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Cheating
This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.
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What percentage of Muslim men have multiple wives?
The percenage of Muslims who more then one five is the highestt could well be forty percent.
How do you tell him that he is cheating on you?
This question is inferring that you absoulutely without question know that he is cheating on you.
He KNOWS that he is cheating.
Before you tell him that you know, you must decide what you are going to do. How do you feel about the fact that he is untruthful and not trustworthy? How could you ever trust him again?
So, then the question is. What are you going to do when you confront him? Letting him have the ball in his court is NOT the answer. It is no longer about him. He is the cheater, the liar.
You must decide what you are going to do BEFORE having any conversation with him. If you are married, get an attorney ready. Clear the bank accounts.
The question should not have been how to tell him he is cheating on you. He should have been asking the question on how to tell you!
Now that you have your ducks lined up, with a place to live or his stuff out on the boulevard is the time to tell him. You must have the upper hand. The element of surprise. For either decision that you decide to make.
If you believe that you are still in love with this man and want to give him a second chance you need to make him know in no uncertain terms that you are not a door mat. He needs to believe that you are pissed as hell and leaving him. He may not want to continue a relationship with now that he has been found out. If you think this is the case, then good riddance anyway!
If you are not sure of what he is going to say it is a good idea to get a small recorder from radio shack. Be prepared for him to lie to you. Then later he will deny the lies.
Don't give him a heads up about the conversation. Act naturally, and start the conversation when you would normally see him. The fact that you do this will also give him a shock. Because he is taken aback he will be more likely to give you the answers you will need.
Personally, I have been through this. I would record him, because he will deny it to your friends and his family later.
Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with a man whom you can't bare your soul too? How about if you should get ill? We all need somebody to lean on is the truth. He is not that kind of a guy.
How do you know if the married man wants his ex mistress back?
He is texting and calling her. Also, if he "goes out", he might be visiting her
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If your husband is dying to get back to his mistress, then ask him to sign the papers so that way he wouldn't hurt you anymore. Also you will not catch anything from him sexually. Not sure if you still love your husband, but if it was me, I will also help him pack his clothes and I will change my lock in the door so he can't get in anymore...
Any guy (no matter what his age) that impregnates a girl and then bails out on her isn't a man at all and has a wide yellow streak up his back. He may be shocked and worried about you being pregnant, but this is still no reason to cheat on you. If he can't stand by you now you can't force him to stand by you during your pregnancy or after the baby comes. He's a rat, so kick him to the curb and get full custody of your child if you can. Good luck hon. here's the thing ive been with my bf for over a year now and im 3 week and 3 days away from having his child but yesterday i found out he s cheating on me with another girl what do i do? i cant trust him but he said it meant nothing and when he was given a choice he choose me but i think it was just for the baby. and when i asked him what he did with her then he said kissed her, then he said he regrets it now but it didnt seem to bother him that he had really hurt me. he said she didnt mean anything to him but he was on about sleeping with her when he went up to hers but i found out the day before and he never went. i really dont know what do to cuz i still love him i just cant trust him once they cheat they can and will do it again its just a matter of time. what should i do plz if anyone can help. Hi hon I posted above you. Being pregnant makes your hormones go all over the place and now you are under stress. For now don't make any decisions on what you want to do, but try and focus on your baby. After you have had the baby and things calm down, then decide. Trust me when I tell you this guy is pure rat (not that I have anything against rats in the animal kingdom) but he's sneaky, playing head games with you and is the lowest form of male there is. Here you are pregnant with his baby and he's seeing another girl instead of being by your side when you have doubts, fears and wonder what is in the future for you. I have met many young single moms and they have done just fine. Later on they have met a wonderful guy and got married. So, your future is not over yet. Kick this guy to the curb after you have that baby and see if your parents can help you out or get assistance from the government. I can promise you that you will meet someone worthy of you and your child. Hang on! If you need further help or just need to ask questions feel free to post again. Good luck & God Bless
Married woman in love with married man?
Answer Getting involved with a married woman can cause you a lot of problems. If her husband were to find out you could find yourself looking down the barrel of a gun or worse as some husbands don't take kindly to other men having affairs with their wives. You could really fall in love with this woman only to find out that she's been using you for sexual purposes and will never leave her husband. Be wise, while it may sound exciting to have another man's wife, how would you feel if it were your wife fooling around? Get your own girlfriend, unattached and have a happy life instead of having to look over your shoulder wondering if the married woman's husband has found out, and is out to get you.
Can you recover from emotional affair of your husband and rebuild your marriage?
Well this question is simple to answer. My wife had an affair after our twins were only a year old. She wasn't happy in our marriage and it happened. I truly loved this woman but the only way it could have worked was if she wanted it to. It takes both sides. It was a very difficult time for me. It still is. We are divorced now and not because I wanted it. It is possible but takes an extreme amount of effort from both sides. I wish I got that effort from her but I didn't.
What if the husband no longer lives with wife and sees another woman what are the laws?
My husband moved to Georgia, with the intention that I also would be moving there with him. I recently found out that he has a live in girlfriend. In the state of Wisconsin if that happened the women could be arrested for prostitution. Is the law the same in Georgia.
Do married men leave their wives?
Yes. Unfortunately. There are also many men leaving pregnant wives or ones with newborns. Getting a man to marry you doesn't guarantee that he will be around forever.
What do you do when he is cheating?
First of all, you should be strong when they hear their boyfriend or husband cheated on them.
when you heard that a guy is cheating on you then you need to talk to him about it, because it may just be a bit of a misunderstanding and sometimes, all it takes is a simple one-on-one talk, then, you need give him a second chance because everyone deserves it and it also shows that you really trust him, and if he still cheats, then break up with him. You gave him a chance and he blew it, he also violated the very important foundation of every relationship to work---trust.
