For the Love of Ray J

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you have to realize that she isn't a virgin, but she is with you now so its not that big of a deal, try not to think about it but make sure she is clean of STDs and not still attached to her last boyfriend

Try this article:

http://kuyakevin.blogspot.com/2007/01/what-if-i-find-out-that-my.HTML

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You just have to get over the fact that she most probably has been with other people. You shouldn't act different around her because of it otherwise she will end up disliking you because of it. You just have to live with it because it isn't going to change. You will get used to it. Don't worry and good luck! x

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it is hard but just relis she is with you now and she likes you not the person she lost her virginity to

To add to all the above answers: You have no business with who she was with before you. She's with you now so don't let her past ruin what you have. It was probably a big step for her to tell you that she isn't a virgin so be happy that she's that comfortable with you rather than that you aren't going to be her first.

I just found out that my girlfriend is not a virgin. We are in 8th grade. Just try to let it go. If she still loved that person, then she would not have broken up with him, but instead she choose you. She only loves you, not that othere guy. Good Luck