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Breakups

It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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Freshly breakup due to external irrelivent pressure?

Try talking to one another and see what you both want. Don't ever let others determine for you what you want, don't listen or partake in gossip or peer pressure. Be your own people and live your own lives, people can be cruel and try to break others up because they are jealous of what you have and bored with their own lives.

Why do Scorpios run away everytime they make a mistake?

"Scorpios" in general do not only carry this characteristic nor do all of them - a variety of individuals tend to fear rejection as well as want to avoid confrontation and this could be any person or any sign it cannot be generalized.

If your ex boyfriend finds a new girlfriend that looks like you and has the same name does he still love you and is just trying to get another you?

It's possible he is just trying to get another you with a different personality or different tastes or morals. It may be that he just likes girls who have your looks and that it's just a coincidence that the new girlfriend has the same name as you. It really doesn't matter though, does it? He's found a new girlfriend and you should forget him and find a new boyfriend; maybe one who looks like him.

How come you cant seem to get over my ex?

It's hard to get over an ex especially when they meant alot to you. I have that problem right now. I dated this great guy for about a month and then we broke up and i got back involved with the guy i was involved with before we were dating. I even cheated on my boyfriend at the time with this guy but i still had feeling's. It all depends on how much you experienced with the person and how you truly feel.

Did Bret Michaels really die?

NO he is stil alive and Kicking....Unfortunently he isn't a religon though

Is it common for a person you dumped to completely ignore you and why can't they just say hello?

Yes its common. What exactly do you expect them to say to you? And they don't owe you a hello. They don't owe you anything. You dumped them. They may come around later, however and you'll be able to talk again. But for now, this person is just trying to heal. ~ T Lol! dont tell me you dont know?? the person is hurt alot because he/she loves you. Do u think it would be easy for someone to just say hi or wats up! when you already broke up with him/her. I dont think so! You broke up and the person is trying to get used to the fact that you broke up already. When he/she is ready trust me u will receive a phone call or you might bump into each other or something but trust me you will talk no matter what. Trust me it always happens i had 2 breakups and am freinds with both of them

Your boyfriend just broke up with you after a long distance relationship and now he just wants to be friends. How should you handle this?

Personally I've never believed you can remain friends with a ex boyfriend. There was so much going on in the relationship and one or both parties are going to be hurt worse by remaining friends. It's like salt being poured into an open wound if you are friends and have to watch your ex date someone else. It's time to move on. I do believe that things happen in our lives for a reason even though they situations can hurt at the time. In this case this guy isn't for you, but someone special IS waiting out there for you that is right for you. EXAMPLE: I met and married my first boyfriend. I thought the sun rose and set on him and there wasn't much I wouldn't do for him. Because of my youth I was blinded and didn't realize he didn't quite feel that deeply for me. We did get married against the wishes of my parents and the warnings from my friends, but, it was meant to be and I guess I had to learn the hard way. I ended up marrying him and he was mentally/physically abusive and cheated on me. It took me 3 1/2 years of my life to get the message and I left him flat! I decided to get a new job, get more independence and get to know for the first time who I was and what my inner strengths were. I began to realize I didn't need a constant man in my life and I did date a lot and had a great deal of fun, but then one day along came this big 6' 6" tall guy and when we saw each other we knew instantly we were meant for each other. We have now been married for 34 years. The above example I have given you is to show you that sometimes we have to go down some bumpy paths before we get to where we are destined to go. You be strong, be independent and walk away from this situation. Don't let this ex relationship bring you down, but gain knowledge and strength from it. Start seeing friends and meeting new people and before you know it you'll meet that special someone. Good luck hon Marcy

Why did my boyfriend break up with me after being loving and kind he states he has trust issues with me but why would he wait until we decided to move forward with the relationship to tell me?

as a mediator, counselor, etc., and experienced with relationships, but without knowing his version, it is not easy to answer. generally, it sounds like he has commitment fear or he isn't telling you the whole truth. some men have a difficult time being honest. the question you might ask yourself is do you want someone who treats you this way? reading the book, 'he's just not that into you' might give you some insight into the male mind. i wish you peace....

