How do you marry an inmate in NYS?
The inmate has to go to his/her counselor and apply for a marriage licence. If approved which most of the time they are. the counselor will set a meeting with you and the inmate and go over what has to be done. The counselor will also go over the inmates charges and criminal record and ask you if you still want to go through with proceedings. Once everything is cleared the counselor will set a date when a justice of the peace will come to the facility and marry the couple.
How do you deal with insecurity?
Answer If you have feelings of insecurity then perhaps you have a reason to feel that way. Perhaps it's time for a sit down with your husband and express to him how you feel and see his reaction. If he tries to make light of the issue perhaps you aren't feeling insecure for no reason. If on the other hand he tries to comfort you then perhaps you need to go and see a professional as maybe you have a problem that is now just coming to surfice from your childhood. Professionals often say that things that happened to us in our childhoods surface in us when we grow older, but we don't understand them. This may sound confusing but in reality it's not.
Is normal for married women to have sexual fantasies about other men she knows?
Yes, it is normal. And I am glad to hear that you've never done anything with any of these infatuations. It takes a strong person to resist temptation. So many people these days take their marriage vows far too lightly.
I've been married for almost 20 years and I find myself attracted to some cute younger guy quite often.
Years ago, my husband and I came up with an unconventional solution for dealing with temptation. It has worked for us, but I certainly won't/can't recommend it for everyone.
We decided that the main reason other men or women are tempting is because they are 'forbidden fruit.'And it seems to be human nature to want what we can't have. So we decided to always be honest with each other, first of all. Deception and sneaking aroung break trust, which is hard to regain once lost. We discuss our little 'crushes' openly - like what exactly attracts you to this person, etc. We agreed a long time ago, that if either of us felt tempted to cheat, to tell the other one about it and we'd discuss having a threesome with this person.
I know! Hear me out before calling us immoral or perverted or whatever.
Since we made this agreement, we've talked about different people, and shared fantasies, but neither one of us has ever pursued the threesome option. I seems that - for us anyway - just knowing that the possibility of having our 'crush' exists takes the edge off of the temptation; makes the 'forbidden fruit' a little less forbidden, therefore a little less seductive. (It doesn't hurt that we are both heterosexual, and neither of us relishes a 3some with a member of the same sex!!)
And the resulting fantasies haven't hurt our sex life at all. ;)
Like I said, this solution is definitely not for everyone, in fact, I can easily see how it could backfire. But it's worked for us. We don't get jealous or suspicious of each other, we communicate well, and we don't mind if the other one looks at someone else because we know we can trust each other. In fact, we tease/kid each other by pointing people we think the other one might like.
We've had friends - even siblings - tell us that they are envious of our relationship; that they wish they could have a relationship as good and stable as ours. Sounds ironic, doesn't it?
Nevertheless, as so many men like to point out, you are married, not dead.
Look and fantasize all you want, but don't touch. And if the temptation starts to get to be too much...stop, just for a moment and consider how you would feel if the situation were reversed, if it was your husband who was thinking about cheating. Wouldn't feel too good, eh?
This is a problem that's cause goes back to our earliest ancestors. At different times during your cycle you will be attracted to different types of men. Most of the time you will be attracted to your long term partner, it is likely that he wont have huge muscles or a thick brow. This is an indication that there is a fair amount of the female hormone "eastrogen" in his blood. This means that he should be more enclined to monogomy and generaly take better care of you (important to pregnant cavewomen). When you are approaching your period you will find men with more testosterone (male hormone) much more attractive as they should be more fertile and will have a better chance of giving you a child (cavewomans last chance of getting pregnant that cycle).Interestingly at this point in your cycle you are more enclined to showing a bit of flesh when picking your clothes.
Anyway all completely natural, prewired into your brain and completely out of your control (doesnt mean your husband would like to hear about it though lol)
I have been happily married for nine years and still have great sex with my husband. I love him more than anything and would never cheat on him. But there is a part of me that is curious about how it would feel to have sexual intercourse with other men. At first I felt guilty about having fantasies. But now I realize that fantasizing about other men can be a safe and healthy way to explore your lustful feelings without cheating.
What advice is there for a newly married couple?
Advice For Getting Married Get married for all the right reasons for example the two of you really communicate super well. You love each other for the person each of you are, not the persons you'd like each other to be. You have the same goals in life, you both either want or don't want children and the list goes on. Just make sure that when you marry your wants and needs are the same as the person you are marrying, that way you both should be happy for a very long time. Leave any of the above out, or marry for all the wrong reasons, such as pregnancy, and you both could end up regretting it for the rest of your lives.
Can you marry your second cousin in canada?
