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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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Can you overlook lies in a relationship?

yes you can their are certain times that could happen but that is why you have to trust your partner within time the truth will be out their once you get the answer to your problems take proper actions

What do you call a man who uses woman?

Most people define them as womanizers. Others simply use the generic term chauvinist.

How do you express to your ex-girlfriend that you miss her but you know yall would never get back together?

once you tell her that you miss her,She won't come back to you ever.If she back by chance there is pretty good chances she will leave you again. Leave her alone for a while and get a help from a common friend. Ask a common friend to tell you about her activities. And if she need any kind of help help her indirect way,and that time a common friend will make a ground for you. I will take a time but not impossible.

You and your ex boyfriend always get in fights and then get back together on and off and the only reason you break up is because you fight what should you do?

* Constantly fight means immaturity and a lack of good communication skills. Sometimes a couple is not right for each other and it sounds neither of you are enhancing each others personalities. It would be wise to separate for a couple of months and each of you really reach into yourselves and find out why you both want to argue all the time because it's a waste of precious time.

What should you think if you find a piece of a condom wrapper in your boyfriend's room and you know that you haven't used that brand and he said that he doesn't know how it got in there?

Isn't it possible he did buy another brand of condoms without you realizing it? Really think of that one. If you are absolutely sure, I can't see where he would be cheating on you and be stupid enough to bring the different condoms home. Besides, men are creatures of habit, so unless you are buying the condoms, he is and most men stick to what they know well and that includes brands of anything. Sit down and talk to him and let him know loud and clear you won't put up with cheating. Smart women always leave a thread of doubt after a discussion like this so say something like, "I find it odd there should be a different brand of condoms, but for now I'll have to accept your reasoning with this, but .... my attitude is ... if you think you're fooling me the head of the snake with always turn around and bite you on the a--!" If he asks what this means, tell him nothing! It will take him months to figure it out! LOL Be on the alert and if he is cheating you will find out and then kick him to the curb! Good luck Marcy

If you cheated because you were under the influence of alcohol and in a bad place in your relationship should you tell your significant other if you love him and don't want to lose him?

I've been there, I was drinking everyday, going through tough times and I made some unusual decisions. If you love this person and do not want to chance losing them I suggest keeping it to yourself and try your best to work on this relationship, cut back the drinking and get back on track, we all make mistakes and we all have regrets. If there is no permament damage here then damage control will work for you. I think if you don't come clean then there will always be a smoke screen of a lie between you. Honesty gives the other person the dignity of real choice. I am the one who was cheated on. He went to Ireland for work and cheated with a girl for 2 weeks. All the time he was telling me on the phone how much he missed me and how lonly he was. He had been going to the bars every night and drinking, I knew this. There was a bar in his hotel. Finally he got up the nerve to hit on her, and she went for it. After being home for 6 weeks, he told me he cheated with a girl he met in a bar and he wanted a divorce. He said he told me because he couldn't stand the guilt anymore. I asked him many times if everything as OK since he got back, I even jokes that he was sad because he missed his Irish girlfriend. He has been in contact with her since he came home also. We have been together 15 years and been married 7 of those. I can and will forgive him. He said he loves me but isn't in love with me anymore. I am beyond devistated. He said it has been bad for about 3 years, but he didn't want to hurt me, so he never said anything. So anyway I know the answer is YES, tell them. If they are unwilling to work things out, they didn't love you that much to begin with. And if they do forgive you, keep your pants up! And be grateful for what you have and love them like there is no tomorrow. yes i would

Should you pretend it was your fault or that there were just fundamental differences when ending your relationship with a narcissist to avoid rage?

No, don't empower them anymore than they are, in their own minds. If you fear violence, take along some friends so you are safer and have those camera's on cell phones running so you can document the situation just in case. Let the narcissist know your recording for legal reasons.Why would you want to blame yourself for this? Sounds like the narcissist got in your mind. People everyday break up for funda"mental" reasons, why should this be any different. Letting the person know, in this case, probably wont come as a big surprise, as Im sure they heard it before. Good luck and stay safe.

Answeryou shouldn't pretend anything because if they broke up with you then basically its their damn fault for missing out on a good thing don't be up set or try to look for a reason to have a rage. let alone try to avoid one dat has no ground to stand on. don't worry about that narcissist (think) "you must not know bout me, you must not know bout me I can have another you in a minute you best friend will be here in a minute there is too many smart good looking people who can handle being in a real relationship that you can find, have, or get. Hommie don't let them control your emotions be you and do you Babe. SMILE... AnswerIf pretending will get you out of the relationship without being subjected to abuse and rage, then PRETEND! answerJust get out. You owe him no explanation.

Here is the fundamental difference: You are human and he is not.

Boyfriend of 3 12 years breaks it off with regularly this time he says it is for good but you have heard this before and he always comes back he will break up with you and call me to say he loves me?

Why put yourself through the meat grinder over and over again. The message this guy is sending you is he isn't independent and he wants to move on, but is afraid so he comes back to you. Why waste your energy on a guy like this! He'll continue to do it and that hurt YOU. If you don't respect YOU then how can you expect him or any other young man to respect you. This guy is a loser and when he leaves you and things go wrong he keeps coming back like a boomerang and you keep letting him. He's using you because you are giving him a safe haven to come back too. The next time he does this DON'T TAKE HIM BACK! Get out with your friends, have fun and you will eventually meet a nice guy that will treat you the way you should be treated.

How can men take breakup easily?

This is not the case for all men and probably not the case for the majority of men.

