Cheating

Depends. Were they taken before you met? If so, let it go, it had nothing to do with you. Now, if they were taken while you were/are together, you should tell her. Then leave her feeling stupid. You deserve better than that.

It doesnt matter that he felt guilty or else he would have stopped. He is probably a sex addict and needs help. I think the wife needs to leave him or get him some help

because u have psychological problems

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Could it be that you are not satisfied with your wife. How about you never really love your wife and just want to use her for your needs. I will apologize for my bluntness because men in general are really thinking about themselves. Why don't you give your wife a wonderful gift, DIVORCE her so she wouldn't have this drama from you. It will help you a lot to.....

just look at the outside of the house, if they do they're will be at least one toy.

First of all, the fact that you are asking this question means that you are already thinking about doing it anyway, so anything I say may really not matter. But that won't stop me! Don't do it, not if you value your husband at all, or your marriage of however many years you have been married. Let's say you sleep with his best bud and what next, after that fun? Divorce, or fight with your husband over the affair or what? Is his bud or is the affair worth it? I seriously doubt that you any relationship that starts with an affair can end up well, as it is built upon infidelity and mistrust. I suggest that you rekindle your marriage with new moves and surprise him with outfits and such. That way, you won't feel the need to go abroad to get the action you want, as he is willing to amp up your marriage if you are willing, of course. Turn all of your attention and the attention other guys give you to your husband, and get it on the right way.

Hi,

I am totally in the same position and the thing that I am going to do is be chummy with him make him your friend not just some guy in your class. I still like my ex and think he still likes me so i met up with him in the pool and we totally had sex while everyone was whatching with our swimming costumes on and we snogged it and everything so my advice is to get to be his friend and then he will see you as more than that

hope this helps

Molly42

The next time he says this to you say, "Could it be guilt talking? Perhaps you're the one that is cheating!" If he says he isn't, then say, "You should know me well enough by now that I wouldn't cheat on you at all, never mind with your best friend, so unless you're doing the cheating we shouldn't be having a problem here!" That will knock him off his feet and then tell him, "If I can't convince you I'm not cheating on you ... hit the bricks! I'm not being blamed constantly for something I didn't do." If he walks, let him go! Some people are just super jealous, some people cheat themselves so they think their mate will do the same, or, his friend is lying to him and perhaps telling him you he's been seeing you on the side! It wouldn't be the first time this has happened to another couple by a so-called friend of either the guy or the girl. Good luck Marcy

Unless you are married or engaged, there is no commitment, therefore there is no such thing as cheating. You SHOULD however disclose to her that you BOTH can date around until such a time as you become exclusive which is ONLY a result of being engaged. Unless you two are engaged then you are free to date around and so is she.

First of all your boyfriend shouldn't be close with any girl who isn't blood related to him , no female " bestfriends " pretend " sisters " none of that . But to tell if they are cheating pay attention to how they act around eachother . If they spend more time together than you & him do than chances are they are messing around . If she spends the night at his house when no one's home ? Chances are they're doing something. If she calls him bae baby or babe , chances are they're doing something. If i were you i would shut that " brother , sister " thing down real quick.

Generaly speaking it depends on the relationship. But if your talking over all in the world, i would say men. Primarily due to the huge amount of rapes that occur, prostitution, and there ability to think with there dick so impulsively.

its kind of easy to spot a cheater out of a man but never that easy to find a women cheating.1:we have a way of suddden loss of intrest in sexual intercourse and things like... little thing that always tend to make her made is no longer making her made.Or when we like for you to show affection and cuddle with us we no longer want that because we are already satisfied with our new mister in the picture.but before you jump to conclutions based on this knowledge always try to understand the reason behind the falure in your relationship and try to understand her point of view...compare the man from you to him and see if you can find different traits that you feel as though she'd have liked in your relationship and improve that for the next women tha strolls into your life.

Well this is my motto... Forgive anf forget, but don't forget as to where you can't bring it up agian. Just tell yourself that everything will be ok, and things will get better for you. Don't beat yourself up over something he did. Sweety it's not your fault it was his bad decison, and you had nothing to do with it. I promise everything will be ok. :- )

Most importantly , is he still in love with you? If he is, and you still love him sit down and talk about it , explain how you are feeling. However if he doesnt love you and is just messing about, i would say leave. Now I've been cheated on and lied to and a lot of people told me to leave but because i loved him i really didn't want to. So i sat him down talked about it and it improved everything a hell of a lot. However if he really doesn't care, i have one thing to say to you, just up and leave ..

