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Friendship
Friendship is a supportive relationship between two or more people. This kind of relationships involved mutual respect, affection, esteem, and knowledge when helping friends in times of need or crisis. Here you can ask questions about how to make friends, how to be a good friend, and much more.
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What should you do when your friend spread your secrets?
- I am sure your friend will understand, as long as you explain it was an acident and it also depends on how big the secret is and how many people you told. I have been in this situation before and understand that it is difficult to sort out but if it is the first time then you should be okai, as long as you tell them straight away.
How do you tell your best friend that you're a lesbian?
Information as follows is necessary to be able to answer this question:
- How long you have been friends.
- Whether she is friendly towards other lesbian/gay/bi friends.
But, if she is a true friend and worth keeping, she will not mind and will support you no matter to what gender you're sexually inclined.
- Speaking as a Lesbian myself; telling straight friends is the hardest thing to do. you spend hours and hours going over it in your head. I went to a Christian school and as you can tell it didn't go down that well, truth is I lost quite a few friends, it's hard at first but you realize later that it's their problem and your friendship wasn't really that important to them, and who wants friends like that. I disagree with the person below me. If you hold hands and cuddle or whatever then tell her she'll freak out, think you're coming on to her and run for the hills. Last year I started at a new school and everyone knows about my sexuality there. At first I denied it because I wasn't sure how it would go down seeing as my past experiences weren't that good. I sent a text message to my best friend from my new school one night and she fully excepted it. It was such a relief to get it out to her. It sucks feeling like you have to bottle all that up. When I started to reveal it to everyone else it was easier knowing I'd always have my best friend with me to stand up for me. All the girls are completely cool with it and treat me no different and I'm as proud as heck about it now. I'm not saying this will be your case but I hope that it is. A persons sexuality has got nothing to do with their personality but people are selfish and pig headed. I recommend doing it in a letter or text or something not too confrontational. It gives them time to think about it. Give it some time and let her come to you first. I'm sorry if this hasn't helped you, let me know how you go if you haven't told her already.
- If she is a lesbian, then don't worry about it; just tell her. She'll be happy. If she's straight, then it depends on how comfortable she is around lesbians and gay people. Does she have any other friends who are lesbians? If she's one of those homophobic people, then it's probably best if you just don't tell her. But if she's a homophobic, then she's probably a stuck-up prep, and I'm guessing she wouldn't be your friend to begin with. Don't just spring it on her (so don't listen to the answer above me). Do something to make her wonder first. Like you could hold her hand or just cuddle with her, and see how she reacts. If she seems comfortable with that, then go ahead and tell her. If she doesn't seem comfortable, then wait a while. The best people to get advice from are other lesbians. Talk to a lesbian that you trust at least a little bit, enough that she won't tell your friend before you do, and just ask her how you should tell your friend. If you actually decide to tell her, do it sometime when you are alone and comfortable. I know this will sound weird, but people are more comfortable expressing themselves honestly in the dark. So maybe outside at night, or when you are sleeping over at her house or something. Or if you're talking to her on the phone late at night, and she isn't doing anything other than talking to you.
- By now I'm sure your friend has some suspicions, but hasn't approached you about it. If she is straight and you are good friends then you being a Lesbian should have no bearing on your friendship. It doesn't change who you are inside. Keep your personal life to yourself unless she is interested enough to ask. I have Lesbian friends and we get along just fine. One lady is particular was a nurse that looked after my father during the early 70s. She was a great nurse and was the only one that could get my dad to laugh while in hospital. I kept in touch with her until she passed away.
- The last thing a heterosexual wants is someone rubbing up against them. That is a violation of personal space. being cuddly can give the wrong impression. She may have had her suspicions but do you really want her thinking the crush is on her? No and this advice is coming from a bisexual. I agree with number one's answer and number three's. Number two you have some good points but you mustn't forget that not all heterosexuals are okay with us lesbians, bisexuals and gays. I agree we shouldn't spring it on your friend at all; it should be a quiet and private space where the two of you can talk together, alone, without being overheard, but please, don't cuddle up to them or touch them unless you two are good enough friends that holding hands is okay between you two. Do not cuddle. Your friend will be very surprised and may react either way. you must give them some space and breathing room because the last thing a person wants when an elephant has been dropped on their chest is their friend squeezing them with hugs to death. When confronted like that some people snap or lash out. be polite and give your friend some space. be accommodating and patient with them. when they are ready they will react and take the news either way. If things go well you'll hug and go one with your lives, stronger and better friends; if not and it's a very negative reaction give them space and they may come back to you in a better thinking mood. or they may not. If your friend leaves you, it's OK. There will be new friends. if a person can't accept you as you are, then they were never really your friend.
