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Cheating

This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.

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I found a letter from my fiance to a younger women on an overseas dating site and now I found him on local ones also to younger women and more letters but he denies it all?

  • Since you have found the letters from the woman overseas and also local young women then print them out and show him. He cannot deny what he has written or what the women have written back. Showing him the proof will not resolve your problem and you would be wise to move on in your life and free yourself up to meet someone who is much more loyal than your present fiance. You should never settle for less when you give the best.

What are the benefits of dating a married man?

They often have money and are good in bed.

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Sorry but not all married men have money. Most of them are working to support their family, especially their children. The only benefit that you can have from the married man you are having an affair with is he will make you feel special. He will be more experience in bed because of his wife. He might call you all the time because you are new to him not like his wife for so many years. But the rest belongs to his wife and family.

There are no advantages of dating a married man or woman.

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There are no advantages dating a married man. You might think that having an affair with the married man is awesome and fantastic, you better think about it first. Some married man have family with children some may not but either way it will be wrong and through God's eyes its an immortal sin.

If you are having an affair with the married man, one thing you need to know is you can't be seen in public with him. You will become his part time lover that will always be there for him when he needed you. He can't never stay with you at night like normal man. He can't be with you during weekend, holiday, and special occasion. In short the only place you can be with him is at your home.

In short a lot of married men are user. They don't care if you tell him that you wanted to spend a few days with him. But this are the only advantage that you can have being the mistress of a married man; you don't have to cook for him every single day. You don't have to wash his dirty clothes, hear him snore when he sleep. You don't have to put up with his attitude. The wife like us are the one that have this experience.

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None. Don't do it.

If you are getting married and you are playing around with another person is that cheating?

yes.because if you are about to get married to the person that you love a lot, and then you go and mess around with another person, yes you are definetly cheating on him or her

Its wrong to skip town if your baby mama cheated and got a boyfriend?

Of course it's wrong. If you are absolutely positive that the baby is your child, you need to develop a bond with that child. As a father, you have parental rights and those rights include being able to see your baby with liberal visitation. You are also obligated to support this child. After all, your baby mama cheated....NOT the baby!

Whatever you do, don't punish the child by losing contact. I understand that you feel betrayed by the child's mother, but you can't allow your feelings to reflect on the baby. Take the high road and make arrangements to see your child as much as possible and please don't be tempted to slander the mother to the child when he or she gets older. You are both the parents and need to be mature enough to put your feelings aside to help that child grow with as little "conflict" as possible.

Now, if you feel that the baby isn't yours because this woman cheated on you, that's a different story. Then, you need to insist on a DNA test. There should be no problem with your baby mama agreeing to this if she is positive you are the father. You don't even have to have this done in a clinic or hospital; they now have home DNA tests. Ask someone about them in your local pharmacy. They are relatively inexpensive and give accurate results.

Should you tell the spouse of the other woman about the affair?

You really have to weigh the pros and cons with divulging this information. If you do you have to understand this is could cause many problems as you may be going through yourself. Honesty is the best policy and the best thing would be to tell someone but you will have to decide if this will be the right thing for everyone in the end.

Why do some married men get 'too friendly' with other females when the wife is not with him and call it socializing?

  • Some married men love to flirt and feel other women are attracted to them. Confident men do not need to get 'too friendly' with other women if they truly love their wives and have confidence in themselves. Some men are just too into themselves and feel it's an honor other females are around them. It is not socializing when they get too close for comfort, but if they are just chatting about nothing in particular that is fine.

When it comes to your spouse love affair how do you deal with your anger?

  • A wife should never sit by and enable her husband to continue with his love affair. It demeans you; takes your dignity away; it causes hurtful feelings and thus, makes you angry and you have a right to be angry. In private one evening with the TV off sit down with him and be as strong as you can be and tell him this is the way it is going to be ... 'it is either your lover or me. If you can't choose then you are out the door and I'm filing for divorce and refuse to enable your behavior. If you want to save this marriage then break off the love affair and go to marriage counseling with me.' If he refuses then make good your promise and that will let him know you are not going to sit by and share your life with the 'other woman.'

