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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
8,665 Questions
Is it right to speak with an ex-boyfriend after you are both married?
There is really no point other than to say hello. I would inform your husband that you spoke to the ex-boyfriend to show you are not hiding anything.
How can you get your ex wife back after you hurt her so badly?
There is a parable here: A man goes to his refrigerator in the morning, pulls out the carton of milk, opens it, and takes a long drink, only to gag and vomit it into the sink. He looks at the expiration date, two weeks past, smells it, shrugs and puts it back in the fridge, saying, "Maybe it will be better later."
The moral is, good enough reason to make an ex, good enough reason to stay an ex.
People can change, and often do, but typically people do not change enough to mitigate the reasons that lead to the break up in the first place. There is never a good enough reason to walk down the same deadly road you exited intact. Stay friends, fine; but, never let it go beyond that again.
Opinion:I know it's bad, but you have to make her jealous. I am a girl and if I saw my ex flirting with other girls even though I broke up with him, I would be jealous. I would think, "Whoa, he moved on before me?" so I would try to talk to him. So maybe it will work, I'm not exactly sure. Opinion:On to the next one.... Opinion:Do you really care for her? Do you love her? Does she love you back because if she doesn't you haven't a chance. You need to tell her how much you love her and don't be afraid to get a bit emotional, girls like to see the soft side of guys once in a while. Ask her if you treat her bad, and think to yourself, do YOU treat her bad? If so you need to start fresh. Ask her what else is wrong, and ask her what you are doing wrong and that please give you another chance to change because i love you and i need you. Just talk to her from your heart and it will work out Opinion:There really is not a for sure way to win her back that will work 100% of the time. But if you start by becoming just her friend again and then just wait till you guys are out of the friend stage again and try again... good luck. Opinion:It's pretty simple actually...Just get her alone and spill your feelings for her..mmake sure your sincere and gentle to her.Say nice things like "I was blind.I'm sorry we broke up I just want the best thing in my life back."How do you get a girlfriend jealous?
Look at other girls, say they r hot under your breath, talk to other girls, and basically do a lot of stuff with other girls.
How do you get a girl back after she broke up with you in a gentel way?
just go right back to the start, how you made her fall for you in the first place. make her laugh, hang round with her- dont change when your friends come, take her out, be there when she needs you, most importantly tell her how you feel.
What does it mean if your ex girlfriend accepts gifts from you?
If she is your ex girlfriend and she is accepting your gifts it is likely that she just wants the gifts. If you would like to get back with her it would be best to stop trying to buy her and find out directly from her is she has any interest in a reconciliation - if not then you will know not to waste your money anymore.
No he does not love you, he is just threatning you because he never got kissed. I am a boy I know it.
Why does my ex find the need to flaunt her new relationship in front of you?
The ex finds the need to flaunt her relationship in front of you, because she wants you to yearn for the companionship that you two once had. She also wants you to see what you lost and hurt like she once did through feelings of jealousy.
OK, first of all you need to ask yourself,
1) why am i with my boyfriend?
2) what makes this "other guy" so special?
3) do i care about my current boyfriend?
if you want any help with anything at all on this topic, just ask, im always happy to help people with this type of problem. trust me its not the first time i have dealt with it.
i am very optimistic and actually care about this stuff.
so if you like, msg me with the answers to those questions and ill help you as soon as i can..
What should you do if you want your ex back?
First of all...give them their space. If they still love you that is a great thing.
Read some books on the subject. They teach you how to make the right moves which will make him want you back.
When I first read the books I noticed that all of their suggestions were opposite of what a normal person would do. Once you read the books and start to understand what they are saying you will see that it makes so much sense to follow their ideas.
I ended up getting my ex back even after we were broken up for four months.
The blog that explains all of this is located at I was basically in the same situation. Before you do anything read some books on the subject before you make mistakes that you cannot take back.
The most helpful info that I found was at a website (look in the related links)
and I think that it saved my five year relationship.
It tells you exactly what to do without looking like a psycho or stalker.
if you are interested in checking this out.
Are some people destined to be alone?
It feels that way sometimes, but I don't think so.
I believe we sometimes get into a place where we're attracted to people that we're really not compatible with, even though it seems like we are.
It might be a good idea to try and figure out if there's a pattern to what keeps going wrong and work from there.
haha yeah he is jelous. people want what they cant have and him asking if you guys have made out is a big giveaway that he is jelous.
You really should pay attention ok this relasonship is important REALLY
It either means one of two things: 1) he loves you but doesn't wish to be in a relationship now, or 2) he's lying to spare your feelings. Perhaps he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, because he wants to see other girls or because he doesn't see your relationship going anywhere. Or perhaps he has developed strong feelings for you that make him feel vulnerable, especially if either one of you will be heading off to college one day, perhaps soon. With more kids going away to college -- especially girls, who now outnumber boys on campuses by a margin of 3 to 2 -- high-school relationships now often end in heartbreak for someone. In today's world, almost no one has a long-term relationship with anyone he or she dated in high school. So kids should be very wary about getting in too deep in high school.
How do you get over your first boyfriend?
