Breakups

Moving on isn't easy especially when you were deeply in love with that person and you had undergone marriage. Maybe you haven't yet accepted what had happened to your marriage and you're still regreting things. It's ok. It's a process. But don't let yourself be in that situation for too long.

Unless you forgive, then you can forget and move on.

Unfortunately, you've done the damage and she now has a new boyfriend so it's best you move on. I know it hurts, but it's best to leave her alone and get on with your own life. None of us can bat 100%. Marcy

If you have to ask this question it means that he doesn't have any real desire to make it work. He's probably just screwing around while avoiding his responsibilities, and it's often times a financial decision. Make an appt with at least two lawyers in your area that specialize in divorce and family law. If you can afford to pay for an hour of their time, do it. If not... see about 2 or 3 that will allow a free consultation and make a list of questions. Ask them all the same questions (like what financial or legal benefit could my husband benefit from by prolonging the marriage and stringing me along?). Also ask them what YOUR pros and cons might be for keeping the marriage legal (like some states require you be married a certain number of years before you are elegible for spousal support). It sounds like you want the marriage to work, so be honest with each lawyer and tell them that. But tell them that you want to be knowledgeable about your choices should you not be able to make it work. Seriously. I have given this advice to a half dozen friends (both male and female) over the years and those who made appts and met with at least one good lawyer? They were shocked to learn some little legal loophole that might have been having a huge effect on their lives. Good luck. If he truly wants to make it work he will show it through his actions, not his words. If they words and actions don't line up... be realistic and be prepared. Confide in God and a few incredibly wonderful friends and family members. You need them with you right now.

offer a talk t0 him. . .with just the tw0 0f you.state y0ur reas0ns why..and why did y0u came t0 that feeling..make sure his c0operati0n is with him..end things clearly..make sure y0ur conversati0n is d0ne with l0w t0ne..

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Get a marrige therapist, and if that does not work after a while then divorce him, if he does nto or refuses to change

Not necessarily. If they left you for someone else that would indicate they are just moving on - as you should.

look from experience if a person won't let you get a word in then don't pay attention eventually they will be willing to listen. yeah they are going to get mad if you dont pay attention but they will get over it.

Because deep (probebly deep deep deep down) down he loves you but he cant show it. He is also probs having probs at home and just needs someone to talk to. Hope this Helps!

In dreams, when you feel something 'lost' (like a boyfriend in this case) it often symbolizes the beginning of a new phase of life or express the anxiety of leaving behind the person or thing.

It may be that if you dream about losing your boyfriend, you are actually losing your self-confidence or something in your personality.

An ancient dream book warns that to dream of losing someone means you may cut yourself by accident!

Also dreams aren't always connected to daily life. It may be that you were just worried about him leaving you.

maybe because you just want her to be your girlfriend because she's just gorgeous and lovely. Or maybe you tried your hardest to like her but nothing seems to work out. Your best choice is to leave her so both of you can be happy. If you lead this on...her feelings would grow and it'll be harder on her and beside you'll feel as if your free. You shouldn't regret leaving her because there's still someone out there who you really love. Don't stay with someone if you have no feelings with. good luck =)

Being on cloud nine is usually a feeling at least a woman gets when she feels she has met the right guy. However, a wise young woman takes things slow and easy. Guys love the relationship and may even love the girl and the sexual relationship that goes along with it, but if the girlfriend starts talking about living together; marriage and children this will often have some guys heading for the hills. Smart woman of any age keep the guy guessing and don't give away all their secrets! You didn't say how old you are, but if you are still in your teens many young men don't mind having a girlfriend with the sex attached to it, but are afraid of commitment and part of them still wants to be free to do as they please. In ways it's a selfish act, but since science knows girls mature faster than guys what else can young women expect (or older women for that matter! LOL) Almost every woman has had to go through the heart break of losing someone they love (and some men go through it as well.) A woman generally gets confused, then cries her heart out, grieves (just as if she has lost someone she loves to death) and eventually anger sets in. This is the time to get up, get moving, go out with friends and keep an open mind to get back into the dating scene. NEVER sit around moping and groaning over a lost love. Grieving for a time is fine, but then it's time to face reality and move on as there are lots of nice guys out there.

