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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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What are the two main reasons couples split up?

# LIES # CHEATING Lack of effective commuication.

What are the Advantages and disadvantages of a one parent family?

Are there advantages to the one-parent family? Not to my knowledge. But there are lots of disadvantages. Let me count the ways: The last and least favorable option for raising a child, whether it is by choice or by necessity, is single parenthood. When children are involved, the paradigm of marriage stands alone. It should be obvious to all that when the effort of raising a child is divided up among two parents, it eases the burden. Single parenthood is always second best. Acting as the provider, as the head of the household and at the same time as father/mother/ to his/her child, is taking on a Herculean task. It pushes the father/mother to his/ her limits. The increase of children living with single parents is stunning. In 1960 single-parent households constituted 9.1 % of all households. Households with a mother only were at 8.0 % and with father only at 1.1 %. In 2000 single-parent households constituted 26.6 % of all households, with mothers at 22.4 % and fathers at 4.2 %, reports "America's Children: Key National Indicators of Well-being." Parenting by a single parent poses a huge dilemma. If Hollywood is any indication, 2001 was the year of the single mom. Actors including Camryn Manheim, Calista Flockhart and Jodie Foster, by adoption or by birth, placed single motherhood in the national spotlight, gracing the covers of Us and People magazine. And the character Rachel from the hit television series Friends, upon finding herself pregnant, decided to have her baby alone: "It's the child she wants, not necessarily the husband." Given the public acceptance of these notable single mothers by choice, it would seem that this version of the new millennium family has found a suitable home in the United States. Check more on single parenthood in "Marriages, Shack-ups and Other Disasters" - see website below.

When the narcissist is in idealisation phase is this the same as what we know as love?

Empathically not. Narcissists are incapable of loving. Idealization - the unrealistic, fantasic, pathological, and utilitarian adulation of a source of narcissistic supply - has nothing to do with love.

I have a boyfriend and we like each other a lot but i recently found out that one of my guy friends likes me and i kinda like him back and we flirt A LOT behind my boyfriends back so is that bad?

Flirting is not bad, but don't do anything else behind your boyfriend's back. It's okay to like different people while you are with someone but it's that acting on it that will hurt people.

What is the back of the hand?

the back of the hand is like get out of my face.

Is breaking up with a guy and trying again a good idea?

It depends on how the relationship was before you broke up/why you brokeup/how long the breakup lasted.

If he wants you back and things were good before you broke up and no one cheated on anyone...whyd you break up with him...things sound perfect.

But most likely that's not the case.

If the relationship was bad from the start, trust issues even after a while then maybe this guy just isn't ready for a relationship or someone has trust issues with the other.

If yall dated for a while and just broke up because yall were bored than maybe trying again but being more romantic, exciting, or doing things that you both like together will spruce up things when you try again.

You really just have to think about what you want, what he wants, and where you will stand in the relationship and how big a role the relationship will be in your life.

Just stay aware of why you broke up and howthings worked before. THis should give some insight into how things could be diffrent or the same.

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How do you stop seeing someone if you know it's wrong but you're very in love with them?

if you both feel the same then i think that you should fight to be together... If you are talking about you being in love with someone who is married, then no, walk away that can only cause you nothing but trouble. If we are talking about brother and sister being in love, for me... it's a little weird but i mean i don't have a problem with it, but society does, although that's a very hard one to stop because you are family also so you can't really avoid them.. if it's that bad a situation then i'd say to move away and start a fresh.

Answer You should put as much distance between that person and yourself as possible. If you work together, find another job. If you live near each other, move. Do not let your emotions cloud your morals. What's right and what's wrong will never change, but emotions will change. You can love someone today and hate him tomorrow, but right and wrong will be the same tomorrow as it is today. It may be the hardest thing you've ever done, but you will have more respect for yourself later if you end the relationship now.

What does it mean when a woman you abused and took for granted who was lovesick over you has now just ignored your calls and dumped you out of the blue when before she was wrapped around your finger?

It means she is on the road to getting her confidence and self esteem back--things you took away from her when you chose to abuse her. As you put your needs above hers, she now has wisened up about the real person you are and now puts her emotional/physical health above your BS manipulations. You didn't love her--you loved the reactions you got from her and the ego boost her submission gave you. Now you're getting what you truly deserve. I'd advise you to go to counselling, but I'm sure you feel you don't have a need for it. YAHOO! Another one got away! Take a good look in the mirror if you can reach that high as you are lower than a snake's belly! There is nothing worse one human being can do to another is use them when they are down, or abuse them. Who do you think you are to abuse anyone! You're going to get yours in spades and I wish I was there to see it!