What does it mean when a guy is getting divorced and breaks up with you so he can get over his ex wife yet still talks to you all day long?

  • Sad to say, but this guy is cheating on his wife with you; not treating you with respect because he has no intention of getting a divorce. If he has handed you that line that if the two of you are together you could be named in court as his mistress if his wife chooses to get a divorce from him. He has it made by still living with his wife and you are a mere toy to him. If he truly loved you he would just go ahead with the divorce and still be with you. You need to have more respect for yourself and stay away from married men. Most married men who have affairs will either end up going back to their wife or, if they get a divorce from their wife will enjoy their freedom and it's highly doubtful they will stay with their mistress. It would be to your best interest to tell this guy to hit the bricks and not look back.

What is destructive love?

Love shouldn't hurt. Love can be destructive in so many ways but the bottom line is, if your love life is affecting the way you think and act now, but in a negative way, its becoming destructive. Destructive love comes in many forms; from a lying partner who stresses you to the point where you're doing things you wouldn't have done before for example drinking, smoking, to a physically abusive partner.

When is a relationship past fixing?

When she/he gave up and "hates you" and you have "hated" too, you might still love him/her but once you both hated once, its over.

How to overcome an ex and just be friends?

most've the tiime; if u date som1 else, u'll fiind u start lykiin the guy/gurl tht yer datin. :)

What does it mean by your heart aches to think of the day?

When someone says, "My heart aches to think of the day," it means that whatever event or occurrence he is reminiscing about is causing him to feel a negative emotion, such as sorrow.

What do I do when my boyfriend won't say he is sorry?

When your boyfriend refuses to apologize to you for any action he may take against you then he either doesn't think he did anything wrong or he simply doesn't care who he hurts. If he is the latter then you are better off without him.

Your baby daddy has a new girlfriend how do you get over him?

it wont be that easy at first. start out thinking about why you broke up in the first place you need to know when you can move on and that dont mean just hook up with any random person do something to make you independent but still strong

What does it mean when your boyfriend fines someone else and leaves you?

When your boyfriend finds someone else and leaves you this means that he is not interested in you anymore and he wants to move on and there is just physical relationship in his mind that matters for him.

How do you get your daughter away from drug dealer boyfriend?

  • There are several options to get your daughter away from a drug dealer if she is still a minor. You could report him to the police and ask them not to use your name because there are high chances he may have a record with the police. However, by reporting him and depending how deep he is into drug dealing he could possibly cause you harm. Unfortunately, the only thing left for you to do is to hope she sees the light and leaves him. If she is under the age of 18 then you could call Child Aid and ask for their advice or perhaps send her away to a relatives in another city or small town.

Should you write a letter to your fiance's ex girlfriend since she is trying to get him back after 5 years?

I think you should talk to your boyfriend and see how he views his relationship with you. If he is not serious about you and the relationship that he has with you, then you are wasting your time sending her a letter. On the other hand, if he is serious about his relationship with you, then yes, I think that you should contact her. But it should be face to face, and the boyfriend should be present. This will send a clear, sincere message of the seriousness of your relationship with your boyfriend and vise versa. He should also break off any and all contact with her, simply because she is not a healthy influence to your relationship. If he is unwilling to do so, then you have an obvious problem and need to let him go.

What does it mean when an ex boyfriend still meets you for sex even though he's with a new girl that he says he loves?

it means that you are not over your ex and he is taking advantage of you to still use you and have sex with you. Having a new girlfriend means that he is ready to forget you but just keeping you around for hard times he faces with his girl. You should take charge of your life and never look back .Do things to totally forget him and if he comes for sex again don't give in but throw him out to look for it somewhere else.Do not allow yourself to be a puppet for others to use and do what ever they want you to do.I think it is time you start saying NO.