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Cheating
This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.
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I cheated on my husband how do we heal?
Well this is my motto... Forgive anf forget, but don't forget as to where you can't bring it up agian. Just tell yourself that everything will be ok, and things will get better for you. Don't beat yourself up over something he did. Sweety it's not your fault it was his bad decison, and you had nothing to do with it. I promise everything will be ok. :- )
What to do when you have been cheated on and lied to and being ignored?
Most importantly , is he still in love with you? If he is, and you still love him sit down and talk about it , explain how you are feeling. However if he doesnt love you and is just messing about, i would say leave. Now I've been cheated on and lied to and a lot of people told me to leave but because i loved him i really didn't want to. So i sat him down talked about it and it improved everything a hell of a lot. However if he really doesn't care, i have one thing to say to you, just up and leave ..
Hope this helps a little :)
How do you tell a girl you are sorry?
Telling someone that you are sorry should be an easy thing to do but many people are not so good at it. Just go to that person and say, "look, I'm sorry about....." whatever it is. If you are uncomfortable doing that, a letter or short note works well too in breaking the ice. If that person is unaccepting of the apology, which is sometimes the case, at least you know that you tried and you did the right thing by apologizing.
Also try to avoid saying Im sorry, But..... and then trying to defend yourself as some people will start an argument from that point.
What if you can not get over the affair?
Sure you can. Its wont be easy at first but you can get over it. Life goes on
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No one can because of the pain. I do believe that in time the pain will ease up slowly. The first year of discovering the affair, all you feel is emptiness, confuse,
wondering what you did or what you missed. The pain of betrayal is the one that
will consume you.
The shock of the affair will stay with you. And the worst case is this flashback that will hit you everytime. Let time heal your pain, let God guide you to be strong. I know because it happened to me 3 years ago and it still painful when the flashback comes back.
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Yeah, if you really want to stick with her/him. Depends on why it happened though, women make up reasons it's your fault and not theirs, using weird emotional logic that doesn't pan out if you think it through. Men will get hormonal, "lay the pipe," and won't feel bad about it for months. If it's something that's going to be a problem for a long time, either break it off, make it an open relationship, or otherwise come up with a plan. If you just straight-up can't trust them, though, it's not worth trying to get over it--Just cut your losses.
There's a lot of maybes in my answer, this is cause i can't really tell why.
Maybe he missed her
Maybe he wants to save his marriage
Maybe he is trying hard to get over her
staring is rude by the way.
How can a man tell when a woman is lying?
it really depends on what your asking/getting out of her if you want to know if she loves you
take her somewhere romantic
tell her all the things you love about her example - her smile(s - she may have different smiles - include them)
her laugh - (cute,sexy or maybe her laugh makes you want to laugh)
her eyes tell her that you love her and somehow ask her to do the same
if she really loves you she'll know exactly what to say
Im cheating on my boyfriend how do i tell him?
well why are you cheting on him. and say i need to tell you somthing i am breaking up with you
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Well sweety all i can say is why do you cheat on him if u wanted another guy you should of broken up with him ahead of time.. But im here to help you through it ok.. But basically what you can do is call him up or talk to him in person alone. Tell him sweety i have something to tell you. Let me finish before you say anything ok.. and please dont hate me or get mad. But i have been cheating on u for (how long u been cheating) with (name) i am sorry but i rather be with him than you so i am breaking up with you. i really am sorry...
4 What is an example of commensalisms relationship?
Cattle Egrets foraging in fields among cattle or other livestock. As cattle, horses and other livestock graze on the field; they cause movements that stir up various insects. As the insects are stirred up, the Cattle Egrets following the livestock catch and feed upon them. The egrets benefit from this relationship because the livestock have helped them find their meals, while the livestock are unaffected by it.
YES! But it depends what type. If your married you can kiss all you want but if its a stanger then NO! Lots of nine to ten year olds what to kiss each other but SORRY your too yong
How do you move on after a 30-year marriage even though your husband has cheated the entire time?
After you have be betrayed there will be a harbouring of feelings such as resentment, hurt, as well as trust issues. Counselling involving both of you if you are both willing would be very effective for your type of situation.
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Your husband thinks that what he did to betrayed you is not a big deal. Most men will think and solve their problem through logic, which it doesn't help them. It will be hard for you to move on knowing that your husband never careless if having affairs was only his past time of enjoyment. It's time for you to really think if you want to be happy alone or be miserable being with your husband. Think about it.
How do you get revenge without hurting someone?
Say a come back that is good but not good enough to hurt someones feelings. Then have them want to say something back. Then it is perfect revenge without the anger.
That isn't revenge. The whole point of revenge is doing something over the top of what they did, to make you feel better. Revenge is a dish best served cold. Unless its hot dogs, they are always better warm. A punch to the face is good, but will be short lived. Long term revenges that you create by a small quick act are the best. Sleep with someone they know. Sleep with their parents. Buy them a dog that has 1 leg so they feel bad and are stuck caring for it. Mow their lawn very very short and spray it with water in the sun, so it dries up and turns the yard brown. That is also a revenge dish served best when warm, because if the sun is cold then it wont burn up the yard and you wasted a day cutting their grass extra short. Now they can go 3 weeks without mowing instead of 1. You actually just helped them, so it was almost a reverse-revenge. Just make sure before you go through with anything, you check to see if its best served cold or warm.
I had a baby with a married man?
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What do you do if you know that ypur boyfriend is cheating on you?
