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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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What does it mean when your girl friend says she doesnt know if she wants to break up or not?

It means that she has no idea if she wants to be with you anymore. If you still want her as a girlfriend then you need to change your ways.

Why do ex wives have to be so bitchy?

My Fiance's Ex is so nasty because she wants to sit on her butt & have everything handed to her. She has babies by 3 different guys & tired to pass the one kid off as the child of the one she thought she could get the most child support out of. Funny thing was that the baby was black & the guy was white. Plus, she was already getting cash from the biological dad. My fiance is stuck paying for one of the kids (age 11) that he thought was his but now she has been blabbing to family that she messed around so much that she is not sure that it is his. SHE gives women a bad name. I raised 4 without any child support. She has been so rotten to my fiance that he won't even try to see his kids anymore. We are moving out of state as soon as I get the money because she basically stalks us.She has welfare paying for her rent, food, etc. & she gets child support. She got her CNA license but can't seem to get off her butt & find a job. Guess she will have to find man#4 to have a kid with. She has 5 kids by 3 different men. Loser! She is unhappy because she made her life what it is & now doesn't like it. Karma !!

Can you get your ex back after 3 months?

Yes you can. But they obviously have to want you back as well. If the relationship ended bad the first time then a second try might not be a good idea. You just have to talk to your ex and find out if they still have feelings for you.

How do you completely get over a father of your child whom you really love?

Focus on your child.

For his or her sake you can't really get over him. It would be very easy to tell you to remember every bad thing he ever did to you, but that is not the healthy thing to do, for you or your child.

You and this man are forever joined by the child you made together. So I would say the best thing for all three of you, is to remember the good times and just keep going forward.

In time, if things don't work out, he will become just another someone you used to know and you will be happy with your new life. I know it's hard today.

Now I'll tell you the same thing I told my son, when the girl he knew he loved needed to move on; if it's meant to be, it will happen in it's own time. When the time was right, she came back into his life and in August they got married, eight years after they first met.

What should I do when my girlfriend broke up with me because we were arguing and shouting a lot and you just listened and now she broke up and she gave me the reason that she lost her feelings for me?

  • Often men of all ages will just let a woman yell and argue without saying anything, but that is the wrong thing to do. In a successful relationship there are two important factors #1 respect for each other and #2 good communication skills. When a man stands there and just allows the arguing without standing up for himself then self respect is lost and women can be confusing, but deep down most want a man to stand his ground and have their own opinions every so often. Also, you should listen to her complaints, but, in turn she should listen to yours. Phone her up (don't text her) and see if she will meet somewhere. Calmly tell her that you don't respect the fact she is always shouting and arguing with you and it's maturity to be able to talk things out and come to some sort of resolution to your problems because good relationships are made from learning from each other. You need to stand your ground off and on, but in a calm way.

How do you backstab your ex-best friend?

It all depends on how y'all became ex-besties if it was her fault then try to do the same thing she did to you to her. If it was over something else then try to steal her new group of friends she'll totally b srry for everything she put you through then. But you should first try to see if there is any way you can repare the relationship. Peace out!

don't! that will get you no where ppl will think you are the backstabber, and they wont want to be backstabbed so, you will end up with no friends.at least your not in my position where my only friend lied multiple times to me and backstabed me so hard i should be dead.

How can you tell your boyfriend you like someone else but still love him?

if u tell him that then he wont believe that u still love him so i suggest keeping that to yourself.

After my first break up I see a lot of things that remind me of my Ex is that good?

It's normal. Depending on your age younger people take break-ups like it's the end of the world. Move out of your parents home, become the age it is legal to drink, and you will see how silly young relationships are.

How to breakup with someone who doesn't appreciate you and you find it hard to do?

Do something nice for him/her (let's just say him) and if he doesn't appreciate it by expressing any sort of thanks, say you would like more appreciation and if he doesn't agree, it's over. Say you had a good time and wrap it up with saying "Lets be friends"

I like a girl but she just broke up with her last boyfriend what do I do?

just keep hanging out with her and trying to make her start to like you by showing her your a nice guy.