- Okay, Coming from a bisexual, I wouldn't tell her straight up. Play a joke on her, then when you tell her it was a joke, also tell her your gay, as if you were playing another joke on her. See how she reacts. If she takes it badly, tell her you were joking again, if she takes it okay, then come out to her. That is the easiest way. I just told my BFF this month, and that is what I did. But I do recommend telling the jokes, and the truths, through texting, IM, or e-mail. This will give them some time to think it through before they see you again. Also, expect it to be a little akward for like the first week. After a week she should pretty much be over it. And if she is truly your friend, then she won't really care that you are gay.
What nice word should you tell the girl you meet for the first time?
This is a big discussion. Handling with girls is not easy. It can be frustrating, difficult, and embarrassing. However, say the right stuff and you may win her over.
Start off with something simple. Maybe just smiling at her. Saying hello. She may not want to get personal straight away. That's fine. These are the early steps.
Eventually, if you socialize with a lot of people, and she can see your an okay person and are good with other people, she will perhaps talk to you.
Trust me, girls love a good joke. Make sure though it is not sexual. Make it is mature, sensible, witty, and funny. Laughter coming from her is always a good sign.
Next, try and cause discussion. If you sit there looking stunned and just vaguely nodding your head as she's natters on, she will lose interest. Don't be shy. Go up there and be part of the conversation. Again, adding in a joke or too can be very helpful.
Flirting sometimes helps but not if you over do it. Be thoughtful.
Also, if you say 'Wow that's a nice dress. What nice lipstick! I love that ring! What a wonderful make up!' you have over done it. Make a nice compliment, but don't just lose yourself.
If you be yourself and act normally around her, your relationship will grow. Finally, she may want to be personal worth you. Don't wait for her to ask you on a date. Be manly and ask her. You maybe shaking, but conquer up some courage and ask her politely and simply. "Would you like to go for ice-cream tonight? Would you like to see a movie?" Another tip. If she wants to see a movie, don't turn up your nose if it is a chick flick. Heck, pay for the tickets and popcorn.
So, whoever you are, good luck on this girl issue. I hope you convince her your a good guy.
I was just wondering about that. I honestly think it's okay, depending on what the friendship is like. I think you can make the right judgment on what to do based on what the friendship is
How do you kiss a boy aged 14?
Try to do all of the below but surly just relax and make your first kiss one to remember.
regular kiss 1. get comfortable
2. pucker up !
3. tilt your head (or else your noses will bump)
4. let the guy lean in first
5. close your eyes
6. now you lean in
7. best of all , have fun !
making out , french kissing
1. get comfortable
2. close your eyes
3. tilt head
4. lean in
5. touch lips
6. open mouth
7. roll tongue in slowly and gently
8. move tongue back and forth , slowly
9. have fun !
tips
1'wear a flavored lip gloss
2. make sure ur hand are in the right place for the moment
3. make sure ur comfortbale
It means that he isn't really sure anymore. Or he is indecisive.
What does it mean for a person to have utmost respect?
Treating a person with the utmost respect means to treat them as one would treat an honored guest. This would mean being kind, cordial, helpful, listening attentively, and making the person feel welcome in one's presence.
When should you have your first kiss and where?
You should have your first kiss at 12 or 13. You can have your first kiss ANYWHERE as long as its a place that you think can be special for your first kiss and if the time is right dont kiss a guy on a first date or anything. And i have a helpful tip for you girls and guys: After you have your first kiss dont run away here is the NUMBER 1 tip to do after your first kiss: SMILE! SMILE BIG! YOU JUST HAD YOUR FIRST KISS YOU BETTER BE HAPPY ABOUT IT! but i hope i helped you :-) and p.s i am 11 andcant wait to have my first kiss!!!!
Is it ever too late to apologize?
Its never late too apologize. Even if she/he doesnt approve it in the future you will know it was worth it.
What to do when your best friend suddenly starts avoiding you?
Sometimes friends ignore you if they don't want to be friends with you anymore. If you've been acting differently towards them or you've changed in some type of way that they don't like, they may start distancing themselves away from you. If you know you've done something mean towards them make them not want to talk to you, then you already have the answer to that, but if not, it's a form of someone trying to distance themselves from you. Sometimes people don't know how to communicate to another how they feel about how they've been acting so instead they distance themselves as a less drama filled way of dropping you as a friend.
