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This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.

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Could alcohol cause infidelity?

Alcohol addiction is a clear example of what I call a Love Buster because it causes so much suffering in marriage. Besides being physically and emotionally harmful to alcoholics themselves, addiction is also harmful to those whose lives touch them. Addiction makes people insensitive to the feelings of those who care most for them, and they will stop at nothing to feed their addiction. I am witness to many people whose lives have been ruined because they married alcoholics. Alcoholics commonly engage in their most painful habits while under the influence. Acts of infidelity are common. The fact that he or she is drunk at the time is no consolation to a grief-stricken spouse.

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How do you make doctor fall in my love and to be want to marry you?

You can't "get" or "make" someone fall in love with you. However, if you are interested in your Doctor that way you should come right out and tell him. Start by saying that you are interested in him socially and would like him to refer you to another doctor for your medical needs. Whether he responds to you in the manner you hope or not, you need to get yourself another doctor because the path you are currently on will get you hurt sooner or later and could cost him his medical practice if he doesn't handle it right.

How will you feel if your spouse told you making love with his mistress was the same with you?

  • First off your spouse should not have a mistress! You are obviously enabling his poor behavior. He is disrespectful of you and you need to realize you are in total control of your own life. It's time you laid it on the line with your husband and told him you are not putting up with his cheating and the disrespectful way he is treating you and either he gives up his mistress and starts working on your marriage by going to a marriage counselor or he can pack his bags and get out. Take control over your life and don't sit at home allowing your husband to say and do whatever he wants as he will disrespect you even more and you will end up with low self esteem issues.

Who lies more girls or guys?

men

Married Men who are unfaithful to their wives.

How can you tell if your girlfriend is interested in another woman?

Ask him straight up. Be as calm about it as possible. Just say,"Please be honest with me, I want to know..." If you just think it's a paranioa... ask his buddies, or wait awhile before you do anything. Good luck.

Why doesn't your boyfriend trust you and you trust him after cheating on you?

You can trust your boyfriend but if hes not trustworthy like if hes cheated on you or somthing or if you think hes doing somothing that you dont know ask him if he lies them hes not trustworthy

Is It Okay To Cheat On Someone?

NO god does not like it very much and you should always listen to god. If you dont god would be god would be angry HECK NOseriously cheating is awful not just because god doesnt like it but the persony ou are cheating on wont like it very much. Lets turn it around so it is on you. you like someone and you find out that they have been lying to you and cheating on you. not very fun!

What do you do if you are married but fall in love with someone else and they are married too?

Oh honey, leave before you get deeper! It wont lead anywhere. The quota of men leaving their wifes for a mistress aren't big. Move on even if it's painful for a while. It will get worse if you actually get involved.

How do you make your girlfriend feel bad when she cheat on you?

why do you want to make her feel bad? you can just move on and pretend that she doesn't exist anymore.anyways here's the answer to your question,just keep saying bad things about her to everybody and tell them that she cheated on you.she'll feel pretty bad about it.especially if the boy she is going out with hears about it.but what do i know i never went out with anybody before, so don't take my words seriously

How do you know that your ex still loves you?

  • If your ex still loved you then they would make an effort to try and win you back by trying to get in touch with you; asking you to meet them somewhere where you could discuss your relationship or, in some cases even send flowers or text messages.

What do boys talk about at sleepovers?

I've been told that 14 to 18 year old guys talk about sex and girls mainly. Next is video games. After that there are the minor subjects like people they don't like, school, music, sports and many other normal things. I got this from my son, age 16 and some of his friends, and my boyfriend (things he remembers about being young).

Why is faithfullness important?

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Why? simple being faithful to the people or a person we love can go along ways. If we can't be faithful no one will trust us, especially in relationship. I have seen so many wives including yours truly, and also men who gets hurt because our friends, lover, boyfriend, girlfriend, husbands, and wife are not faithful or truthful to us..

How can you make your little sister stop being annoying?

