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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
8,665 Questions
Should you leave your boyfriend if you are not happy anymore but are still in love with him?
Well, it depends why you are not happy. If he is abusive then yes, you should leave him but if it's a couple of fights that can be resolved then no.
My girlfriend has a lot of guy friends should i be worried?
Answer So what if your gf has a lot of guy friends, she's with you isn't she? Sometimes it's like that as girls tend to hang around with guys rather than girls because their girlfriends have been known to cut their throats especially when it comes to men. One girl won't think twice about stealing another girls bf. I'd say you are ok and her too.
Because you have proof he cheated (more than once probably) that is NOT love! Someone that loves you would cheat on you and treat you with kindness, loyalty and honesty. Yes, you may feel you still love him because you haven't given yourself time to grieve over losing each other because of his cheating, but please give yourself a chance. You deserve a whole lot better than this guy! I was once married to a cheating husband and I got the proof as well and I finally had enough and kicked him out and filed for divorce. Although a person can perhaps cheat once (make a mistake) and never again they may be worth a second chance, but when someone cheats on you consistently they aren't worth it and they WILL cheat again!
Is asking to be friends after breakup a wrong move?
Its always nice to consider a friendship after a breakup but it doesn't always work out that way. Right after a breakup you both need to take time away from one another as to get by and over this - then see what there is down the road.
With your ex you still feel butterflies when his around or not?
It sounds as though you still have feelings for him and if you intend to move on you will have to distance yourself from him to be able to give yourself time to get over this. If you don't want to get over this then you should talk with him and tell him how you feel.
What do you do for for your ex bf to miss you more and know that you were a great catch?
All you can do is talk with him and tell him how you feel and see where things go from there. If he is just not interested anymore he will not respond to anything you do anyway as it would be best to leave him be and move on.
Revenge is bad because no matter how bad the person hurt you the first time, if you get revenge on them, you wont feel the slightest bit better. Of course their isn't one person in the world who can honestly say that they have never got revenge on someone, everyone has done it at least once. All i can suggest iis not to do it, things will only get worse.
Sure it was, he was being up front and told you the way he feels. Now- for instance, if you see him shortly down the road with someone else then you will know it wasn't.
What if he falls in love with you lets you know and then breaks up?
He could be afraid of the way he is feeling and the commitment or he could realize he made a mistake and does not want to be committed.
How do you initiate contact to try win back your ex when you have no contact?
If you cannot get a hold of this person it is because they do not want you to contact them. It is best to let them be as they have obviously made their decision - you have to move on.
contact is able to be made with her but it's how to initiate that contact that i think is the real question, how to play things without pushing her further away than she already is
Will your boyfriend come back as he does then leaves again?
If your "boyfriend" keeps leaving and coming back it would be in your best interest to let him go and move on as this is not healthy or fair to you. You deserve better.
There is no specific wait time - if you want to speak with them and tell them how you feel do it when it feels right to you.
How do you get over your ex-husband and move on in a new relationship?
Well, if he is your ex then apparently something happened and there is no more intimate relationship then simply don't look back and just know that it's probably his loss anyhow. Then find someone better.
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Well sweetie we all go through our life that hurt us the most, but if you can look at this way that its not meant to be, your life will be a bit more easier. Maybe he hurt you, but don't you think there must be a reason out there that belongs to you. Like the real, right man that will love you for who you are, and not what you can't do. Try your best to forget him, one day your ex will realize the pain he gave you and when this happen, all you can do is say, sweet revenge..
How do yoy tell a guy that you dont like him?
Telling a guy that you don't like him can break down him. That means he is not good enough (generally) to him. Maybe you like him, but cannot be with him like a girlfriend. Just say you can't. If you really don't like him, just ignore him. Don't say silly things with a guy which means to him that you like him.
Your husband cheated and had 2 children with his lover Now he wants you back?
dont do it. my ex wife cheated on me and now has more children and wants me back as well. not a hope in hell.
