Abusive Relationships and Domestic Violence

If you are personally a victim of domestic violence, the best solution is to get away from whomever is being violent toward you; just leave. It is sometimes possible to reform people and to get them to behave better, but that is rare. Violently inclined people will in most cases continue to be violent, no matter what promises they may make. If your concern is of a more theoretical nature, as to whether the entire phenomenon of domestic violence can be ended everywhere in the world, well, that would require extremely large changes. Since it is possible for the human race to become extinct, it is also possible to end domestic violence.

I arrested my husband this weekend for assault which happened 12 days ago. I was afraid that it would be too late. However, the policeman told me assault charges can be filed for up to a year. Obviously, if you have pictures and/or witnesses, it would help your case.

Answer There is no way for us to know the answer to your question as not everyone reports abuse.

I say the ages 4 years old to 12 years old.

Short of cutting off communication, the only thing we can suggest is to hang upimmediately every time he does it. Keep a diary. You might need the information later. u should call the police every time

Avoid him altogether and have absolutely no contact with him. Change your phone number, email, consider moving if you can do so. Ignore his requests for contact; if he threatens you, notify the police. Put as much physical distance between him and your family as you possibly can.

If you can afford to (especially if there are children involved) discuss your situation with a trained counselor. Do not attempt to appease your ex or persuade him; by maintaining contact with him, you allow yourself to remain open to his mechanisms and being manipulated by him.

Answer Totally ignore the narcissist. Have only contact that is mandated by the court. Do not speak with the N unless you have to and then only provide as short an answer as possible. Do not answer phone calls, e mails, US Mail, text messages. Do not talk about the N to others (he will assume that you still care if you are speaking about him). Avoid any third party contact with the N. I cannot stress enough that you need to REMOVE any narcissistic supply that you provide to the N. NO CONTACT. NO CONTACT. NO CONTACT. Have absolutely no reaction to his outbursts, remarks, acts of kindness or any other type of attempted contact he may make toward you or persons close to you. Once you take away ALL NARCISSISTIC SUPPLY, the N will move on to find other sources and will eventually leave you alone. If you must have contact because of children, keep it as minimal as is possible. Do not say "hello" or "good bye." Provide yes or no answers and if possible let the N know that you have totally moved on and are no longer even the slightest bit interested in him or anything to do with him. If it kills you, do not engage at all with the N. When the time is appropriate, you should tell children the truth about the N and at all costs, provide the APPROPRIATE EXAMPLE for your children to follow. Teach your children empathy, even empathy for the N...

How do you deal with it?? You don't.. MOVE ON.. IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE. They will eventually get the message and find a new victim. Celebrate when they are gone ...... When God removes someone from your life -- that is for a reason -- do NOT run after them....

tell someone who can help. A teacher, a friends parent, an abuse hotline, department of human services, a doctor or a policeman. keep talking to people til someone helps you.

Stay mentally strong I was also abused when I was a kid it wasnt easy I felt depressed

If you are in a relationship GET OUT!!!!!! because it can only get worse as for him sexually harassing you...you need to tell someone. I'm pretty sure that sexual harassment is against the law. If it comes to the worst,... call the police and if he tries to rape you beat him up and kick him in the huh huhs u know whats. If he tells you he will kill you or your family if u tell dont listen to him i have had someone tell me that b4 and i told anyways and they got into a lot of trouble if he comes back and does it again do watever it takes to make him stop (idont mean murder) why dont you try threatening him? Tell him that if he doesnt stop you going to call the police and if you need someone to talk to you can talk to whomever sometimes it helps to talk to a complete stranger(a counselor) your parents or a friend i wish you luck and write back if any of these work but b4 you try any of these rell him no very loudly and agressively if he doesnt listen try to get him to stop by doing anything ok i rlly hope you can make him stop i hate boys like this and cant stand them hope the best 4 u :) :) :)

On a additional note; if he is sending you email etc or something that (he thinks) can't be traced, the police can trace it. Sexual harassment is illegal in every form, whether it's in person or online. Talk to your parents.

