Abused Men

No, it is not! It is a type of physical violence and abuse. the same as a boy hitting or kicking a girl, and could cause the boy serious injury. If an adult witnesses such an act, or it is reported to an adult, the girl should be punished.

Physically, mentally, or abusing another person in any way is in no way cool or acceptable.

You don't know how to read me means that he or she can't understand you or get to

your point of view which you think is important to but he or she is not paying close

attention to!

Abuse is any pattern of injurious behavior repeated despite the protests of the victim and her explicit requests to stop.

Preferring his family of origin to you can be injurious and, under certain circumstances - if done flagrantly and deliberaltely - is abusive.

My abusive ex boyfriend usually choose his family, especially his mother, over me in EVERYTHING!

He not only chose them, he also got them to hate me because they believed his lies. Oh, and of course, they were ALWAYS around when he (as only abusers know how to do because I wouldn't have the first clue) looked like the victim and I was the abusive one. Digusting really.

I guess it would really depend on what the partner is doing in these situations to fully answer your question.

I would think the answer is "yes" because when you are constantly denied your right to your opinion on how to "make it better" or to "make it stop", it eventually leads to violence. I have been married for 15 years to a man who was raised by a narcissistic father and co-narcissistic mother. All he could ever see was their side of everything or keeping the peace. They would start the problem and if I was upset they would begin another problem because of how I was feeling. They ruined every celebration we ever had. Our marriage was all about making them happy and meeting their needs on a daily basis. My husband and I never fought about the laundry, toothpaste or the kids (we have 3 sons). We only fought about his parents and I always had to have them in my life no matter how bad or how sick the situation they created was. Whenever we were invited to their home, I did not want to go (no right of refusal) and he would harass me, follow me around the house screaming and yelling at me because they were his parents and I did not respect them! Meanwhile, it was them who had no respect for their own family...only outsiders.

You should never hit your spouse unless it is in a loving, playful way that you both enjoy. That means if either you or your spouse doesn't think it is fun, it stops. If you walk up behind your spouse and lightly hit them on the bottom and say, "You are looking extremely sexy" this could be considered a loving, playful way to hit but, only if they liked you doing it also.

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No reliable statistics are compiled or available. With little exception, virtually ALL convicted criminal offenders claim they were 'wrongly accused."

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on a light note: buy them a plane ticket to the carribean. maybe they'll have a change of heart while there. on a serious note: they should seek professional help, if they dont want out of it. as far as the prtner is concerned, if they are on good terms she should kindly ask the "abuser" to seek help too, before it gets too late. i am a firm believer in standing by people's sides and when it gets tough before walking away or walking out, try and find a solution...

Help her educate herself. Knowledge is the first and foremost weapon in the uphill battle she is facing to extricate herself.

Well, the answer is comlpex. Even though women want equality, they are not ready to bear the truth that physically men are superior. Damn our society for the fact that it tries to promote equal physical strength. Some times women truly start believing such dillusional crap. They hit men. No one feels bad because, according to society men are stronger and feel no pain, or men can tolerate pain better.

But when a man hits a woman and she yelps like a dying dog, then society starts to pity her, even other men pity her. We live in a world that is quickly going to change into a "woman's" world. Get used to it. Also, feminism can be blamed for letting "weak" men prosper. Not physically weak, but those who to redefine masculinity as a construct of femininity.

But we "real" men aren't going anywhere, We will be back, we will love and we will be just as awesome as our forefathers.

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LEAVE HIM!!! YOU DON'T DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE THAT. Well, you let him know once and for all that this type of abuse will not be tolerated and if he doesnt stop on his own or get help, you will go the next step because you deserve to be treated better. He can think what he wants in his head but to come out and call the person he is supposed to love nasty names, is uncalled for. Not that its and excuse but what brought this about, is something bothering him or is he just a ogre. Find the source and together you can find a solution. oh my aunt had the same problem. he died though... but she didn't kill him!!! and she loved him too much to leave him. so one of two: kick his sorry butt to the curve, leave, or whatever you prefer- take him to court. whatever

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Sure there are. Go to google and type in pictures of abused woman.

go to the police station

Can be either, but it is usually the male who is the agressor.

call 911 if you are being abused or are abusive and can't stop either call 911 or a counsellor to help you.

