people is incalculable.

But it also shows the hopelessness that sociopaths/psychopaths and their behavior make many people feel, itself a mirror-image of the emptiness and meaninglessness that hide always within the psychopath.

To counter that hopelessness, please know these two incontrovertible points: (1)no, the sociopath who hurt you isn't genuinely happy; (2) yes, the massive population of sociopaths the world over will be able to be treated before long, and possibly the first threads of that are already starting now.

• If you have absolute proof that your husband is cheating with this other woman then you should deal with your own problems with your husband first and yes, the other woman's husband should know. This is not an uncommon problem and most people (whether a husband cheats with another man's wife or a wife cheats with one of her friend's husbands) is very common and the victim of the cheating generally does tell the husband or wife that their spouse is cheating with their spouse.

It varies person to person, really.