Breakups

The PERFECT revenge for when someone tries to or does hurt you is to act like it does not bother or affect you at all.

For example, your boyfriend is breaking up with you.

Guy- Hey, sorry but it's over, I'm breaking up with you.

Girl- That's cool, it's whatever.

Say NOTHING more do not mention how your boyfriend was bad in bed, has a big nose etc. You have to say this is a calm "it's whatever" kind of voice, like it really doesn't matter to you either way. Like you don't care (even if you do). This will be a HUGE blow to the other person's ego and completely take them by surprise and destroy them. They will go home doubting themselves without an ounce of confidence. It will cut them to the core. If you do this you CANNOT contact them. Not contacting them will reiterate that you really do not care about what they just did. If you contact them it ruins everything and you will ave no revenge. They will begin to criticize themselves thinking that they did something wrong and not really knowing will eat away at them.

This type of revenge works all the time. I used to use it to get revenge on my parents when they tried to punish me. All you have to do is act like you do not care about the other persons actions and that they have no affect on you. (My parents gave up on punishing me because they were convinced that their punishments did not bother me in the slightest way.) It is the reaction that no one wants or expects and therefore is the perfect revenge.

He will either leave, with no remorse or shame for abuse he has imposed, and seek out a new source of supply or he will immediaety swing back into persuit mode, with singular goal of winning you back. A narcissistic does not want to be alone and needs constant attention for someone to validate him.

He will be back to charm you again this ain't end for him

Take time before you do anything to decide if you are just going back to him because you feel bad, sad, lonely, and don't want to be alone or if you really want to be back with him. Remember you left him for a reason, would you be willing to go back with someone even after the reasons you broke up with him. If you answered yes to any of these then you need to take time for yourself and be single, to be able to get by your feelings to be able to move on. If you are sure you want to try and get back together with him then you will have to get together and try and talk with him - tell him how you feel and take things from there.

she should never do that again

Oh hon. Im sorry but men do this all the time. When they are feeling insecure and in a bad spot they run back to the ex they know will easily take them back. You gotta tell him no! He's obviously using you sorry to tell you and I guess its possible but rare that he just has feelings for you but its not likely. The best thing to do is sit down and talk to him about it. Ask him why he comes back to you. Ask him whatever you need to know. Good luck! hope I helped!

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Some would say that it is symbolic, or a vision of the future. I'm no expert, but it could JUST be a dream. They're kinda weird that way

The dream is not about the ex-boyfriend but about the dreamer's own emotions and thoughts relative to the ex. The baby might represent the relationship that the dreamer had been developing with the ex, or it might be a symbol for something the ex is creating now, without the dreamer's participation. The feelings associated with the dream are important in understanding its meaning, whether anger, grief, envy, or joyful relief.

Maybe you didn't do anything wrong. Maybe it was him/her. And if you do not know what you did wrong, then he/she was not for you, to blame you for something that you didn't even know you did.

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First of all, sorry to hear about your break up.

Depending on the state or province you live in, civil courts/small claims will accommodate the opportunity for you to investigate whether you can sue for financial loss or damages ensued from the break up. Infidelity and bruised ego can't be used against her, simply because you were not married yet. If you're serious, spend an hour paying for a lawyer and see what your chances are.

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If we sue people that hurt us, we will be rich by now. My husband will get rich if he sue me, and I will be a millioner if I sue my husband, his ex mistress, and his family for wrong doing. When someone promise you something, try not to believe on that person, so at the end you will not be hurt. I know.....

If he still wants you, He might try to talk to you. Maybe constantly look at you. Look closely at his reactions to you walking by, or just say hi to him and see his reaction. You might be able to tell. If you can't, ask a friend to ask him if he still likes you. Or just ask your friend if she or he can tell.

* Your friend feels that your relationship may be getting too serious to just be friends and may fear if a relationship between you does become serious and doesn't work out he may lose you as a friend. Putting you on the 'back burner' simply means he's interested, but placing you away from commitment for the time being. You should communicate with him and ask him why he feels this way and be honest as to how you feel about him. Whatever the two of you decide you should follow through with.

You should dump him, who's to say he won't keep doing this kind of thing behind your back in the future? He may feel as if your his "fallback" girl..because of problems he had with his ex. If he truly wants to be with you he should break things off completely with his ex..and that is that. You can always play the "reverse phsycology" on him..and do the same he does, and just wait for his reaction to it. It depends on what you want out of a relationship. If you just want occasional servicing, what does it matter if he cheats? On the other hand, if you want someone who will be a companion, he certainly doesn't sound like the kind of guy who will ever commit. If he can't make up his mind now, what makes you think he'll ever be able to commit to a relationship? It's only been two months, and he's already showing his true colors. What would you expect 6 months to a year down the line, when he doesn't feel the need to be on his 'best' behavior anymore?

• 'Ex' means the relationship is over and unless he is serious about getting back into a relationship with you again then you should be moving forward into your own future. Tell him in your next text message that if he wants to see or hear from you then he can do so in broad daylight and in person. This way you will know by his facial expressions and his body language if he is stringing you along and not being serious about committing to you only (without another girl in his life as well as you.)

