Cheating

Because it is instinct to make as many kids as possible and move on, animals do it and it is genetic instinct, don't blame them.

This happened to me. I was cheating once with a woman that had a partner, turns out that she got caught out because she tried to teach him some of my little tricks that she liked. So if she or he suddenly gets better in bed this could be because they have a better teacher. Well, ive heard of that when theres a sudden decrease in the sexuall activity on the other persons behalf or sexuall drive, when they were active before, it could be also an indicator. Some men tend to either feel bad about what they just did and dont want to touch there partners because of that or some just tend to feel a certain turn off to there partner because they compare and tend to like better the third person and dont touch there partner. Be carefull if u suspect that your partner is in another relationship to the point of sex, protect your self be certain and stay away. Good luck. SELAH!!!

If you have some good evidence and you know that his lying to you, approach him and tell him what you have. Ask him why he needs to lie.

This is an extremely hard one because some people can be very evasive and sneaky about it and cover their tracks well. People who have to travel in their jobs have much more freedom to cheat on their mate, but not all people do cheat even after given the opportunity.

Here are some signs of possible cheating (these are the tried and true rules):

Working a lot of over-time and you can never get them by office phone or cell.

Forgetting important dates with you or special events in your life.

Always being late for dinner and never phoning to let you know they will be late. If anything this is a lack of respect for your time.

You can never get the person no matter where you phone.

The person cheating becomes distant and their minds seem to be on other things (constantly!)

Then their is the older .. the smell of perfume on their clothing or lipstick on a piece of their clothing.

Now, before you read the above and accuse your mate of cheating, be sure you can either validate or not they are not working late. Some men especially are terrible at remembering birthdays, anniversaries, etc. If they are abscent minded they can have a lot on their mind regarding work.

The best policy is to sit and communicate with your mate. If they are cheating and refuse to admit to it then they know you are onto them, and you may get a reprieve from this, but old habits are hard to break.

As I say, catching someone cheating is very hard, so tread carefully and keep your ears and eyes open and be sure you have evidence before you accuse your mate. If not, and your mate really isn't cheating then you have broken a bond of trust with them.

It use to be men, but the stats show women are running almost neck in neck with men.

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Statistic from what I had read and research when it comes to infidelity, married men who do cheat is at least 65%, and for those married women is at least 45 %, so you see no matter what the reason is or problem between a couples, it will be the man who will go to that direction.

Throw him back! If he is not on the same page as you, the relationship is not going to develop into a longterm thing. You can't change another person's feelings. I would say, have a fling with him, but he may leave you with an STD or worse, so you'll need to be cautious.

only you can answer that think well...do you really love your wife?

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Good question. Why don't you let your wife go, divorce her so she wouldn't have this pain. You just don't ask the question how can you control yourself from cheating. A married man who supposed to love his wife in front of God and their family wouldn't cross the path of infidelity. You're proving that you can't be satisfied with only one woman, you need to have more. Your wife do not deserve your betrayal.

Parents cannot consent to illegal activity. It is not against the law as there are no laws about what age you have to be to date, there are laws about sexual activity depending on the state. That is way too young to risk even a hint of impropriety, it could ruin the older one's life. And there really isn't a reason for someone in high school to be dating someone that young. In most places you have to be at least 16 to consent, if not 17 or 18.

To prove perjury you will have to convince a jury that some sworn evidence provided was knowingly false. You will need therefore to have access to evidence that contradicts the sworn testimony, and...

Honesty is the only way to go. Just don't start making a sandwich and pop your little surprise. Arrange for an evening along and then talk to her and explain how you feel and how sorry you are, but you had to be honest with her so she could be free to pursue someone else. It doesn't matter how well you put it you'll break her heart, but by staying and saying nothing it would only make things worse for her. If you have children tell her you'll pay child support and if you have a home, hopefully you'll let her stay in it with the children. Sometimes people just fall out of love. There is a warning attached to this though. 6 out of 10 men (or women) think they have fallen out of love with their mates and go ahead with their lives only to find that they miss their mate, want them back and it's just too late. The grass on the other side of the fence is seldom greener!

Most likely he is feeling guilty for something he has already done.

