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That person sounds like a user who doesn't know what love is. Move forward. You deserve better.

I've seen a problem like this before. First you gotta make sure that they are calm. If you act calm about it, they'll act calm. Next YOU HAVE GOTTA ALSO MAKE SURE THAT THE KIDS ARE IN BED, you've gotta tell them once the little guys are in bed. Try to calm them down, tell them to go to bed and remember to tuck them in. Now you can tell them. They'll probably be fine with it. The key is to make them calm, ok? There.

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Mari

I feel bad for you and i hope you can get through this but I think you should sit down with each other and talk about it. Ask him what he thinks and if his answers don't make you feel any better call his ex and ask her if she really wants him back. If they do love each other than I'm sorry but they do. I think that if it's ok with you and him then you should file for divorce.

The dissolution of the abuser's marriage or other meaningful (romantic, business, or other) relationships constitutes a major life crisis and a scathing narcissistic injury. To soothe and salve the pain of disillusionment, he administers to his aching soul a mixture of lies, distortions, half-truths and outlandish interpretations of events around him.

Yes, but try leaving! This is a game, a ploy. A woman can't win. He will have already made the woman think she is ugly, of no use, a bad wife and mother, no one likes her, she can't keep a job, does a lousy job of housework and cooking, etc. By now the woman is so far down the tubes she actually will believe she can't cope in the outside world. Abuse is all about control. If you left he may like it, but don't be surprised if he comes after you.

Believe it or not some abusive men know exactly what they are doing and actually hate themselves for it, but can't stop. It's usually a learned behavior from their own parents or whoever raised them.

Ignoring an abused wife keeps the wife on her toes and she feels her heart beating faster and is walking around of egg shells. She becomes absolutely submissive to his every whim and that is not what he wants! These men like scrappers, but of course a woman is really no match for a man in strength. If you are abused please seek help by an "Abused Women's Center." They will protect you!

This one is tough because you have done 2 things to cripple your chances. The worst thing you have done is to hurt his confidence/ego (ouch!). The 2nd is that if you start pursuing him he will think you are playing mind games (yuk!). Basically, the only way out of this one is to confront him. Explain how you feel and then live with whatever decision he makes. Honesty "It's always the best"

well maybe, that he feels hurt in some way, because i like this guy, but I'm still trying to forget about him because I'm hurt in some way, or maybe that he feels that your not the right one for him (no offense). Try talking to him about what's going on. But don't sound suspicious and try to sound calm and persuading

He's either using you in hopes that if things don't work out with his mistress he has an excuse to come back and see you or, he's simply lazy, irresponsible, tactless and doesn't respect you and feels he can come and go as he wants. If you're smart phone him and tell him to come get all his things before the end of the week or you are going to put them in storage and he can pay the bill or give them away to charity and then file for divorce!

Woman or man, they simply get lonely and want to meet someone. Sometimes it's easier to meet someone over IMing (not a good idea because you never know who is at the other end) and then emailing each other and it can come to phoning each other. Loneliness is the worse thing to deal with in life. She may have been on a holiday; visited relatives or a friend and met this man. Her biggest mistake is being in love with a married man. Decent women have a code between them that they don't go after other women's husbands and simply don't date married men no matter what his excuse is about his wife. There is a very low percentage that married men will run to their mistress after any breakup with the wife because he will want his freedom and not want to get tied up in another relationship so quickly. The mistress usually loses out. This woman has to sort her own life out. She's an adult, she knows it's not right dating a married man and she already knows she is playing second fiddle to his wife. Some men simply want a little fun on the side, but the bubble will eventually burst. He may become bored with her and dump her or the wife finds out and dumps him. This doesn't mean by any stretch of the imagination that this will release him from his wife in order to marry his mistress. Being a mistress to a married man is no different than being a prostitute and women can argue that until they are blue in the face, but it's true. Women who date married men sometimes do so because they are well aware they don't have to fear commitment and just want to have a fling and fun. Other women become seriously in love with a married man. Either way the mistress generally loses and she'll have a lot of regrets to deal with during the aftermath.

try to forget and move on. It isn't entirely your fault and besides there are still plenty of fish in the sea.

