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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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How do you get back together with your ex-boyfriend that you lost your virginity to him?

Well tell him how much you've missed him and say that you want him back. if he wants you back he will say yes. It doesn't matter if you lost your virginity to him.

Liked a guy 3rd though 7th went out in 5th still cant get over him he asked out my best friend she said yes she doesnt like him i love him he knows that so does she i need him and i need help?

You don't need him. Your hormones are fooling you and making you think you need him because you love him. I don't see what's stopping you from asking him out, though. Either way, if it doesn't work out, there are other guys. I realize you just want him, but when you meet them, you'll want them.

How can you get closure when it is not given to you?

There will be many times in your life when closure will not be given to you by another or certain circumstances in every day life and it is up to you to come to terms with it and deal with it the best you can. When the person who does the breaking up gives you no reason it does not necessarily mean you were the cause of the break up. Sometimes an individual can fall out of love with their partner and don't know why; some prefer dating more than one person; or others may feel they have met someone more suited to them. You have to stop blaming yourself and start getting out with friends and back into the dating scene again. Individual's lives can go down many strange paths in life and that's because they haven't gotten to the end of the right path yet to meet that special someone that should be in their lives. As much as your heart may ache this person was not meant for you because there is another waiting for you in the future and you will meet that special someone and will be happy once again.

Why does it take so long to move on from a narcissistic ex boyfriend of 5yrs. It has been 15 months and still hurts like the day I left. I never got closure and it plays over and over in my mind?

My guess is that you are having trouble getting over him because you are in shock that he turned out to be a fraud and are hanging on to the good times. When these types of men are good they are so very very good. They know how to be the man of your dreams, to make you feel like they totally adore you and accept you as you are. The truth is they are extremely critical and intolerant of flaws, but just hide this character trait in the beginning. When we begin to see the flags, be it months or even a year later, we keep going back to the better times and wanting to believe that is really who he is. It's the worst kind of abuse because these men totally take advantage of our love without any regard for our feelings. As I'm sure you know, they have no empathy. I think you are still involved in that struggle between instinctively knowing you are better off without your ex, but still hoping he will change and it can work out. Who wants to believe they spent so much time with a man so selfish and incapable of love.

I now realize I have dated a few toxic narcissists, though it was the last long term relationship that set me back so. We dated 2.5 years and honestly it took me two years to move on. I now realize these types of men go for attractive women yes, but also those they see as vulnerable and insecure. You will begin to see your break up as a blessing once you build up your confidence and feel good about your life without a man in it.

Best of luck to you. New Answer- I too feel the same,i think is because the lack of empathy and how they totally cut you off with no consideration and no remorse and we just dont believe that a person can change and lose all their feelings for us so fast...Now i know why:is because those feelings werent real like we felt they have no idea what love is...

What is used to explain certain behavior?

The Internal structure of the material is a prime indicator for its behavior. Basically any property is indeed related to the structure of the material. Many measurements can answer this question, also.

How do you avoid being killed by your husband?

If this is a valid concern, something that you feel is likely, you need to bail out immediately. If you are waiting for a good time to leave, you may end up a homicide. There is no "good time" to leave someone who may kill you except right now. If you have reason to believe that you may be killed, you need to report this to the police (along with your reasoning), and to any friends and family you trust. The word needs to be "on the street" immediately. Are there any incidents of violence or threats up to now? And if so, are there any reports on file or any witnesses? Collect this information and get it to some people you trust, and ASAP. == At the first psycho sign you get, dump him in public. If it's private he might kill you. also, if he is an abuser and says he will change, do not believe him. He won't. Dump him. Like now!!! It's over.

Does a woman still have feelings for you if you dumped her and now when you run into her she acts like you don't exist?

Why would you care? You dumped her! Don't let your ego get in the way ... you probably did her a favor. She doesn't respond to you because you hurt her and hopefully she gets the picture about you the first time around. Marcy She is probably worried that if she responds at all she will go the whole way and thump you.

Can you grow out of love?

Absolutely. It is possible to stop loving someone while in a relationship, or after you have already broken up with them. However, it takes a long time, and there will always be a certain awkwardness to the process.

If your goal is to keep a relationship, little efforts to show your affection go a long way towards reinforcing the bonds you already have and keeping the love very strong. If you don't make an honest effort to keep the relationship and work over the rough spots, the love can fade.

If your goal is to get over a relationship, the only cures are time or finding someone else you care about. Even then, little things will remind you of the other person for many years, and though the frequency decreases it never goes away forever. (Incidentally, if you want to keep the new relationship, it's probably not a good idea to mention that the little thing reminded you of your ex.)

How do you stop thinking about the married man you had an affair with?

Just Remember That hes Married And To Him its Exactly What You Said An "Affair" nothing Serious

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It's hard to tell, especially if the married man loves you and you love him too. But unfortunately instead of thinking about this married man think about how much you

helped him betrayed his family. We can't just think about our self because you had a wonderful time keeping secret and hiding your relationship with him. from his family.

