Cheating

You do what would hurt the person's ego most: You act indifferent toward the breakup as if it would not take much for you to move on and find someone better. NOTHING destroys an ego more than to think your ex didn't want or need you as much as you thought. If you do things like act crazy to hurt them back, it will only AFFIRM to them that they have the ability to affect you so much and you adore them and are hurt immensely and can't recover for a long while. However, to see you go on with your life with a new person taking their place is the ULTIMATE knife in the back to a cheating ex.

Okay I'm sure he could be bored or he could be trying to get closer to you because some boys just like to be close to the one they love.

The second marriage does not count, in any state. So, no, it is not legal in Vegas. If you married a second time while still legally married to another, you have committed a crime. It is called Bigamy and you are subject to fines, jail or both. You IS in a whole lot of trouble.

If you don't trust someone there has to be a reason behind it. Is he a flirt and does he take your feelings into consideration? Has he done something in the past that you are afraid he will do again? Does he cover up his actions with lies? If you question his behavior does he explain without getting upset? Does he treat you with respect? If there is no trust in a relationship than it is time to move on. If you were hurt by him but believe he will not hurt you again the trust will come over time. But if you were hurt by him and did not get everything from him to put your mind at ease than nothing will get you to trust him again and it would be in your best interest to move on from that relationship. Trust is essential to any happy, sound relationship. If you can't restore trust - and that needs to be a joint effort, then it's almost certainly the start of a serious deterioration in the relationship.

You can't!!!! You can only start over with your actions, words fall deaf to a sore ear. I have found that giving up your time that otherwise is taken up by something you want to do (ie. watching the superbowl) solely for the purpose of making the one you hurt happy... that's a good start. Taking that long weekend to go somewhere the other person wants to go is a step in the right direction. You can't!!!! You can only start over with your actions, words fall deaf to a sore ear. I have found that giving up your time that otherwise is taken up by something you want to do (ie. watching the superbowl) solely for the purpose of making the one you hurt happy... that's a good start. Taking that long weekend to go somewhere the other person wants to go is a step in the right direction.

You should check his phone on a regular basis without him knowing

Randomly show up where ever he said he was going

Try to prevent him from cheating so be with him as much as you can and give him a good amount of intimate time with you but try not to smother him

If you suspect he is cheating on you then your sixth sense is right, you can just feel it, I did exactly the same so i asked him and he confessed, always say don't worry i wont brake up with you if you did cheat, that's how you get the truth out. And then dump him or if you can forgive him stay with him but don't make him feel ok about what he did cos otherwise he will strike again

You don't do it!! If you want to be with someone else have the courage to let your boyfriend go as to not hurt him more and to not cheat on him. If you feel you need to "cheat" then be single so you can do whatever you want when you want. Cheating is just plain wrong.

In my past experiences i have found that in order to get the truth out of a cheating partner or spouse you have to already know a good amount of the truth. True cheaters never reveal their methods unless caught in the act.

There really is no perfect answer, but here's a couple of possibilities: There is something missing at home and feels that he needs to go elsewhere to get it or maybe he is an addict and can't control himself. People cheat for many reasons. What should happen before cheating occurs is a honest talk about the intentions of the one whom is not happy. Men who cheat alot of times cannot commit to one woman and think it is there duty as a man. Real men are not liars nor do they hurt the ones they love. A relationship that has this drama in it usually had issues before this happened that were not taken care of. Please remember that it is not you. The two of you married each other and are supposed to be honest, caring and considerate. If the relationship wasnt working for your husband as he invisioned it after marriage, he should have come to you and been a man and let you know before doing anything disparaging to the marriage. Now you must weigh your options , do you want to the relationship to improve, will you ever be able to trust him again and how will he earn your trust back. Move on with your life so you can enjoy your self and be happy with someone who will show you the respect you deserve. good luck. if you cheet on your husband than you realy neep theripy! WHISPERS: how stupid can you get!

