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Marriage
Marriage is a social union or legal contract between individuals. It is an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are acknowledged by a variety of ways, depending on the culture or demographic. Such a union may also be called matrimony.
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As the "People of the Book" Jews and Christians share a special closeness to Islam. It is therefore permitted for a Muslim man to marry a Jewish or a Christian woman - on the condition that the woman is PRACTICING her faith ( not just Jewish or Christian by name ).
Muslim women do not marry non-Muslim men. That is because of several reasons, like: children are influenced in religion by the father more, Mulsim women may be prevented from fasting because part of fasting is sexual abstinence and if her husband does not respect that he may be pushy in his desire for her, etc.
AnswerI am married to a Muslim man and his family has accepted me knowing that I am a born again christian. Before the marriage I had to agree not to have children, because the children would follow the belief of their father and there was no other way around this.Now as a christian the Word of God which is the bible says do not be unequally yoke. Well I have been married for 7 years and he has not become a christian. The married life is not easy, because it is not surrounded around Jesus and this makes a lot of mountains around the marriage. I would like to go church or bible study with the priest in my home but he cannot be.
- Think wisely let the Holy Spirit direct you in this. A marriage is a life time and you would like to have a one in fellowship.
Don't involve other people into this matter. First and foremost, you need to sit down and talk with your husband. You are right- a female coworker calling your husband for something other than business, especially in the middle of the night, especially drunk, is certainly not alright. You don't have to be accusing, but you do need to make it clear to him how you feel about it. He is the one she is calling. He needs to be the one to tell her to stop.
Dr. Babasaheb Ambedkar banned child marriage system ; but till date Uneducated people are continue this child marriage system.
Do filipinas cheat on their foreign husband?
The girls you send money to sight unseen are complete trash. If you go there, prepare to be ignored IF she even shows up at the airport.
Get yourself a Japanese girl. She might stab you to death, but man... the food.
Why was it bad to have a baby outside marriage?
In today society it is morally wrong to have a child when not married, however this doesn't make it wrong to have given birth it just isn't socially acceptable to have one. But to answer your question it's not a crime and legally there is nothing wrong with it.
Do you ever care what you are doing to the wife is the question! Cheating with a married man who has a wife and possibly children is plain wrong and I think you know that. By going with a married man you are hurting his wife and possibly childern. I can't understand why young women think they are the one and only in these men's lives and will win him over and snag him into marriage. It seldom happens. If he cheated on her, he'll soon grow tired of you and cheat on you too. Most young women are flattered an older man may have the hots for them, but the truth of the matter is these men are always selfish and aren't thinking of your feelings one bit. If what I say isn't true, then why is he hurting his wife? Do you think she honestly deserves this treatment? Don't buy in to the garbage he may tell you about "she doesn't understand me", "she's lazy", etc., because those are usually lies and ones to win you over. What are you going to get out of this? I'll tell you ... you'll get used, you'll lose your dignity and end up looking like a fool. If young women like you pick up these types of men and listen to the lies they are telling you then you have no one to blame but yourself. There are lots of single guys out there, so you have to ask yourself why you feel you need a married man. If you were smart you'd dump this guy really quick!
== == I think most women are in this situation for material reasons. Married men already have great experience with how to treat a woman and spoil her nicely. She sees them therefore as being far better as potential suitors than all the available single guys out there because they haven't yet stood the test of marriage. Indeed I think its very selfish for a girl to date a married man and she has but herself to blame. My guess is she's not looking for a permanent longlasting relationaship but a temporary fling she gets a kick out of.
Otherwise why else would she do that when there are a lot of single guys out there that are looking for the one true love of their lives and are willing to commit to one woman?
Do most married women in their forties cheat?
Good question. As a guy between 40 and 50 I can assure you neither myself or any of my friends would spend 5 minutes in a marriage with a cheating wife. As my wife has many friends and their husbands think about the same with me I would say few women would be cheating. The funny thing about this is that the women who cheated on boyfriends or had alot of boyfriends when they were younger are the same ones who think most people cheat when they get older. Also, usually the cheater ones are divorced long before 40. To summarize, I think the number of women married more than 5 years on their first marriage and over 40 years old is probally extremely small, say less than 1 in a 100
AnswerNo. There are surveys on the subject, but there is no truthful poll to suggest that most (meaning 51% or higher) women in their 40's cheat.No. He is married to Samantha Speeno and has a 1 year old daughter named Alana Marie.
