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Jealousy

Jealousy affects everyone's life at least once or twice, and is one of the hardest emotions to control. Questions about the "Green-eyed Monster," including the causes, the emotions that jealousy can evoke, how to deal with it, and more are welcome!

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How to stop being jealous of your husband?

Just saying,,, no, married men and women can't have single friends, I have been there and done that with my wife having several single male friends that only wanted one thing. She never saw it in any of them until they made passes at her, then suddenly she would tell me she was not going to call them anymore. I am thankful she is honest.

If he does not have female "friends" ask him what he wants, and do it; if he does not know, do not think nothing, there is always something, find it through research. It sounds a bit simplistic, and it is. Think about why you got married in the first place, and how you felt. Was it love or money? Was it the kind of "I give love" or was it true "You Are Love"? Be honest with yourself, and recognize it realistically. The previous has everything to do with material things. I give you a gift, so I love you. I give you a child, so I love you. It never lasts and it is generated by the affluent society culture. The second is the love that people dream about "You Are Love". This means that you see the person you married as the object of love. This is a point of view which is not often seen in affluent relationships but it brings certain important aspects into the relationship.

This is love in action. You see the person you love as love and it has nothing to do with you, except that you want to do for them, without reciprocation, and without doubt.

Now that we are past that part. I see my wife as she is love. Though she doubted for years, and her mother influenced her to believe I was cheating on her, I see her as love because this is how she sees me. After being with her faithfully for 25 years I realize that too many people do not really know anything but "I give love". You want him to see you as love, and as a man, honestly no matter what you might look like he can see you as love. But it is not without effort, as you will never reap a single wheat stock if you do not put the effort into sewing it. Love is the same, it can keep growing but it is dependent upon the effort you put into it. Be sexy, put in the effort, and you will find that he will have no reason to cheat on you, and you will be secure in the fact that he sees you as you see him, love.

Not all men cheat, some of us actually find it hard to believe that men do and we are disgusted by the fact that so many do. But in time we learn it is about love. Be love through your actions, and see him as love. You won't worry ever again because he will get from you what no other woman can give. This is because "You Are Love" is the only true love, and it will last faithfully because you Want to give to the one you love.

What is an anology for jealous?

Jealous (my definition): When one wants something someone else has, be it a job or a material possesion or even a person, and feels very envious towards that person and may even feel dislike towards them. Coveting something someone else has.

How do you make a boy mad for you when he have girlfriend?

If this boy has a girlfriend, you need to respect that he chose her. You can continue to be a good friend to him, but you can save the schemes to make him mad for you until he is single again.

Should You be jealous if your ex has a girlfriend?

There are many circumstances. How long were you together, why did you break up and on what terms, and how long since the break-up? However, you shouldn't be.

If your boyfriend dumped you, and you still have feelings for him, then it is understandable you might be jealous of his new girlfriend. But just think, maybe you had a lucky escape, and should be grateful !

Your dignity and self esteem ought to prevent you wanting him back, if he dumped you.

What you need at the moment is a distraction to help you stop thinking about him. So take up some new interests where you can be busy and make new friends. If it's hard to do at first, keep going -- it will get easier.

What does it mean if your ex is flaunting his new relationship at the work place where both of you are employed?

Answer: BRAVADO-boldness intended to impress or intimidate. The fact that he's an attention seeker by any means translates.

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HE IS IMMATURE, HE IS TRYING TO MAKE YOU JEALOUS, HE WANTS EVERYONE TO KNOW HE IS OVER YOU. HE IS PRETENDING TO BE STUD. THOSE ARE MY TOP 4 ANSWERS. DO NOT STOOP TO HIS LEVEL. HOLD YOU HEAD HIGH AND DO NOT GET INVOVLED WITH THE GOSSIP. KEEP YOUR PERSONAL LIFE PERSONAL.

AnswerTake the high road--smile and be pleasant, but don't act upset or interested in his boasting. Don't complain to co workers about his silly behavior. Act like you don't care.

As the other poster said, he is being immature and trying to get back at you. Be glad you're not dating this guy any more. There are good, decent guys out there for you to date.

