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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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Why would a guy go back to his ex 5 months after he split from her saying the relationship was dead?

All relationships have their problems, some more than others. He had either months or years with his ex and there were memories made from the good times. When two people don't get along they can convince themselves they actually hate their mate, but, when time passes they may begin to miss them and realize not 100% of the problems in that relationship were the fault of their mate. It sounds as if this guy was on the rebound and it happens to many people that split-up. Most people don't mean to rebound and hurt others they date on a steady basis because they really don't realize they are actually just lonely and haven't taken the time to know what they really want out of life or where they want to go in the future. Unfortunately, they drag people through their personal muck and that's what has happened to you. As hard as it is for you dust yourself off, get back out with friends and start dating again. You can do better. Marcy

What does it mean to become a workplace distraction?

participating in controversial discussions that have nothing to do with the business of the workplace.

What is a temporary break up?

Lol break up with him/her no point of temporary break up.. trust me its really stupid

How do you say a boyfriend that dont leave me?

If he has already decided to leave you, there is not much you can say or do. Just accept the facts and carry on with your ordinary life. With time, you will eventually find somebody else.

What does it mean when before you can meet he says he has met someone else and wants to see where it goes but is a better friend than ever before?

uhm, I'm pretty sure that it means that he likes someone else, and wants to see how that relationship works out, but you and him are better friends than you ever were before

Does this girl still like you if she wants to be just friends?

It depends. Sometimes people say "let's just be friends" but they don't mean it. It's possible that she really only likes you as a friend, or she wants more but the timing isn't right, or there's something else going on (or she wants to get you off her back completely but doesn't want to hurt you, but this isn't very likely).

Honesty is the best policy. First of all, be honest to yourself. Do you want to be friends with this girl, can you be friends with her? Have you so many things in common that there's stuff you two can talk about, and share, and can you have fun together? If yes, perhaps it's a good idea to be friends. Otherwise, if your feelings for her were just attraction, and/or are too strong, you'll lie to her and to yourself by hanging out together, while she imagines you're all right and you're hurting inside. It's not fair to you or to her. In this case, you two probably need a little time off. Talk about it, and hang out with your other friends for a while.

If you decide that you're all right with a friendship talk to her. Explain that you like her style/you think you have stuff in common/whatever, and you think you could be friends. Don't push her, or make her feel guilty ("I love you so much, but if you can't be my girlfriend, I'll settle for a friendship!") That's manipulative behaviour. Being honest doesn't mean you throw the burden of your pain on the other one. Ask her to be honest, too. Tell her that it will hurt if she wants to cease your relationship, but it's better than to go on faking it. Listen to what she says, and be nice - make it easy for her to open up and share her feelings.

This will be very painful, I'm afraid, but you could be on your way to winning a very good friend, possibly for life.

How can you make ex realize you are the one?

* It hurts when someone rejects you and becomes your ex. 'You' think you are the one, but he may have other ideas of what he wants in a woman. You are simply second guessing him. If he's worth it and if he still loves you the best thing you can do is get out with girlfriends, start dating again and he may take notice and come back. If not consider yourself lucky because he's not the one you are meant to be with. Trust me when I say that there is that special guy out there just waiting to meet you and it will happen.

Your mother and father have split up and they want you to chose between them?

* This is very unfair to the children in the family as it's too big a decision for the pre teen or teenager to make as they love both parents. In this case suggest who you feel you would like to live with and make the stipulation you love both of them so you would want to spend some weekends and holidays with the other parent you are not living with. It is possible, in time, that your parents will get back together and if not, then the courts will decide where any children will live ... with the mother (generally), but visitation rights with the father and that is called 'joint custody'.

Can a man love a woman and still break up with her?

Of course. There is no behavior that is incompatible with love.

A man may have a lot of reasons for breaking up with a woman, reasons that have nothing to do with love.

Should you break up with a man that you love if he can't decide if he wants to continue the relationship?

Yes I think you should because if he doesnt even know if he wants to be with you or not then why should you wait around. Im sure you are better then that. and maybe breaking up with him will show him what he has lost.

How will I know that a person is telling the truth?

If you been with a person for awhile to know differences about them you can notice when they are lying by the way they talk and there facial expressions. Actions speak louder than words so if they are telling you something that you dont think they will do u'll just have to wait and see if they prove it to you.

How do you tell your ex you will never leave her again?

A trust was broken .... you left her once! You can't give her a promise 100% that you won't leave her. Don't make promises you may not be able to keep. If she is willing to get back with you then you are going to have to do a lot of hard work such as better communication skills and respect and loyalty towards her to make her trust you again. Most times the 'grass on the other side of the fences ISN'T greener!'

Should people break ships up?

No. The couple will work it out themselves.

What do you do if your fiance breaks off the engagement without any reason?

  • If he is mature enough then he does owe you an explanation for breaking off the engagement. He could have 'cold feet'; he may suddenly feel he is not ready for marriage or he does not feel he loves you enough to get married. Talk to him and tell him to be man enough to give you a reason for the break up of your engagement. If he still refuses consider yourself lucky that you didn't marry such an immature person. Realize it is not your fault and consider the fact that he is not the one that you should be considering marrying and that fate has a way of changing people's plans (although the individual involved may not understand those reasoning's) but, it frees you up to eventually meet that special person that is right for you. Also, if you choose not too you do not have to give him the ring back (unless it is a family heirloom ... not common in most cases) and the ring is yours to keep. The choice is up to you.

What happens when you shine light through a glass cuboid?

This will depend on the angle of incidence. If the light source is perpendicular to the edge of the the block then it will pass through with no change in direction. However if the light source is not perpendicular then the light will alter in direction slightly due to the change in speed of the light waves (light travels slower through the block than the air). When leaving the block the light will resume its original trajectory but slightly offset (parallel to the original beam).

What do you do if a guy you really like dumps you because he doesn't think that wasn't the kind of relationship they sould be having right now Plus he was 2 years younger?

well i think he's not worth it and besides there are more than one thousand better guys out there so i think you shoud just leave him make him know your not all that cheap

What does it mean when a guy says he feels validated you broke up but are still talking?

Answer Maybe validated isn't the right word to use. Maybe he feels hurt that you broke up with him. To validate something is to approve it, not to feel bad about it.

How do you get someone to stop falling in love with you?

dont take any showers

seriously

The usual understanding of falling in love is that some one attaches, wants to see and be with you all the time. As real love is totally free and does not require your presence or any one else to manifest itself, that attraction is nothing but a normal human-animal behavior.

You can not avoid some one to be attracted to you, but knowing that that is not really love, now you can handle that person without fear, kindly and with real love (which is detached) until this person obsession with you goes away. Obviously, however you must not pursue any other contact than the strictly necessaryso that your message of not interest can be clearly understood.

The fact that you realize and care about what is happening to the other person shows your compassion and tact.

P.V.B.

My bf broke up with me and when I called him yesterday this girl answered his phone and he then got on and said he has been seeing her for about a week i said well you were just with me on Monday?

Wow, what a jerk, so sorry about that. He was cheating on you and it probably was longer than a week because his GF answered the phone. You will find someone so much better, you were too good for him. Good Luck!

Why doesn't Erika love me anymore?

because she has changed and you need to get over her because theres 'other fish in the sea' so i say good luck to you and i hope find some one else to love u

Can a personal lien be placed on some one who lived with you and moved out oweing?

You take them to the appropriate court depending on the amount and what they own for. You gather all of the bills and other monies that this person is accountable for and have it ready to show the judge. If you prove your case you can also sue for the court filing fee. Good luck.

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