Marriage

A widow is free to revert to her maiden name if she wishes. In general, people can have the name they want.

The best thing you can give in a relationship whether dating; living together or married is love; honestly; loyalty and good communication skills so that when problems arise (and everyone goes through problems in their relationship) the two people involved feel comfortable talking about those problems and both form their opinions and each mate should take a little of each others opinions and work on the problem. Sex is important, but is not as important as being true to your mate or those good communication skills.

It's hard for both parties to ever feel normal again after an affair has occured. The cheater probably feels like they were getting affection and attention from the third party they cheated on their spouse with. And the "cheated" feel contempt and anger towards the spouse or partner who betrayed them, but also dealing with feelings of anxiety, pain, shame, and a whole mess of self esteem issues to boot. If your wife is rejecting you, it's probably because to her, the wound is still very fresh and new. The recovery process is such a long process, that for those who don't want to put the work in, should probably get out of the relationship. But, if you are willing, here is some ways to help with the healing process if you are the cheater:

1. Do not pressure your partner to be intimate with you. Being intimate takes trust, and if you don't have that anymore, intimacy is not going to be there.

2. You may find yourselves arguing constantly about the affair. STOP THAT! I know it's hard, but keeping affair talk limited to a therapy office is key in healing the relationship. If a therapy office is not available, agree with your partner to make time for you two to talk about it. I recommend one hour a day (if necessary) then leave it alone.

3. If you are the person who cheated, you are probably wanting to immediately put it behind you. But let me tell you, many tiny little things can trigger your partner into reliving or thinking about the affair; it's essential for you as the person who wants to heal your relationship, to listen to your partner about their feelings regarding triggers. Let them vent (cussing and being volitile toward you is NOT venting) if something triggers their mood to change.

4. Some say disclosure about EVERYTHING is bad, but it depends on the person. If your partner can handle it, give them the respect by telling them about it. You can judge how a person is handling the situation by using the one hour a day rule. If they use that information against you later in the day, then they clearly can't handle it, and it's best to speak with them about changing disclosure rules. Setting boundaries is good (i.e "I will agree to disclose how the affair happened and my feelings about why I think it happened, but I will not disclose the sexual events").

5. Above all, be patient. Getting over an affair is the toughest situation. Some can heal from an affair, but some can't. There should not be a timeline for healing. Everyone heals differently; however, if it has been longer than a year and it feels as if the relationship has not made progress, it is best to seek professional help for the relationship.

Feeling attractive for yourself is going to take sometime. It's all in how you help your partner heal and repair. Doing small things for her and making her feel special will eventually help aid in making you feel special. It's hard to look at it this way, but an affair is a very selfish act. If you are truly wanting to heal your marriage from an affair, your needs need to be put aside for your partner's. No one makes another person cheat, it's an act that is done out of selfishness. If you are unhappy with your spouse, get out of the relationship, and gain some independence for yourself before moving on with someone else.

Yes, it can work.

This question should really be answered after a visit to a good relationship councillor, such an expert would need to be given ALL the personal reasons!

I was looking at his sisters myspace page and it looks like he is. There were pictures from the wedding on her page.

Wrestler Chris Jericho got married on July 30, 2000 to Jessica Lockhart. Chris recently returned to the WWE after being away for a few months.

Regardless of anything she says to justify the "slip" it means the woman has strong intense feelings agout the other man. It also means that the woman, at that moment, is with the other man in her mind. She has not gotten over over the fact that she is no longer with that man. It is a bad sign for the current man.

hes not interested in you anyway love...

if he was you'd be chit chatting with you and all that jazz and perhaps consequently you would discover wether or not wermager is...give up the dream. there is none...

Without knowing more its a tuffy. How long has this been going on for example. I would remind him of your history together 20 years for god sake. You cant just get that instantly with anyone. He would have to build a trust with someone who would be distrustfull of him to begin with for leaving his wife of 20 years at the drop of a hat. Plus who would take a misery guts like him crying all the time and not knowing who he loves. Is there children involved. Be supportive and gentle and caring but give him a kick in the pants dont let it drag on tell him to act like a grown up, not a man, men can cry. Tell him you demand to know he loves you if he doesnt be tough tell him you cant live a life with someone who doesnt love you and hint your still open to see a councellor with him. Tough love here. It sounds like this is a good time to seek counseling... It appears that this relationship isn't beyond repair and sometimes some deep communication in a safe environment can be beneficial. Good luck!

it"s legal, I know of such a case- but Church custom frowns on ( novelty weddings) it does not, however violate any canonical norms. a Wedding on, say a Tramp Steamer, even if performed by a Priest- would - as the ship is on the high seas and outside of any parish boundaries! can"t have a diocese of the 42nd paralell. This objection would not occur at a fixed house or dwelling- perhaps the Bible Line about- In My Father"s House- there are many mansions-would be appropriate.l God is all Around- but it is preferred to do his Sacred Missions- In the Church. a similar objection ( not quite a red-line ( or diriment impediment) band would apply to a wedding mass celebrated in a Park, for example. here , there would be the question of sanctified ground. look at it at face value- Church Wedding- is Inside the church- the building edifice.

