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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
8,665 Questions
How do you make it up to a girl you really like?
You need to just walk in front of her and express your feelings if she says yes to you then she is your's and if she says no or says nothing then don't worry just approach her daily till she says yes to you.
Guys believe that the best way to get a girl uninterested in them is by being mean/acting like jerks uncharacteristically, it's their way of being repulsive... which doesn't always work. By him being mean he was trying to make it clear that he's not interested anymore.
While it is not what you wish, that is what they are feeling. You'll have to believe them and then decide if you want to consider that kind of relationship. Probably not worthwhile, though, unless you were already friends before trying out the romantic angle.
It usually means there is no "desire" left or expected to develop.Take it and move on!
let me make it easy for you guys they found soe one better
theres only one thing 2 do here TELL YOUR FRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! if she won't listen then she's not the type of friend that anyone should have. and that means that the one u love dont deserve herand if you guys make up sware that if u guys both like the same person that neither of u will go out with him and that goes along with dating a friends ex
Infatuation is a feeling. You don't choose who you become infatuated with. It comes and goes.
Love is a choice. You choose who you love or don't love. True love is sacrificial, unconditional, and never self serving.
What should you do if your girlfriend kissed a other boy?
don't forgive her because if you did it to her shed slap you and would not forgive you!
What do you do if you still have feelings for your ex but hes talking to other girls?
girl, you need to tell him that you want him back! tell him you know you've been datin' but you still have feelings for him!
What do i do when a boy dumps you?
If a boyfriend ends a relationship, the most important thing for you to do is not treat it like it's the end of the world. Although it may feel that everything is ending, use this as an opportunity to spend more time with your girlfriends, and let their friendship help you through it.
What should you do if you are remarried but still in love with your ex?
This actually happened to me... I left my wife for another woman, divorced one and married the other.
Now the problems started because I was still very much in love with my ex, and the steamy 3 year affair I had with my new wife wasn't as steamy anymore. The sex was still real good (better than with my ex), however, my heart was not as involved as my man parts were and it was killing me to see my ex, even when she wasn't there to physically see. I actually left my New wife after less than 1 year married to her, and was fortunate enough to be able to get back with my ex. Now I am home where I have always belonged. And after the last 7 years that we have been remarried to my original wife, I finally have her trust back. There's no place like home in the heart.
And you have to ask yourself... why are they an ex? Are they your True love? Will it really work? Are they still available? If all checks out what are you wasting time for? Go get them back and don't look back. Life is short get what's yours.
The grass really isn't greener on the other side, lust is sometimes a nasty foe to LOVE.
Another view
I also felt this before, then I was thinking, why marry someone that you don't really love? Because before, when we were still together, he just hurt me. I finally got tired of it so we broke up. But still, there is that feeling that you're missing him so I tried to look for someone who would help me forget him. Then there came a time that he asked to be with you again. But of course, you're afraid that he might hurt you again. So I chose the one that I have now.
Two years ago we met again and I just found out that he was still waiting for me, I was really overwhelmed and that happy feeling came back again, but it was too late. I was already pregnant. He was really hurt because he thought that I still loved him and was also waiting for him. Actually he was correct, no one can make me feel the feeling that he brings out in me, even if I just saw him.
So, before making a move, think about it first. Because it's really hard
when it's too late and you can't get back what had been yours before.
Another view
You need to choose. Marriage is about committing yourself. Not about being with someone you love but at the same time thinking about someone else. It's a bond and a commitment. You can't do that to someone if you don't know how it would feel if someone had that happening to you. It wouldn't be nice to be married to someone you love but they don't love you as much or are thinking about someone else. You need to choose. Either that or break it off and stay single for a bit. Maybe flirt around a while and you might seem to figure out if she/he was really the one or if you need to move on and find a better person in your life.
There are more fish out there in the sea than you think. You just got to find the right one.
Another view
Hope for the best or divorce, to figure things out instead of hurting the ones you love.
Another View
Everybody had feelings for all their relationships. Even if its a set up, eventually they will fall for each other. You got to interfere with your spirits. Get a paper and pen. Say what you dislike about each one of them. Ask your self who will be best for your life, kids and who is better in being a husband or more as a father. Love is all a trick, you have to be careful and put your love instincts behind your thoughts.
Why would your narcissist break up with you for another woman but want you to stay?
The question appears to be self-contradictory. If he wants you to stay, he hasn't broken up with you. If he has broken up with you, then he doesn't want you to stay. He cannot both break up with you and also want you to stay.
What should uou say if someone say OK?
'OK' mostly denotes the end of a conversation. You do not have to say anything.
No sex for one Casual is a slower relationship in which you take your time to get to know each other and you take it slow,go on dates, etc.
How can you tell when a guy is jealous of your boyfriend?