If you are truly sorry and it won't happen again, then phone him and see if he'll meet you somewhere. Apologize and remind him that people aren't perfect and make mistakes. Hopefully he's the forgiving and wise kind of person. When you say it MEAN IT!

no,sagittarin's are v sweet and loving they can never cheat with others...

Why would you ask, don't do that to yourself? TRUST me, let it go... Your husband needs to be honest about how long the affair went on, when/how it started, and who the individual is he was cheating with. These are reasonable questions. If he refuses to answer them, he seems to be hoping that all of this will just "go away" and you both can keep going on with your lives. It's not that easy. If he wants to earn your trust, he needs to be honest with you about the affair and make it clear that it is over. However, if you are asking questions about gritty details (i.e. sexual) it's no suprise that your husband is umcomfortable with this. I don't think finding out all about the dirty deeds will make you feel better. If he wants to save the marriage, he needs to acknowledge the affair and what happened overall. He needs to have no contact with this other person. I would also suggest martial counseling for your both. Because he doesn't want you to know. Get a new guy, this ones broken, at least as far as your concerned. I must humbly diasagree with the above post. The reason a man does not want to explain the sexual details is because this will hurt you even more. The fact of the matter is this; he cheated on you, and you two are obviously trying to save your marriage. Do not ask the little details about sexual contact, because this will add fuel to the fire.. Believe me, these are questions that are irrelavent to the saving of your marriage. What he did is over. There is absolutely NOTHING you two can do to change it. Let it go...

You can't "get" or "make" someone fall in love with you. However, if you are interested in your Doctor that way you should come right out and tell him. Start by saying that you are interested in him socially and would like him to refer you to another doctor for your medical needs. Whether he responds to you in the manner you hope or not, you need to get yourself another doctor because the path you are currently on will get you hurt sooner or later and could cost him his medical practice if he doesn't handle it right.

• First off your spouse should not have a mistress! You are obviously enabling his poor behavior. He is disrespectful of you and you need to realize you are in total control of your own life. It's time you laid it on the line with your husband and told him you are not putting up with his cheating and the disrespectful way he is treating you and either he gives up his mistress and starts working on your marriage by going to a marriage counselor or he can pack his bags and get out. Take control over your life and don't sit at home allowing your husband to say and do whatever he wants as he will disrespect you even more and you will end up with low self esteem issues.

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Married Men who are unfaithful to their wives.

Ask him straight up. Be as calm about it as possible. Just say,"Please be honest with me, I want to know..." If you just think it's a paranioa... ask his buddies, or wait awhile before you do anything. Good luck.

You can trust your boyfriend but if hes not trustworthy like if hes cheated on you or somthing or if you think hes doing somothing that you dont know ask him if he lies them hes not trustworthy

NO god does not like it very much and you should always listen to god. If you dont god would be god would be angry HECK NOseriously cheating is awful not just because god doesnt like it but the persony ou are cheating on wont like it very much. Lets turn it around so it is on you. you like someone and you find out that they have been lying to you and cheating on you. not very fun!

Oh honey, leave before you get deeper! It wont lead anywhere. The quota of men leaving their wifes for a mistress aren't big. Move on even if it's painful for a while. It will get worse if you actually get involved.

why do you want to make her feel bad? you can just move on and pretend that she doesn't exist anymore.anyways here's the answer to your question,just keep saying bad things about her to everybody and tell them that she cheated on you.she'll feel pretty bad about it.especially if the boy she is going out with hears about it.but what do i know i never went out with anybody before, so don't take my words seriously

• If your ex still loved you then they would make an effort to try and win you back by trying to get in touch with you; asking you to meet them somewhere where you could discuss your relationship or, in some cases even send flowers or text messages.

I've been told that 14 to 18 year old guys talk about sex and girls mainly. Next is video games. After that there are the minor subjects like people they don't like, school, music, sports and many other normal things. I got this from my son, age 16 and some of his friends, and my boyfriend (things he remembers about being young).