The first thing your not supposed to do is pour jam all over your sister and rub her in peanut butter. That is what my brother did to my little sister. Girls usually love dolls. If they are little, that's one way to occupy them. If they are older, than that might be a little harder. Older girls are harder to occupy. Girls are just naturally that way. If your older sister loves TV suggest for her to go watch TV. If you want to annoy her and get her to leave you alone at the same time than consider doing the following: Get a bucket of water and put it above her bedroom doorway. When she opens the door it should fall. When you see that she is soaking wet, pretend you don't even know what happened and say you don't even know what she is talking about in front of everyone in your family. You later tell her that you did it all. Make sure there are no cameras around that could possibly be filming what your saying. She will end up telling your parents but nobody will believe her. You shall be innocent, while everyone else in your family wonders who could have possibly done it. Well I must go, you should by now know what to do if your sister is annoying you.

Will you ever get over him cheating on you?

That depends on the girl. Back in the day when I was a trapper and if I caught something in one of my traps, if I liked her and she seem worth sticking around to see what happens I was faithful until the b.s. came and that is usually after she gets use to you. When she starts showing her selfishness and mistrust of me, I didn't care what she did cause it would be like, when rooster crows at the brake of dawn look out your window and I'll be gone. But when I met my wife, something strange happened, one day I looked around and the grass was greener, the sky bluer even old beat up cars had a shine to them, I was in love for the first time in my life. I thought that she was high maintenance so I worked 2 jobs to take her to exclusive places but that was not what she was about. It would take a few minutes for me to catch my breathe when I would wake in morning and she'd have an arm or a leg across me and this was no dream but there is no way I would have guess after our first meeting that I could pull something like her. I was envied and hated. Then one day I saw her with this guy who was more her speed than I and and I got weak in the knees and a pain in my chest and misty eyed, I was hurt. I was no mud duck but this guy was Mr. GQ. In the coming days she noticed my depression and her female intuition told her what it was and how to handle it and she did it in a most unique and much too intimate way to share. She put something in my lunch bag I thought was a mistake but when I related the matter at home that night she said this, "I know your secret and the way you've been doing me I don't want you thinking of no other women but me." When I told her about Mr. GQ she said she use to be with him until she paid an unexpected visit to his place one day and found 2 sets of men's pants, shoes and drawers and followed the trail to his bed room and found him in bed with another MALE. He was a Bi- guy and she said that is not her idea of a man and that she is a selfish girl and the guy she wants better give her 100% of his attention and guys like him look at their own asses more than a womens. Well we were married by the end of the year. Now here comes the point I'm making. A few years later we were on our way up to Morro Bay to spend the week end. I brought up the day I saw her with Bi-guy and told her I was glad that she told me the truth and she said this: "I don't have to lie to you cause I know that you"d forgive me for anything." You know she was right? It would brake my heart if I found out that she ever cheated on me but there is no way that I could love her one day and hate her the next.

You feel guilty?

  • You need to take time out to figure out why you feel guilty. If you hurt someone verbally; physically hit someone; cheated, etc., then you need to be responsible for your own actions and apologize to that person. The person involved may not forgive you, but still, you need to free yourself by a meaningful apology.

How can you have more than one wife?

In most modern Western cultures, it is not legal to be married to more then one person at a time. It must be kept in mind however that there are other society's in the world where having more then one wife is not illegal and the number of women you can take as wife is limited to what you can afford. This is not cheating this is just the way it is. even in a biblical sence there is no problem with having more then one wife.

How does a woman increase her sex drive with her husband of 10 years?

Pamper yourself, as in pedicures, tanning, keeping legs shaved, nice lotions, no granny panties or bras, whether you are thin or well rounded all these things will help you feel sexier. Then buy a vibrator and some other adult toys, also some lube. It can be embarassing to verbalize so just write down things you want to do/try and give the note to your husband. When you have some private time use the vibrator on yourself if you haven't used one before so that you know what to expect. I have been married almost 30 years, and have 3 grown children. In my opinion, if the sex is good for both of you--orgasms for both of you--lack of desire is not an issue.

What percent of spouses cheat?

* There are no known specific statistics regarding the percentage of married men that leave their wives after they found out she has cheated on them. If one's husband/wife has cheated once then the couple should sit down and communicate and get to the root of their problems. People are not 100 percent perfect and can make one bad mistake such as cheating, but for some who cheat, it does not mean they will do it again. If the husband/wife has cheated more than once then it's best to move on. Trust is something that is gained and once someone breaks that trust it takes a long time to regain it; if ever.

