Grief Loss and Bereavement

Yes; but one has to be careful to make sure that the mourner has what to eat, as s/he should not leave the house (unless there is no food).

However, effort should be made that unneeded food doesn't go to waste. Try to give it away instead of throwing it away.

Indian culture deals death with mourn. They mourn for the loss of the families.

Everyone is different.

That is something everyone has to decide for themselves, but for the most part, I would say they are. Some probably do believe what they are saying, but it really can't be proven. They are always very vague or read clues you give them to come up with the answer you want to hear.

happiness or somethin like that

That's tough. Losing someone close to you is generally hard for most people at any age. All the talking or kind words don't make up for the loss. An adult will tell you that it will get better, but you may have a hard time believing that. Trust me, it will get better over time. Try not to think about it too much and try to remember the fun you had while you did have them in your life. That's all any of us really have when it comes to the loss of someone. You probably have other friends and will have more in the future. That doesn't mean you forget about the one you lost, but the hurt will go away and things will get better. As I'm sure the adults in your life have already told you. Sometimes, you just have to believe adults know what they are talking about. Don't hesitate to talk to an adult in your life about what you are feeling. Your parents, older brother or sister, priest, counselor at school, someone you feel comfortable with. Most of them will listen if you try.

You have to think: the past is the past, and there's nothing anybody can ever do to change it. But you can do TONS of things to change the future. How can you change the future? MAke a list of resolutions of everything you can control and start with that. It's no engough once you do that. You have to follow through with what you said. It takes a long time.

It is possible to suppress grief, but it is a very unhealthy thing to do, emotionally. Grief is a process that allows us to come to terms with loss, both consciously and -- more importantly -- subconsciously. Suppressing it can and likely will lead to emotional problems later in life. In addition the active suppression of grief at the time creates additional stress, not less, as one might think.

If it was your parents who just got divorced, you must be in great pain. Give yourself time to get through it and get counseling if you need it.

If it was a couple you know, try to be supportive but if your friend(s) need their distance, back off until they are ready to talk about it. Sometimes just listening to them venting will help, even if you don't agree with everything that's said. They're going through a life-changing experience right now.

People get divorced when they feel that the marriage is so badly damaged and that they are so incompatible with each other that to continue being married would only cause them more pain and discord.

Sometimes one partner is violent and abusive and the other must flee to safety (with the children if any) and use a mediator to obtain the divorce.

Some divorces are emotionally turbulent; some are quiet and businesslike if slightly melancholy; a few are actually parting on friendly terms, but those are admittedly rare.

In many cases, one partner cheated and committed adultery (had sexual relations with another person outside the marriage), sometimes both partners will have had affairs.

Sometimes people get married too quickly without realizing they're not really compatible.

Sometimes one partner finds a dream career far away from where they have their marital home, and the other knows he/she absolutely cannot move.

Sometimes it's after the loss of a child: by abduction or death by accident or disease, the process of intense grieving drives a couple apart rather than drawing them together. Some marriages don't survive tragedy.

Sometimes if one partner is very ill or is in an accident and becomes handicapped, the other feels overwhelmed and flees the marriage, compounding the trauma experienced by the other.

And sometimes one partner joins a fanatical political or religious group and the other cannot draw him/her away from it and must let go.

Sometimes the love is neglected and quietly dies.

In any case, divorce is a life-changing experience and both parties need time to heal, to be free to love again with someone new.

I am filling with grief. Grief is all I feel. We were in deep grief.

Hate

Well dying is a part in life. I know that people hate death, I do indeed. But we cant change the cycle of life. Because when something dies, something new grows.

I'm sorry to hear that you lost your wife. It just takes time to heal and when you're ready, life will be much better. There's no instant cure for what you're feeling. If you have any favorite hobbies or things you like to do, try spending time doing those things. Check the places in your area and see what is available for widows/widowers. Some groups take short trips together or attend other functions. Just taking small steps toward the future and making plans for tomorrow can help a lot.

Complicated grief is an intense and long-lasting form of grief that takes over a person's life. It is natural to experience acute grief after someone close dies, but complicated grief is different. Complicated grief is a form of grief that takes hold of a person's mind and won't let go. People with complicated grief often say that they feel "stuck."

For most people, grief never completely goes away but recedes into the background. Over time, healing diminishes the pain of a loss. Thoughts and memories of loved ones are deeply interwoven in a person's mind, defining their history and coloring their view of the world. Missing deceased loved ones may be an ongoing part of the lives of bereaved people, but it does not interrupt life unless a person is suffering from complicated grief. For people with complicated grief, grief dominates their life rather than receding into the background.

The term "complicated" refers to factors that interfere with the natural healing process. These factors might be related to characteristics of the bereaved person, to the nature of the relationship with the deceased person, the circumstances of the death, or to things that occurred after the death. People with complicated grief know their loved one is gone, but they still can't believe it. They say that time is moving on but they are not. They often have strong feelings of yearning or longing for the person who died that don't seem to lessen as time goes on. Thoughts, memories, or images of the deceased person frequently fill their mind, capturing their attention. They might have strong feelings of bitterness or anger related to the death. They find it hard to imagine that life without the deceased person has purpose or meaning. It can seem like joy and satisfaction are gone forever.

In dreams, death usually symbolizes a major change or transformation, such as the end of term, loss of a job, a life change such a marriage or childbirth, or simply the realization that one has left youth behind and become an adult. This particular dream suggests that the son is going through the normal changes of growing up, but feels as if no one understands him.

If the burial is private in Switzerland it considered proper etiquette to publish the obituary after the funeral. If the burial is to be made public, the proper etiquette is to publish an obituary a few days before the funeral.

• With adult grief it is expected that parents will die sooner or later before their children or, in some cases younger people have no reason to feel someone as young as a friend; sibling, etc., will die because of their youth. Although the grief is intense at any age when a parent loses a child it is a great shock because all parents go through life feeling they will die before their children and suddenly the shock of a child dying is more than most parents can bare as they have only had their child such a short time.

Germans deal with death in a similar manner to many other countries. A death certificate must be obtained and funeral arrangements made within 96 hours of the actual death. A person may be buried or cremated.

There are a few reasons:

1. Death in the family

2. Refusing to follow in parents's footsteps

3. Intermarriage

4. No longer wanting to be Orthodox

5. Not keeping kosher

6. Tattoos and body piercing

7. Not waiting until marriage to have sex

One way of overcoming vandalism is coming up with very secure security system. The use of the modern technology in developing some of these robust system is the way to go.

"Despair" means "to be helpless."

amygdala is a nut-shaped thing present in our brain.it helps us in reacting to situations without thinking. for example if suddenly someone starts attacking us, then the technical part of the brain will first think of all the possible outcome that can come with every type of reaction and till the time it decides which is the best reaction, we will be injured from the attack or dead but the amygdala makes us react without thinking about the possible outcomes of every reaction and results in instant reaction and if someone attacks us, we will be saved, even if our reaction is not the best.

Sean McGee?

Sean Murray OR Tim McGee maybe?

No*, but unless you are properly trained and can prove it, it would potentially open you up to lawsuits from survivors. Also, if you don't know what you're doing, you could do more harm than good by distracting people from more effective help such as Crisis Line and other suicide intervention programs.

Why not volunteer with them, instead?

*That could actually vary, depending on the jurisdiction, but in most places it would not be illegal, just unhelpful.