As I have done no real research myself I cannot say for certain whether this information is accurate but many people commented on questions similar to this on many other sites and the general concensus seems to be, other than from small-minded individuals and overly-religious persons, that it is legal in Canada to marry a second cousin. They also state, although I am a little skeptical, that there is no chance of birth defects when having children. I would strongly encourage that anyone planning to have children in this situation do their own research, talk to their doctors, and have blood work and DNA testing done.
Hope this answers some questions.
Cheers
Why does marriage kill sexual pleasure in many cases of love?
stress and everyday life it becomes a routine
Lack of understanding between the partners will be the cause of disturbance in the sexual feelings.
Another cause can be killed the sexual feeling of the marriage couple due to engage in promiscuous.
Marriage couple mostly giving up the conventional climax-oriented intercourse for all different type of lovemaking that emphasises more on attachment .
Sex without orgasm is like driving Car without petrol. this is the main cause of killing sexual pleasure in many cases of love.
"Patrilocal" is an adjective that describes social systems in which newly married couples live with or near the husband's family.
A newly married couple is required to live near or with the parents of the groom.
Answer 1
No, Muslims are not allowed to date period. The men, however, may marry a Christian, Jew, or Sabian provided she is religious and a virgin.
Answer 2
Answer 1 is correct; however, it is not all inclusive. Another large factor on Muslim's dating out of religion is country of residence and how conservative the faith of the family is. If the Muslim person wishes to date outside of their religion, sex aside, and the family is very conservative, especially the male figure of the household (Islam, being very patriarchal in nature), they will most likely not allow this and through pressure, threat of rejection, disowning, and sometimes even violence. Correct, a male may do this, but if the family is conservative, this may even be a far-shot. Even though it is not allowed, a female may still date and outside of the religion, if she and the family do not care if it violates their religion.
Lastly, the country of residence has a lot to do with this as well. Say, if one lives in Canada, which does not have Sharia law, and is more government by the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms, a Muslim man or woman may date whoever they want, of whatever sex they want, because the government allows this. If the person is above 18 years of age, then is considered an adult in Canada, and the family, no matter how conservative their faith is, cannot legally control the decisions of this person. In fact, it would be illegal in Canada (against Charter of Rights and Freedoms) to not let someone date whoever they want (as long as they are of age). So, finally, religious rules aside, I would also review the legal rules of the country that the situation takes place in as well.
You could drop a 10 lb. weight on most men with a message attached to it that reads, "You ain't getting the milk for free unless you buy the cow" and they still won't get it! LOL Many men are terrified of marriage, because the stats of divorce are at an all time high. We hear about the ones that don't make it, but many do. I have been happily married for 33 years, and all my friends my age have managed to hit 45 years. So, it can be done! Men also feel they will lose ALL their freedom, which, in a good marriage they shouldn't. There should be enough trust that they can go out with their male friends, or even go on a fishing trip once in awhile. It's difficult to drop hints here and there. If you look at rings in a jewelry store the guy either starts humming or walking down the street without you. Usually two people will discuss where their future is going, so perhaps you could start here by saying, "What do you want out of life? What's your hopes, dreams and plans." If he, by some miracle should mention settling down and having 2 - 5 kids, this is your chance to say, "When do you propose on getting started?" Don't be surprised if you get that look from him like he's been struck by a cattle prod. Most give "that look!" I was married before and divorced shy of 4 years. Then I met my husband I am with now. He was shy, and we got along great, but the subject of marriage didn't come up (on his part) but like you, it sure was on my mind. I don't believe in sticking around forever and each of us has to make committments in our lives so why should men be kept out of the equation. Finally, I made it plain and simple for my husband-to-be ... "you ain't getting the milk for free without buying this cow!" I said it in those very words and he almost fell over. Believe it or not he took the fastest road out of there and I didn't hear from him for 6 months! I was furious! I began to get use to the fact it wasn't to be and started dating again. Then my husband and I were obviously meant to meet again because he was the Best Man at a wedding and I was a Bridesmaid. He was pleasant to me, but showed now sign of interest in me. I was basically waiting for the reception to be over so I could go home and lick my wounds. That I did! Then a week later he called! This is what he said (if you can believe it) "I would like to start seeing you again, but I don't want to rush into things." I said, "Well sorry, that won't work because I have a date tonight and another one this Saturday and I never break committments." It was the truth. I heard a gasp come from him and so he set a date for the following week and I said, "Sorry, booked on that day too." I was actually going out with a girlfriend on that particular evening. He didn't know that. Well, the rest is history and he was so afraid of losing me that in 1 month he was on one knee and practically shoved that ring up my nose! LOL He's a great man, and I love him dearly, but sometimes, these men need a run for their money and I think you have one of these men. Make him work just to be with you! Good luck Marcy
What are those requirements in secret marriage?
Give me an example of requirements for a secret marriage?
Love changes as people change. You don't state how long the two of you have been together or if you are married, but in any relationship there will be times when one person will love the other more or less. If there is stress or problems this may interfere with the closeness in a relationship. Communication is the best tool and you need to learn how to sit and talk with each other, but realize that love comes and goes and it never stays the same.
