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Children and Divorce
This category covers questions concerning the emotional effects of divorce on children, as well as the best way for parents to make the divorce easier on the kids. It also covers different family problems children and parents face when dealing with the divorce of parents, and how to deal with them.
379 Questions
Why doesnt your mom ever let you hang out with friends?
the reason my mom barely let me hang out with my friends was that she was too scared to watch her little boy turn into a teenager, she also wanted to protect me from the world which she considered a dark place, and at the age I as at she knew I was most vulnerable and susceptible to it all.
The long and short of it is, I'm pretty sure she's just trying to protect you, how real the need for never letting you hang out is though I don't know!
she needs to let you find your own feet and learn from mistakes that you're not going to make if she just keeps you in the house all the time.
What is considered to be support for child support?
In Florida, what is taken into consideration is the custodial AND non-custodial parents income. An affidavit is filed in court (for the hearing), to accurately provide the financial information on both parents. Those numbers need to be verified and are used to determine the custodial parents' financial obligation for all expenses regarding the childrens' needs AND the non-custodial parents' obligation for the same. Usually 49% and 51% respectively. For example: Custodial parents' income is higher than non-custodial. 4 teenagers in High School (no daycare) with higher than normal expenses for food, clothing etc. No medical issues require a total of $1200/month to raise. Custodial parent- 49%= $588 (doesnt have to be paid because you have kids) Non-custodial parent-51%= $612 (you are "awarded" this amount) IF SHE EVEN PAYS
Can my ex-husband take me to court if our child does not have his last name?
He can request custody or a visitation order if he is the father of the child. At the same time you should petition to remain the custodial parent and request a child support order.
He can request custody or a visitation order if he is the father of the child. At the same time you should petition to remain the custodial parent and request a child support order.
He can request custody or a visitation order if he is the father of the child. At the same time you should petition to remain the custodial parent and request a child support order.
He can request custody or a visitation order if he is the father of the child. At the same time you should petition to remain the custodial parent and request a child support order.
Does a parent's education level affect their children when they divorce?
A higher education level can produce a better outcome, but not necessarily so. More educated parents can also be extremely contentions during a divorce by letting their hatred for one another, custody issues and their desire not to pay child support their main focus. The most important characteristic a good parent must have is the ability to place their child's needs above their own needs. That single factor would make life go better for a child of divorce.
Should kids be allowed to divorce there parents?
No kids should not be allowed to divorce parents. They should be allowed to make them up. Divorce is a big decision and i not taken by children.
Can a child in Arizona choose not to visit a parent with visitation in Arizona?
No. A child does not have the right to ignore court ordered visitation.
A parent who assists the child would be in contempt of court.
How do you be a better mom to a daughter even if only a single mom?
My dear, there is nothing that says you would be lesser of a mom just because you are a single mom. Those mothers often get closer to their child which benefits when the child reach their teens. Just don't make the mistake of being a pal instead of a parent. She will have friends but only one mom.
Can your wife leave the state with your child and we are still married?
yep, if your wife and chilren leave the state i am pretty sure you can be still married because when you get married you usually have to sign a form that says i am legally married no matter what
Can your spouse deny visitation if you have a new girlfriend?
Spouse? Don't you mean your ex?
She can not deny visitation unless the child would be in danger of some kind. If the visitation order needs to be changed it can only be done in court and she would have to have good reasons why she denied it. Not liking the ex's new girlfrind is not a reason to deny visitation. This will happen to her too and it's called moving on with life.
Ex:) If the dad has visitation rights and a new girlfriend and the custodial parent, the mother, does not approve of the child meeting the new girlfriend, she has no right to dictate to the father who the child sees during visitation. That is entirely up to the father. Unless the girlfriend is unfit to be around the child. That is something the mother would have to prove in court if she wants to prevent them from meeting.
This of course also works the other way. The non-custodial parent can not dictate to the custodial parent who the child meets when with her.
What percentage of men get sole custody of children in divorce?
about 30 percent because mothers are seen to take more care of there children so they are most likely to win in court especially if the child is under the age of 8
Can visitation rights be set for a 17 year old?
You can do it in most states when you are 11. It DOES require going to court and talking to a judge and explaining why this is necessary. It also costs money to hire an attorney to represent you before the court. If you move without the court's approval, the custodial parent can have the police bring you back, because you would be a minor, and they are LEGALLY responsible for you until age 18. Hope it helps. Peace.
What is the age by law in UK can brother and sister share a bedroom?
if they both feel comfortable with it then yes. after all they are related.
Added: You would do well to check with your states's Dept of Child and Family Services, I believe that many (all?) states require separate bedrooms for siblings after they reach a certain age.
- 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (Source: U.S. D.H.H.S., Bureau of the Census;
- 90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes;
- 85% of all children that exhibit behavioral disorders come from fatherless homes (Source: Center for Disease Control);
- 80% of rapists motivated with displaced anger come from fatherless homes (Source: Criminal Justice & Behavior, Vol 14, p. 403-26, 1978.);
- 71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes (Source: National Principals Association Report on the State of High Schools.);
- 75% of all adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes (Source: Rainbows for all Gods Children.);
- 70% of juveniles in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes (Source: U.S. Dept. of Justice, Special Report, Sept 1988);
- 85% of all youths sitting in prisons grew up in a fatherless home (Source: Fulton Co. Georgia jail populations, Texas Dept. of Corrections 1992).