AnswerI know that's hard, but don't give him the satisfaction of acting effected. Be a very good actress. When you get home, you can cry and call friends or just feel bad, but don't where he can see. He's mean and cruel. What a loser. If he's like that, his new girlie friend will figure that out in time or give him a dose of his own medicine in time. Give it time. You'll see. AnswerI agree with the first answer. The thing that popped into my mind before reading any responses is that he's immature. Just lay low and let him make an idiot out of himself. Don't get caught up in this ridiculous game he's trying to play. AnswerHe still cares about you and this girl is rebound. He wants to get you back by the most powerful thing he can do which is by making you jealous...

simple.....hes immiture and obviously cares for your reaction,if he was truely over you he wouldnt go out of his way to rub this new relationship in your face.just ignore it

What word is opposite of jealousy?

ignore and if you ignore someone then you don t get jealous iyou don t care what he does and why

The opposite of jealousy is "compersion", taking pleasure in the pleasure of your partner, even if it doesn't involve you - ultimate generosity of spirit.

Did aerith feel jealous with tifa?

Aerith can be described as jealous but it goes in both directions. Try listening the the Case of Tifa and The Maiden Who Traveled the Planet.

How is jealousy used in Hamlet?

Jealousy was the driving force behind Claudius killing his brother, King Hamlet, is because he is jealous and wants to be the king so he can have more power and do whatever he plays. He gave in to temptation and did what he thought would allow him to get him what he wanted with no one to stand in the way.

Why are people so control jealousy and obessessses?

Obsessiveness, jealousy, and 'control' are typically signs of a person insecurities and low self esteem.

How can you tell if he is just trying to make you jealous or if he has moved on?

well ask his friends if he talks about you alot cause if he does he is clearly not over you and if his friends wont tell you just confront him and say hey look do you still have feeling for me or

How can you tell your man is jealous?

1.you can tell when he huffs and puffs because you were being kind to another man.but a man dosent always have to be jealous of another man it could be a women such as a mother or close friend.you could also be spending to much time with a friend and not with him

How do you make a guy that doesn't like you jealous?

you can't make anyone like you, be who you are

maybe you could do something to make the guy like you and then date some one else to make him jealous == Why waste your time on this guy? There are plenty of people who do like you and who would be better for you to know and to spend time with. Also, there is no reason to punish the guy just because you are not his cup of tea--friendships are not a competitive sport. By the way, the friends you do have may not be overly impressed if you do carry through this plan of action.

== You can't. If he doesn't like you, he has no reason at all to be jealous.

you cant. if he doesn't like you, you need to face it. why would he ever be jealous of you.

How do you describe jealousy?


Jealousy affects us all; it is wanting what other have or what you can't get.

What do you do in a relationship?

In a relationship both partners do things together and sometimes they do things on their own it depends on what they are interested in. Doing things together is fun but its a good idea not to expect your partner to do everything with you. You do your thing and let him do his thing. That's the best way for it to work. If you want to do something and your partner doesnt its not the end of the word. If you make plans to do something fun and he or she backs out still continue with those plans. It's good to be independant in a relationship but also dependant on eachother for support.

Is God a hypocrite?

No, He is not a Hypocrite, If you are meaning is He a hypocrite because he is jealous of His bride (the church) being stolen by the world through the Father of Lies (Satan) then no, because that is a righteous jealousy.

Why is it that Stephanie's boyfriend is so jealous?

why do you think? did dome1 do something to upset him? or has someone got something he doesnt?

You are 38 and have been dating a 47 yr old man for about 7 months and you discussed that you both want marriage and family and would like to give the relationship about 6 months now hes unsure?

People are not uncertain or fear the institution of marriage, but it is natural to be unsure if a partner is someone they want to marry and spend their future with.

I think your boyfriend is doing the right thing by being honest with you. You've only been dating seven months; you still may be in the 'honeymoon phase' of a relationship, where you don't see or accept a partner's imperfections. Marrying him right now, instead of in the future would not make his uncertainties vanish. Marriage doesn't solve problems, it increases them.

If you still want to be with him, give the relationship more time to develop--another 6-8 months to a year is not a great length of time and will allow both of you to make a better decision about your future plans. If at that time you still want marriage and he is still uncertain, then you can decide what you want more--a non marital relationship with this man or finding someone else who has more compatible ideas on marriage.