Cheating

Depends on the man, Some men think about it all day, others just think about it with one person, often the one they love. If you have any doghts go threw therapy with a SHRINK. It help's the woman feel "able to trust him" and the man to feel "I was stupid to cheat". This will also help find the true answer that led him to cheat and offer a solution to the cause...

Sure, by asking him. The prison will not give out this information. You might try a FOIA request to your state's Department of Corrections, but it is unlikely they will release the info.

Kiss the ground! Feel lucky you found out now and not when you're married with a couple of kids. I know it hurts you a great deal, but don't give this person another chance .. they broke that trust!

ANSWER:

It depend if it was my fiance who told me personally, I will be hurt for a while, but I will be more smarter because he did it when were not married yet. And I will loose most of my trust in him because of that, but at least his man enough to come to me and tell me himself.

Unfortunately this happened to me a long time ago, the man I married had lied and kept something from me. He thought I do not have the rights to know what he did when he was away, his reason was we weren't married yet and he can do what he wanted to do, after he promised me that he will never look for another girl as long as he knows I will be waiting for him till he gets back. I found out not because he told me personally but I caught him by asking a simple question that I saw in the picture. I guess God gave me that day to test us if the man I married will be truthful and loyal to me. But unfortunately I lost my trust with this man who supposed to be my husband..

Talk to him .. See what does he does Need to have a better marriage , Make Him love you , Do everything he wants and don't say no , Show him that you love him alot .. Take care of him and don't talk about his job or any thing you should'nt talk about and men dont like their wives to talk about , then he will maybe understand that you love him and then stop cheating.

Bi-Polar disease is a physiological mental illness that can be treated with a multi-discinplinary approach of medication, therapy , and behavior modification , and the bi-polar person learning to recognize his cycles of euphoria or depression. This is a lifetime , ongoing process, and certainly a dedicated partner helps tremendously. Even doing all the right things will never be a guarantee of fidelity. If he is getting all this treatment, you may decide to try to help. If he was diagnosed before your marriage and did NOT tell you , you are not legally or morally obligated to stay. One thing I can say for sure is that you can not " love " someone out of this condition. This absolutely requires professional help.

Well it depends who it was: Was she famous?

Was she a past friend?

Was she someone you knew?

Was she just some girl?

It could depend on any number of reasons.

• Vows were taken in a marriage to love and honor and the couple are expected to stay together for the rest of their lives. When a spouse cheats they break this bond of trust and it is extremely difficult to gain back if the spouse being cheated on doesn't ask for a divorce first. Cheating is sleazy; selfish and hurts not only the husband or wife; but any children they have and perhaps members of both sides of the family. When a spouse cheats they are not only cheating, but they are lying to their spouse.

Often there is a lot of pressure on the mistress, especially if the man left his wife FOR the mistress. Sometimes it's too much, and the family is not accepting of the new woman. Like any relationship, it might not work.

yes if you like your friend at all then you owe it to them to tell them that ttheir boyfriend is cheating on her YOU CANT LET HER GO THREW THE RELATIONSHIP NOT KNOWING THAT HER BOYFRIED IS OUT WITH ANOTHER GIRL BEHIND HER BACK.EVEN IF SHE DOSE NOT BELIVE YOU WELL THEN YOU HAVE TO PROVE IT IF YOU ARE A GOOD FRIEND YOUWILL FIND AWAY TO GET HER OUT OF THAT SITUATION.

Answer

Sometimes but not always, women have a low self-esteem and they seem to think that they can't get another man to love them because their former husbands, the pricks that they are, filled their heads with this stupidity. Most women never get over being called fat or lazy and so with time they take back their worst enemy, just to say that they have a man in their life. That doesn't mean that they guy won't cheat anymore, probably he will cheat more because he knows he can get away with it and no matter what you will always take him back. Don't be a pushover for a looser. Go out in the world and find yourself a nice guy who will love you for you and the heck with the other guy who never was any good anyway. Its easier to run then to deal. That is where both men and women are concerned. Lets face it. If there was something not awry in the relationship prior to the cheating then most likely the cheating doesnt happen. If this person still choses to cheat when they have all the things that a happy person should appreciate, love, family, peace and yes the material things are a bonus, then they are a fool to cheat. Most of the time someone is being selfish when they cheat and think they are entitled to more or should be getting all they can. They are the fools and the pigs, both men and women and arent worth a damn. They get everything they deserve includeing STD's.

* No, it's call bigamy and an offence and it's more likely a man will marry twice without telling either of their mates.

you might fall for married men because you know you can't have them and maybe you know they can make a commitment?

ANSWER:

Because married men knows the trick when it comes to treating woman special, but it's not the wife but the other woman. Married men knows what needs to be done

when it comes to being passion, affectionate, and loving, and this are what makes women weak and easy to fall.

