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Cheating
This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.
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What should you do if your wife is committing Adultery?
Adultry is one of the biggest infractions of trust. In many cases that trust once broken cannot be replaced. It is also a major blow to a person's self esteem. This question cannot be answered by anyone but you. I would do some serious soul searching. You need to really look within yourself and ask can I stay with him after this? If you think that you will never be able to forgive him and move on then I would advise you to leave. If you think he is sincerely sorry and will not do this again and your love for each other is strong enough, I would say stay and make it work. Honestly, the decision is entirely yours. Look in your heart only you know yourself well enough to know what to do. Good Luck! I feel great sympathy for you.
There are two reasons. #1 You are loyal and believe in the institution of marriage, therefore you feel guilty for having an affair and #2 Whether you realize it or not he has brain-washed you. You have always hoped he would change and accepted his excuses for cheating and put up with his verbal abuse. I too believe highly in the institution of marriage and I was married to a cheating and abusive husband as well. I have a Christian faith as well, so that was double trouble for me. I thought about it (but not for too long) and realized that in order to be respectful back to your mate or anyone else they have to earn that respect just as we do. Also, God didn't put anyone of us on this earth to take any type of abuse and if you've really tried and your mate won't try it's time to say, "bye-bye." I am so happy you have found someone else. Go for it! I left my ex and never looked back. I have been married to a wonderful man for 33 years and I am so glad I made the choices I did. Whether you have someone to run to or you are on your own, staying in an abusive marriage is a waste of life. I wish you luck. Marcy
no Maybe or maybe not. We don't know the circumstances of the cheating, your ages, if this was the only time, or a string of affairs, is he repentent, are you ready to dump him for ever if it happens again? How can we answer a question with so little information? No. You can spend your precious time loving anyone you want. If you love him give it a shot! It's been two years and people MAKE MISTAKES and he may have matured by now and wants to prove to you he has matured. After two dates you'll know if he's changed for the better and if he has you can start a strong relationship and if not then you can walk away. As humans we need to gauge such things as someone cheating once because people do make mistakes. I have often posted there is zero tolerance for cheating and it's a chicken way out ... in other words people who want to date someone else have the option of being mature enough to tell their current girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/wife. Youth is about learning, so, he made a mistake and perhaps he's grown up. If you see everything in black and white then you could lose out on some great events in your life. Meet with him and see what happens. What do you have to lose!
How do you tell your girl friend you cheated on her?
- There is never a good way to tell someone you have cheated on them and although one can run a high risk of losing that someone by telling them the truth honesty is still the best policy. Try to express why you cheated and that you will never do it again. Humans are not perfect and we all make mistakes. Sit down one quiet evening or go for a walk together and tell them you love them enough to be honest and that is when you let them know you have cheated, but be sure to let them know you have learned your lesson and it will never happen again (mean it) and that you made a foolish mistakes.
Is an emotional affair the same as committing adultery?
Not if you have gone to far with that person, then i believe that it's not considered to be cheating.
(Firebrands)
AnswerYes! Because it's entertaining the idea and flirting with the idea of cheating! You play with fire you get burned!ANSWER;
Is it, gosh yes. Do you know the damage of emotional affair can do in your marriage, big time disaster. It doesn't matter if your husband said they haven't slept together yet, his emotional affair with this woman will be the start of their relationship. Pretty soon he will be talking to her about how bad you are in bed, even your not. He will tell her those little secret you told your husband. And with his action, this other woman will feel bad and sad towards your husband, and phase 2 will start naturally.
Everything I said here is true because it happened to me. My husband was dying to meet women that can be his close friends. He met one special one from the dating site and they become very close as soon as they met face to face. From there, the calling started and never stop for 2 months. When they see each others, they go on a date. During her days off he made sure that he can be with her till he comes home to us. They went to church together like man and wife. No secret between each others. And because of this the man I married fell in love with her, and that's when they start sleeping together. It was emotional and physical affairs that happened to both of them. I said this because since they met, my husband can't never start his day without talking to her first. He will not go to bed without talking to her first. And this are what broke my marriage to this man.
Should you tell the other man's wife if you are cheating?
Absolutely! (discreetly)
AnswerEverything I have ever read says keep your nose out of other people's love lives. You may be wrong. He may suspect and not want to face the truth, he may have given his blessing, there are all sorts of reasons why you should not tell.If he asks outright then perhaps you should tell but not otherwise.
