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Relationships
Relationships include parent/child, sibling/sibling, friendship, dating, marriage, and lots of others. They can be great, but many times they are problematic and can be unhappy or even abusive. This category is for questions about relationships, both good and bad.
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It's possible that your presence made him feel more comfortable and confident, leading him to open up and be more talkative. Meeting someone new can often bring out different sides of a person's personality, especially if they are trying to make a good impression.
How many times a day does someone get rejected?
The concept of rejection does not correlate with what the person being rejected is, does, says, acts like, believes, etc. Rejection has nothing to do with whether the person makes mistakes, misbehaves, causes ill will, or does anything at all negative. As support for this view, consider how often we all reject others based on things like:
- race / skin color
- use of a different language
- use of a different language AND use of expressive communication (such as waving arms etc.)
- an accent
- the way a person is dressed
- whether a person is disabled or able-bodied
- whether a person has an obvious disability, such as a blind person who uses a stick
- a person who "acts crazy" or talks to themselves out loud
- students who are singled out, ostracized, or bullied
- men who are big, muscular, etc.
- people, especially women, who are less pretty or less perfect
- obese people
Races other than Caucasian often report that Caucasians purposely create distance. Black men are often distrusted simply because they are black. Studies show that Caucasian women will avoid walking close to a large male of any race, especially if the woman is alone.
Persons who use a different language are often ignored if others do not speak the same language. As an example, a 6-foot male is seen waving his arms, but he's speaking non-English and is ignored because other people fear him. However, the man was simply using excited expressive communication while trying to get help-- his wife is delivering a baby in the back seat! But passers-by simply keep keep walking, walk away faster, avoid eye contact, act busy, turn their backs, etc.
People who use wheelchairs are often never acknowledged. If an able-bodied person accompanies the wheelchair bound individual, other people speak to the able-bodied person but never even say "Hello" to the person in the wheelchair.
When people walk down the street, they purposely put distance between themselves and anyone they perceive as acting or talking "crazy". Studies have been done using a sane, educated, and otherwise "normal" person who only pretends to act as if he/she has schizophrenia. People will walk past, not look, not interact, not help the "actor" simply because people believe the person has a mental illness.
Studies have also been done to record how people react to two people: one obese and one not. Other studies recorded how people perceive perfection and beauty. These studies showed that many people react more favorably toward someone who is thin or normal weight, and perceived to be "more beautiful" than another test model. Obese people are ignored, or outright ridiculed. Less than attractive persons are ignored, not chosen (i.e. rejected) over more attractive persons of the same age.
In schools, millions of children become ostracized and rejected by their peers, even without bullying. As an example, a teenage group stands in the hall talking, laughing, etc. Another teen who wears out of fashion clothing, or is perceived as "different", or is new to the school approaches the group. The group quickly turn and walk away without even speaking to the other teen. This is a common form of rejection in schools throughout the US and other countries.
If a girl keeps glancing at you does she like you?
You had just stated the glancing away part, so I would say she likes you. The Karate part doesn't hurt. But to assess this further, how long has this been happening, how often and when did you start practicing Karate, and how do her eyes look when she looks at you?
Talking to you with a softer voice may indicate that he is being more intimate and attentive towards you. However, his behavior with his friends could just reflect his comfort level and personality in different social settings. It's not necessarily a clear indicator of romantic interest, but it could suggest a certain level of respect or consideration towards you.
Which is the feeling intense attraction for other people?
That feeling is typically called infatuation or a crush. It refers to a strong emotional connection and desire for someone else that can be intense and all-consuming.
How does a woman's relationship with her mother affect her relationships with other women?
A woman's mother is generally the first, and largest female figure in their life. If there is a bad relationship between the two then a woman may think badly about women more. Think about it, if you got sick every time you ate a certain food, for example: tuna, then you would probably be less likely to want to try other foods that were tuna based. The same goes for people. If there's a bad relationship towards a woman's mother, then the woman may feel more hatred towards other females. The same goes for the opposite. If the woman had a wonderful relationship with her mother, then she may be more likely to bond and be friendly with other woman.
How can you stop being so insecure in relationships?
You're not giving enough information on your insecurity. What is it? Paranoia? Jealously? I'm not sure how to answer this, but let me take a blind stab at it. It is very hard to feel secure at the start of a relationship, so this is perfectly normal. As time progresses, you should become less insecure, depending on how your relationship is working out. If you feel comfortable with this person, if you're able to share personal thoughts without fear of being rejected, then you should do fine. If you're insecure about how the relationship is going to work out, just try and calm down. Know that he/she is worrying just as much as you are.
New social situations often seem deceptively at first?
It's common for new social situations to appear daunting or unfamiliar at first. Taking time to observe and listen can help you better understand the dynamics and feel more comfortable participating. Remember that others may be feeling the same way, so don't be afraid to engage and be yourself. With practice, you will likely start feeling more at ease in new social settings.
This is a behavior issue; probably not diagnosable by someone other than a psychologist.
