Marriage

Judaism does not proselytize or seek converts, but it does accept sincere converts. Conversion for marriage is not a sincere reason. So you see, converting without the factor of an upcoming marriage is actually preferable.

Being African-American has nothing to do with it.

Conversion is a life-changing and very serious undertaking and a potential convert should think it over carefully. It must not be done on a whim or because of temporary circumstances. One who converts is expected (from then on) to live as a Jew.

YES!

Answer

I believe that it depends on A) the individuals and B) if we're talking religiously or not.

A) Some define Adultery as being, extramarital sex that willfully and maliciously interferes with marriage relations. Some say that it doesn't have to be sex, but that it simply has to interfere with marriage relationships. So how we interpret "interference" would depend on the individual.

If a man kisses another woman/man, and his wife is perfectly fine with it... does it really cause an "Interference" in their relationship? If a woman kisses another man/woman, and the husband is perfectly find with it... was there a disturbance?

B) People today tend define it as any act of sexual intercourse outside of marriage or, perhaps a bit more narrowly, any act of sexual intercourse between a married person and someone who is not their spouse.

The only problem is, is if we're talking religiously... it can be interpreted a hundred different ways... simply because English was not the original language the Bible was written in, and so already it has been interpreted.

Here are a variety of opinions:

• In my opinion, I have further Evidence Dream Marriage is a not right should be prosecuted in the USA.

• My friend and I both joined dream-marriage.com. In my opinion, we can confirm this site is a SCAM.

• In my opinion, here is some more conclusive evidence:

1./ Dream Marriage is writing the letters in reply NOT the girls we write to!

My friend is a lot older than I totally different looks and lifestyle our profiles and letters to the girls on Dream Marriage are poles apart... he is a multi-millionaire with pictures driving his new Bently. I am poor with pictures driving my VW but

We both get identical letters in response from the same ladies, the only change is the name at the beginning of the letter in reply..

2./ Dream Marriage is writing the letters in reply Not the girls we write to !

We have had identical responses within 12 minutes of us sending a letter to the girl.

We compose 2 totally different letters from 2 totally different guys.

We send the letters to Dream Marriage in the USA where these letters are supposedly translated into Russian and send to the girl's agents office in the Ukraine who contact the girl.

The girl then receives our letters reads them and writes a reply in her Russian language and send these replies in Russian to her Agent in the Ukraine who forward it to Dream Marriage in the USA who translate the letters to English and then send these letters to us here in Australia.

ALL THIS TAKES IS 12 MINUTES.

Absolutely amazing ?...

NO it's IMPOSSIBLE!

Im my opinion, DREAM MARRIAGE IS A LIE AND A CON and their actions are ILLEGAL both in the USA and in my Country. BE WARNED DO NOT SEND DREAM MARRIAGE MONEY !

• Here is a selection of others who feel seriously aggrieved:

1. In our opinion, dream-marriage.com are scammers do not trust them!!!

2. These people make me sick!...there are so many genuine, lonely guys out there who maybe just want another chance to find happiness before its too late. I saw the advert for dream marriage and i must say that initially it looked convincing. Fortunately i registered but didnt subscribe immediately. One week later i have God knows how many Emails and my `messages` from beautiful girls in their 20`s have amounted to 440!...I`m a 50 year old guy and i know that there is no way that this amount of messages can possibly be genuine! This should be the warning sign to anyone. Russian women may prefer a slightly older man but even they have their limitations and they are getting fussier all the time regarding age requirements. It would im sure be quite rare for a 21 year old Russian beauty to be interested in a 50 year old man let alone a couple of hundred! Lets get a reality check guys, i know its flattering to apparantly receive all that attention but its a sure sign that the site is a scam! You only have to compare the response rate from a genuine site like Elenors models to realize this.

4. In my opinion, they are without a doubt a scam. I got curious and signed up to see just how bad it was. I'm not a bad looking guy, I stay in shape and what not, I don't fit the normal profile of men they see online normally. Anyway within the first 24 hours I received over 720 emails! Ok I'm know I'm not a bad looking person and I do stay in shape, but please if I was Brad Pit I could understand that many emails THAT fast.

Of course I didn't sit there and read all the emails, I did pick out 1 and responded to it (a beautiful young woman in her early 20's, I'm in my late 30's). I picked out one of the few profiles that didn't have the normal stripper type pictures posted. We exchanged a few emails, chatted a few times and she seemed real enough, actually she seemed like an honest person. Now during this time I'm still getting hundreds of emails a day. I mentioned to her that I thought the site was a scam (seeing what response I would get) and she would say "when we meet, I'll tell you everything". I went along with the cat and mouse game for a bit.

The next day I set-up a fake profile with a picture of a man who looked like a male crack head, who looked like he had been beaten with the ugly stick since birth. Well the fake profile with the drug addicts picture got over 200 emails in the first 10 hours!

Now back to the story, before I could tell the young lady whom I was talking to about the proof I had that the site was a scam, she sends me a message saying that she has a surprise for me. I have no idea what she is talking about, but then I looked over in my personal email, my private email, and I saw a letter from her. In one of our conversations she asked me my full name, I didn't think much of it and gave it to her, anyway at that point she looked me up on Google and found me. She had done this same day I gave her my name in chat. She had seen all my pictures and such on my myspace page and other normal social networking sites and she knew what we talked about in chat was the person she found on the web. I had told her while we where chatting that I was only talking to her and what not. She confessed to having 7 other girls write me and send me pictures to see if I responded to them to "test me" as she put it. Once I had passed all her test sort of speak that is when she decided to contact me for real.

The first thing she told me was the truth about the site, keep in mind I have told her nothing about my "fake drug addict profile" at this point. She told me that the site sends out intro letters for them and they are required to answer every letter. They are required to sit and chat with guys for hours and only show interest in them, the normal tell them what they want to hear scenario. She confirmed that at best 5% of the women that are actually on the site are real, the other 95% of them are just working. She admitted to falling into the 95% of them, it was just a job.

Funny ending, I originally went on that site to see the extent of the scamming going on after reading all the reports, you know like having to slow the car down and check out that nasty accident. She was on the site just to do a job and never intended to meet somebody that actually interested her. Now we talk on the phone daily and chat daily on a mutual free site of course with no agency involved. She's still in shock that she met somebody she actually liked at work, much less somebody 15 years older then her, but don't be fooled it is just a job for them. Being on that site is their job.

Before you ask, I'm not a rich guy, she didn't look me up on the internet and find out I had all kinds of money or anything (I'm lower middle class at best lol), she just said I seemed like such a "normal" person with a real life and that it got her interested in me, that I didn't come onto her with sex on my mind. Also mentioned if more men where as respectful and normal in their conversations that she could see how more women there to scam would find themselves in an odd position, to actually end up liking the guy the originally set out to scam.

P.S. this is also one of the VERY rare cases in which the woman in the photo's was actually the girl I was talking to, this really caught me by surprise. First question I asked her when she confessed, because I know they can "fake" the video chat on the agency end. I thought there is no way this is really her, but she has since sent me many photo's and we have video chatted together through my personal web server. I have to admit that REALLY surprised me.