Well actual its the opposite because many people from broken homes mostly boys feel that there if they have children they should never go through what they've been through and promise that to themselves

• You husband should have a good physical checkup by your family doctor. Men go through Andropause (a type of menopause from 40 years and up) and their hormones can be all over the place. There are also other things to consider such as high blood pressure; diabetes; etc. If your husband is on medications check out the side effects of these medications as some medications can cause a personality change. Please communicate with your husband and discuss his behavior with him and see if he may have any pressure or signs of depression. If your husband has had his checkup and medications are not the problem then in your discussion let him know his behavior is unacceptable. Sometimes men keep their daily pressures to themselves and as his wife try hard to discuss with him what is wrong and perhaps you can alleviate some of that pressure.
  

incompatibilty....are u kidding they come out like every week, and that really isn't stretching the truth. So many people love to watch about funny relationships lol.

Twenty states require couples to wait a few days after applying for a marriage license before they receive the license:

1-day Waiting Period: Illinois, New York, South Carolina, Delaware.

2-day Waiting Period: Maryland.

3-day Waiting Period: Alaska, Iowa, Kansas, Louisiana, Maine, Massachusetts, Michigan, Mississippi, New Hampshire, New Jersey, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Washington.

4-day Waiting Period: Delaware if both of you are nonresidents.

5-day Waiting Period: District of Columbia, Minnesota.

6-day Waiting Period: Wisconsin.

I think you mean "doppelganger". It has nothing to do with relationships. Here's Wikipedia's definition: "Doppelgänger" has come to refer (as in German) to any double or look-alike of a person. The word is also used to describe the sensation of having glimpsed oneself in peripheral vision, in a position where there is no chance that it could have been a reflection. They are generally regarded as harbingers of bad luck. In some traditions, a doppelgänger seen by a person's friends or relatives portends illness or danger, while seeing one's own doppelgänger is an omen of death. In Norse mythology, a vardøger is a ghostly double who precedes a living person and is seen performing their actions in advance.

You probably need to mature more. If you're young it's normal to be attracted to a semi-handsome guy (that's youth) but, the smart women fall in love with what's inside the package. Marriage should be for a life time, and looks fade! My father told me this, "Marcy, you'd better work on the inside because beauty fades fast." How right he was. We will all age and our faces and bodies will change, but, if we are in love with our partners we seldom notice those changes and just love each other. I've been married 34 years and to me my husband looks the same as he did when I met him at 23. Oh yes, both of us are a little more achy, have a few wrinkles, his hair has receeded, and my hair has gone a little gray. The lucky part is we are both slim and eat well (blessed with good genes.) I wouldn't trade him for the likes of Tom Cruise or any other man for that matter. I trust him, he sweet, kind, generous, loving and he's my very best friend and I have it all and know it! The question is, "who are you trying to impress?" Why should you care if he's super good looking. It's what's in the heart and the soul of the person that counts. I've dated male models, lifeguards, etc., and most of them were a pain in the butt and sub-zero personalities. I'd take a guy any day that isn't a "pretty boy". There are very few good looking men out there that have a good heart (there are a few) but most are so caught up in their looks and the attention they get from the opposite sex they don't have time to work on their personalities. To tell you the truth I like people with imperfections (both men and women) because it gives them character and I get plain sick and tired of seeing these perfect #10s (surgically altered 98% of the time) blond, blue-eyes, and gleaming white teeth cruising around like peacocks. They begin to all look alike and blend in with each other. Don't marry this young man if you feel you are doing him a favor or don't want to hurt him. You should take a couple of weeks off from each other and YOU should do a little soul searching. You've got to thicken up that frail character of yours girl! Good luck Marcy

1800's

Moses was married to Jethro's daughter.

Sandra L. Holland-Pearson?

In the United States each individual state has its own marriage laws. Historically, each state respected the laws of every other state. If a couple was considered legally married and moved to another state, their marriage would be recognized by their new state.

In other countries the marriage laws are both federal or regional depending on the particular country.

In turn-of-the-19th-century Boston and other large cities, there were many cases of upper class women co-habitating. Usually they shared the same college education level and social class background. Some suggest that these were actually lesbian relationships.

Persephone wasn't really MARRIED to Hades... She was abducted by Hades, but she hated the living crap out of him. In a way, I guess she was married to Hades, but not officially.

If a notary is allowed to perform weddings, the relationship does not matter. It is legal for a notary to perform weddings in Florida.