What is the right age to have a boyfriend?

i would say 12, 13 or 14

I had my first BF at 4, I know total dork!

well for me i was not able to have a boyfriend till i was 16, my parents were strict but i realized why cuz there are a lot of jerks out in this world and they didnt want me to get hurt, plus they thought by the time i was 16 i would be mature and able to handle a relationship

What does it mean when a girl says she needs to find herself?

It means one of 2 things rather she needs time to her self deciding what she wants in/with life or she doesnt know how to dumb you so she told you that.

How do you tell someone that you love them not as a Boyfriend but as a really close personal friend whom you never want to loose?

You can't - if you stay friends with him, he will resent you being with any other guy and will cause you misery. So leave out the "real close personal friend bit" cause once you strt seeing someone else you will not be needing or wanting another close personal friend of the opposite sex, other than your boyfriend.

Let him and find someone that will love him back since you cannot.

What should you do when you are moving on from my ex but I feel if he calls me up and asks me out am going to break down and say yes?

what you have to do in situations like those is simply put your foot down. I know that it may seem hard and that you don't have the strength to, but it is what you have to do. Lord Byron, a famous poet, once said, "Absence- the common cure of love." Sometimes you have to just think about your own well being and not worrying about hurting them and doing what you know in your heart is best for you not in the short run, but in the long run. Always look at the bigger picture in life.

Will you ever get over your ex when you are now just friends?

  • It appears the fad of this generation is to stay friends with exes. 'Ex' means the relationship is over and generally the person that has been left behind because of the breakup is still in love with their ex so it is best not to pour salt into an open wound and say goodbye as friends and face the future with new hope as there is that special someone out there for you.

What does it mean when your boyfriend breaks up with you and says smile now cry later?

There are a few ways to take this, but I cannot be sure which. He either still wants to be friends, or he is literally telling you to be happy now, and be sad later. If niether, he is trying to insult you. Talk with him first about it to be sure.

How do you tell your best friend that you have another best friend?

By definition, you can have at most one best friend. The term best means better than any other. You can have lots of good friends, however. Stop calling your friends best friends, and call them good friends. Then they don't have to compete with each other to find out who is really the best friend.

Why he wants to be friends with me after breaking up with me?

Either he doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying he never wants to see you again OR he does really just think of you as a friend and doesn't want to lose you completely.

Good topics to write about on an essay?

Let me share this to you dear. Every time I feel like I wanted to write something, but does not know what about, I simply look at nature. I mean the sky, the clouds, but I most likely wanted to see the sky and the sea meet, that's the so-called horizon, right? Or probably write about what I feel about that moment or things that concern me from the past. Jot down what you feel and you'll feel relieved, you tried that, haven't you? If yes, then you know what it feels. But in an essay, it's better if the topic is given already so you don't have to think about it and just have to write everything.

What does it mean when a girl breaks up with you with no explanation?

you might be too clingy or she feels bad for breaking up with you so she wants to wait a little while to tell you

What is the worst way to break up?

Wait until they're on the toilet. Knock on the door and say "You alright love? Erm, I've got some bad news...I hope you're sitting down. The troll from up the road asked me to marry him/her and I said yes so I need you to vacate the premises. Um, don't use too much bog roll...it's not yours anymore."

This is most effective if their bags are already packed and awaiting them on the street.

How can you get your ex boyfriend back when he went to study abroad and dumped you because of another girl there?

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What are the signs your ex may want you back in the future right now he is saying he wants to be friends but he has hinted about maybe getting back in the future?

  • Your ex is controlling and they are hoping you will sit around and wait for them so they can sow their wild oats and have all the fun and come back to you whenever they feel like it if at all. It appears to be the trend where exes remain friends, but unless there are children involved most people have enough friends and do not need their ex as a friend and they should go their separate ways. You are strong and you should take the responsibility of your own life and take the control back by telling him 'whatever, but I'm dating and we'll see what the future holds.' This lets your ex know you are self reliant and not about to sit around and waste your life waiting for them.

What does a thin line between love and hate mean?

The phrase a thin line between love and means that both feelings are very intense and passionate. When a person is betrayed that can go from loving someone to hating someone very quickly.

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