The woman is either called a wife, or an adulteress, depending on her relationship with the man.

That's always a tough one to answer, but usually it's best to not tell her. If you had an affair, and it's over, then what purpose will telling her serve? To ease your guilt? Don't cause her immeasurable pain and heartbreak just to try to ease your own guilt. This is something you will have to keep to yourself, and learn to forgive yourself for it, as well. Don't put the burden of forgiveness on her. Everyone makes mistakes, and everyone deserves a second chance. If this was a one time affair, and not a way of life (as in having multiple affairs), then you need vow to yourself to never, ever cheat on her again, and stick to it. If, however, this has been a way of life, then you need to think long and hard about why you did this, and then go from there. But you have to be completely honest with yourself as to why you did this. If your wife has no idea that you cheated, and you truly believe she will never find out unless you tell her, then no, do not tell her. It will serve no purpose. Most people think they would want to know if their spouse cheated on them, but until they've actually been there, they don't know the pain it causes. No, don't tell her unless you're willing to hurt her terribly and willing to risk losing her. But never cheat on her again. If you feel you want to be with someone else, then separate from your wife first, then go for it. But as long as you and she are together, you owe it to her to be faithful from here on out.

No. No matter what excuse he gives, the main point is that he didn't love you enough to say no to the other women. Nothing has changed since then. Your relationship is not on solid ground. ___________________________________________________________________________________ Not all advise is good advise! Some people react with myopic emotional prejudice without taking all the relevant information into consideration. Before following someone's advise you must consider all that you have to gain or loose. A good relationship is based on dependability, compassion, respect and compromise. You should determine if your relationship is worth it or not by your partner's ability to demonstrate these important qualities. You must determine how many years you can tolerate their worst characteristic becoming more intolerable as the passion you feel, diminishes.

By taking her into confidence. You will have to trust her before you doubt her. A happy married life is built upon a mutual trust foundation. If one of you doubts the other then the married life is meaningless. I would advice you to make close friendship with your wife and involve her in all your activities thus spending more time with her. Very soon you will get your answer. All the best

when you know someone well enough, and that pattern in their behaviour changes, if they spend alot of time with you but then suddenly they stop, without a valid reason, erm also constantly txtin, or there isn't enuff attention and love comin ur way - there cud be many other reasons for this behaviour... i never been cheated on so wudnt know i am guessin....

Just be simple and straightforward: "I'm not interested in getting with a married man."

• There is nothing much you can do when your spouse leaves you for another woman. No matter how heartbreaking it is dig in your heels and don't beg him to come back and start out by getting out with friends and having a little fun for yourself even if there are children involved. You can always trade-off babysitting with a girlfriend, but remind yourself that if you do have children that they suffer the loss of their father not living with their mother and often children may blame themselves for the break up and you will have to assure them that sometimes adults can fall out of love with each other and it has nothing to do with them. Remind your husband that you could get him on desertion and if you divorce him you will most likely get half of everything he has. If you want to wait at least seek legal advice and get child support (which every father should pay) or even support for yourself if you are not working. Most men who leave their wives generally do not stay with their mistress for too long (perhaps six to eight months if that and depending on the individuals) and a good percentage of men get it out of their system and want to come back to their wife. Sometimes people just think the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Don't ever let your husband think you cannot get along in life without him and if he wants to come back home get him to date you first before you allow him back into your life.

This will take all of your patience and time. There are books on this. Cheating is a Biblical reason for a divorce and there is a good reason: party #3 will always be a part of the relationship from now on. No human being can completely fulfill another human being entirely. (i know, tell Walt Disney, will you?) Without God no man (or woman) can be happy. Pray that God opens the door of your heart. Don't think it won't hurt either. Like i said. patience and time. Oh yeah - one more thing - someone else praying with you. That's me. (smile)

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Now you've done it. The worst thing that a man and woman can do is get involved on the job. If you want the relationship to end, why not try talking to the woman involved with you. If that doesn't work, perhaps a change of jobs might be a good idea. There's an old expression concerning women. The Scorn of a Woman is a man's worst enemy. Be careful how you handle this situtation because the other people in your office will take sides and you could end up being the looser big time.