Cheating

Obviously, he shouldn't be in a relationship. You have an obligation to tell the current girlfriend that he can't be trusted. If he's cheating on HER with YOU, he probably has other's on the line as well. Have you heard of Aids, VD? This isn't the kind of person you want to have a relationship with.

The only thing you can do is be empathetic, he is your girlfriends ex for a reason and it is unfortunate if he has problems enough to hurt himself but it really isn't an issue YOUR girlfriend should get involved with. If she gets involved with him at this point he will be getting what he wants - her attention. Individuals do stuff to hurt themselves for attention derived from selfishness not because they necessarily are interested but want control still.

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It's hard for both parties to ever feel normal again after an affair has occured. The cheater probably feels like they were getting affection and attention from the third party they cheated on their spouse with. And the "cheated" feel contempt and anger towards the spouse or partner who betrayed them, but also dealing with feelings of anxiety, pain, shame, and a whole mess of self esteem issues to boot. If your wife is rejecting you, it's probably because to her, the wound is still very fresh and new. The recovery process is such a long process, that for those who don't want to put the work in, should probably get out of the relationship. But, if you are willing, here is some ways to help with the healing process if you are the cheater:

1. Do not pressure your partner to be intimate with you. Being intimate takes trust, and if you don't have that anymore, intimacy is not going to be there.

2. You may find yourselves arguing constantly about the affair. STOP THAT! I know it's hard, but keeping affair talk limited to a therapy office is key in healing the relationship. If a therapy office is not available, agree with your partner to make time for you two to talk about it. I recommend one hour a day (if necessary) then leave it alone.

3. If you are the person who cheated, you are probably wanting to immediately put it behind you. But let me tell you, many tiny little things can trigger your partner into reliving or thinking about the affair; it's essential for you as the person who wants to heal your relationship, to listen to your partner about their feelings regarding triggers. Let them vent (cussing and being volitile toward you is NOT venting) if something triggers their mood to change.

4. Some say disclosure about EVERYTHING is bad, but it depends on the person. If your partner can handle it, give them the respect by telling them about it. You can judge how a person is handling the situation by using the one hour a day rule. If they use that information against you later in the day, then they clearly can't handle it, and it's best to speak with them about changing disclosure rules. Setting boundaries is good (i.e "I will agree to disclose how the affair happened and my feelings about why I think it happened, but I will not disclose the sexual events").

5. Above all, be patient. Getting over an affair is the toughest situation. Some can heal from an affair, but some can't. There should not be a timeline for healing. Everyone heals differently; however, if it has been longer than a year and it feels as if the relationship has not made progress, it is best to seek professional help for the relationship.

Feeling attractive for yourself is going to take sometime. It's all in how you help your partner heal and repair. Doing small things for her and making her feel special will eventually help aid in making you feel special. It's hard to look at it this way, but an affair is a very selfish act. If you are truly wanting to heal your marriage from an affair, your needs need to be put aside for your partner's. No one makes another person cheat, it's an act that is done out of selfishness. If you are unhappy with your spouse, get out of the relationship, and gain some independence for yourself before moving on with someone else.

• If he assured you the relationship was over then it is doubtful he would drive by your house. However, if he was forced to stop seeing you by his wife it is possible he may still drive by your house. It all depends on the individual man.

U don't trust him. if he has done all of that i wouldn't want 2 stay with him. Technically he has betrayed u a million times.

It's not a good sign and could cause problems such as the fact one day/night while out at a party, etc., and you are talking to a male friend he may just beat the male friend to a pulp! This in turn is a control mechanism towards you leaving you fearful of talking to any male person. If he was mature and confident he wouldn't have a problem and if another guy gave you a compliment such as being pretty then your boyfriend should be beaming and proud of you, but realize that YOU love HIM. Talk to him about his jealous outbursts and let him know you aren't putting up with it.

* You should only ask this question if you have been seeing each other for some time and are getting sexually involved. Nevertake the relationship as a one night stand or you know you may move on from this girl and treat her right. If you feel your relationship has reached a sexual level then ask her directly if she'd like to spend the night with you at a motel. Be sure the motel is a nice one and don't pick a sleazy 'Bates Motel' type of Motel as it cheapens the evening and it's a shabby thing to do to any woman.

Yes well it depends

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There is no way to give a blanket answer to that question that will apply to every wife.

Some women who cheat probably no longer lover their husbands.

Others were not ready to settle down and be satisfied with one man when they got married.

Others may feel that having a husband as a primary lover is not incompatible with having outside affairs.

Others may believe in a monogamous relationship and try to maintain it, but are not able to withstand the temptation to cheat.

If you see your friend walking on the sidewalk you can say "Hi Kaite"

she says she loves me, and she would never cheat on me. But! she talks to him on the phone more than she talks to me, she's done more things for him. But swears they are just BEST friends.

I'm not sure as to what the cheating husband has to do with things, but yes. Definitely. The best idea for this situation is to cheat on the Girlfriend so that he can feel the same struugle of being cheated on so that it can bring you two closer in friendship.