Sometimes they are just acting like it does not hurt them, men have always been the ones who act strong and like nothing bothers them but they are probably feeling just as bad as us if not worse.

Should you hate your ex boyfriend who cheated on you?

Hate is a natural response especially if you have loved or cared for somone who has hurt you and left your life. That said, hate hurts many people and you'll find it hurts you the most. There is nothing worse than loving someone and now have bitterness that grows in you. It will stunt your growth and hurt your future.

You have been betrayed. Grieve over that now. Read about how ot deal with grief. Read books that teach about healthy relationships (not give you simple answers about things). Take it from someone who was robbed of a lot of years over anger. No situation happens in a vacuum. Your ex is responsible for not treating you as something precious and not treating you and all those involved with value and acting in restraint. However, there are ways you are responsible in how you were treated. To grow and get better we have to have humility to look for that, look for ways that we did not love the other or ourselves in appropriate ways that build trust and committment.

My story is that I carried alot of pain over betrayals and 6 years after the fact, I am now dealing with feelings of love for someone who I can see I also wronged in many ways. That person is no longer available to me.

Did he do wrong? Yes. But if you go for the emotion of hate, you'll be dealing with this situation again much later than need be. More likely with someone else. You can love someone without ever giving them the love they need. You can love someone who does not have the ability to love you and at times that person communicates that clearly. If you choose to go forward, what use is hating them for what they told you would happen? Better to understand that you are worth more, want more and turn away before your feelings are further engaged. The best protection, I think, is to demystify what is going on in a POTENTIAL relationship before it starts so you can make a good decision and when it is right, you can give your heart to someone who will treat it as a gift to him.

What can you do if your friend or an elder person is hurt and you dont want to see him in pain and you had a crush on him?

well my friend dino was lik that b4 and he new i had a crush on him so i asked him wut the matter was and then we started tlkin bout it and he felt way better after we tlked bout it so i wood tlk to them bout it even if you r or arent friends still tlk to him.

Does Caitlin beadles still have her legs?

Yes she does,but only part of her leg.Its because she went jet skiing with her then boyfriend Justin Beiber and she fell off.Then there was a boat behind her and the person didnt see her fall.Eventually the propeller of boat ran over her legs.

I How should I get over my ex boyfriend if he called me a bitch slut and other curse words?

take some time alone and let it hurt and it will hurt you so badly emotionally just don't fight it after 4 days you will be fine then talk about it with your friends and don't try to run away from it, don't drink thinking that you will forget about it, no the moment your sober it will be back again so just give the breakup some time with in a week or two you will be fine

How do you get over being dumped when your pregnant?

You blame the child when its really your fault. Then when you are in your forties, and your child doesnt like you but tolerates you because of your mistake, you meet up with the one that wanted to be with you but you didnt, pathetic as it may seem he is settling for leftovers, meaning you because the babys dad really isn't the one who was hurt and has already gotten what he wanted out of you and moved on. The reason he left was because he does not want to settle with YOU and wants to get as much sex as possible. Better to have something than nothing even if it is settling:P

What are the signs that your boyfriend wants to breakup with you but he may be delaying it so that you may take a hint and breakup with him instead because he probably does not have the courage to?

Signs are sometimes hard to spot ,think back to a earlier time when you always held hands(do you now?)when he would call to just say I love you(does he now?)I know these things change in a relationship but if it changes with him being mean about when you ask yes these are hints.When he sees you coming does he still look happy or is he like oh no not her look?Does he say you get on his nerves,does he hang with his friends more all the sudden?When you call does he act like he cant wait to get off the phone instead of the long talks before just to hear your voice?

If I broke up with him because i was frustrated with the slow pace but now want the slow pace what do I do?

If he is not with someone else, apologize and tell him you realize the value of letting relationships take their course. Even if he is not interested in getting back together, it is a good lesson to learn.

What are 2 ways in which a sandstone statue will look different because of weathering?

1. water seeps into cracks in the rocks and then freezes, as water turns to ice it expands cracking the rock

2. Hot sunshine followed by cold night temperatures makes rocks expand and then contract. This also makes the rock crack.

From 007 SGS

I like my boyfriend but I Don't know if I still want to be with himShould I break up with him?

Only you can make that decision. It's important to assess why you're feeling unsure about the relationship and communicate openly with your boyfriend about your concerns. Take some time to reflect on what you truly want and consider seeking advice from trusted friends or family members.

How to end a Bad relationship want to get over him?

On ending it:

Tell him it's over and you're no longer interested. Refuse to discuss it with him. Leave immediately. If you're worried about him hurting you or being abusive in anyway, tell him on the phone or bring a friend along.

On getting over him:

Go about your normal routine, or if necessary, find new hobbies. Don't contact him AT ALL. Ignore his phone calls, texts, emails, etc. If he comes to your house, ignore him. If he harasses you, call the cops. Get rid of things that remind you of him. Don't drink too much, it'll make you depressed and you might do things you'll regret, like drunk dial him. Spend a lot of time with friends who aren't interested in getting in your pants. If he did really awful things to you, tell yourself as much as possible you didn't deserve it. Do things to make yourself feel happy and worthwhile.

What if a person is embarrassed by you?

* Honesty is always the best policy so the best thing to do is ask them why you embarrass them. If you feel their answer is a poor one and it's simply because you don't fit into the class of people they hang around with then this is no friend of yours and you should move on. If they have a valid answer then you will have to stop and take some serious time to improve upon your bad habits.

Who is the best friend of Kakashi?

Hatake Kakashi's best friend is Uchiha Obito. Obito dies from falling boulders way before the start of Naruto. This is also the why Kakashi gets the Sharingan.