What is the repercussions if a spouse is caught in the act of adultery?

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I think the spouse will face the guilt that he never thought of having because of his affair with the other woman. Consequences will be known because he got caught and his life and the life of his wife will never be the same.

When is it ok to lie?

There's no certain time you can choose to lie about something. Lying is bad and dis respect to another person. Let say that you did the white lies, you will cover that with another lie, and another lie until you get caught. If you lie,that person will loose trust in you. So I don't think lying will help you in a long run

Why is your boyfriend don't make love with you anymore?

Its not the prize or the place its the sport of the chase.

How can you convince your bofriend that you are not cheating?

  • In many cases the person accusing the other of cheating has either had a bad experience with someone else who cheating on them (even a parent or both parents who cheated) and they assume the person they are with will cheat on them as well or, the person accusing is cheating themselves and feeling somewhat guilty about it. Since you are not cheating on your boyfriend you have nothing to prove and if he cannot see you for the trustful person you are and you have discussed this problem with him then it would be wise of you to break off the relationship or your life will continue to be miserable.

My boyfriend hits me what do I do?

Seek a PPO. Its a Personal Protection Order. You can get one at your local county courthouse, or at the Clerks office, you can also go on-line and check them out considering what state you live in. Personal Protection Orders are designed for domestic (family or relationship) situations. If this gets serious or if you feel the treat to be genuine, you can also call the cops and inform them of said threat. Anytime someone threatens you and you feel that the treat is real, that is an assault, you do not need to get hit for an assault to be warranted. nor do you need a battery (hitting of any kind) to follow along with it. an Assault is when a person makes a threat that the person to whom the threat was made feels in fear of the person making said threat, therefore, if this happens an Assault has occurred, most times when someone say something to the extent of, "I'm going to beat the S#$% out of you," (an Assault) and follows it up it by doing so (battery) it becomes an Assault and battery. But for now if seek A PPO and Call the police within a reasonable time of the treat being made.

Answer1. LEAVE. Leave now, leave quickly, get to someplace safe and surround yourself with people that truly care about you. Yes, it's complicated. Yes, it can be heartbreaking - but here's two insights that might help; your boyfriend has some issues that he needs to deal with (whether its anger management, his own past childhood abuse, chemical abuse, bipolar disorder or something else), and love does not involve threatening people with anything (little of all death). You do not have the expertise to give your boyfriend the professional help he clearly needs to become stable and a non-threat, neither are you in a safe position to assist him to get that expertise. Relationships based on threats have no trust, no trust means no security nor love, without security or love...why is there a relationship? The answer is out of habit. Habit is not a valid reason for relationships of any kind.

1a. You need to get a record with the local police department as soon as possible registering a complaint against him for threatening you. The reason for this is that most state/local laws about stalking or restraint orders require a significant stack of paperwork to show reason why that legal measure would be necessary, and you should have it as a safety net. When you get in touch with the police, be sure to have his car license plate number with you. If he is involved with any minor fender-benders in the near future, the record at the police department should spur an investigation - even if you weren't present and no one was majorly injured.

1b. Seek expert advice about the validity of his threats, and what response is best as far as whether you should live at a safe house for a while or if you should not change any habits (so as not to empower him as per response #1's idea). An expert can ask you questions about the circumstances of the threat, his past history of threatening you, and other such critical pieces of evidence that are too private for the internet ~ and unknowable to any random advice giver (no matter how good the intention is). This leads to number 2 -