Why would a married man after having a 8 month affair say it didn't mean anything it was just sex?
Having been that man before, there is only one answer. He's lying. I disagree to a point that ALL men who cheat for any length of time are lying if they say it's all about sex. Some men really love sex passionately and a man can love two women at the same time. Love one person with a passion, but the sex may not be as exciting or exotic as he may get from the other woman. Happens more than you think! Still, cheating is cheating and there are no excuses. He's using both of you so kick this guy to the curb!
What do you do when your wife cries?
1.) Ask her wants wrong
2.)Comfort her if shes mad and want revage
3.)just tell her she will be ok and i will have your back
p.s really you dont know what you should do for your own wife shame shame
There are three-(3) primary criteria in classifying the marriage process:
- Customary marriage
- Civic Registration
- Religious marriage
Customary marriage forms the basis of all three-(3) types. Inquiries are made by both families to ensure the the family of the prospective son-in-law or daughter-in-law is respected. Usually violent behavior, immorality, witch craft, incurable or contagious diseases, and insanity in a family are not approved. The customary rites or marriage ceremony, as practiced by the woman's ethnic group, are performed by the man's head of family, by the father or uncle or any member of the family who is recognized by the community as honorable.
Presentation and acceptance of drinks and gifts known as dowry bride wealth signifies the consent of family members to the marriage. It is also a sign or a token of support for the marriage and is used to compensate the parent for the loss of the services of their daughter. The dowry or the bride wealth does not represent the prize at which the woman has been sold to the man.
- Yes, for the majority women are the romantics between the two partners and they generally fully trust their husbands thinking that cheating by a husband happens to other people so when the husband cheats and breaks that bond of trust the wife is very shocked not to mention angry. No wife wants to find out that she has been secretly replaced by another woman.
Can a 19 year old and a 15 year old have a shotgun wedding?
There are a few places that will allow someone to get married under the age of 16. It usually will require both parental permission and a court order to get the license.
What sura in the quran mentions 4 wives?
It is the Qur'an sura (or chapter) number 4, verse number 3. It says:
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Meaning English translation:
{ And if you fear that you will not deal justly with the orphan girls, then marry those that please you of [other] women, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one or those your right hand possesses. That is more suitable that you may not incline [to injustice]. (3)} [Quran, chapter 4, verse 3]
How do you cope with being ignored in a marriage?
Carry on and Ignore it This happens to me quite often, as I am a contractor working with in-house staff. I always try not to take it personally (it's not), and focus on the job at hand, or turn my thoughts elsewhere, even though many times the group talks quite a bit amongst themselves; after all, they have been with each other for many years before I came along, in most instances.
Yes! Carry on and Try to Ignore it! Many may be involved in their work and not even realize that they haven't given a polite greeting and provided a kind word, but this is not your problem. Remember, days at work are busy, and then many are in a rush to get home, run errands, attend other events, etc. Most likely, it is not personal. If it truly matters to you, listen.
When they speak of family/friends, remember names and important events in their lives, then ask about it later. Also, humor, especially at work, is essential. It is a great tension reliever that is a positive and memorable experience. (However, be careful with jokes about the boss ;)....)
If you have to ask this question it means that he doesn't have any real desire to make it work. He's probably just screwing around while avoiding his responsibilities, and it's often times a financial decision. Make an appt with at least two lawyers in your area that specialize in divorce and family law. If you can afford to pay for an hour of their time, do it. If not... see about 2 or 3 that will allow a free consultation and make a list of questions. Ask them all the same questions (like what financial or legal benefit could my husband benefit from by prolonging the marriage and stringing me along?). Also ask them what YOUR pros and cons might be for keeping the marriage legal (like some states require you be married a certain number of years before you are elegible for spousal support). It sounds like you want the marriage to work, so be honest with each lawyer and tell them that. But tell them that you want to be knowledgeable about your choices should you not be able to make it work. Seriously. I have given this advice to a half dozen friends (both male and female) over the years and those who made appts and met with at least one good lawyer? They were shocked to learn some little legal loophole that might have been having a huge effect on their lives. Good luck. If he truly wants to make it work he will show it through his actions, not his words. If they words and actions don't line up... be realistic and be prepared. Confide in God and a few incredibly wonderful friends and family members. You need them with you right now.