I am so sorry this has happened to you and of course it's a shock. However, this is not uncommon. Spouses that have children wait for the children to leave home before separating or deciding on divorce. While rearing children sometimes the couple doesn't balance out the time for each other and when the children leave home the couple are left looking at each other as if they were total strangers and this is where trouble can rear it's ugly head. There isn't much you can do at this point. Try communicating with him and ask him why he wants to leave the marriage. Don't yell or scream, but try to find out what is going through his head. Generally it's because some men or women want to recapture their young or feel there are more things in life they want to do as they know they are rapidly getting older. These thoughts happen to most of us. There is always health programs on women regarding peri menopause to menopause, but little on men's Andropause which is actually a type of menopause like women. Men can get hot flashes, depression, mood swings. If he is 40 plus then you can bet he's going through something. Some men will deal with it, others will only have a few symptoms and think nothing of it and some men will want to recapture their youth and may change their hairstyle, dress differently trying to recapture that youth they once possessed. Women can go through the same thing. Divorce can take awhile. You could pack his bags and tell him 'there's the door.' Let him know you love him. This is a good time for you to reflect on your marriage as well and you may find you do not love him as much as you think (you both may have fallen out of love.) There is nothing to be frightened of. By law you will get monies, etc., to provide for yourself. You also would have the freedom to do things you may have never had the chance to do. You could go back to college (I did when I was older) go to work or take courses in something you enjoy and then go back to work. If you are working then take a vacation to think things out. Sometimes people need the freedom from each other, but often 'the grass on the other side of the fence isn't always greener' and your husband needs to find this out. Unless your husband is wealthy then any young girl he may date will only hang around him for a short time because he won't be able to keep up and money speaks volumes! If you read 'relationships' on this board you will find out that often a man or woman will leave the marriage only to realize they had given up something precious and really do love their mate, but unfortunately sometimes it's just too late. Don't stop him, pack those bags of his, don't shed a tear in his presence, tell him you love him and let him hit the bricks. Let him experience what reality really is about. He may enjoy his new found freedom for awhile, but that will wane soon. It always does. It can be lonely out there. Meanwhile you have a good cry, quit blaming yourself, get up and dust yourself off and get moving! Continue working or find a job. Keep busy and go out and have fun with friends and make new friends along the way as well. You just never know, you may find another man that is better suited to your personality (it happens all the time!)

Depends. Were they taken before you met? If so, let it go, it had nothing to do with you. Now, if they were taken while you were/are together, you should tell her. Then leave her feeling stupid. You deserve better than that.

Check for STD's if she is the only one you have been sleeping with and you have one then you know whom to ask about it. Other then that you can hire a detective but that would be expensive. If you don't trust her now it will only get worse in the future.

It doesnt matter that he felt guilty or else he would have stopped. He is probably a sex addict and needs help. I think the wife needs to leave him or get him some help

because u have psychological problems

ANSWER:

Could it be that you are not satisfied with your wife. How about you never really love your wife and just want to use her for your needs. I will apologize for my bluntness because men in general are really thinking about themselves. Why don't you give your wife a wonderful gift, DIVORCE her so she wouldn't have this drama from you. It will help you a lot to.....

just look at the outside of the house, if they do they're will be at least one toy.

First of all, the fact that you are asking this question means that you are already thinking about doing it anyway, so anything I say may really not matter. But that won't stop me! Don't do it, not if you value your husband at all, or your marriage of however many years you have been married. Let's say you sleep with his best bud and what next, after that fun? Divorce, or fight with your husband over the affair or what? Is his bud or is the affair worth it? I seriously doubt that you any relationship that starts with an affair can end up well, as it is built upon infidelity and mistrust. I suggest that you rekindle your marriage with new moves and surprise him with outfits and such. That way, you won't feel the need to go abroad to get the action you want, as he is willing to amp up your marriage if you are willing, of course. Turn all of your attention and the attention other guys give you to your husband, and get it on the right way.

Hi,

I am totally in the same position and the thing that I am going to do is be chummy with him make him your friend not just some guy in your class. I still like my ex and think he still likes me so i met up with him in the pool and we totally had sex while everyone was whatching with our swimming costumes on and we snogged it and everything so my advice is to get to be his friend and then he will see you as more than that

hope this helps

Molly42

The next time he says this to you say, "Could it be guilt talking? Perhaps you're the one that is cheating!" If he says he isn't, then say, "You should know me well enough by now that I wouldn't cheat on you at all, never mind with your best friend, so unless you're doing the cheating we shouldn't be having a problem here!" That will knock him off his feet and then tell him, "If I can't convince you I'm not cheating on you ... hit the bricks! I'm not being blamed constantly for something I didn't do." If he walks, let him go! Some people are just super jealous, some people cheat themselves so they think their mate will do the same, or, his friend is lying to him and perhaps telling him you he's been seeing you on the side! It wouldn't be the first time this has happened to another couple by a so-called friend of either the guy or the girl. Good luck Marcy

Unless you are married or engaged, there is no commitment, therefore there is no such thing as cheating. You SHOULD however disclose to her that you BOTH can date around until such a time as you become exclusive which is ONLY a result of being engaged. Unless you two are engaged then you are free to date around and so is she.

First of all your boyfriend shouldn't be close with any girl who isn't blood related to him , no female " bestfriends " pretend " sisters " none of that . But to tell if they are cheating pay attention to how they act around eachother . If they spend more time together than you & him do than chances are they are messing around . If she spends the night at his house when no one's home ? Chances are they're doing something. If she calls him bae baby or babe , chances are they're doing something. If i were you i would shut that " brother , sister " thing down real quick.

Generaly speaking it depends on the relationship. But if your talking over all in the world, i would say men. Primarily due to the huge amount of rapes that occur, prostitution, and there ability to think with there dick so impulsively.

its kind of easy to spot a cheater out of a man but never that easy to find a women cheating.1:we have a way of suddden loss of intrest in sexual intercourse and things like... little thing that always tend to make her made is no longer making her made.Or when we like for you to show affection and cuddle with us we no longer want that because we are already satisfied with our new mister in the picture.but before you jump to conclutions based on this knowledge always try to understand the reason behind the falure in your relationship and try to understand her point of view...compare the man from you to him and see if you can find different traits that you feel as though she'd have liked in your relationship and improve that for the next women tha strolls into your life.