Well, Ive had this happen to me before. I have two guy friends that i was really close with but they got really jealous of me and my boyfriend dating. They were going to fight each other but i just told them to stop and one day they decided that they didnt want to talk to me anymore so i told them okay and now me and my boyfriend are having a great relationship.
All i can tell you to do, is if your willing to stop talking to your guy friends then do that and make your bf your number one priority, Or dump the guy your with to make your guy friends happy.
How do you get revenge without getting in trouble?
Easy. It's called framing.
All you have to do is frame the person you want to get revenge on for something small that will get them into trouble.
What if your parents have split up what should you do?
Just to reasure you this case has happend to me so you can feel comfotable getting through the matter. The first thing you should know it is not your fault that it happened and that your mum and dad love you very much also you should never do anything to try and get them back together because most of the time it does not work. Also you should get upset bcause it is a big matter and a big change to your life. you should also talk to them and ask why so that you understand what is going on and also if you are under 11 years old it is going to be overly hard because you are to youn to fully understand so take my advice and just let it go and if it does not sink in then get some counceling witch is very good. also enjoy the quality time you get shared with your mum and dad seperatly.
Will Sagittairus man come back to a Gemini woman after break up?
If scorpio man is goinh through a bad phase of his horoscope ,he will come back ( to hurt himself ).Scorpio n gemini a disaster...or you may call it -fatal attraction.
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How do you impress an unknown girl?
Talk to her.
You can't "impress" anybody unless you know them. How would you like it if a random person began to randomly show off to you? You wouldn't like it at all.
Just talk to her and be yourself, compliment her, make her laugh, ask her questions so you are showing you're interested in her.
What are good reasons for voting?
Voting is how you voice your opinion about a certain topic, be it presidential elections or bond voting. If you don't vote, your opinion will not be heard nor counted. Many people think that one vote does not count, but if everyone followed that mentality there would be no votes cast and what would happen to a government run by the people if they people did not care to run it? Every freedom there is could be taken away because of the apathy.
Why does your girlfriend get angry over every little thing?
There could be plenty of reasons. She could be:
- hormonal
- growing tired of the relationship/attracted to someone else
- disappointed by something you did
- you might not know you did it.
Sometimes it's best to just ask straightforward why they've been unhappy with you. It may not even be something you or she did. She could be having family problems or health problems. If you can't get a straight answer from her, try asking a friend or family member of hers.
Should you go out with someone that broke up with your friend?
Your best friend was a jerk seeing her unless he knew you didn't want her back. The girl is just as bad for dating your best friend because she knew it would hurt you. Do you really want a girl who would be that mean?
If you like her then yea sure go for it!, and your best friend shouldn't get mad cause you went out with her first right? so technically he was the one not being a good friend.
This depends on a lot of things. Perhaps your ex wasn't sure of her relationship with you and needed to date others. If she has and realizes that she has a good thing in your relationship by all means give it a shot.
If your ex is between men, then I would take it very slow.
Personally, your best friend is not a good friend at all, and should have never dated your ex. There are just some decent rules that we should follow.
Hope this helps.
Marcy
Why do i keep waiting for him to show up?
Maybe you miss him? Maybe you need the support? (which your friends could give you)
Maybe you feel a loss but unless you wish to tell him that you still have feelings for him.
Try taling to your friends about this situation :) You will feel alot better about the situation and yourself.
If he usually rings you and you want to speak to him so desperately, why not try ringing him, just try not too seem desperate or clingy onto him, unless he makes references about feeling things for you. This way he wont feel 'proud' of himself, and cause him to treat you in a 'cocky' attitude.
Dont spend all your time feeling down either, I know its hard, but sometimes moving on or celebrating your happiness in life is a good way to realise what you've got is already good :)
What does it mean when you ask a guy sometime and he say talk tomorrow?
a 1001 different things....wait till tomorrow... if he doesn't call... you'll know that maybe no time is a good time to talk.
When is it time to break up with your girlfriend?
If she is mad at you or is not talking to you. The fact that you are asking the question, means that you are giving some thought to letting her go, either consciously or unconsciously No one can tell you what to do in your relationship as that is entirely up to you, but if it is more work than fun and it does not bring you joy and happiness, why bother to put any more energy into it? If you feel used or abused, consider a break-up. You should probably talk to her first, and try to work it out.
How do you get over someone who loves you and you love them when it was a bad relationship?
the best thing you can do is get back into dating. even if you know that you are not looking for someone else, you give yourself the illision that you are. you will never fully get over the bad relationship, but you can at least mask the pain
What do you do when you accidentally sent a bad message to your girlfriend?
- All friends have their disagreements at times so instead of sending another message to apologize telephone your friend and apologize for what you said and let them know what is going on in your life and why you said those things. If you friend is a real friend they will forgive you this one time, but I wouldn't make a habit of doing it to your friend and before hitting 'send' read over what you are sending that person and when in doubt ... delete!