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No you don't, first of all it's not your business even if you are the wife of the man she's having an affair with. Second; you don't know the man. The wife is the wife that needs to tell, especially if there's a reason why she went to the other man. If that woman is having the affair, she night have some reason, not that I'm on that "teach your husband " a lesson. Its not that. From my own personal experience I did that also because I have so many disappointing life, always alone, always waiting, wondering if it's going to be over or it will be my turn. So before you think of going to the husband, go to the wife and ask her why, she might surprise you with explanation. Most wives who end up with another man do have reason.
What do you do if you think your dad is cheating on your mom?
- When you dad is not home sit down with your mom and let her know you know she is cheating him on him and you disapprove strongly and you feel caught in the middle. Your mom may try to defend herself by saying it is none of your business or that it is between your dad and her. You have a right to communicate the fears you feel inside and it is your business! Have that talk with her.
How you know if your wife is cheating on you?
1. O.k if a guy is cheating on you you ask him why and see if he 1 was going tobreak up with you or 2 if he wanted you to break up with him so that way he didnt have to do it.(there are many other ansers but I cant say them all)
2. another thing that you can do that's more harsh is if he takes you out to dinner or a movie buy a drink dump it on him and leave
3.Dump the dude slap him and walk away
now before you do step 2 and3 make sure he is actually cheating on you or else you just ruined a perfect relationship.good luck!
talk to a parent or trusted adult and tell others about your depression condition so that they will talk to you
How do you know if your ex misses you?
If he misses you, he will call you and text you without you having to prompt him. He will make excuses to call and talk to you, he will make excuses to see you, and it will be obvious he misses you.
In general, if he says that he's too "busy" to call you or see you, it means that he's just not that interested. Even a guy who has had 2 hours of sleep and is entrenched in work will make the effort to come and see you IF he ACTUALLY missed you.
So if you haven't seen an effort on his part, just move on and save yourself heartache. Throw away his pictures, delete his pictures from your computer, don't call him (makes you seem desperate, pushes him further), don't talk to his friends, and seriously work on loving yourself again and work on finding someone that will truly love you.
You may think that guys can change, but this hurt will never leave you. If a guy truly loved you, you wouldn't ever have to even wonder if he misses you or if he is still into you. Even if it's hard, you must move on... if you ever plan on falling in love again.
Another answerAlso, if he stares at you all the time, flirts with you and calls or texts you all the time. Alsoif he really did miss you he would never have broken up with you in the first place, so he probably doesn'tWhat are signs that a relationship is unhealthy?
if following things happen, then it is an unhealthy relationship:
1. don't being in touch for many days.
2. secretly seeing other person of opposite sex out of the relationship.
3. not sharing things with eachother.
4. too many lame excuses.
5. less time together.
6. too many misunderstandings.
7. no trust on eachother.
6. no romance and sex.
How do you forgive your boyfriend for cheating?
You'll have to take his word for it when you feel you don't want to, and forgive him though that doesn't mean forget what he's done. You can't let what he's done dictate your whole relationship if you're truly serious about learning to trust him again.
Unless he's repeating behavior he did when he cheated on you, you can't have suspicious thoughts about him just because you want to.
However, piecing together broken trust is sometimes the hardest thing to do for a person, and at other times, near impossible. If you feel you can't do it, and you've told him you would, it may be best to let him and the relationship go.
Okay well first of all, if he never wants to spend time with you anymore then you know he is up to something. Usually when a guy hides his phone from you all the time then you know he's texting other girls. For the first couple months, everything seems so perfect until it hits to almost a year & everything goes downhill. Truthfully when he starts acting different or odd towards you then you know he wants to move on with his life.
How do you ask out a girl your friends with?
Start out simple. Just go for a cup of coffee or lunch. That's not usually considered a "date" and the stress and discomfort levels are quite low. Next, some evening you could suggest going to "get a burger" at a place that serves you in your car. It's still not a traditional "date" but it's approaching one. After that, tell her that you're really interested in seeing a particular film (pick one that really does look interesting and that you think SHE might like based on her interests but doesn't make you look like a wierdo) and that you'd like her to come along, "if she's interested". Once you do that, you're on a date and you can take it from there. Start a tradition of an occasional film together and work into a film and dinner, then you're on traditional dates.
How do you deal with your boyfriend's ex girlfriend after she found out that we had an affair?
You don't - if you two are together now just ignore her. Unfortunately it wasn't the way to go and chances are she is hurt but the best thing to do now is for both of you to avoid all contact with her and don't entertain her with any feedback, comments etc. Just move forward together and eventually when she realizes you two are moving on and not allowing her to bother you she will get the idea and stop bothering you. If you find she is just over the top and won't leave you alone you may want to look into a restraining order.