When a guy says he needs time?
It can mean many things he likes you needs to no way else is in the world like what other chicks r and could mean he needs sPace from u and if he just doesn't want to hurt your fillings or he could like some other girl and still likes u but wants to see if he can get her it can mean many things it all depends on the way he says it or what words he says before or after or what jr talking about
You broke up now she needs time?
yes because now she has doubts about where she stands with you....do u even love her anymore......wat would happen if ye were married would u give up on her dat easy??
How do you break an arrogant man?
First of all, unless you're a Marine Drill Instructor, you don't BREAK a man; you break a horse. You might try to make an arrogant fellow humble, or at least less arrogant, but you don't break him.
Second, why is this question placed under manners and etiquette? What does humbling someone have to do with manners and etiquette?
To deal with someone who is arrogant you just need to behave in a way where you are polite but confident in your own opinions. If you disagree with him about something just say your response in a "matter of fact" tone of voice but without being snappy or rasing your voice. Just always stay calm and relaxed, and since arrogant people are usually insecure, he will eventually start to trust you.
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In my experience as a man, nobody can be "broken" as you describe it. Adults change willingly if they are motivated. I have been in a relationship for 6 years with a woman who has a very strong willed personality. I also have had a similar personality but have managed to bend and make many compromises because she has given me so much. I love her and feel that I would do anything for her. At times I felt so much pain because of the way she pushes me occasionally. But she has been smart enough to explain her reasons to me especially when she has her period. After that is over, she normally cools down and becomes gentle. I have reflected on how I felt and how much value I place in our relationship and the value she shows as well. After careful deliberation I can see that we both have strong personalities and that we both make compromises which is what a mature relationship is all about. I have learned this after 3 failed marriages. Keep in mind that I love my current partner with all my heart, something I never felt before. That has made a big difference not only in the quality of our relationship but also in the quality of my life.
any long term realtionship takes time. they say it takes half as long as the term of the relationship. tyr to meet opther people.
Some sister you have! You didn't say if she said something just to split you up or stole your boyfriend. Nip this in the bud and blast the thong off her! If she pretended to be you or caused other problems then either you never took the time to communicate what your sister did to him or he won't speak to you. If he loves you then call him and try to meet with him. Don't spare your sister's feelings on this one! She deserves what she gets. If at all possible she should come clean and try to patch things up between you and your ex boyfriend. If she's just one of this girls that wants to see if she can win over YOUR boyfriends and did, then he's not worth it!
What if your lover doesn't want to get back together after all you try?
It is very confusing and heartbreaking when this happens, and clear thinking is just not possible. We reach out to well meaning friends and relatives and get lots of well meaning but biased advise.
In situations like this you really need some outside help to assist you with getting some clarity of thought and a plan for moving forward.
Relating to strangers rather than friend and family is very often easier in this situation.
Try it? What do you have to lose? At the moment you are on the road to nowhere. Think of what you might gain from some clear-sighted, and most importantly unbiased outside guidance.
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Why do you keep having dreams about your ex boyfriend when you love somonelse?
I may not be right but for me dreams come from the sub-concious and are a form of mental escape or release. You can love your spouse or partner, but if you had a long time with your ex or short but intense then it just natural that there be episodes in your life that you'll dream about him. There could be thing you have'nt reconsiled with your ex relationship that you put it away but comes out in your sub-consious thoughts (dreams) and that has nothing to do with your current relationship unless there's some kind of conflict that makes you compare and then the dreams are for that reason. Don't make a big deal out of it because something that can be just an episode or momentanious can then become a consious problem caused by constant questioning over this. Think of it this way it could well also be constant dreams about lets say a old very special friend and maybe you dream about her but since it's just a friend you don't give it much thought, therefore the dreams go away, but the fact that it's your ex makes something little into the focus of doubt or questions. Don't let your dreams make you doubt yourself, let alone question yourself. "ITS JUST A DREAM". Good luck.