First off she's your wife and shouldn't be unless she belongs to a club or theatrical group where she needs to practice dance with black men. If this isn't the case then why are you sitting there allowing her to get away with it? You don't have boyfriends when you're married! It's time you sat her down and expressed how you feel. If she is in dance and needs to practice with a black person then leave it alone or, you could get interested and ask if you could come along to see her practice. If she isn't into dance or theater then put your foot down and tell her she's married, you don't like it and if it continues she's out the door!

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Yes there are some married man who have this problem, because of his affair. The other woman or mistress is new to this married man, and everything she does is to excite him and satisfy his needs. This are not the case when it comes to his wife. Especially if they have been married for a long time, most of the time sex for this married man is only convenience so the wife will think that she still excite him. For some odd reason when the married man experience another woman and things are much different, that will stick in his mind. This will be the start of comparing the wife to a mistress. Married man will always look for that excitement and satisfaction that he can't have with his wife. Being impotent is like being turn off, the married man's wife do not turn him on anymore. It is sad but it really happen.

It depends on the age of the male. Young males are going through high testosterone and are like kids in a candy shop when it comes to dating young women their own age. Some young men are quite committed, but many are not. They have not learned yet what commitment really means and what is involved in a good relationship and that simply takes time. Men who should know better can either simply love women and don't want to tie themselves down to one women, but forget to tell the woman they are dating. Some men are honest and will tell the woman they are dating that they do not want to commit. There are lot more men out there that really do have great character qualities and do not cheat on their mates. Cheating is cheap, but for men/women alike it appears it's easier to cheat on the mate for two reasons #1 they don't have the courage or independence to break off the relationship with their mate and then start dating others and #2 they want their cake and eat it too. In other words if the relationship with the girl he is cheating with doesn't work out then he feels he can always come back to his former mate. Believe it or not there is a high percentage of women that will take their cheating mate back. History has always made men high on the food chain and men have been cheating for centuries and in some countries it's acceptable where the woman would be half flogged to death for doing the same thing. Unfortunately, with Women's Lib women can often fight back in the wrong way and if they catch their partner cheating they will cheat too. It's easier and less stressful to kick the jerk to the curb or divorce him. Women are also just as much at fault for the rise in cheating. They are neck in neck with their male counterparts as far as the cheating game.

You can tell that a woman is cheatin,because if you know that you have been the worst man you can be and she is walking around with a smile on her face then she is cheating. Unless she is a patient woman.

Only you can answer that and know how you feel however, she did something knowingly cheating and that is just plain wrong. People do make mistakes but no matter how sorry you may be and regret it they did it and made the distinct choice to do so knowing they were involved and allowing someone to do that and say things are alright would only be condoning that behaviour. Only you can decide if you can or will trust her again or if you should let go and move on not allowing someone to treat you in such a manner.

That could be a scenario in which chances are that would be true but then there is the cheating scenario. He would definitely hide the number so you wouldn't find out that he was cheating. You are going to have to find out the truth through your husband and if need be the "friend" - go with your gut as it is rarely wrong.

Sure. It is possible to 'love' more then one person. I have been down that same road before. But if you really 'LOVE' your wife then you should dump the mistress before you get caught. I had a affair for 15 years. It started before I got married and continued. Only after I caught my wife cheating on me with a ex-school friend did I see what I had right in front of me. Try to make the most of life with the person you are married to.

You're not in love with your best friend... Believe me. Just because you had sex with this person, sex is the greatest thing to relieve stress... stress, believe it or not is our main motive, it's why we do what we do, it's why the economy sucks now days. Give it a few days, play it slow and explain to your best friend that you're not in love with them, and that you have a wife. When you're in love with some one, you know it. Jamiej93@yahoo.com or Doppleganger09@gmail.com for further questions or comments.

There could be a variety of reasons. Maybe he embarrassed or ashamed of his surroundings, if he lives at home with his parents maybe they have issues and are not people he wants to subject you to, if he lives on his own maybe he is just personable and wants his space to be his own, maybe he does have another in his life as well as you- whether it be a wife/family, girlfriend or girlfriends even maybe a boyfriend,a roommate he doesn't want you to be subjected to, if you do not know where he lives - maybe he doesn't have a place to live, maybe he lives in a shelter or hostel He could be hiding you from others, he could be a messy housekeeper, he could just be one of those guys that rather not bring his personal life home, so to speak. Have to keep up and image for neighbors, other girls, parents, maybe he doesnt have a house or its not his.

Emotional affair is really bad and it will destroy the marriage. It can damage a relationship more than one night stand. The betrayal will be painful that saving the marriage will be hard. Emotional affair is about sharing deep thoughts and feelings with someone other than your partner and about keeping emotional secrets.

It's easier to get over a one night stand than emotional affair. Because a one night stand is meaningless and doesn't involve true feelings or personal thoughts. To have emotional affair can occurs when deep connection are forged. It's more loving and connected than physical sex. If you or your spouse are having this feelings, think carefully if it's worth loosing the people that we love just because there's someone new that's listening to what ever we want to talk. It's not worth it, from my experience it was the end of our marriage.

Well... Good question. :P What I could do is get another girlfriend and be all lovey dovey with them or fake a relationship by writing someones elses name on your hand and saying you have this smokin hot girlfriend... Lol. But yeah that's all I can think of. Hope this helps... Bye

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