Why some affairs partner regret having the affair?
Yes and actually most of them love their wives during an affair - they don't stop loving their wife because they are involved in an affair. In all actuality they don't have feelings towards the "other woman" and have no intention of leaving their wives for them but act on their selfish needs without thinking of the consequences and make the mistake of giving in and very poor judgement.
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With this question it's really hard to give someones opinion. There are different kinds of love when it comes to someone or somebody. It also depend on the situation of the couples, there are some who supposed to be in love with the wife, there are some that thought they love their wife until another person comes to the pictures, and there are some that loves their wife but not strong enough to stay and be satisfy with her. I guess if we really concentrate on this subject, lots of us will loose. Men could tell us that they love us but their action will betrayed their words. When this happened everything they share will be question and both parties will realize that it's not really it..
If you have a long distanced relationship with your man how do you know if he is cheating on you?
There is a very low percentage of relationships culminating online. It's best to try and meet someone that you can see and talk to in person. The problem with meeting people online is you really never get to know them that well. Whether we realize it or not, when we meet a person physically our brain computes eye movement and general body language of that person. We "get a feeling" as to whether they are going to be a friend, lover, or bad news. You can't do that online, so there is absolutely no way you can ever know for sure if this young man is cheating on you. The only thing I can suggest is that both of you try to meet each other in person, and if that is possible then please have a parent, family member or a friend along with you. You don't know this person! There are lots of losers out there and some are dangerous ones. Be careful!
Who is the source of all truth?
Opinion: As a Christian I would say Jesus Christ. Read John 14: 6. You said What in your question, but I believe it should be Who.
How can you tell if your boyfriend is hiding something from you?
Answer:
-If their voice changes/sounds different than usual
-They might get angry over something small
-They want to be alone more
-Odd behaviors
-Choosing to do things out of the ordinary.
Hope this helps!
How do you dump a cheating boyfriend?
My boyfriend cheated on me and I was really upset at first, but then he told me how sorry he was and we are back together. I gave him a second chance but if he screws this up then you just have to tell him that you deserve better. If he cares he will come back if he dont care then he isn't not worth it. Well, my own experiences have shown me that the statement 'once a cheater, always a cheater' is a pretty fair statement. I dated a man for over 4 years. After he cheated on me a year and half in to the relationship, I decided to forgive him and work things out. He cheated on me again, which is what finally ended the relationship. As much as you'd like to think people are genuinely sorry and ashamed of their behavior, there is something inside of them that allowed them to stray in the first place. So basically, chances are if they cheated on you once, they'll probably do it again.
Love is a very precious commodity so why fight it! Consider yourself lucky if you have fallen in love and the other person feels the same way. We all have fallen in love with someone that doesn't feel the same about us, but, you move on until you find that right combination. You can't make someone love you back.
Does a married man love another woman?
it depends but if he has feelings for you than he realy does. on the other hand he might just need you fro sex. you can't just put all your trust in such a guy n you can't possiblibly be thinking that he will leave his wife for you. all he is doing is satisfying his self desire.
Sometimes women go through a time in their life when they like feeling appreciated by someone else; it makes them feel special. Your wife may just be 'infatuated' (feeling in love because of the happiness and excitement of something new) but the thing to do is talk about it with her. Her decision lays solely on the situation of whether this fling with this other person is worth losing everything between you two and, if you have children, your family.
How do you know if your friend is bisexual?
If he is your friend and you are his, just ask him. If he isn't making a move on you, it shouldn't be a problem. If he says that he is, he is the exact same person he has always been.
sometimes you really can't tell. but does he love shopping, have a high pitched voice, or like girly things? does he even look at hot girls or does he more often look at hot guys? check those signs
What do you do if your husband says his tired of you?
If your boyfriend starts spending more time with his friends, or seems less interested in doing things as a couple in general, he might be getting tired of the relationship. The only way to know for sure is to talk with him about how he's feeling.
What are signs your husband is cheating on you?
When he says "I hate you".
There are ways... is he distant with you......
has sex changed in any way... does he want to argue with you over little things. there so many I could go on and on. keep a check then he goes somewhere... if it should take 30 minutes,but he is gone 90 .... he will sometimes forget his style in bed and start doing things to you he does with JUST her... ALSO TRUST YOUR GUT FEELINGS