With those words you just asked. Say that.
"Dad, I don't really like you and I'd rather not see you again. I think I'll stop visiting now. Sorry pops. Guess you'll die alone."
I paraphrased, but I believe you said something along those lines.
How will a divorce affect your chapter 13 bankruptcy?
A divorce decree does not supersede any contract. Even if the decree states that the husband is responsible for the repayment of creditors, if he doesn't pay, the creditors will call the wife and her credit report will also suffer the consequences of late or non payment. Separate all joint accounts before filing [for divorce] to make sure you don't get stuck with all/any debt.
Does divorce challenge parents or children?
Children are more challenge by divorce parent can take it but children cant some times
How soon is too soon to start seeing someone else after a break up?
It really depends on you.
1-3 yrs. in a relationship = 2 months
4-7 yrs. in a relationship = 4 months
and if a few days =2 days or if you really love the person you are dating then a week
This has worked for me in the past, gave me time to morn the lose of my relationship, think about what I needed and/or wanted in another. No matter what people tell you, you can't get over something old by getting under something new unless you're shallow and without emotion
What percent of children have divorced parents?
In the USA more or less 30% of parents are single parents.
If, you are a single parent and need help. I recommend you to read
10 Single Parent Tips For Dad
Children's Park, Rockwall Blog
How do you get over the pain of being left by a narcissist husband you have 2 small children?
if your husband left you with 2 small children trust me your better of without him. Im pregnant and my boyfriend left me but its turned out for the best. All you can do is try to get your mind off it and concentrate on your kids, their the ones whom will be most affected by this.
Who do you file a complaint with against an attorney ad litem?
To file a complaint against an attorney, you would file it with the State Bar Association of the state in which you live. See related link below for more information for the State Bar Association in your state.
How do you move back with your mom since you hate living with your dad?
First of all you need to talk to your mother.
Explain that you would like to move back in to live with her, and explain why.
Then you need to listen to your mother, she may agree or not.
All depends on the circumstances, usually a mother would want to protect her children, so try to resolve any issues and good luck.
What can happen if you leave your husband and child?
Ask yourself what gives you the right to have custody of the children? The best answer for ALL concerned is to talk it over with your husband and come to an agreement. With this you can then get the agreement written up by lawyers. If you do not feel comfortable talking to your husband about this by yourself I suggest you both meet with a third party - say your lawyer. I suggest you get to a court ASAP and file a custody order, before he does. The first one who files normally has a better shot at winning. And if you can prove abuse, file that also. This is a hard question to answer so you need to act fast.
You could lose your child, if you have joint custody. He can state that you kidnapped the child. I would suggest going to get custody or at least get in contact with a lawyer and see what they say. If there was abuse, usually the justice system won't get involved until someone actually gets hurt. As sorry as that is.
You need to seek legal counsel ASAP, as the laws differ from region to region, country to country.
I was in that very situation about three years ago. By taking my daughter with me, insisting she sleep where I was staying, and controlling the visitations with her father, I was able to set the status quo. The courts, generally, are reluctant to go against the status quo, unless there is some form of concrete proof that it is in the child's best interest.
Just remember, going through a divorce is not the child(ren)'s fault...don't make them suffer! As separated/divorced parents, the ONLY question should be, "How can we be the best co-parents?" Should you go through the entire process of a trial, keep that in your mind as you ask/answer every question. And if your spouse is unable to do the same thing, all the better for you.
If you leave your husband and take your child with you, you better hurry and get temporary custody of your child legally. I lost my son because I left without filing the proper paperwork in court to give me temporary custody. He took him from me during a visitation and I now only get every other weekend and pay 300.00 child support. All because I didn't get a temporary parenting plan. Unless one or both parents have court papers showing custody, either parent can legally take the child. If you don't have papers, your husband could pick your child up from school and there isn't a thing you can do about it. If you call the police requesting visitation or the return of the child they won't do anything unless you have papers in hand. If you want custody, get it through the family court.
Can you move to another country with your child if you have primary joint custody?
The term "primary joint custody" is contradictory. Primary (or sole) custody means one parent has full rights of decision as to the care of the child, including education, medical treatment, etc. Joint custody means parents share equal rights in major decisions such as moving the child to another state or country. One parent cannot legally take such action without the other's consent or without permission of the court.
Do you have to go through courts to get custody of child when the other parents dies?
United States
State laws vary widely in the United States but in almost every state the biological parent has sole rights to custody of the child. If a custodial parent dies the surviving natural parent will normally be granted custody of the child unless they have already been deemed an unfit parent. The surviving parent should consult with an attorney.
That is why the US returned a little boy to his father in Cuba when his mother died while bringing him to America. This was done even though the parents were divorced and the grandparents fought to keep him in the US
