Breakups

• There is nothing to like when it comes to a mean spirited man and when someone treats you in that matter it has nothing to do with love. Be smart and stay away from him because you can do much better. If you tie yourself up with your ex you may well miss out on meeting that special person that truly should be in your life and would treat you the way you would like to be treated.

Be prepared to raise the child alone regardless of who the biological father is. If you do not feel strong enough to do this then you must consider all options. If you can be a mother and be a mother unselfishly.... then all else.... including love..... be it with your babies father..... or another..... will follow....

you really don't need a guy like that who will kiss somebody else and then use that kind of excuse

yea he is no one should make fun of you behind your back especially your boyfriend

Because you shouldn't be dating a married woman.

tell him the truth...

dont do anything, its not your choice who he likes

depending on how long the relationship lasted, don't be angry or frustrated if you've been dumped. try not to say anything negative as it'll just make the situation worse. saying very little is the best thing to do. asking any why questions will just cause an argument on both parts. the majority of men will dump a woman because they have either found someone else more to their liking, or because the woman was too demanding. there are alot of guys out there waiting for a special person like you. have faith and the right one will come along. I think that you should say something like you agree, be understanding and say you feel the same way, then you won't sound harsh but at the same time not too needy!

Generally speaking a lot of binge drinking. Hanging out with his best buds as much as possible. Going out to a bar/club and attempting to hook up with as many women as possible. Or the flip side they can shut themselves out from everyone and everything.

I would imagine no amount of appreciation/praise could ever make him feel properly for-filled and so he's still looking for it where he's most recently had it, from you.

the way I would deal with it, is instead of being black and white about things like saying "I don't want to talk to you" or "I will talk to you if you stop behaving like this", the best thing to do is to just show him you're not going to give him the attention he feels he needs by saying very little to him at all, just a few words here or there, will make him realise if he wants praise and what-not, he'll have to get it somewhere else. (if however you're not talking to him at all at this point then hang on it's only a matter of time until he stops bugging you).

that's how I dealt with a narcissistic ex anyway!

Do absolutely nothing ... leave them totally alone - never call, or do anything that resembles any communication of any kind. They are already hurting enough ... breakups do that anyway ... rubbing it in their face accomplishes nothing except make you look like a fool.

Try telling her that u don't want to hear about that........and if that doesn't work try finding your self a girlfriend and talk about your girlfriend to her all the time

if he's forgotten you're dating it sounds like you probably don't need to formally break up with him! Perhaps you could say that you seem to be drifting apart and it's best not to be together any more.

you either confront him about it and tell him you don't like it and you won't be treated like 2nd best anymore and if doesn't change well then move on.

How long have you been together? How long have you been broken up for? If I were you I would try contacting her first and just talk on a friendly level for a little bit and then go from there.

I know it can be difficult to let go of someone but you need to just move on. If he is married and has a child then he has clearly moved on with his life and his responsibilities are to his new family. You will find someone else to fall in love with. And things can work out with someone else but it is not going to happen with a married man. If you are looking for a man with integrity then you wouldn't really want a man who would leave his wife and child for another woman anyway, so its really better for you to look for a single available guy. I am a strong believer that there is not just one single person out there for us, but that we could potentially fall in love with and have a successful relationship with different people (given the circumstances) so don't get too caught up thinking he was the "one". You will find another man who you can be happy and in love with.

if he says that and then says the magic word "but"it means hge not trying to hurt you but he really dose want yto brake up with you

• |Some men prefer women who are a little mysterious; independent and don't follow them around by texting them when she doesn't get any answers. Stop texting him and start seeing your friends and dating again and see if this draws him out and he comes after you for a change.

never send a guy a poem it freaks them out he is calling u a jerk to have a reson not to go back out with u srry he doent like u anymore u should move on

They still have sex and talk as though bf/gf. He doesnt want a relationship though but they are both hanging on and wont make a clean break. We became physical and when he found out told her he wasnt going to talk to her anymore. Now she said we will still be jsut friends but no more "hookin up", and there feels like disconnect. Should I hold on and see what happens or get away before I become too invested?

you wont want to yell calmly talk to him about your problem and try to come up with a compromise or understanding between you two

To be brutally honest with you - chances are you will fade apart as you both are going in different directions at this time. It will totally depend on your relationship, loyalty and commitment to one another. In most cases these relationships do not weather the storm but that doesn't mean yours won't. It will be up to you two how you deal with this situation. Good Luck!

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do now what is love

love is life

love is we can't live without love

we lovewho most for us

that people who love us and who we love that people who most love us

I will start this off, and others can add to it

Barbara Ann, Kathy's Clown, Suzie Q, Help me Rhonda. Caroline No. Wendy, Long Tall Sally, Anna (Go To Him), Dizzy Miss Lizzy, Michelle, Eleanor Rigby, Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds, Lovely Rita, Dear Prudence, Martha My Dear, Julia, Sexy Sadie, Polythene Pam, Maggie Mae, Lady Madonna, Ballad of John and Yoko

And "hey there delilah" by plain white t's

I would like to add Gigi, Bunglaow bill, Georgy Girl, Nikita,Billy Jean, Peggy Sue, Layla, Clare, Come on over Valerie, Maria- Blondie version, Daisy Daisy, Ruby dont take your love to town, Diana, Lola, Lily marlene, Gloria,Jolene, Lily the Pink, Rosemarie, Clementine, Oh Carol Nancy with the laughing eyes, Jean Jeannie, and a few male names..Right said Fred, Big John, Thomas the Tank, Bob the Builder,,Oscars silver hammer, Sgt Pepper, Billy Joe, Ernie the fastest milkman, Jonny remember me, Amadeus, Alfie, Paddy Maginty, Henry V111, Postman Pat, What are we going to do with Uncle Albert, Robert de Niro's waiting, A boy named Sue, Michael Caine, Lewie Loowie (Prince), cannot think of any more at present

It depends on whether or not they're really interested.

Sometimes the silent treatment does have an affect if they really care about talking to you, and they may seem to act up and act differently around you if they realise you're not talking to them. They will tend to make more of an effort than usual. However, don't be put off if this doesn't happen, it might be that they want to leave you alone because they care about your personal space, as people can be very unpredictable and they might respect that you don't want to talk to them.