Tip to forget and move on: Find a (new) hobby.

• If your husband is tentative to your needs such as listening to you talk every so often; may buy you flowers on occasion; remembers special occasions and comes home after work then he loves you. A person can tell another person 10 times a day they love that person, but it doesn't make it so. A person may only say 'I love you' every so often and truly mean it. Most marriages crumble by the lack of good communication skills and it would be to your best interest to sit down with your husband one night (with the TV off or off the computer) and tell him why you feel he is only pretending he loves you and then listen to what he has to say. Many men come home from work from perhaps a bad day; they're tired and their home is their castle where they can just be themselves. Just because a husband is quiet and may not pay attention to you doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Show some interest by asking him how his day went.

Not necessarily.

Communication is very important in a relationship, be it romantic or just a friendship. Try to find out if there's something wrong, but don't be pushy or nagging. If he does have a problem, constant questioning won't solve anything, but make matters worse.

Wait a bit, give him some space, and then see if you two can meet to talk. Prepare yourself to handle the worst, but don't expect it. It may be nothing at all.

Make him feel comfortable, and tell him honestly that you feel there's been a change in his behaviour. Tell him exactly what troubles you. You're not going to believe it, but boys sometimes do stuff and they don't realise it or how it affects you.

Don't cry. Boys are often afraid that if they tell girls the truth they'll start crying and shouting and they'll feel like creeps. Be open and honest, to make him know that you're adult enough to have a serious conversation, even if it means breaking up. At least you can be friends afterwards.

[And if you're not able to do so, you're probably too young to have a boyfriend in the first place.]

There's a film like that I watched recently. I think it was called 'The New Guy' or something along those lines. :D

Seadove: The Forbidden Kingdom's young lead was picked on by the bullies which led to the old man (jackie) getting shot and his mission to bring back the staff to the Monkey King. Of course, he was able to get back at the bullies in the end.

If you really love a woman, then you can be faithful with no problem. If you don't - there's only one way out - better for both.

Well waht are you comofortable doing? R u scared for a reason? Did he hurt you? You need to consider this befr u think about tlking to him!!! If he physically hurt you you need tot ell an adult and then stay away from him!

Because he doesn't really want you to be totally out of his life. I bet that he still wants to be friends. Just not as serious as you were before or he just wants to have a mating partner but that is the least likely answer

you can have a friendly relationship by being friends or just being a mentor i think that having a friendly relationship is a meaning of love for a friend n what u share with that personn showing those feelings

They can be together! There is no difference at all, and most people think of rich people as snobs, but that is not true at all.

If she is sorry for it then be nice. treat her kindly..the guilt will sink in. Then either try to restart from scratch or just tell her you can't be with her anymore since she what she did was wrong and wish her the best of luck.

He no longer feels the way he used to so he decided to move on.

My boyfriend likes being in the center of pretty much everything but a serious relationship. If you still love him, txt him it or write it on a paper like "YOU ROCK MY WORLD, BABY!" Something like that, but to make him feel in love with you. That's how you keep him.

yes you should let her know how you really feel. you should also apologise for hurting her and whatever other things you may have done that affected her. be honest with her, honesty is the key!

He is obviously not interested in a reconciliation and at this point it is best to let him be and move on.

Be fun to them and try ur hardest to play with them and not come off as the evil stepmother, like in the fairytales. be the mom everyone wants to have, and try to avoid the half, just say sister. i have a half sister but i NEVER say it, i just say that she is my sister cuz she is and there is no half in our relationship!

everyone saying they're in love is like a promise saying that you'll never forget them that they're the one you can't just say it to anyone and not mean it when you say i love u to someone you will know that it's true so just forget about what happened and go on and don't just go around saying i love you because it hurts both you and the other person if u don't mean it.