First be sure that the Reports she filed are False. I too believed a boyfriend, that his ex-wife was filing false reports. His whole family joined in, they were very convincing that she was a liar, manipulator, vindictive, etc... It was not that hard to believe, she lashed out at me, lied about me too. However, I married this man and soon his true colors were revealed, as well as his very dysfunctional family. After being married to this man many years, I finally left after years of very violent abuse, I felt ashamed for being so stupid, not seeing all the signs. I realize that although his ex-wife acted out, there was some truth in what she said. She was frustrated because nothing happened to him, he gained custody of their child together because he seemed the more stable parent - he was married to me. He used me to look stable. Their child was tormented with lies & mistrust between them both. He is grown now and has since confided in me that he appreciated me staying with his father for all those years. He was sorry his Father abused me. I am free of his physical abuse, but he still is trying to abuse me financially. I work through that as it comes.

Two days after I left, he has sought his next victim, he has found someone and his family has joined in right along, even telling her the same things they told me, " You are the best thing that ever happen" - "Good things always come to those who wait" - " she is vindictive" , and so on... I have contemplated whether or not I should call her, but I know there are plenty of people in their network that know what he did. - And if she wanted the truth she could come to me.

So if you want the truth - ASK HER - privately, calmly, and respectfully her side. Look for the signs - Keep your mind and eyes open. Good Luck !

Answer No always. Some people are just plain sick and need professional help. They say oh honey I love you but down deep inside they haven't a clue as to what the word love means, hence the abuse. Do yourself a big favor, get out of that relationship and find someone who won't abuse you for the fun of it.

Sounds like your already getting tired of your boyfriend doing this to you. It sounds like the beginning of him trying to CONTROL your every move while he is away from you. He is insecure that you might TALK to another male or about another male that's why he is asking you these questions all the time. What would happen if you ask him who he was talking to at work,what did they say to him and what he did while at the movies,sure enough he won't put up with it long as you have. Life is way too short,you know what you need to do. Being in a Controling relationship sucks the life out of you,and happy will be non existant,no smiling anymore,no talking to your friends anymore..just you and him. You by yourself at home when he's gone..isolation...get the picture..been there done that and it took 25 years for to get back the control in my life.

As you know abusers are all about control and being right. They live in a plastic bubble that they control and you've literally been sucked into that plastic bubble with them. You can pile books sky high in front of this person, even get an appointment with a psychologist/psychiatrist and he will not attend! In his mind it's YOU that is at fault and he's perfect. You're the one making the mistakes and the misfit in life ... not him! Of course we know different here. If you want to start with a new beginning it's time to pack your bags when he's not home and get to an Abused Women's Center and they will help keep you safe and help you with a new lease on life. You can rarely change an abuser and even if they should slightly change you'll always be living with a time bomb. These abusers could go off at any given time. I wish you all the best in 2006 This could be the beginning of the rest of your life Marcy

Depends on how you take the treatment and what kind of treatment it is. For instance, if the bad treatment is merely just your parents talking harshly to you or them treating you differently from a sibling, then take it to heart to be fair to your kids. Use it rather than let it get to you. This is coming from a guy whose parent's did treat their kids differently. If the treatment is abuse, then you might want to seek help in other places than a wiki.

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No but possibly if you asked him to pay for things regarding the "pregnancy". Then you owe him the money.

Answer Sometimes in life we do things that we don't fully understand and most of the time it's because of something that happened to us in childhood. An example of this. My father was an alcholic and so when I grew up old enough to date I always searched for women who either had booze problems or drug problems as I always wanted to help these people. What actually happened in most cases is that I became involved with these women and of course it ended in diseaster. The reason these relationships ended the way they did is that while one may want to help someone, they have to take the first step or no one can help them. Maybe too you are just that kind of person who likes to see others happy as you must feel something from it or you wouldn't do it.