What if you like a guy but a different guy asks you out do you say yes or no?
So? you go out with the fellow who asks you out. Liking someone doesn't mean you have a realtionship nor married to them.
Addition: Going out the the second person isn't wrong or anything, but the person you really like certainly won't make a move while you are. Something to consider. I'm assuming you at least like the second person, otherwise it's quite cruel to lead them on.
Who can give me some advise on friend troubles?
Just have some space between eachother.. Like, after you dont talk for awhile you will miss eachother then everything should be okay. thats what me and my friends do. lol
What I should do if my best friend is annoying me?
The thing about friendship is that if a friend is really annoying you then he/she trusts you most likely, also it might be out of there comfort zone to act like this around other people so sometimes you need to have patience and wait till they realize that you don't really care for what he/she is trying to prove. What I do, or what I learned, is that you should make a list and write the good qualities and the bad quality of the friend. Do not feel pressured if there is more bad qualities then good by the way, you need to know the truth. Then, on the bad side, she which bad quality annoys you. Now this is when you need to make the choice, is it worth getting angry over.
The list really works cause I know that different people get annoyed over different things. So then find out what you can do to help this person get over this hill (as in the annoying factor haha). Its up to you as a good friend to help he/she.
It gets easier.
Well some women will say that this means he is a close friend, some men would disagree. Men tend to show affection with touch, but in some cases the "friend" may be letting you know that he is there for you. Again, in contradiction to what was stated in the previous sentence, thismost likely means he is interested in being more than friends.
How do you get a boy you really like to hug you?
If a guy wants to hug you he stand near you and use any reason to gert near you and might like touch on the shoulder but not in a creepy way just bush passed you or something like that.
What do you tell a friend when their mom is about to die?
There is no right thing to say in this scenario. There are clearly a lot of wrong things that could be said; the tactless answers being the most obvious. Having been in this situation, I think that the best thing to do is let the person know you are there for them. Offer yourself as support, and ask if they want to talk about it. Be prepared to just be with them, not even necessarily doing anything. In companionship, there is comfort; and thus, by virtue of being there, you are helping.
How do you know when a relationship has gone bad?
A relationship is to be 100% and 100% on each ones behalf not 50-50. All you can do is your part and if you find they are not pulling their weight or contributing to your relationship then you will have to sit down and talk to them concerning this.
You know your doing too much when you start feeling resentment,when you start adding up all the things you do and what your partner doesn't contribute,it becomes a cycle....some people are givers others are takers,you have to ask yourself, how much am I willing to give,and not get back,it's basically a choice of how much anyone is willing to put up with.
Why does your best friend think that you act like a kid since you watch cartoons?
if you watch cartoons... ITS NOT OF THEIR BUSINESS! my uncle watches cartoons all the time, i like cartoons, it doesn't matter what you like and it shouldn't matter to them either. just ignore what they say... anyway, i bet they probably like cartoons secretly as well. :)hope i helped
You love him but don't know if he loves you what to do?
Ask him how he feels about you and having a life with you. If you don't want to be so upfront, ask a friend to ask the boy... Boys always tell someone else the real answer that they don't want to tell you.
Answer
For guys, their actions tell the story. Does he seek you out? Call you? Want to spend time with you? If not, he is not really in love with you. Don't spend your love on someone who doesn't reciprocate.
Is it necessary to tell the truth always?
Because to LORD said to many, many times in his word, The Bible. If we don't, not only will relationships be lost, but God will judge us.
What do you do when your son's friend flashes you?
It's time to discuss this delicate matter with the parents of this boy. Perhaps you and your husband can meet with his parents and assure them you aren't angry, but this young boy needs help because the signs he's showing you could cause great problems in the future. If the parents refuse to do anything about it, then it's up to you to contact the police (it's against the law and called "indecent exposure." If he does this to you, he could be doing this to other children much younger than himself. Before you call the police sit down with your son and tell him why you are doing so. It would be a great shock for your own son and it's going to be hard for him to deal with. Good luck Marcy How old is the boy? Is it a teenager or a kid? If he's older 16+, you should talk to him about it yourself. If he's an adult, flash him back. just kidding.
What color stands for jealousy?
Usually we would say green, as we often think of the expression "green with envy" instantly when somebody mentions the word "jealous". So I would say green would be the best colour to represent jealousy
