Breakups

What's this "he cannot let you leave?" You are the one with the power. Leave. He's a control freak who wants things his way, and isn't willing to make the commitment you want. He'll string you along forever, just because he can.

It's your move.

if its in your name and you can afford it then you should keep it.

You can't make anyone change their mind, it is up to them. If they want to get back with you they will come to you. If you know for sure they still have feelings for you, then talk to them, ask them if they think you two could try a relationship again. But first sit down and think why you two boke up in the first place, and if it is something you can work on together, or that will never change. I agree. Give it time and have faith in his feelings for you. Let time and space heal your wound. If his love is true, he will come back to you. You can not force it. He has to come to you of his own accord. The more time he has away from you, the more time you have to get strong and be the woman he fell in love with. Women react immediately. Men bury unresolved feelings. If he is honest with himself, he will eventually seek you out. It's tough to be patient, that's why do not wait even if he's the only one for you. Build up your life. Be with friends. Make new friends. Discover new hobbies. Get in better shape! Do all the projects you put off for a rainy day. That's what I am slowly doing. Because I am in a similar predicament. I miss my man daily. I think about him and even write to him in my journal. He meant the world to me. I took him for granted. We were together for one year. He said he had to let me go because he was unhappy and his heart slowly closed to me many months ago. He still loves me (so he says) but lost the passion (in-love feeling). I cried a lot. We talked a lot. But since we broke up, I had a few breakdowns and called him to get more answers. Not the best idea, but I felt better afterwards. I know he jumped back into dating (or at least looking) immediately after the break up. He was ready because he made up his mind months ago. He was in break up mode in someways before he ended it. I could drown in tears with that answer, but I choose to pick myself up and be the woman I know he wants and live for me! He WILL be back. I know in my heart without evidence or proof. I believe in what we had (in the beginning) and with time he will come to know it, too. Men take longer to realize what they lost. It was not perfect, but love never is. But deep, powerful love does not fade or get lost. It simple has been hidden from sight for one reason or another. Faith in who you are aqnd what you want will get you through the rough moments. I let it out when I am home alone. But I read a lot and talk to friends and family... it's therapy. I pray a lot, too! Prayer gives power, faith and courage. You'll be fine. If he is the one you want, let him find his way back to your heart!!

lol ...... wow

Change the words "japanese" to "person", "hurted" to "hurts", "with" to "by" and maybe

someone will answer the question for you. good luck.

You don't think of a most revolting thing to get your mind off your lost love; you are going through a type of grieving process much like losing someone to death. In ways, it is like losing a loved one to death .. the death of a once loving relationship. It hurts and you are feeling sad and wondering what hit you. Grieving is about crying; thinking of that person every minute of the day; sometimes some people blame themselves for the break up when it wasn't their fault; then comes anger that this person would leave you hurting in this manner. Anger can be a good thing if used positively: Anger makes you get up and get going! Start going out with friends and try to have some fun. Feel strong about yourself and realize this lost love is not the only fish in the sea and by circulating with friends and getting out more often your chances are high of finding someone more suited to you that will treat you with the respect they give you. Every failed relationship people should learn a lesson from.

You can't he's your ex. Get over him and move on.

Melissa Yanovitch

If you wish to end the relationship, explain why you wish to do so. He is entitled to a full explanation. If he continues to call, ask him to respect your wishes. Do it kindly.

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If he really cared about you, he would respect your wishes and want you to be happy. He is selfish and oonly thinking of himself; therefore, he has not changed. Tell him to stop for a week or two to give you time to think. If he won't, he is manipulating you and guilting you and is still abusive. Normal people aren't afraid to give you room to breathe. If he gets you back, his methods will go back to abusing from begging.

You shouldn't break up with your boyfriend before Christmas. You should wait until the next day after Christmas. Just take him down slowly, don't go like "Hey I'm going to break up with you". That will really hurt his feelings. Tell him how you feel about the relationship and why you want to break up with him. Make sure he understands. Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. It's your choice if you want to break up with him or not. It's not that much advice, but it should work. It worked for me all the time and they understand. Well, some boys.

Everyone is different and no two relationships are the same, so it is impossible to say what your chances with a girl who still has feelings for an ex-boyfriend would be.

Its your own fault for dumping them in the first place. Yes I know, i am no help. But seriously; try to get small things back like if your failing something try finish that. You can't fix the big things but fixing the small things make the bigger picture. If that make sense :S

Well if you can tell he is acting, he is doing a horrible job at it.

did you mean will "Your boyfriend dumped you because you don't look good enough for him?"

if so i dont think he will if he loves you for who you are not what you look like onely

There is no legal method of dividing the property of unmarried house-mates. They need to work it out between the parties. If the parties acquired real property as joint tenants each is entitled to one-half of the net proceeds when the property is sold. Each is entitled to one-half of the balance of any joint bank accounts but beware that generally, either can empty the accounts without the other's permission.

believe me, hes just trying to make you feel better

Haha well this 1 is kinda crazy but go to myspace music section type in burn in hell then click on songs go to page 2 look for the 1 by lonly boy and listen its crazy lol

yes, of couse it is right.

It is certainly possible for her to say that she is pregnant if she is trying to convince the alleged father to marry her. If she has already had a period two weeks after her last encounter with him it would seem very unlikely but not impossible because she might have mis-identified symptoms of a light period depending on what birth control pills she might be taking. It is best not to guess. She should be encouraged to see a doctor.

Well she has a good point. If you aare good friends and you use to have alot of fun, if you got into a relationship with her and it didnt work out this might reck the friendship. No one can decide what to do. It is your decision. If you tink she is worth it ( if not then you really dont like her ) than hang on. That is what i would do. If she says no dont worry. She is just trying to preserve the friendship. If she says no dont be all angry and stuff because she will think she amde the right decision for many reasons.

Yes. Love and trust are two completely separate and almost unrelated things. Love has no reason to it, and trust must be earned.

You should just go with it. I mean, girls are girls and we girls are very sensitive. She is just thinking about how this relationship would turn out. Don't be worried or anything though because it will all be fine

any ways i dont care spectac got stuff better anyway. he was probaly better off by his self

I would have to say strictly professional. He is still not over you and being friendly may make it harder for him to ween off his emotions for you.