Theres this guy hes your brothers friend and he always is touchin kissing and flirting with you does he like you his sis and brother think he does?

he just wants sex

If he is touching and kissing and flirting with you, And if I'm not mistaken you said his sister and brother think he likes you, Then yeah, I'm pretty sure he likes you. /facepalm.

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When you get the chance, pull him away from your brother or whoever he is with, and kiss him. I know it sounds kinda crazy but trust me on this. If he is touching you and flirting with you then he oviously wants something from you. After you are done kissing him ask him if that is what he wanted. I am assuming you are still kinda young so make sure he doesnt push you into doing something you dont wanna do (sex) while you guys are kissing. I wish you the best of luck!

If your girlfriend now wife got drunk and slept with another person and never told you until her friend did should you give her another chance if she recently walked 7 miles to prove she loves you?

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Once a cheater always a cheater, even with alcohol involved. you need to find out why she cheated if you want to fix the root of the problem and continue the relationship. the ball is now in your court, friend. Answer
If she only did this one time, try and forgive her. Women have secrets, secrets that our men are just better off not knowing. Look at this as a chance to bring the two of you closer. Things could be worse.

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Get rid of her quick and painful. She caused it. Do you want to feel like a sucker for the rest of your life whenever you think about her? Just walk away and change your phone number. Once you give your dignity away for free, you cant get it back at any price!
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Everyone deserves a second chance. She must really love you if she walked 7 miles just to get to you! Ask her to do more things for you until you're satisfied, at this point, only YOU can determine wether or not you still want to be with her.




Exactly how does walking 7 miles prove anything at all? A silly gesture says nothing about what she did and does nothing to make it better. There are plenty of girls who dont cheat. Why keep this one when you'll always have that memory driving you nuts. She screwed it up not you. Dont feel bad about ending it. Sleep with her friend, sister, or mom too. Keeping her around will only ever make you miserable and will make you miss your chance at someone better.

Stains in girlfriends underwear?

This will be a bit awkward to answer but here goes. Your wondering if your girlfriend is cheating because you noticed some stain in her underwear. Why are you insecure about your relationship with her, did she gave you some idea that she is doing it? And why in a world you have to look at her underwear.

Now here's the reality, and I'm not sure if you know this facts about women. Stain can be cost by discharge before or after her period. If the two of you have a sexual relationship, it will leave your girlfriend some stain. Try not to panic because your girl's underwear has stain. Remember man are different from woman.

Why would husband cheat on wife with nasty women?

Humans are a complicated lot and we all come with different personalities. Some men prefer rough sex, or rough women and want to be dominated while a higher percent of men prefer to dominate or at least be on the same level as their partner. You've probably spoiled your husband and although many husbands would appreciate it not all do. It appears he is taking everything you've done for him for granted and he's in this life for himself. He wants women to treat him the opposite ... nasty because he finds it a game, exciting and one he wants to win. He may also be getting wild sex which many wives perfer not to get into 'kinky' side of life. If he should come back or you want him back give him a gift certificate to an S & M club! LOL I now this isn't funny at all, and if I were you I'd move on. Don't sit around moping over the likes of him and YOU get out and get some type of a social life going. I know it's difficult to get back into the dating scene, but do what I did after I divorced my first husband, go out with girlfriends and things evolve from there.

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I could top that Ms. Marcy, maybe he wants his mistress to be nasty so when they have sex he can call her his B----! Ditto right?

What if an affair started off as just having fun then feelings got involved with mistress when she didnt expect it n she told him that after the affair ended n wanted 2 know when she got them y?

Affair is an affair, it doesn't matter how you see it, still an affair. If the two of you didn't talk about consequences the result will be messy. Yes it start as friendship, and friends can talk about anything, they will start comparing and sharing things. Before you know it, the two of you broke the path of friendship and become emotionally involve. Either way its all bad and people gets hurt.

When a lover password protects the cell phone that means they are cheating right?

might be. May be youre nature of checking the mobile of your men and he needs some privacy.