Be there for her, be a friend, chances are she'll want a shoulder to cry on, but drop hints that you are slightly more interested then just friendship, but don't pressure her either. its very comforting to a girl to know that there is still someone who tinks enough of her to wait in the wings

How can you tell when a love one is on drugs?

If he starts getting very abusive (or a little), passes out a lot. things like that.. if you get lied to alot or his is gone alot and you ask he is mysterious

What caused the 2007 breakup of William and kate?

They brokeup because Kate was mad that William "wasen't paying enough attention" to her.

Ex had baby and is engaged but says he cant let go of you?

uh remember he's getting married you miht to stand up when the priest asks does anyone have a reason these two should not be wed because you don't want to have this end up as an affiar situation then his wife is gonna hate you too and you'll barely be able to talk to him

What do you do if your ex-boyfriend just broke up with his girlfriend and is telling you that he doesn't know if he wants to be with you but is telling her that it is her or nothing?

WELL GIRLFRIEND YOU DONT TOUCH THAT ONE WITH A TEN FOOT POLE..SOUNDS LIKE HE IS MESSING WITH BOTH OF YOUR HEADS .. THERE ARE MANY WONDERFUL GUYS IN THIS WORLD THAT WILL BE WILLING AND HAPPY TO TREAT YOU WITH THE RESPECT YOU DESERVE..HE IS OBVIOUSLY PLAYING BOTH ENDS OF THE CANDLE AND NEEDS TO KNOW THAT RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT GAMES AND WOMEN ARE NOT PAWNS.. GO OUT AND GET SOME SELF ESTEEM AND REALIZE THAT YOU DESERVE MUCH BETTER THEN WHAT HE'S DISHING OUT WHICH SOUNDS LIKE LEFTOVERS.....

Why do you still like a guy after he completely tore you up inside and broke your heart?

This is because your heart as not gotten time to heal and your still in a stage of shock and desperation.Give yourself time, soon you'll forget about that loser and will become stronger from the experience.

Your boyfriend just broke up with you because he has a lot going on in his life right now and a girlfriend will just add to all that but you really want him back any suggestions on what to do?

you should probably give him some time to get his life back together (trust me i know) then wait a month or so and if he still wants you go for it and if he can't he can't.

What should I do if she still says she loves me even though she's going out with another guy?

UNFORTUNATLEY SIMPLY SHE DOESNT LOVE YOU , SHES HOPING YOU WILL STAY HOOKED ON HER INCASE HER NEW RELATIONSHIP GOES WRONG THEN SHES GOT YOU TO FALL BACK ON , MOVE ON SHES NOT WORTH IT

Why EXes don't speak?

It's uncomfortable to speak to someone who you have broken up with. There are, however, some exes that are friends, and do speak with each other. It's just that when you are with an ex, you think of the good times....and then u want to get back together. Or you think about how much they hurt you, when breaking up, and feel like leaving. That's why most exes don't stay in contact w/ each other or avoid the other person.

You dreamed about Marrying your ex boyfriends best friend?

Dreams do not always come true. If you know that your ex boyfriend are not right for each other don't worry. Whatever thoughts you had about him were pushed to the back of your mind and they so happen to appear in your dreams. It is natural and usually seems weird but the feeling will pass.

Your still sleeping with your ex even though your in a relationship?

It is safer to have just one relationship at a time. People get jealous.

Your recent EX is coming over tomorrow to talk what do you say to him to win him back without sounding needy or desperate?

  • Obviously he is coming over to see you to communicate. Let him start the talking. If he is willing to talk first then you will get a hint as to whether he still cares for you, but if he is not ready to resume the relationship again then you will have saved yourself some embarrassment. If he is shy you can tell how he feels about you by the way he acts. Never be afraid to communicate your own feelings and you could say, 'I really care for you and would like to resume this relationship, but I need to know how you feel and if you are willing then we need to communicate about our feelings more so we don't have so many problems in our relationship.' Don't beg, cry, yell, or get angry at him or you will lose any chance you have of getting back together again. Whatever he says (be it negative) you will have to accept and thank him for at least coming over. Stand tall, be honest and you will win either way.
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