Yes, more often than women ormenthink. Most men are brought up not to hit women and stick to that practice so when a man is hit, slapped, shoved, scratched or has things thrown at him or she is verbally abusive he takes it because most men feel everything is revolved around women being abused and that women are the weaker sex. Men don't realize that there are programs out there to help them and that society is becoming moreaware that men can be physically or mentally abused as well as women. Men that are abused are basically in their own private world of hell. They can't tell family, they can't talk to their male friends because most other men would wonder what is wrong with him for not 'slapping her down and controlling the situation.' The poor guy being abused can't win for losing. I know two cases of female abuse againsta malemate. My girlfriend's son is married toa young woman that is a heavy drinker and gets nasty when she does drink. One night he was in bed sound asleep and she went over and punched him square in the nose! Of course he woke up in great shock and couldn't figure out what happened to him. He staggered to the bathroom to look in the mirror at his bloody nose and she nailed him behind the knees with a golf club! He hit the floor like a rock! As soon as he could function he picked up the phone, called the police and had her taken away in handcuffs and let her stew overnight in jail. She has never hit him since, but is verbally abusive. The other case was a man that works with my brother. This man would come to work with stitches in his face and black eyes. When asked what happened he would cover it up by saying he got into a brawl at a pub the night before rather than admit his wife beat him up. He eventually confided in my brother. Just like some women feeling they are stuck with an abusive man, this man felt he was doomed to stay with his wife and was actually a victim of her abuse! One day he came into work and announced his wife had a massive heart attack and died. Of course the coworkers were saddened to hear this (what other reaction could they show) and he smiled and said, 'I'm free at last!' Sad, but true.

They are the same, different names for the same action

Domestic violence can also be considered the use or "threat" of use of force which causes fear or intimidation. Battery is the actual physical assault.

In terms of criminal statutes (of the states that have separate statutes for domestic violence), domestic violence can be considered an umbrella term for a variety of offenses. This may include domestic assault, domestic battery, child endangerment, and other offenses. Domestic battery (or "battery domestic violence") generally refers to intentional and unlawful use of force against another person. This does not strictly apply to family members - it can also include significant others or members of the same household.

Again, not all states have specific statutes for domestic violence offenses. In some states, a battery crime, even against a spouse, falls under the general category of battery.

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Boys cant hit girls because boys are meant to be gentle and are supossed to be gentlemen. Its just the right thing to do. its inapropriate to do in my book and it shows that their an abuser and that theres something going on in their life.

Yes, for a few reasons. If they walk home alone or their parents work and they have to go home to an empty house, also because they're getting more mature and alot of kids have cell phones in middle school or are getting one, it's a big deal. 1. In case of an emergency, middle school children can be saved by having a cell phone. 2. If parents have busy schedules or have to work late, children with cell phone would be able to call their parents and let them know where they are and what they are going to do. 3. Phones can give parents communication throughout the day to know children's whereabouts.

The heart is just a muscle that's job is to circulate blood in the body. There is no actual physiological change when you love someone, that's just kind of an old saying.

Abusers and criminals invariably deny that they had acted abusively or criminally.

I would say to see if they can still control you. The reason they deny an criminal activity or abusive activity it is because they believe they did nothing wrong. God Bless

one scenario suggests that the ex believes the objects belong to him. He may feel that you stole it and that destroying it will keep it out of your hands as it is already out of his hands. As for denying the destruction of your property... how could he destroy your property when he feels that it is his. He would be feeling that it is only his stuff that he was breaking.

If you want to win a domestic violence case, you should hire an experienced attorney. Having enough evidence related to case is also very helpful. For more information you can contact Barhoma Law P.C. also.

The word shed means to give off, so the answer to your outstanding question is to loose or give of.

Thank you for your question.