Why does your husband look at other women?
When a man is hiding such a thing it is because he knows you would not approve of it. Whether it may be because you are jealous if he talks to other women or whether he actually has something to hide you must confront him and tell him how this makes you feel. Unfortunately he will obviously see these women still due to work but if he takes your feelings into consideration he should not and will not hide talking to them. Depending on the situation as well if he is cheating you may have to make some decisions that are best for you (and if you have children).
Of course it is, there is never a good or justifiable reason to cheat. Its better to just get out of the relationship your in then to cheat on the person.
Why do a husband suspect his wife is cheating?
Usually is because of the wife actions. Lets say the guys wife gets off work at 8 and she gets home 10.if it happends many times a week. It means something is going on. Or the way she acts around and she didnt use to do before..
Yes. Obviously, physical cheating is sex and emotional cheating is like watching porn or fantasizing about someone other than you. A person can do both at the same time and both hurt just as bad. There is no way to determine which one hurts worse, it is different for everyone.
Emotional cheating seems to be the one that sticks around and causes future problems. If a spouse goes out and has sex mindlessly with someone after getting drunk, it is something a couple can work through because it wasn't like the spouse did this after months of pursuing the mistress.
I might add that most physical cheating starts with emotional cheating and usuall involves emotional cheating when comitted.
What is the name for a married man?
William
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Man or woman who cheat are given names so we will know who they are, for man we call them " Adulterer " and for woman we call them "Adulteress."
Dont know if there is a survey out there per say because who's going to admit it. Men make more opportunities for themselves for this kind of behaviour although you have to remember if the men are out "doing" their own thing(s) there are a lot of bored wives out there as well that then tend to wander.
All in all extramarital affairs in general are on the rise however, there are less marriages and higher rate of divorce as well as promiscuity among singles.
ANSWER: He lives either in a house, an apartment, a rooming house, or in a cardboard box under a bridge. That is unless the 'he' you are referring to is "HE' aka God which would then put him up in heaven !
Can you get in trouble for cheating?
no unless you owe them money that you've borrowed... otherwise you guys are not legally together..
What do you do if your boyfriend cheats on you with your best friend?
first, ask your friend what shes been doing with your boyfriend. If she tries to lie to you in any way smack the crap out of her. Then confront your boyfriend. if you get it out of him see if what they've been behind your back is not too serious you don't necessarily have to dump him. But if they've been sleeping together leave his butt and find a someone who loves you for who you are. Not just to get close to your hot friend.
- It's cheap to cheat on your boyfriend whether you love him or not. You need to communicate with him that you don't love him and want your freedom to do as you wish and to see who you want and you want to be honest with him and let him get on with his own life. Warning: 'Still waters run deep' which means if your boyfriend is a nice guy he could easily panic and do something rash to you or himself if you persist on leaving him. It is obvious he isn't going to let go easily. If he has a temper then beware and don't discuss leaving him unless you are around your parents; other family members or male and female friends. If you are living together then move out. If he texts you refuse to answer him and if phones you then don't answer the phone. If he threatens you in any way then keep any emails or taped phone conversations and go to the police.
Does anyone deserve a second chance?
Everyone deserves a second chance. Not too quickly though. They need plenty of time in between to regret what they did. -DJ Craig
What states allow you to sue husband mistress?
south Korea.
ANSWER:
Love there are none here in United State, where you can sue a mistress because of the affair she had with your spouse. The only thing we can use is our religion. The bible say committing adultery is a sin and immoral. Men or women that cross this path, their soul will burn in hell.
By the way Korea is not a part of United State, it's another country in Asia..
Do you need to know all the details of the affair?
That could be entertaining! Go for it!
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STOP, you will be making a huge mistakes. Yes it will help some but if you will rebuild your marriage, with your spouse it's not going to be easy. This affair that he or she did will stay with you for a long time. Your mind will always be in that place and it will hunt you. It will not stop because your heart is still broken and you don't have the trust.
Let God solve the pain that your spouse gave you. Always remember sooner or later what goes around, comes around. Think about it and all you can do is tell your spouse your feeling, your pain, and let time heal it for you..
What do you do when you catch your boyfriend cheating on you?
All you need to do is confront him the next day and address the issue. Speak in a calm voice and ask him why he did this. If he says that your not treating him as he should be, and the other girl does. Then you need to respect that. Cheating might be wrong, but if he had a reason other than a stupid one then you're probably the reason he's doing it.
Can a woman sue another woman for sleeping with her husband?
Yes, there is a law that permits you to do so. You have to prove that your marriage was a "happy" marriage before the other woman came into the picture. It's called alienation of affection. The injured spouse can bring action against the third party (affair) in Hawaii, Illinois, New Hampshire, New Mexico, North Carolina, South Dakota and Utah.
Does looking at other women ultimately lead to cheating?
No. Cheating would be engaging in physical or emotional involvement (such as correspondence or communication). The act of looking at another person is inheriently self-based, involving only one individual. Generally conducted without the knowledge of the person being looked at. Simply thinking or fantasizing about it is similarly a self-based act and not subject to cheating criteria, as it would be physically impossible to restrict sexual attraction to a single person of choice.
It is a natural impulse to look, and there is nothing wrong with that. Neither is looking the same as thinking.
The problem only arises when you look because you were thinking, or because you were thinking without or beforelooking, or if you choose to look and/or think, or if you look long enough to begin thinking.
If you recognise that you were looking or thinking and stop because you know it is not right, then you are immediately countering that problem. Even better, if you straight away begin thinking about your own current partner (and how much you love them).