2. Locate a good counselor and meet with him or her to talk about your experiences with this soon-to-be-ex-boyfriend so that you can observe any patterns in your life that might create future relationship difficulties with men who will be much more significant to you and much more thoughtful and loving. Most states offer a low income counseling option, if money is an issue - if you are still in high school talk to your school counselor. Many cities have "survival" groups that are free. People who share related experiences meet in these (mostly open membership) groups to work through issues and yes, have fun. Joining a "abuse survival" group might be a good experience for you, even if you were never physically abused - mental abuse (such as a threat that causes so much anxiety that you resort to posting an annonymous question on the WikiAnswers website) is also abuse. If money isn't a concern, get the counselor who has the most experience in the area of relationships, abuse, etc. If all else fails, buy one of those recent books by Dr. Phil. Seriously. Not that his threat to you is in any way your fault - rather, it is important for your safety that you can identify characteristics about this soon to be ex that make him dangerous, so that you avoid others like him in your future. After all, part of resolving this question of yours is how you will heal after this experience. (Note: another expert that might be of assistance to you if you are inclined to do so, have the money to do so, and would feel more secure doing so, is a lawyer while you are at it. Select this lawyer by word-of-mouth (ask trusted friends) the yellow pages is just not a good way to judge which lawyers are good or not. I doubt you would need a lawyer at all...but hey, its an option.) But...back to the nice warm and fuzzy part - see point 3 below.

3. The good news is - the future is yours. It's all yours and it is a nice loooooong future. You will get wrinkles and grey hair, you will have more grandkids than you know what to do with. Someday ~ in the distant future. And the sooner you safely get out of the relationship you are in (by involving police and other experts) the sooner this nice future will have its first, promising days. It wont be easy, nothing is, staying would be far harder. The past is just that, it is gone. The present is what you can change. The future is yet unwritten. Your future should be filled with security, safety, and loving people who wish the best for you. Reach out to those people, and take your first steps toward meeting the one's you don't know yet. Leave. ASAP.

AnswerHey buddy!

Relax. People who issue these kind of threats are usually like dogs who just know to bark and not to bite. So,don't you worry. He comes across as an abuser no doubt. But, don't you be scared of him. I will advise you to involve your parents in the issue if you can and if not then take help of a very reliable friend and report the matter to police immediately. He will be taken to task. And at no point show yourself to be a weak person. Leave him immediately and also you can tell him that you are not scared of his threats and he can do whatever he feels like and that you have already informed a few good people about it (threats, so if anything has to happen to you he won't get off scot free).

And friend, next time try to judge a person well and give yourself sometime before you commit into a relationship. Good Luck!

What is emotional abandonment in marriage?

Instead of physically leaving the relationship, your spouse simply checks out emotionally. They stop investing in the marriage, leaving their mate feeling detached and unwanted. To the outside world the situation can still look rosy, but in reality the relationship is dying a slow, quiet death. Found this on a website. __________________________________________________________________ Not, a published knowing. When this happening does take place, during, and after, it depends on what: Home, Friends, Parents, or feeling abandonment inside from society itself. Staff in high school's use that as a logo to just say, it's a trend (when what's behind that front is worse than some could think). Certain circumstances, time, places, before B.C times, because it is an emotion. It has been going on for a long time. Ex: Seeing abandoned places, (not a fact, it's a view) warehouses, houses, barren place, castle that once had joy, it's the same ambiance (feeling): empty, cold, has a sadness, though it's not "living" but it still can brought back to life. To get to quick point: A point of "acceptance" has come, realizing it's happened. Denial can happen, because the "belief" in the mind has hit a threshold. Shattering [can] occur, not feeling real, "losing" identity for a time period; (it's the circumstance it can manifest in different ways) Intense pain as psychical the brain releases endorphins/dopamine which are associated with pain/pleasure. Remorse, de-realization (dissociation), from desolation of what that circumstance is, defense mechanism to "tune" out what is happening (separation from reality). Pain changes. Personality disorder's are in that category from trauma The least of all separation of "self") into alter/split personality, to maintain. This is a scenario, it is not fact. The feeling trauma Dissociate disorders. Know what caused, desolation and reason out the desolation, rebuild.. 2+2= won't see that pain anymore, look down on it. Bitterness, can stay, it's not the best, causes anger lead to wrath. To anyone who reads, hold on, and believe, even when "logic" says "it's not going to happen". There are things, that are unexplainable, but this is hint. Love radiates, like a warm fire, keeps life. Take this, if you need it. Someone wrote this to help. Take Care, to all.

How can you tell if your boyfriend still loves his child's mother?

he always apologizes for the past.

Answer

Couples get into this vicious cycle because they think love is enough to act on to try to recover the relationship. It is not. Unresolved problems come back to bite you. If you do not like the person and you do not get along, then let the person go and move on yourself.