This person sounds like they are not confident in their abilities; is threatened by new situations and is stonewalling discussion about the matter. Skip trying to fix the behaviors using reason; encourage him to get training or job coaching. If he does not have a high school diploma, keep after him and make sure he does that--drive him, sit through class, etc. If you are married to him, you should know that permanent change may not occur and that your economics and personal life will likely be filled with drama. Keep a job and your finances separate.
Why does my ex girlfriend sometimes stare at me. Does the stares mean anything?
Your ex sometimes stares at you because she's a teenager. Just like you, she's never sure what things mean when it comes to relationships. If it's a pleasant stare; it may mean that she's remembering good things. If it's more like a scowl; she's sending you a message that you should stop looking at her. If it's a blank stare; wave your hand to see if there's a reaction. If there is, see one or two. If there is no reaction, forget it, there's nothing there.
What are the stages of infatuation?
Infatuation typically involves three stages:
- Initial attraction: feeling drawn to someone based on physical appearance or initial interactions.
- Obsessive thoughts: constantly thinking about the person and idealizing them.
- Emotional intensity: experiencing strong emotions and longing for the person, often without truly knowing them.
How can an individuals negative behavior affect a larger group of individuals in a negative way?
An individual displaying negative behavior can affect many people. A good example of this can be found in the classroom. If there is a child or person who displays negative behavior the teacher has to take time away from the larger group to deal with the behavior. Therefore, the group learning process is interrupted and the teacher can't teach. This often happens with children, but can also happen in an adult group when a negative adult takes over the conversation and challenges the entire group to prove him/her wrong. This changes the entire room.
It's possible that he may be interested and trying to catch her attention again or he may just be naturally drawn to her. However, it would be best for him to directly approach and strike up a conversation to show his interest rather than just walking past repeatedly.
It means that he feels like you are his pet, and he wants to feed you. I'd bet that it comes from the fact that this 'boy' never had a pet as a child, and now he treats you as an object. I recommend going on one date, then dumping him.
What does it mean if a girl smiles a lot when you talk to her?
It could indicate that she enjoys talking to you and feels happy in your presence. Smiling is often a positive sign of interest and engagement in a conversation. It's a good sign that she is friendly and comfortable around you.
The guy may have a crush on the girl and is trying to catch her attention. Walking past her multiple times and staring could be his way of trying to gauge her interest or initiate a conversation. It's possible he interpreted her past stares as a sign of interest and is trying to reciprocate.
it means sometimes if you like a girl but you think you don't because of family issues you should not think of any of those things and just think about what you like about her does it interest you do you see a future with this girl? i hope you get your love straight.
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This is not the time to approach her...until you get your thoughts sorted out and times are not so harried.
This is a question a manipulative person would ask if they were trying to have people view them as the victim. You do not own other people. Stop trying to control everything and everyone.
Of course, it's possible that I'm wrong and you're really being maltreated. In that case, you need to end your relationship. Whether it be business, friendship, or spousal. Get away from the person that's hurting you and start fresh. Be the bigger person. Not to puff up your ego, but because that's simply the right thing to do.
But somehow I get the feeling it's the person you're trying to control that should really be leaving YOU.
He is trying to make himself seem cool. He wants to talk, but is too shy to make the first move. Go say hi!
It could indicate that the person is observing you from a distance but feels uncomfortable or shy when closer to you, which is why they avoid making direct eye contact. They may be interested in you but unsure of how to approach you.
What are top ten reasons for most of the women in general to hate their husband's sisters?
First and most important, most women do not hate their husband's sisters. since this question presumes that they do, it is based on a false premise.
Some women may well hate, or dislike their sister-in-law, and there are many possible reasons for that. None apply universally. Some possibilities include.
- They might not like her
- They think she is weird
- They don't trust her
- She brags about things in an annoying fashion
- She is not the same
- She call the woman names or talks about her behind her back
- She has done something to the children
- She is not a nice person
- They just don't like them
The best way to find out about this is to ask the people involved.
Obsession can be caused by lack of confidence / low self esteem. That's when you become unsure of yourself and need something to hold onto that gives you comfort in some way. In come cases, it is linked to a specific fear, like fear of germs can trigger obsessive hand-washing. If you repeatedly go back to check that the doors and windows are locked before you leave the house, you do not trust yourself to do it right the first time. Building your confidence and self esteem will help drastically to improve an obsessiive disorder.
How do tell your parents that they are overweight?
It's important to approach the topic with care and empathy. You can express your concern for their health and well-being, and suggest engaging in physical activities together or seeking professional advice on healthy lifestyle choices. It's essential to communicate in a respectful and non-judgmental way, focusing on their health rather than their appearance.
The sister could try to have an open and honest conversation with her brother about how his behavior makes her feel. She could express her support for his relationship while also setting boundaries around how she should be treated. If the behavior continues, she may need to limit her interactions with her brother to protect her self-esteem.
Why do some good church going girls become troublesome once they hit there teens?
Teen years can be a period of exploration and self-discovery. This can lead to changes in behavior as individuals seek independence and may push boundaries. It is a normal part of development for teenagers to question authority and forge their own identity, which can sometimes lead to what may be perceived as troublesome behavior.