When you and your ex dont talk and your ex saw you sitting alone maybe a little sad so he asked why are you sitting here-does it mean he still have feelings?

If your even thinking if he likes you, you probably still have feelings for him(: aww. It depends on why you guys broke up and how he acts around you. I bet he does.

How can i make a girl realize that she is in a bad relationship without affecting my relationship with her?

Hey! This will be information you can keep for the rest of your life:

Anytime you try to interfere with someone else's love life you get the sharp end of the stick. Example: A guy is cheating on a girl you know, you tell her. You just gave her info. she did not want! She tells her boy friend that she is mad at him and they begin to fight. Now its been 2 hours and suddenly she is mad at you because you knew and let it happen (or) you knew he tried and wanted to start them fighting (or) you lied to her because she believes her guy... It does not matter what reason she chooses, All that matters is that you DID IT! Oh, as an added bonus, this guy wants to punish you for messing with his business. If it's that bad and she has a brain, she will leave. If she does not leave then she is happier than you think. Girls will tell all their friends how miserable they are in an effort to get attention, but, that doesn't mean she wants help.

That answer was the "text book" answer from interfering, but trying to help, "101." The only time you may have a feather in your cap for caring, is after the relationship is over, and a long time after, when she realizes you were right with your critic of your friend's relationship. But the break up won't necessarily happen because of your insight, it could just run it's course, and fall apart naturally, with no regard to what you input. You are a good guy, or girl for trying to help, bu like the former answer states, you really can't tell who's at fault or where the exaggeration lies, unless you are in the relationship. Let's hope she's smarter than her boyfriend is.

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If you don't say anything and dont get invloved and she finds out you knew about it then she would blame you and you would ruin your relationship with her. So my advice is that you should see where it takes you and sometimes being honest is the best thing to do. But it depends on the type of friend you want to keep your relationship with.

What are the advantages and disadvantages of relationships?

advantages:

having someone to be there for you

knowing that your crush likes you back

being in a relationship

using that relationship to get out of an unwanted one coming from someone else

disadvantages:

no flirting/kissing with anyone else

people will see you flirting/kissing with someone else if you do, and report it to the other person in a relationship (its only human)

breaking up

having problems

the teasing of fellow peers

it's hard to go back to actually being friends

the nagging

How do you leave your husband when you have a child together and they love each other so much I'm not in love anymore He is fifty and I'm twentysix he is very very controling married eight yrs?

You both need to get into marital counseling quickly. Then you need to determine what changed that you do not love this man anymore. An over-controlling spouse does not make for a great relationship ... marriage is where the two become one and work thing together and equally share most everything else in life. I think with the right kind of help, you may be able to put this family unit back together again.

You do not have the guts to tell him how you feel I'd hate to hear that he is not feeling the same after the breakup?

Unfortunately you will never know unless you actually speak with him. Try and get together with him to tell him how you feel and see how he responds - if he is not interested then at least you know and you can sort your feelings out to begin moving on.

Why do girls think you can read their mind?

Girls don't think you can read their minds. Sometimes we think that what we're thinking is obvious, and there's no need to state the obvious. It is something that most every girl does. It is just something we do, we can't help it. If it bothers you, politely ask us what we're thinking about. It makes us realize you care, and you find out what we're thinking (it's a win-win situation). So we don't think you can read our minds. But it wouldn't hurt for you to ask what we're thinking about every once and a while

If your ex-fiance had a letter notarized stating you lived in his home and now things aren't going well and he is asking you to leave will this letter have any standing?

The letter provided you documentation that you lived at a certain address, Proof of Residence. Now that he has asked you to leave, the letter is of no value. To use it as "Proof of Residence" would be fraudulent.

How do you know if a guy still likes you if you went out for over a month and you broke up because he didn't want to be in a relationship?

If your ex genuinely wanted to be with you, he would--either dating or in a serious relationship. Point blank, he doesn't reciprocate your feelings for him. Focus on other things in your life--is it worth your time to dwell on someone who's not interested in being with you? Don't cling to false hopes or believe having sex with him will renew your former relationship.

How many liters of water would weigh a ton?

Keeping to metric units. One cubic metre of water weighs One tonne. One litre of water weighs one kilogram. There is 1000kg in a tonne. Therefore, 1000 litres in a tonne.

How do you become friends with an ex after a really bad breakup and after four months of no talking?

  • This new fad of ex boyfriends and ex girlfriend being friends is a fallacy in itself and 'ex' means the relationship is over and both parties should move forward in their own lives and stop trying to be friends. You said that you broke up badly with no talking and that is the way he obviously wants to keep it. It is time for you to walk away from your ex.

How do i find out if my ex-boyfriend was deported back to the Philippines?

Call or go to your local immigration and ask if they deported your BF. You can also go to the Philippine Consulate in your area. They handle the case of Filipinos being deported. Or simply try to call your BF and ask him where in the world he's at.

If ex says the timing isn't right does that mean he is not into you?

to me its appears to be an indefinite and easier way of saying no, hes not that into you

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