Cheating

Get her alone... and then get her drunk. Find out if she likes you first. Get her back first would be the clean way.

Because usually they don't love her-they love you, they were just being STUPID and looking for some extra you know what. They were being unbelievebly selfish, especially asking you to stay with them after that.

I would have to say yes i am a girl and that would mean that she might either be lesbian or bi and i say that you should dump her because if you are in a relationship then she is being un truthful to you and you deserve much better then that.

I think you must mean that you accuse him of cheating but he denies it. You have to know who "you" are. If you are a jealous person, you are going to have to try and get over that even if it means seeking out professional help. There have been many wonderful relationships ruined by unnecessary jealousy either on the man or woman's part. There is nothing that will ruin a relationship more than pure jealousy ... the accusations that come with it, and the suffocation of making the victim of jealousy fearful of talking to anyone. If you really do think he's cheating and he's lying to you, then you'll have to get proof. You can take a girlfriend with you and follow him. Catch him in the act. You'd better be sure though that he is cheating on you and here is how you can figure it out: If he keeps his dates with you If he is in close contact with you (no time to cheat) If he is respectful to you If you see each other often and go out on the weekends or just stay home together. But, if he's: Breaking dates Doesn't see you that often Isn't respectful of your time Doesn't ask you out at least once on the weekend Seldom calls you during the week then I would say he could be seeing someone else or prefers being single, but just hasn't let you know that yet. You have to make the decision here. Good luck Marcy

This is such a hard one to deal with.

Most of us can be quite attracted to another person of the opposite sex when married. If smart, just dream about it (your secret) and remain loyal to your spouse if you still love them. Marriage can get mundane, so instead of looking for others, take that energy and try making your marriage more interesting.

If you take time out (mini holiday) with your spouse and really make an effort then you will regain a one-on-one relationship again. Within time you will forget your attraction to the other individual in your life.

Most of the time the grass on the other side of the fence isn't greener and you could very well trade off something wonderful in your wife for a brief encounter with someone you think you are in love with.

It's easy to love someone else, because you gain the magic "of the chase" and all the frills that go with it, but it doesn't last for long.

It depends on the intent of the kiss, on what lies on the heart of the one who is doing the kissing.

yea... i think so....

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Wow, if your married and you are kissing someone, lips or cheek it is. And if you ask a man if what you did is cheating I think he will tell you that it's not. But to be more serious here if you have your husband or wife with you and this friend is right there, I don't think kissing a friend in front of a husband or wife is bad.

Always make sure that what ever you do when your partner is not with you, do tell so the trust will never break. Honesty is the best policy.

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If your boyfriend is convinced that you're cheating (and you're really not), then he obviously has security issues.

Try to see here that the real issue is not that you're faithful, but rather that he isn't emotionally mature enough to place any faith in you.

It is a lesson learned--by you. He knows he doesn't want to work on regaining trust--and in many ways he is wise. That is because people commonly repeat what they have done in the past. You move on and either do not cheat with the next guy or you break up before engaging in a relationship with someone else. It isn't always easy, but in the long run it saves hearts.

Probably but he can't do anything about it.

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Would he, good question. Maybe he can because this married man love his ex mistress, but he doesn't have that right. He knew that he was married when he approach her before the affair, so what ever his ex mistress was doing, he doesn't have any say on that. He also ruin her life and no one put a gun in his head to have an affair with the other woman. It's all his, no one else.

Most of the time we really never knew, but wondering if he is or not. One thing you can do is pay attention to what he does when his with you, if he is acting uncomfortable, wanting to use his cell, or maybe just want to go to the store for something, that will be some sign. But it will be a lot better if you come to him and ask him so that way he will realize that your getting suspicious of his behavior..

This is one of those things that seems like a paradox because if you love someone, how can you break up with them, right? The reason is this: just because you love someone doesn't mean that they are healthy for you or right for you. Most likely he's come to love you and at the same time there's something about you that he's just not satisfied with- most times it's part of your character. For example, if you're really talkative and he's not, he's going to think you're a chatter box and you're going to think he's cold and distant. In this sense you two are not compatible. It is one of the hardest decisions to make, one like this. In fact I've done it twice and I cried my heart out both times.

Generally if he's the one doing the breaking up for this reason it's because he knows himself and knows what he wants in life in a partner and you're not it. He doesn't want you to think that he hates you. He wants you to know that love wasn't the thing that was missing from your relationship, that it was something else.

Could it be that you did something in the past that hurt her. Or maybe something happen to her in the past before you came along that made her not to trust people. But you can do the right thing by talking to her. Don't let your imagination play tricks on you, talking is a lot more better than just wondering.

* nothing happened * he's just a friend * he's just a coworker * he's just ____________ * we were just talking * I was with ( insert girlfriends name here) * I have a headache * Im too tired * you dont meet my needs * I want to separate * I need space * I need to find myself * I was (insert bogus activity here) * I want a divorce word to the wise....Women won't leave something for nothing.(this means they dont leave one relationship (guy) without have another in the wings.)

* Don't second guess your relationship. You could have been hurt before and are afraid your boyfriend will cheat on you and this stress causes you to dream about it. If you are concerned then communicate with your boyfriend and ask him right out if he is cheating. If he looks uncomfortable; shifts from foot to foot; gets red in the face; won't look you in the eyes; goes into another room or slams out the door then you have something to worry about.

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If he gave you reason before and you him doing it, then you have reason not to trust him. But he is only hanging our with friends, maybe just shooting a breeze with everyone. I have 3 young adult children and most of the times their boyfriend and girlfriend also hang out with their own friends, some innocent friendship that they are not worried and concern. Give your boyfriend some space so that way the two of you will have the feelings of missing each others..

Just come straight out and be like, baby, Are you with someone other than me? if he gets really defensive than maybe he is. Im not going to say He is Cheating if he gets deffensive because He may just feel offended by your question and isn't just trying to cover it up.

About all you can do is have a heart-to-heart with your girlfriend and tell her you don't like what she's up too. If she ignores you then you should tell her you don't want to see her right now until she gets her life turned around because she is putting you in a very awkward position. Cheating is cheap! It's cruel what she is doing. If she doesn't want to be with her husband and feels the need to be with someone else she should have the guts to at least be honest with her husband and separate for a period of time or file for divorce. What she is doing is having her cake and eating it too. If you stand by and watch this you are an enabler. Good friends stick together, but they are also honest with each other and sometimes we all need a good thump on the head. Have that talk (in private) with your girlfriend. Ask her why she feels the need to cheat on her husband. It doesn't really matter what excuse she gives it's just that ... an excuse, and she wants it all ... her husband and the new guy. I wouldn't tell her husband at this point in time because you'll end up the loser no matter which way you go. Good luck Marcy

Because they claim that if we really love them we would forgive them for their mistakes but there's only so much a girl can take, if they really loved us they wouldn't be cheating in the first place right or wrong ?

Yes, he'll meet his match one day. "The head of the snake always turns around and bites you in the butt", meaning when you mistreat people or do harm to them then "you live by the sword, you die by the sword."