Get a marrige therapist, and if that does not work after a while then divorce him, if he does nto or refuses to change
This should have been in your divorce decree, if it was a pension from the company he works for. However, the pension rules may not allow it to continue to a divorced spouse, even if he is willing. For Social Security pensions, you can receive benefits if you were married over ten years, based on his income. However, if you remarry before you are 63, you are not entitled to a portion of your ex-husband's social security benefit, but rather the best of your own or the new husband's. This matters if you were at home all those years and the next guy has not earned as much; mine differs by about $500 a month. You will need to know the husband's social security number to get benefits when you retire.
Why would a married guy need a mistress if he's getting sex from his wife?
I would guess variety and an ego boost
What are the contemporary threats to marriage and the family?
Infidelity, debt, alcoholism, drug addiction just to name a few.
Before you read this, you should know that my only qualification to answer your question is that I have gone through it. I am a 50 year old recovering sex addict that was involved with pornography and internet sex. I would never have been able to recover from it without the love of my wife, and the love of God, who has provided forgiveness for my actions, and healing for my wife. If you feel I'm suitably qualifed to answer, read on.
First, you have to ask yourself if you actually want to save your marriage.
If you do, the only way to rebuild trust that has been broken is to be completely honest and truthful. If you lie about anything else, she will know and you will get caught. You're already on shaky ground; your wife will know that she can't trust you about anything. and that's the best way to make sure your marriage goes south for good. You've cheated on her and broken the trust relationship you should have had with her... she deserves the truth now.
If she's willing to give you another chance (and that's a big if), then your only chance is to come clean about everything (I mean everything - names, number of times, how long it lasted, where, etc...) The only exceptions with which I would advise caution, are details for which she is asking that would not serve in healing your relationship (the type of acts you committed with the other woman/women for example). Such details could drive a wedge between you, especially if she were to feel that she could not compete with the other woman/women.
In such instances, you need to be careful about how you say this, but you need to try and explain that you feel that these details would not help matters between the two of you, that she's already hurt, and that such details could only serve to hurt her more. Explain that you understand why she would want to know "everything", but that you would rather not cause her more pain than you already have.
If she insists, as she is likely to, you can say something like: "listen, let's take 24 hours to think about it, and if at that time you still feel it is absolutely necessary for you to know these details, then I will reveal them to you." Then do it, and answer all her questions.
Remember that you're the one who has hurt her, and that you now have to take your lumps. You provided for yourself at her expense when you cheated - now you have to provide for her. She will be angry, and will be expressive about it. You will have to suffer through it - not like a martyr (because you're not), but like a man whose taking responsibility for his own actions and is willing to humble himself for the woman to whom he has pledged his love and his life, and has failed to live up to that commitment. If you can't do that, you probably shouldn't be in a marriage relationship.
Even with all of that, your marriage may not get through this, but that's the only chance.
I need to add that there is a spiritual side to your marriage that needs to be addressed as well. Marriage is an institution that was created by God. He made it that "a man and woman will leave their mother and father and will be joined as one". Faith in God, and repentance for your sin against your wife and against God will help. If you are repentant, God has alread forgiven you. If you follow what He asks of you - put Him first, your wife second, your family after her, then everything else, your marriage is in a lot better shape to last. Remember that an affair is the result of following the desires of your flesh - you're only doing it to please yourself. In the eternity of God, your flesh will last but a heartbeat. If you lead your life trying to please yourself, you will have nothing when this life is over. Seek out a good church, and follow God. He is faithful in providing all that you need - including the forgiveness that you desire, and the healing that your wife needs.
A good resource for you to read is a book called Every Man's Marriage, by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker.
Good luck and may God look over you and your marriage.
Richard.