Honey, I dont know what to tell you. Im still trying to get over my first boyfriend, and its been over 20 years. Some people you just never get over. They will always be in a special place in your heart. good luck you have fun and do what girlz do beat!!
Will a married woman ever leave her husband for another man?
it all depends on the situation and the woman. some stay with the husband even though they love the other man, either because the other man is not serious about them or he is married and will not leave his wife. others will leave and prefer to get a job and be single rather than live a lie. i have been a relationship expert and life coach for many years
Why does your ex want to ring you but does not want to see you?
Could be a bunch or reasons. 1. He or she could want to talk to you about your r/ship. 2. he or she may want to rekindle the r/ship again. 3. he or she might be just lonely & needs to feel good again. 4. he or she might be just feeling sexual & uses you as a lack outlet. 5. he or she could just miss you. without more information & details its too hard to determine as to why your ex would want to see you? ps I am happy to answer more if you provide more details.. or send a pm
Why would someone miss her ex-boyfriend and want him back after breaking up with him?
- During the relationship , you may not seem happy , and may always seem like you want to leave him etc. But when you guys actually break up , everything changes. You feel completely lost , and you just need him there. What I'm trying to say is.... when he's there with you, you don't care...when he's far away from you, you can't live.... Because she's even less happy without it.
- What brings a person back to their ex's , is that they can't let go of the past. They are still stuck in the past. Even though she may state that she wasn't happy in the relationship its clear that she does miss some parts of their relationship but won't admit it out loud. If you keep going back to the past its evident enough that you miss what happened in the past Going back to an ex is familiar ground, you don't have to worry about "first dates, how you look, what they would like," because you already know from your past relationship with them.
- Some girls want what they can't have. So if they have the boy, they don't care about what they have. They want what they can't get. So when they breakup the girl changes and wants the boy back. It goes through this cycle until they come to a solution, breakup or stay together. And also, if she really was happy in the relationship and just not acting it, that will shine brighter than the sun. She will feel lost, hopeless, as if a shadow has been cast over her life. They need the boy back, the sun, the hope, their guide.
Can a husband sue his separated wife?
The action in which people request that a court dissolve the marriage is a suit for divorce. Both the wife and the husband have the right to sue. Typically, the other party will respond to the suit with a counterclaim for divorce.
With the advent of "no fault" divorce, it is often unnecessary to prove fault grounds or reasons for divorce. Instead, the dispute typically centers around the division of property, custody and support.
Added: Simple answer - yes.
Tell him it is apparent something is wrong and you would like to work it out but can not do so without him talking. If he still declines to talk, let him know how you feel about him, but will leave him to his silence. This is assuming he is not depressed or physically ill. Communication is everything in a relationship. If he's unwilling to communicate what's wrong then you have to be the one to set the rules. Tell him you aren't putting up with his moods, and if he really cared and trusted you he'd have no problem communicating with you. If he still doesn't then it's time to hit the road and leave him to his own demise. By letting him get away with this you are enabling him to act in this fashion and who wants to be around a moody person constantly who won't give you one clue as to why they feel down about something.
How do you get her to believe and trust you again after she thinks you cheated on her?
Tell her that u didn;t, get proof, and tell her that u love her too much to even think about doing sumthin like that. and say babe im sorry if u think i did i could NEVER do that to u and just believe me when i say that i love you and that i wanna be w/ u and only u
What does it mean when your boyfriend doesn't tell anyone that you go out?
If you have only been going out with him 2-3 times he is not your boyfriend, yet. Yet, if you have been seeing him 6 months or more and he doesn't want to tell anyone there is a reason. When you date someone you go places together so usually people see you together, but if you aren't doing anything but sex this doesn't make a boyfriend either. I suggest you examine the relationship you are in with him.
How do you tell someone they are Not the one?
You just tell the individual that you care for him, and let him know that there is nothing wrong with who he is. It is just in terms of your compatibility that you two want different things and ultimately pursuing a relationship which in essence is "being in a relationship just to be in one" will lead to hurt down the road. If he's not the one, he's the one for someone else... just not you. Be strong, and think hard before you do this because you are going to have to be the strong one and deal with it and resist calling him to talk to him. You will also have to give him time to heal from it. Because no matter how you look at it, break-ups stink and someone ends up feeling rejected.
There are many reasons why a person is broke. One reason is that you may of had to pay a lot of bills this week.
What is a brother who has the same mother but different father?
If it is in the same menstrual cycle, it is called superfecundation. If it is later in the pregnancy it is called superfetation. They would still be fraternal twins even with different fathers (that is, half-siblings). This is known as heteropaternal superfecundation.
More unusual are "semi-identical twins". These "half-identical twins" are hypothesized to occur when an unfertilized egg cleaves into two identical attached ova and which are viable for fertilization. Both cloned ova are then fertilized by different sperm and the coalesced eggs undergo further cell duplications developing as a chimeric blastomere. If this blastomere then undergoes a twinning event, two embryos will be formed, each of which have different paternal genes and identical maternal genes.
More interesting is what the mother of these types of twins would be called.How many divorced people in the us?
It varies there is no average. Lets just say that because relationships are breaking more and more often and tragedies after the breakups can cause a lot of things to happen so i cant really tell you know one can
