Breakups

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No - you are ex's for a reason and if she has obviously moved on you should as well. Leave the past in the past and direct your interest else where.

I hope that I'm getting this straight: you are a woman who is ill and who has been in a relationship with a man who is abusive and caused you to loose everything. And now you are asking me whether he is going through a change of life? If this is so, get with it! Men do not go through a change of life like women. Their sex drive ebbs gradually through the years and that change does not represent any emotional problem. So do not excuse his abusive behavior. You are fooling yourself if you think that this is a temporary state. The best you can do is to keep him away - if your description is accurate and, I assume it is - and go on with your life. Not all disasters have a bad ending. Join a support group - and women have many support groups - where you will have a chance to open your problems and get help.

when she\he talks to you and dont look in to your eyes

It takes two to make a good relationship and that's why so often relationships or marriages break-up. One out of the two will try, but if both don't all is lost.

Any relationships takes patience, getting through rough times, just being there through the good and bad, and sometimes just hugging that person close to you and thank God you found someone like them.

6 months is really early in a relationship to be bored with each other. Men enjoy women with a sense of mystery and certainly some form of independence. Men seldom like clingy women or women that can't entertain themselves or have girlfriends they can go out with an enjoy themselves. There is no hard and fast rule that says once you date someone, get engaged to them or even marry them that you can't go out with the girls, go back to college or whatever you want to do. I have been married for 33 years this August, and my husband laughs his head off at me because he's told me, he never knows what I'm going to do next. I keep myself independent and it's really important both of us have "head space" from each other. I enjoy humor, making people laugh, have loads of friends, love to laugh myself and also give my husband some freedom to be with his own friends or do things that he would like to do while I do the same thing. We completely trust each other and are loyal to each other. No, this is not a marriage made in heaven for we can get into some boo-coo arugements for sure, but we always kiss and make up. He is laid back and calm, I am extremely extroverted, good sense of humor, but along with this I have a passion for what is right in this world and I try to do things to change it. I can have a fiery temper, but always end up laughing and apologizing. My husband dubs me "She looks like a butterfly and stings like a bee." I have left my husband for a couple of days because he made me mad, and vice-versa. It only made us realize how much we loved each other. To put it bluntly I wouldn't have missed this 33 year ride for anything!

So, please keep your relationships on the exciting side and never reply on any man 100% (that goes for the men with the women.)

Sit down with your boyfriend or talk things out. If he's disinterested and won't work on your relationship then it's time to cut him loose. Life is too precious to waste. There is someone out there that will appreciate who YOU are!

not always but maybe go and talk to them about it and youll find out

It usually doesn't mean everything has been a lie. If they've broken up with you, and do not call. That is them distancing themselves from you to get over that level you two were once on before the break up. Notice casual friends do not necessarily call each other all of the time. This is his perspective. He cares about you, and loves you. But, possibly not in a romantic manner. He may just still care and love you as an individual and a friend. But not a lover. By all means, don't take this as something terrible. Don't obsess over this either. Take it for what it is, and respect his views. Doesn't mean you can't call every once and a while to say hello. By all means pick up the phone and call him, but not all of the time. This is about breathing space and going back a few levels from being so close to just being friends. Which on a personal level, is difficult as hell. But, it can happen with time and self-healing. Evaluate yourself, and remember you were still breathing and kicking before you met him. And you can still do the same afterwards. It's just one of life's challenges. You live, get hurt and learn. I wish you the best. -Erin

we all put our pants on the same way

The 'friend' obviously likes your ex and is jelous that you had a chance with that person who is now your ex and the 'friend' never had a chance. ignore that 'friend'.

Because he thought you were wonderful!

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somthing that might not exist but if it does then i dont know you idiot poo smells and blah blah blah blah i rule blah blah blah you stink

I like to call it 'cutting' them off. They mean nothing to me now. Nothing. If I am able to feel anything towards them its simply disgust or distaste, leaving no pleasurable feeling about them in my mind or in my heart. They are cut off. Cut off to me, my feelings, my love, my caring, all of it. Cut off. This is easier to do if they have done something to you to warrant such feelings, like cheating, lying, disseat, etc. If you are simply looking to let them go because it's what's 'best' then I wish you all the luck with that. The heart and brain will battle that one. I personally prefer it when the heart wins.

Just be a supportive friend to that person bt try to not fal again to him/her

It can be, but it also can be caused by a bad environment in the family and other narcissistic qualities of family members (monkey see, monkey do). Sometimes the family is just a normal family and a person can have narcissistic qualities learned out in society. They may feel shunned by society in general (especially the wealthy) and put themselves up on a pedestal and try acting the part or try putting a wall up around themselves (losing a lot of feelings towards others such a sympathy towards someone else or caring although narcissists are capable of love, but don't have the first idea of what love is) and controlling their environment and those around them as best they can.

There are two ways to look at it, but it's best to just walk away from this guy: --He 'plays' women, professing feelings early in the dating stages, with frequent contact. He buys into the exhilaration and newness of an attraction, but gets bored when the relationship loses it's excitement (for him). You may even be sexually involved with him for a time, and his interest still appears clear. Out of nowhere, he's MIA and your calls/texts to him go unanswered. This is his pattern with many women. OR --It isn't pretty, but what he is doing is a passive form of breaking up where he does it in such a way that he appears 'confused' and 'unable to handle a relationship'. He's not confused at all or scared of his feelings, he is scared of what he is not feeling and how you are going to handle it when he backs out. In fact, regardless of what he said, his attraction were fading at the rate he perceived yours was growing. What he did was, for him, the best way to back out with the least amount of fallout. He simply wants out, and doesn't want to look horrible doing it. Many people have done this or had it done to them.

I don't think this person is selfish at all. In fact, it's refreshing someone is brutally honest for a change. This person could have strung you along for quite sometime, but thought enough of you to tell the truth. Young men/women often get into relationships and life changes all of us as we start to mature and before one knows it one, the other or both may want to live a bit more life before they settle down (get it out of their system.) It's a smart thing to do and better than not doing it and ending up cheating on their mate.

Be it chemistry or physics by a professor, psychiatrist, scientist, etc., there is no definition of love. It's been an age old question and it's can't be defined although some professionals in the area of human emotions will have you believe so.

to be honest, hes probably still not over you! and if he reacts to the break up this way! then hes obviously very childish aswell! if i was you, i would just ignore his childish comments, and act like it doesn't bother you! or is its really getting you down, confront him about it! in front of a group of friends, this way he'll feel humiliated and probably feel embarassed, because he has nothing to say, if you have gave him no reason to call you annoying (this technique does work if your alone with the guy when you confront him aswell) .

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yes

never give up unless they find a new person in there lives show her that u care and love her and she might get what your trying to say and if that doesn't work they still loves you and is playing hard to get if there was a problem before talk about it ask her what they thought u did wrong and make her belive you if you need any personal advice contact a real love life person.

You're screwed up, bro. Dump them both and move on with your life. You don't deserve either one of them.

because they just dont want you to know what they are feelinqq

The best answer to base your future on is no. Unfortunately, no matter how much we might want things to be different, we can't control other people, or undo their mistakes. We have to start learning to be okay without someone else, and how to stand alone again.

Even if he does come back, you will be better able to handle it at that time if you focus now on being okay without him. Then you will be in a better emotional space to decide whether letting someone who has betrayed you so thoroughly back into your life is a good idea.

Answer Some people have thick heads. There is little sense other than telling her what you think of her be it in private or in a public area where others can hear what you are saying so she may look stupid in the eyes of her friends, other than that, don't bother getting even, move on in life, she's not the only fish in the sea.