Ha ha haaa... That s a funny question. No relationship is really over. Relationships exists even after the related people die but they are not exposed.

Maybe she likes you if not then your one of her most special friends . if you like this girl STICK THE LIPS ON HER !! i dont know if you mean as a friend if so then dont be too obbsessive get into her little gang then lay low dont follow her about be mysterious . if you mean fancy the dont move in to slow ask around to see what you can find owt then after that its all up to you .

he's playin you girl.

he's obvieee just using you to hookup and he has a girl on the side.

RUNNNAWAYY.

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I'm a guy, but I'm reasonably smart and definitely honest.

If you're recently broken up, a guy would say that because he still enjoys the mental freedom of being single. It's a tremendous relief to not have to worry or care about someone else. A guy says not right now, b/c he's hitting on some other chick behind your back. or is thinking about someone else. When he does come back, he's tired of playing the field and losing. He just wants the quick victory to reinforce his ego that he's still a man before he goes back out and tries to meet someone else. or "he was such a fool for leaving you in the first place. he didn't know what he was thinking or how he would live without you, and you're so beautiful..." That's not a slap at you, it's just something we all say.

put more simply, he says "not right now" b/c he want's to keep you if things don't work out with someone else.

so figure out what you want while you've got the time, act accordingly. No one's going to be looking out for your emotions other than you.

Being unaware of your situation, whether you are remarrried or a single divorcee, and not knowing the nature of your ex, this is a tough question. First you need to decide whether or not you want to open yourself up for further abuse. If not, you need to make it clear that you want no further contact. If you dare give this ex the benefit of the doubt, never, ever let this person talk with you without the presence of some friends at your side for your own personal protection. Just remember, once an abuser, always an abuser. Why take the risk?

I feel you should tell the abuser to stop right away.The fact that he abused you in the first place speaks a lot about him as a person, his values and also how much you mean to him. If you entertain his calls and hear him out.I am sure he will convince you of takin him back for they (abusers) are a very smart breed.And also you talking to him again will make him feel that his behaviour was not at all bad and you just over-re-acted and you are ready to give things another go.And definitely he will take you for granted.I am saying this out of personal experience and if you are a strong woman and wants peace,happiness and prosperity in your life and if you love and respect yourself then please do not encourage him.And yes, if you still have feelings for him then you can just say that you have forgiven him for his deeds and now you want to move on in life an dhe should refrain from contacting you further and just wish him good luck!

The same happened 2 me... Just ask yourself how much did he hurt you and was it intentional.... If you really love him and i mean love him not like but love him and you know you can make it work then go 4 your ex...BUTT PLEASE O PLEASE REMEMBER NO ONE CHANGES!

You'll Never Officially Get Over Your First Love........There Will Always Be a Space in your Heart For Them, Its Been 2 Years and I'm Still Not Over Mine....But you Will Find Some one Else When Your Ready to Move On and you WILL know When your ready to move on.........................But you Will always rememberthem as your first LOVE

Alex thomas venkadath

It would be so insane to break up with a person who is bipolar and you consider him bipolar even when he loves you so love doesn't see if the person is mentally challenged. Don't leave him. Give him a new hope to live and be with him.

U don't trust him. if he has done all of that i wouldn't want 2 stay with him. Technically he has betrayed u a million times.

Admit you were wrong, no excuses, just "I'm sorry. I made a huge mistake. Would you think about forgiving me. I still really like you." Follow by, "Take some time and let me know what you think. Maybe we could talk about it this weekend or early next week?" Saying you're sorry is ALWAYS appropriate when you have done something 'bad'--both to people and to God. God is always willing to forgive you. People are not always willing but asking is the only way you will know. Relationships with people who cannot forgive are very unhealthy, so knowing if your ex-boyfriend can forgive is of great importance. Once asked, you should give him space and time. If he comes back with true forgiveness, be very careful not to betray him again. He's worth it.

This guy is immature, selfish and loves women. It's possible he forgot (had too much to drink) but whether that was the case or not thank your lucky stars you didn't get mixed up with this guy. He's the type that would go out with a girl on a date then see someone he considers more attractive and ditch the girl he's with. Don't worry, he'll meet his match and pay the price.

Nothing - carry on as normal and live your life happily.

He is your ex and he was that for a reason.