Can i cheat in lotto?

yes you can cheat it by means of probability

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No, you cannot cheat a lottery. It is random.

Is my boyfriend still in love with his ex wife. they have a child together but talk on the phone when the child isn't even home?

it honestly depends on what they are talking about. if you trust your boyfriend then there should be no problem, but if there is a trust issue then maybe you should be worried. but then again it really does just depend on what they are talking about!

Would wife have an affair while husband is in jail?

It could be very tempting for her after all she is only human and the husband is unable to look after her sexual needs. Needs and urges that are there regardless of being deserted by her husband.

Who first said if you're not cheating you're not trying?

This quote was by Mark Grace. Found this information in the celebrated book "Freakonomics", so you know whom to blame if the answer is wrong!

Will a narcissistic partner that flirts with women with and without you present eventually cheat on you?

It's a high possibility, as the narcissistic person doesn't care about anyone's needs or feelings but his/her own. Even if they don't actually cheat on you, you undoubtedly will still have a lack of trust in them, if they act this way with other people.

AnswerHopefully your narcissist won't be as bad as mine. My soon to be ex-narcissist cheated on me the whole entire marriage (4 years). He guarded his cellphone with his life!! Even though he kept it guarded, I was still able to hear messages and see phone calls that was made to his phone and the calls he was making to other women. Will yours do it? If he's flirting with women now....then eventually he will take it to the next step. Trust me, he's already showing you by flirting what type of a "dog" he is....hey, it's only a matter of time....warning comes before destruction!! Please take heed. AnswerYes, probably. Mine was quite brazen about it. He wanted to seem like a good person, so if he felt like cheating, he'd just start divorce proceedings. That way he could cheat without actually cheating. If he's getting a divorce, he's not cheating, right? WRONG! He'd have his affairs and then come back to me, his gravy train. In the end, does it matter if he's having sex or not? I mean he's at least emotionally cheating on you. Mine was so horrible, he would leave me at tables alone in restaurants to go flirt with other women and wouldn't even walk down the street with me when I was pregnant, in case one of his women he was interested in saw me. Don't put up with this! Just get out before things get worse.

Question - would these issues fall under the same category?

1. Chatting with other women in a very sexual or flirty manner, before and after marriage. He considers anything before marriage, whether it was a time of engagement or not, open season and that was not considered cheating to him.

2. Daily masturbation to porn. Knowing that this makes the wife feel extremely hurt and cheated on.

3. Flirting through email.

4. Maintaining friendships with past girlfriends.

He does all of this with the full knowledge that it is causing damage to the relationship and a person. Forget that its his wife. He is injuring another person emotionally.

Should I worry if I do not approve of wife taking cake to gym as a gift to her male personal trainer and his wife. It should be strictly training. She has had a thing for her previous trainer before?

  • Most women who have extra curricular activities out of the home either want to get themselves in shape; volunteer for a good cause, but a few of those women do so because they are not getting the attention at home they deserve and every human has needs. A married couple needs to communicate with each other (best tool in a marriage) to express how they feel and both try to resolve any problems they may have at that point in time. Since your wife has had a thing for her previous trainer that could well indicate she is unhappy at home and feels neglected. If the present trainer has his wife at the gym and your wife brings the cake to them there is no problem, but if she is just giving the cake to the trainer she may be again trying to seek attention. Instead of being so disapproving of her ways go for a walk or sit together one night just the two of you and without blaming each other or yelling get to the bottom of the reason why your wife feels she needs the attention of a gym trainer. It takes two to make a marriage.

When a guy needs space is he dating someone else?

  • Some young men may actually need space in their lives if they are not ready to commit to steady dating or getting engaged. They may feel the relationship is getting too serious too fast and they want to step back from it. Also when a young couple sees too much of each other one or both partners may begin to feel smothered or bored. No, when some young men want space it is not always about him cheating, but there is always that risk.
  • If a man wants space, he may not be interested in the woman. Although if he calls you when away, it could mean he IS interested. If you think he is dating someone, ask him outright. There are many reasons why people want privacy. You will just have to be upfront and honest with him as I am sure he can tell you why.