I take it you are either going to ask for a divorce or you have some other woman on the string. There is no easy way! Be a man and simply tell her the truth. Beware! The grass isn't always greener on the other side, and, if you just want a divorce it's wiser to get a separation and take some time apart to be sure this is what you want. Sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder.

It is not a simple thing do but if you know very well that it is not going to work ,then it's good to be frank and tell the person that you do not think that it is going to work for both you.And do not be so soft in the that your partner tells you that it's going to work you say that you will consider it,that is not the best thing to do at this stage.

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Give him some time, then try talking to him later on in a cheery, just friendly way - for now.

If he starts to be 'horrible' to you then you should try ignoring him for a bit, then maybe he will realise what hes missing out on. (:

its not easy and it would depend on how much you love them and everyone takes things differently sorry to brake the news but a girls heart is like a car once its damaged its damaged its fixable but it will never be completley 100 percent in saying this its going to take time to get over it you cant force yourself you can lie to everyone else but not yourself give it time get distractions get a hobby work or a guy friend i would suggest gay lol they understand better listen to music it really helps and try helping people with there problems you forget about yours time heals all wounds and one day someone will sweep you off your feet

Don't be awkward. Just pretend they're not there and work like you used to. If they say hi, say hi back and start up a conversation if you'd like. They are you're ex for a reason, and it's because they're not the one for you. Be your usual amazing self and don't be caught up with worrying over that person.

Look forward not back.

You can just be friends with them^^

The best way to tell if your husband loves you is if he shows you respect. He and you are allowed to get angry every once in awhile, but if it happens all the time, it's time to take stock of your situation and make a plan to address it. All marraiges go through ups and downs, but if there are patterns of behavior that have changed dramatically, you need to discuss them with him and come to some agreements, maybe even some compromise. It is also important to consider if you love him and if your behavior has changed or if there has been some trigger event to ignite these feelings for you. A loving relationship is hard work and while it is easy to judge or question another person's love for you, it is equally important that you feel you are worth being loved. If there is something he has said or done that leads you to believe he doesn't love you, stop and think about how this fits into his behavior overall. If there is something blatant or serious that has happened, you are the best judge. Listen to your gut and if it still bothers you tomorrow, prepare your thoughts and talk with him about it. If you aren't ready to discuss this with him, write down your thoughts so you can prepare to discuss your relationship in a mature way. Make sure he is well rested and approach him lovingly, not with blame or neediness. Last and most importantly, take a look at your self-esteem and find ways to bolster it so that you aren't seeking rejection or relying on your total happiness through his love for you. Know that we have all been there at one time or another in our lives and that by reaching out, even through an online service, you are taking mature responsibility for your feelings. That is a person worth being loved. Good luck.

well is obvious is ur ex for a reason! that's what i keep telling myself an if its meant to be it will no matter what u do so just give it time an space an in the meantime keep having fun with ur mates an enjoy life an try to smile! is all u can do x

curious on how they are doing without them in their life????

It would be a rotten and under handed thing to do and the person trying to split the couple up would become the loser in the end. Forget about them and move on.

But if you really want to...You have to learn the art of sabotage. Sabotage is a great way for people to play tricks on people. Now the reason you might be doing this are...

*You want your parents to get a divorce.

*The Boy/Girl You want to go out with goes out with someone else

*You just want to do it for fun

*You want a fun way to split up with your boy/girlfriend

Now the art of sabotage is jokes and stuff like cutting holes in your t-shirt and spreading rumours. Sabotage should be fun and if you get caught you can be in well bad trouble. Try not to get detected and these are some suggestions you could use.

*Cut holes in the victim's gym kit or best top

*Spread a rumour about him/her cheating or if you go out with someone spread a rumour about him/her cheating then when you hear it again look like you feel horrified and dump them.

*Take some worms and slugs and put them down his/her back

*Take their deoderant and hairbrush or clothes and towels when they are in the school showers.

Hope these help you and happy sabotaging.

Usually people that seek out married people like the game of "winning over" that person and also these people are afraid of real committment. It's easy to go out with a married man because deep inside you know you'll have fun, keep the magic in your relationship (but only for so long until he grows tired of you ... and he will) then to be mature and have a relationship with someone who is single and actually work for the relationship that you want. You love this man simply because you can't have him. It's human nature. Did you honestly think this guy had any intentions of keeping his promises to you? Most married men love the thrill of another younger woman thinking he is pretty hot stuff, then the novelty wears off or the wife finds out. Having a relationship with a married man is a disaster in most cases and a very low percentage ever work out. There is always that question, "If he cheated on his wife, will he cheat on me?" The answer is, most likely! A smart woman is independent and has pride, and she knows what it would feel like to have her hubby or boyfriend cheat on her with another woman. The "other woman" usually never wins, and the poor wife is left with a jerk! Start getting out with friends and start dating single guys. It would be a good thing if you decide to concentrate on yourself and ask why you feel you need to date a married man. What is missing in your life? Why do you need a married man, and more so, why do you want this guy when it's obvious he had his fling with you and has gone back to his wife or onto another woman? All of us makes mistakes during our lives and hopefully we learn from them. Give it time, the hurt goes away. You'll meet someone new (hopefully single) and be glad you didn't settle for second best.