Hope this helps a little :)

Telling someone that you are sorry should be an easy thing to do but many people are not so good at it. Just go to that person and say, "look, I'm sorry about....." whatever it is. If you are uncomfortable doing that, a letter or short note works well too in breaking the ice. If that person is unaccepting of the apology, which is sometimes the case, at least you know that you tried and you did the right thing by apologizing.

Also try to avoid saying Im sorry, But..... and then trying to defend yourself as some people will start an argument from that point.

Sure you can. Its wont be easy at first but you can get over it. Life goes on

B:

No one can because of the pain. I do believe that in time the pain will ease up slowly. The first year of discovering the affair, all you feel is emptiness, confuse,

wondering what you did or what you missed. The pain of betrayal is the one that

will consume you.

The shock of the affair will stay with you. And the worst case is this flashback that will hit you everytime. Let time heal your pain, let God guide you to be strong. I know because it happened to me 3 years ago and it still painful when the flashback comes back.

C:

Yeah, if you really want to stick with her/him. Depends on why it happened though, women make up reasons it's your fault and not theirs, using weird emotional logic that doesn't pan out if you think it through. Men will get hormonal, "lay the pipe," and won't feel bad about it for months. If it's something that's going to be a problem for a long time, either break it off, make it an open relationship, or otherwise come up with a plan. If you just straight-up can't trust them, though, it's not worth trying to get over it--Just cut your losses.

There's a lot of maybes in my answer, this is cause i can't really tell why.

Maybe he missed her

Maybe he wants to save his marriage

Maybe he is trying hard to get over her

staring is rude by the way.

it really depends on what your asking/getting out of her if you want to know if she loves you

take her somewhere romantic

tell her all the things you love about her example - her smile(s - she may have different smiles - include them)

her laugh - (cute,sexy or maybe her laugh makes you want to laugh)

her eyes tell her that you love her and somehow ask her to do the same

if she really loves you she'll know exactly what to say

well why are you cheting on him. and say i need to tell you somthing i am breaking up with you

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Well sweety all i can say is why do you cheat on him if u wanted another guy you should of broken up with him ahead of time.. But im here to help you through it ok.. But basically what you can do is call him up or talk to him in person alone. Tell him sweety i have something to tell you. Let me finish before you say anything ok.. and please dont hate me or get mad. But i have been cheating on u for (how long u been cheating) with (name) i am sorry but i rather be with him than you so i am breaking up with you. i really am sorry...

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YES! But it depends what type. If your married you can kiss all you want but if its a stanger then NO! Lots of nine to ten year olds what to kiss each other but SORRY your too yong

After you have be betrayed there will be a harbouring of feelings such as resentment, hurt, as well as trust issues. Counselling involving both of you if you are both willing would be very effective for your type of situation.

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Your husband thinks that what he did to betrayed you is not a big deal. Most men will think and solve their problem through logic, which it doesn't help them. It will be hard for you to move on knowing that your husband never careless if having affairs was only his past time of enjoyment. It's time for you to really think if you want to be happy alone or be miserable being with your husband. Think about it.

Say a come back that is good but not good enough to hurt someones feelings. Then have them want to say something back. Then it is perfect revenge without the anger.

That isn't revenge. The whole point of revenge is doing something over the top of what they did, to make you feel better. Revenge is a dish best served cold. Unless its hot dogs, they are always better warm. A punch to the face is good, but will be short lived. Long term revenges that you create by a small quick act are the best. Sleep with someone they know. Sleep with their parents. Buy them a dog that has 1 leg so they feel bad and are stuck caring for it. Mow their lawn very very short and spray it with water in the sun, so it dries up and turns the yard brown. That is also a revenge dish served best when warm, because if the sun is cold then it wont burn up the yard and you wasted a day cutting their grass extra short. Now they can go 3 weeks without mowing instead of 1. You actually just helped them, so it was almost a reverse-revenge. Just make sure before you go through with anything, you check to see if its best served cold or warm.

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If it hurts you & you don't like it or being cheated on, leave him. He's not only demonstrating that he's a cheater, but a liar as well. Do you really want (or need) anyone, much less someone you love, in your life?