Cheating

Some young men just want to be wild and free and some men are shy and quiet. Your boyfriend is the former. The only thing he has wrong in all of this is he shouldn't have a steady relationship going with any girl when he wants to go out and party with his buddies all the time. Some of those buddies of his are single and he could stray. He either is committed to you, or he goes and plays with his friends until he matures and is ready to settle down. Don't cheat on him, but tell him you've had it and it's time to move on! This may scare him enough to spend more time on you, or it may not. You should be learning now, that you are in total control of your own destiny and no man should ever hold you down from being independent (it's you that holds yourself back.) Unless he is willing to commit to a relationship with you then I'd move on. Don't sit at home putting up with this! Good luck hon Marcy

No, that's not the kind of thing that a married man should ever do. It would be a deal breaker as far as I'm concerned.

Depends on the situation. If he cannot leave his wife for very genuine reasons and you are sure he loves you and is not just using you for free casual sex, and he can spend a lot of time with yes. If he is having his cake and eating it and just saying what you want to hear no. And ask yourself where you will be with this in five years or ten years time.

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I'm in the same situation. It is hard for ANYONE to leave. Not because they love the person they are married to but because they don't want to huirt anyone. If it is true love (any only the two of you know if it is) then you will know that he is being honest and yes stay and give hime time. I did and now we live together.

If it is not then let him go and move on. But keep your pride and keep his family out of it.

The relationship is over. There is no point in wallowing in misery over what happened in the past. Any urge to confront the person with the knowledge of their infidelity is an expression of the desire to have control over that person, which is meaningless now. Let go of her, and get on with your life. Be glad that you aren't with her anymore. It would have been much worse to have stayed with her and then find out that she was cheating on you. Be glad that your cheating ex-girlfriend is your ex-girlfriend, and not your wife.

• You gave no explanation as to why you find your friend's husband creepy. If it is just the way he moves or looks as far as his physical looks then it is not up to you to make such a remark to your friend about her husband. If her husband is flirting; making rude remarks to you or other women or is making suggestions that he get together with you or any other woman or, making suggestive physical movements then you should tell your friend. Sometimes shyness can be mistook for an individual being creepy.

No. And anyone who tells you that is just trying to justify and rationalize cheating. Don't fall for this old trick.

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The only way you can do this is talk to your husband privately and calmly. Some husband might get angry or shock but his the one who betrayed you, and ruined the normal life you have with him. Tell him everything that hurt you and know how you can stand with your own feet. If not go and find a divorce lawyer so he can do what you wanted, other than that, the best way is talk.

Go talk to an attorney. You can file for divorce even if he doesn't want one.

Because they think they can and get away of it like how celebrity's think they can get rid of a law even though they have done federal crimes.

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Yes most of them do cheat to their wives, because they know they can get away with it, especially if the politician has a higher rank in the government. They can also covered them up by having someone as their scape goat. But no matter what they do, things will come back and people like us giving our trust will become more smart not to trust some politician that supposed to be a good man.

check it out see whats up w/ this dude friend or closer there could be a relationship forming that mustbe stopped

Yeah with another woman behind mary.j.blige back.

• No, a wife is not a fool for wishing at Christmas that she could get her husband back after an affair. If your husband has never cheated before and you have taken him back then realize people are only human and make mistakes and you need to determine if you think your husband feels guilty for having the affair and if not, then it is best you either stay away from him or file for at least a separation. If you are not with your husband then take the time to really think about your marriage and whether you were truly happy throughout that marriage. Nine chances out of ten you were not, but like many married couples one or both spouses may simply ignore how they feel and continue on with a loveless marriage because it is too much work or too fearful a prospect to come to the realization it is time to divorce. There is life after being married and many nice men out there looking for a great lady to have a relationship with. It could be the beginning of the rest of your life.

Married Women Who Want a Taste was created on 2003-03-07.

Assuming you mean an affair you, the questioner, had and your marriage, it depends on what you want to learn. You might learn about betrayal, yours to the vows you took, uours to moral behaviour, yours to your spouse.

It's when someone breaks the trust for example like catching feelings for others outside the main relationship, keeping secrets or lying to your partner.

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You cant change someone but, you can talk to them and tell them how you feel and it's not good to give yourself up so fast/easily.

tell him how you feel about him cheating and that you know he's doing it, if that doesnt work buy him a block of chocolate. (I always suck up to my husband to get something out of him.)

No, he/she is not a good boyfriend/girlfriend. Leave him/her and wait for him/her to come crawling back!

Answer Maybe he''s leading you on especially if he has a girlfriend already. Maybe its time for you to move on and forget this guy.

My opinion is that you should try talking to your boyfriend and ask him if it is true that he still has feelings for this girl. If you love him you'll know what to do. Listen to your heart it may sound mushy but it's true you'll have the right answer sooner or later and if he does still like this girl, you should move o to another guy there are a lot of guys out there who might be right for you. Just don't lose confidence. Trust me, i have been through that. :D

Yes, you should forgive your sister, because she's still your sister and you're always going to have her around. If you were to hold grudges with everyone who even looked at your husband, where would you be? With a whole bunch of enemies! You need to forgive and forget, because she's probably sorry and if she's not, you need to sit down and talk to her about why you thought what she did was wrong and how she can make it better. And you can ask her not to do it again.

* If you are believing in birth signs and Horoscopes then you are being unfair to your boyfriend. There is no indication that Virgo and Pisces cannot get along and if you continue with these suspicions on Birth Signs alone you will end up the loser. If you feel he is cheating on you it has nothing to do with being a Pisces and you a Virgo. Some men and woman of any Birth Sign can cheat on one another.

* If you file for divorce you can have your lawyer serve him for being your wife's lover. This is grounds for divorce. However, think long and hard about this and if your wife has admitted making a mistake and regretting it then start communicating and decide if you can still build on your marriage to make it stronger. People are only human. You should give yourself time to calm down and cool off before making a rash decision. Your wife is the one responsible for not saying the word 'no' and with friends like this male friend who needs enemies.

It may feel easier short term to bury suspicion with denial (men being cheated on do this too). It's easier to question our own motives for suspicion. Have you ever had a trusted relative or friend visit you, only to discover later that some money or a possession is gone? Do you suddnely think they stole from you and accuse them, or do you tend to believe (at first) that the money/possession was misplaced? No one wants to believe someone they've invested trust in can easily lie and conceal things from them. No one wants to feel that the person they love doesn't put them first in their life.

The first step would be to realize that fantasizing about extramarital sex is not equivalent to an actual sexual affair with someone. The next step would be to discuss honestly the problems the two of you are having. Doing that with professional facilitation may be a good option. While the Internet is a wonderful tool it has it's down-side like everything else and porn sites are one of them. Unplug the computer and get rid of it! Then seek counseling. If your mate rejects this idea then it's time to move on.