if they both feel comfortable with it then yes. after all they are related.

Added: You would do well to check with your states's Dept of Child and Family Services, I believe that many (all?) states require separate bedrooms for siblings after they reach a certain age.

First of all you need to talk to your mother.

Explain that you would like to move back in to live with her, and explain why.

Then you need to listen to your mother, she may agree or not.

All depends on the circumstances, usually a mother would want to protect her children, so try to resolve any issues and good luck.

Ask yourself what gives you the right to have custody of the children? The best answer for ALL concerned is to talk it over with your husband and come to an agreement. With this you can then get the agreement written up by lawyers. If you do not feel comfortable talking to your husband about this by yourself I suggest you both meet with a third party - say your lawyer. I suggest you get to a court ASAP and file a custody order, before he does. The first one who files normally has a better shot at winning. And if you can prove abuse, file that also. This is a hard question to answer so you need to act fast.

You could lose your child, if you have joint custody. He can state that you kidnapped the child. I would suggest going to get custody or at least get in contact with a lawyer and see what they say. If there was abuse, usually the justice system won't get involved until someone actually gets hurt. As sorry as that is.

You need to seek legal counsel ASAP, as the laws differ from region to region, country to country.

I was in that very situation about three years ago. By taking my daughter with me, insisting she sleep where I was staying, and controlling the visitations with her father, I was able to set the status quo. The courts, generally, are reluctant to go against the status quo, unless there is some form of concrete proof that it is in the child's best interest.

Just remember, going through a divorce is not the child(ren)'s fault...don't make them suffer! As separated/divorced parents, the ONLY question should be, "How can we be the best co-parents?" Should you go through the entire process of a trial, keep that in your mind as you ask/answer every question. And if your spouse is unable to do the same thing, all the better for you.

If you leave your husband and take your child with you, you better hurry and get temporary custody of your child legally. I lost my son because I left without filing the proper paperwork in court to give me temporary custody. He took him from me during a visitation and I now only get every other weekend and pay 300.00 child support. All because I didn't get a temporary parenting plan. Unless one or both parents have court papers showing custody, either parent can legally take the child. If you don't have papers, your husband could pick your child up from school and there isn't a thing you can do about it. If you call the police requesting visitation or the return of the child they won't do anything unless you have papers in hand. If you want custody, get it through the family court.

The situations that lead to divorce are always very bad for kids. (The divorce itself is the secondary thing). Parents treating each other without respect, having no value for the family, working each other down psychologically, arguing and fighting endlessly -- these all leave imprints on the kids that last a generation or more. If the two people you value and trust most in the world cannot preserve a trusting family relationship, that leaves the child with a legacy of mistrust, fear of bonding with another person, a feeling of dread that all good things end.

The divorce itself cements in the damage done by the situation that preceded it. Courts and lawyers and supervised visits and unaccompanied minor trips on airplanes and sniping by parents at the absent former partner all break down a child's ability to ever have a positive loving relationship.

Further, in the 10 years after the divorce, while men have typically had time to rebound economically, women and children of divorce average 2 socio-economic steps lower. That's right - divorce is most likely a ticket to long term financial crisis and limits for children.

So ... divorce to get away from a dangerous felon ... good for the child.

Divorce for almost any other reason ... very bad for the child.

Read Judith Wallerstein's Unexpected Legacy of Divorce to learn more. See related links below.

No. Parents have a legal obligation to care for their children, and that certainly includes financial support. If one parent leaves the household and stops acting as the custodial guardian of their children, the custodial parent can file for child support, regardless of marital status.

With that said, laws vary greatly from state to state, and if you’re considering a child support case, you should speak with your attorney to make sure you understand your rights and obligations. This is especially important if you’re planning on sharing custody of your child or children with your ex-partner.

With that said, here are a few important things to keep in mind. Note that this is an overview, and no part of this answer is intended as legal advice.

• Parents can file for child support as soon as it is necessary. The party with custody of the child (or children) is entitled to reasonable support from the non-custodial parent. To receive that support, they must file with a state child support agency.
  Contacting a state agency is often a fairly simple process, and for the most part, the agency handles much of the legwork. In Illinois, for instance, the Department of Healthcare and Family Services will search for the non-custodial parent, establish paternity, and obtain and enforce the child support order. The custodial parent simply needs to complete an online application form.
  Note that child support is typically prospective. That means that it’s not retroactive to the date it was issued—the sooner the custodial parent files, the sooner they can receive reasonable child support. For most custodial parents, the safest course of action is to apply for child support right away (but, again, consult an attorney).
• If parents share custody, the situation can be more complicated. A court will typically determine child support based on income disparity between the partners, parenting time schedules, and other factors. If, for example, both parents have similar incomes and they spend a similar amount of time with the child, the court might not grant child support to either of them.
  If you don’t have information about the other parent’s income, don’t worry—the court will request that information and make a fair determination.
• A divorce or separation does not change parents' obligations. However, the final terms of a divorce may change child support amounts. For instance, the divorce court may make important determinations for custody and visitation.
  As such, a court may grant a temporary child support order (a 'pendente lite" order) while a divorce or custody case proceeds. Custodial parents may have to file a pendente lite motion to receive this type of child support order.
  Child support payments can also change if either parents' financial circumstances change. This is typically accomplished by a Motion to Modify Child Support Order. When considering a temporary or permanent child support modification, courts evaluate changes in parental income, marital status, and the child’s financial need.
• The other parent’s visitation rights are not affected by child support payments. In other words, you can't prevent the other parent from visiting the child because they haven’t made child support payments on time.

To file for child support, look up the requirements for your state. Many states have online applications to make the process easier.

If you'd prefer not to apply online, contact a child support agency in your area. Be prepared to provide relevant documentation supporting your claim, and remember, if you're involved in a custody dispute or divorce, you should seek advice from a qualified attorney working in your state where the divorce has been filed.

the duties is that a mother must always be the for the child and make sure he child is at a good stage or health

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The above answer is a good summary but i don't think that's what the person asking this question would need since its too vague and they can always be there for the child yet not knowing his/her need. From my winter class in development, I've learned that there are quite a lot of things that a mother needs to do for her child.

One thing is to encourage language growth and this can be done by:

-speaking to her child frequently

- naming objects of children's attention (associating words like calm, annoying to certain things)

- Using speech that is more grammatically sophisticated = a lot of parents like baby talking to their children, but this action should be discouraged since by doing so it will delay development of the children's sophisticated speech. what they will learn instead of proper speech is making funny sounding sounds like boo boo dada, etc. Instead of getting them out of that phase it really just delays them from moving on.

- reading to them stories

- encouraging watching programs with emphasis on learning new words = just leaving them in front of the television is not a good idea however. Just schedule a specific amount of time to let them watch per week. Recommendations for tv shows would be shows like sesame street that really puts emphasis on language and shows like Dora the explorer which encourages the viewers to participate.

This addition that i did is still but a small fraction of the duties of a mother and really just applies to babies up to young kids but is restricted to only the language growth part. There are still more additions to this if the aim is to really say all the duties of a mother to a children but ill leave that to others to add since ill be writing pages if i even try to list all of it. Not to mention, living is a life of learning, and no matter how much study i do, i would never in my life reach the point that ill know it all.