Does a married man often lets down his mistress?
Why do people need a companion?
Almost all humans are social beings. We enjoy the sight, smell, and interactions with others. Our brains are stimulated, challenged, re-focused, and we develop stronger coping skills and adaptations by being around other people.
There are some people who are shy or develop social anxiety. They may still enjoy people except that their reactions build to become negative. However, by repeated exposure, people can overcome these problems.
How can you convince your parents for love marriage?
Sometimes parents dont see beyond the society.
Society is made by us for us, we are not made for society. If you want to convince your parents for your love marriage, first you need to believe in what you wanna get into. Once you are sure. go ahead and make your parents see and believe where you wanna be. Obviously they will refrain, but you need to keep trying. Never give up to their pressure, you will only regret all your life.
Are Muslim nikah accepted without any witness?
IN hanafi madhab it is compulsory to have two mulsim witness while making the nikah(during making the offer and acceptance.) Two Muslim man or one Muslim man and two Muslim women who are baligh( has reached the age of puberty) should hear the offer and acceptance. "In Shafi and Hanbali madhabs witnesses should be males and have not publicly known sins." :N Maliki madhab a witness is not necessary but the wali must be present at nikah and the nikah must be announced and acquitances must be informed about the nikah."
IN hanafi madhab it is compulsory to have two mulsim witness while making the nikah(during making the offer and acceptance.) Two Muslim man or one Muslim man and two Muslim women who are baligh( has reached the age of puberty) should hear the offer and acceptance. "In Shafi and Hanbali madhabs witnesses should be males and have not publicly known sins." :N Maliki madhab a witness is not necessary but the wali must be present at nikah and the nikah must be announced and acquitances must be informed about the nikah."
Wife says she needs space loves me but sometimes doesn't want to be married?
Listen I really don't have the awnser because right now im going through the same thing the only thing is , if she really loves you give her that space that she wants and she will suddenly start missing you even more dress up , go out and you will see a difference . Im having the same problem I love my wife and sometimes the feeling isint just there . I went out last night with my friends and it felt great . To be honest there is something in your relationship that's missing and you both better figure it out before it to late .
Legally can a married couple work in same dept with company?
Whether or not a husband and wife can work in the same department ... or in the same company ... depends on that company's policy. There's nothing specifically illegal about it, but businesses are free to set their own policies regarding the matter.
There is no public information available about Toby's current marital status.
Can a brahmin girl marry kshatriya boy?
In Brahminical literature, marriage between Brahmin girl and Kshatriya boy is forbidden but there are some cases from ancient era which points out that marriage between Brahmin girls and Kshatriya boys were practiced and had social acceptance.
For example, Marriages between Yayati and Devayani & Dushyant and Shakuntala.
Well all i can tell you is that cast is nomore relevant to anything now, because shiri Krishan ji has finished it when they gave us the knowledge of Gita, now your karam is your dharam. if you are a brahmin girl think twice before you take any action cause you are considered as one who has knowledge. just have a good thought about the guy if he has any qualities of brahmin or what i mean is if he has any signs of brahmin, what i mean is if he acts like a brahmin then it is allgood because his karam is his dharam. well if he acts like a kshatriya then one of you would have to sacrifice. Pardon my spelling mistakes if you find any.
If you are filing taxes as Head of Household does that mean you are married or single?
==Definition == The filing status used by an unmarried taxpayer who pays over half the cost of maintaining his home that is the principal residence for over half the tax year of his unmarried child or other lineal descendent (this child does not have to be a dependent) or of his dependent married child or other qualified relative. A dependent parent who does not live with the taxpayer may also qualify the taxpayer for the head of household status if qualifications are met.
Sample of Muslim marriage bio data?
Personal Details:
Name: Seema Rai
Date of Birth/Time/Place: 3/april/1974
Religion/Caste/Gotra: hindu/punjabi/keshyap
Height/Weight: 4.10 / 42
Complexion: very fair
Educational Background and any Academic achievements:B.A/NTT
Nature of work, if Service then organization Name and Achievements if any:Private Teacher
Immediate Family Details:
Father :Late,Dr.Ranveer singh
Mother: Not alive
Brother's:Dr.Heman Rai(married)
Sister's:3 sisters which of are married
Contact Details:
Email Id: anmolcoollestboy@gmail.com
Address: near old post office,Pahasu,B.S.R
Phone Number (Landline/Mobile):9412128859
What do guys mean when a guy tells you youd be a great mom?
When a guy tells you, you would be a great mom, he is saying that you have many great qualities mothers have. It could also mean that he is ready for children with you.
How many husbands can a Muslim women have?
As in all religions and world cultures, a Muslim woman can have only one husband at a time.