If it hurts you & you don't like it or being cheated on, leave him. He's not only demonstrating that he's a cheater, but a liar as well. Do you really want (or need) anyone, much less someone you love, in your life?
He has no intention of coming back to you, he is taking the easiest and least painful way out of the relationship for him. Have a candid talk with him when he calls, he either needs to come and get you like he promised or you should break it off and move on.
- the guy becomes less interested in you
- seems to not want much sex (if any atall, that's if you're doing it)
- he starts to mention someone else alot (often talking about characteristics)
Should you forgive your husband after he had an affair?
A man who cheats and infects his spouse with a potentially fatal disease is an animal of the most careless and cruel nature. The mere thought of it sickens me. Leave this louse if you can or at the very least, tell him to keep his slimy, disease ridden paws off of you!
I agree, if a spouse cheats to get a divorce
Anyway, this is my thought:
Forgive him...then leave him. Forgiving doesn't mean ignoring!! Forgive him for the STD, forgive him for cheating on you, leave him for being a jerk: for being selfish and endangering your life.
l dont know if yes or no but everything i know is that i am small and that if he dares to cheat on me i swear i would leave him and i would not forgive him would he forgive us NO
Of course you should forgive. It states in the Bible to forgive. If you don't forgive, then you wont be able to move on.
You should always forgive, but the fact of the matter is, you shouldn't disregard it just because he is your husband. So what? He didn't think about that when he was sleepin around with Tina and Pam and brought you back a disease. Leave him...and be careful with whom you trust again
Forget about the bible. A cheater remains a cheater and if a husband is careless enough to give you an STD, his time is over. Get a divorce unless you want to be the doormat for a pathetic liar.
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Amen.
Forgive? Sure, why not? Then sue the jerk into covering the costs for medical treatment of the potentially fatal disease he transmitted to you. It never hurts to let the ill will go, but he should assume responsibility for endangering your health through his infidelity.
ANSWER:It depends when and why he did it. Youre the only one that can answer this because you have to deal with this later on. But one thing though, you didn't deserved to have this transmitted deasease. No one does but unfortunately he never thought of you. Ask yourself if you can really stay with him after the affair he did.
Think about you now, there's a lot of decent man out there for you. Never loose your faith, God is always with you and He wants you to do the right thing.
Are men truly sorry if they cheat?
Do men admit to cheating? I'm afraid not. I haven't met a men who admitted that they are cheating or having an affair, and this includes the man that I married. If you ask them, they will answer the question with a question. They will even make a point of saying that man who cheat can not be trusted. In short no one I mean men will never admit that they do cheat.
How do you know a guy that claims he loves you does?
When you know a guy really loves you, is when he shows it to you meaning he gives you anything you deserve and kindness, strength, and be with you through good times and bad.Never hurts you.
Can you tell by a kiss that a guy is really into you and how?
Can you tell by a single kiss that a guy is really into you?
In my honnist opinion yes, you can tell by a kiss if a guy is really into you.
How you may ask?
Welll if you kiss a guy and you feal a warm strange feeling inside that means he's into you.
How this man looks at you should be of no concern of yours. What he may or may not feel about you is between his wife and himself. Haven't you wasted enough emotional energy on this nowhere man? Life is short, find something or someone who improves your life.
What percentage of black men have infidelity issues?
not all men cheat it all depends on what kind of guy he is if hes sweey n honesy n trusyworthy then he wont cheat unless he gets drunk me if ur bf doesnt care bout ur relaship then he prob wil cheat but girls cheat to
Find out if he's serious, like call his friends or ask people that he's often around with. Watch him. If it is true, than leave him, you will find a better guy. Don't think that he's the only one out there for you, I'm sure there are a lot of guy that have an eye on you that you don't know about. Been there, done that :-) leave him and find a new faithful man that will not threaten you like that Answer Before you decide he has done something wrong simply because he admitted having a temptation why don't you talk to him. He has obviously shown a willingness to talk to you about it which indicates he wants to communicate something. Before you perceive his admission as some sort of threat find out why he is tempted to do this. It may have absolutely nothing to do with you and may be something else going on in his life that he doesn't feel comfortable about talking about with you and this discomfort has led to other feelings. A boyfriend willing to admit this to his girlfriend is one who is being honest. That honesty shouldn't be punished by drastic measures. If you break off the relationship with him just because he admitted these feelings he had this only sends a strong message to him that it is better to lie to girlfriends about such feelings.
If the both of you can not have an honest and open conversation about such things then there are bigger problems there than his desires to be with another girl. When two people can share their hearts with each other without fear of reprisal then their is a foundation by which you can build a meaningful and trusting relationship. Just talk to your boyfriend and listen to what he is trying to tell you. If both of you are being honest with each other than whatever the outcome both of you will be better for it.
There are lots of ways people change, from the pain of loosing someone through death. From the pain that we felt because someone hurt us or break our heart. From the pain when someone lied to us. In reality we all change because of someone, not because we wanted to. We do change because we are trying to put a "shield" in our self so we will not be hurt anymore.
How do you tell if your man is not cheating?
Well, if he spends every minute with you after work or whatever he has, then you know he's not.
Or if he calls you everyday to say he loves you, and tells you how important you are, you're okaayyy. Nothing to worry about.
Who is more faithful women or men?
Women most definately. we are all individuals, it all about up bring, morals, integrity and self-respect! so how can anyone say one or the other! this is coming from a man that never cheated ;-) and doesn't ever plan too!
