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Jealousy
Jealousy affects everyone's life at least once or twice, and is one of the hardest emotions to control. Questions about the "Green-eyed Monster," including the causes, the emotions that jealousy can evoke, how to deal with it, and more are welcome!
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Who was Emerson's jealous mistress?
Stephanie Heavey
It could also be ART... Art is a jealous mistress!
What kinds of mail carrier vehicles are there?
Mail carriers use the same vehicles you drive each and every day except that some do use right hand drive vehicles, such as the Jeep. The main vehicle that is purposely built for mail service delivery is the LLV (Long Life Vehicle). It was built in the 80s and is still in service to this day. It was built by Grumman corporation on a GM truck chassis. It has an all aluminum body with a GM 4 cylinder drive train.
How can you make your ex jealous without flaunting another guy?
- The easiest way to see if your ex boyfriend is still interested in him (forget making him jealous) is to start dating other guys. If your ex comes back to you then make him work hard to get back into a relationship with you again. If he does not react to you dating other buys then you should move on in your life.
there can be numerous of reasons why your jealous of his new woman. maybe she's beautiful,loving and easy to talk to. but he left you for her because she had a sparkle that he didn't see in you.
It really depends on the circumstances but if this person did nothing wrong, point that out to him/her. Sometimes things just don't work out the way that we like for them to and, in my experience, its usually because there is something better waiting for us out there or there is something to learn from the experience. If its meant to be, the relationship will mend. If this person did something to cause the relationship not to work out then they have to accept it, learn from it, and try moving on.
Is the saying jealousy is the root to all evil a common saying?
No, it is not common. Money is the root of all evil is a common one.
How is jealousy different from being territorial?
People who get jealous easily are mostly insecure. And are easilyscared that something or someone Will take something away from them.
If you're territorial you're not insecure, but strong and you want to defend what you have or get more. But you won't flip for small thing's...
That's what i think.
Is Sharpay jealous of Vanessa?
no she is not jealous sharpay is awsome and she just likes herself. but if you r talking about out of the movie then i dont know.
Jealousy could be a reason for plagiarisim?
In a way, yes. If someone is jealous of the work someone else has for say written, and they plagiarise it - this could be a reason for jealousy.
How do you make another girl jealous?
Well... Good question. :P What I could do is get another girlfriend and be all lovey dovey with them or fake a relationship by writing someones elses name on your hand and saying you have this smokin hot girlfriend... Lol. But yeah that's all I can think of. Hope this helps... Bye
Remember it takes time and experience to learn life's lessons, and yes over time, you will learn how to be in a relationship better. You learn how best to avoid conflict, and how best to keep it fun. But you make mistakes, the relationship ends you move on and know better next time. And I've always said, that if it was "meant to be" then you two will end up together in the end anyways and if not then somewhere out there is your soul mate, imagine how great that will be when you meet them.
of course. But they have to meet with each other first
How you can be sure that your boyfriend loves you?
- You can tell if the man that loves you is kind; honest; loyal; shows affection; is there to keep you safe; makes you feel like you can talk about anything with him and you have fun together and share your hopes and dreams. No one can be sure if their partner loves them 100%, but the above examples are a good start for a loving relationship.
If being jealous is a sin and God is a jealous god does that make him a hypocrite?
It may be wrong to talk of people's most sincere beliefs as involving hypocrisy. These references are, however, an anachronism.
Answer:
Sin is the transgression of the law, the Ten Commandments - I John 3:4, among which, "thou shalt not be jealous" is not listed.
The Ten Commandments were the terms of the "marriage vows" between God and Israel, whereby, the Israelites vowed to "obey His voice" (Ex.19:5-8).
"...Surely as a wife treacherously departeth from her husband, so have ye dealt treacherously with Me, O House of Israel, saith the Lord." (Jer.3:20)
"...My covenant they brake, although I WAS AN HUSBAND UNTO THEM, saith the Lord..." (Jer.31:32).
God's jealousy is the righteous jealousy of a husband for his beloved wife. Passionate devotion to protecting her from harmful outside advances, influences and dangers.
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By claiming God is a "Jealous" God, this would in fact make him a sinner by his own standard's. Envy being among the most acknowlegdeable "Seven Sins", having basically the same meaning as Jealousy being a lighter version, would therefore make God an imperfect being. This is one of the many contradictions of religion.
Where can you look for crimal records on your so to be ex husband?
try www.publicrecords.com Many states show court records online for free. For Maryland, go to: http://casesearch.courts.state.md.us/inquiry/processDisclaimer.jis For Virginia go to: http://epwsgdp1.courts.state.va.us/gdcourts/caseSearch.do?index=index In Pennsylvania go to( Criminal Court of Common Pleas) : http://ujsportal.pacourts.us/DocketSheets/CP.aspx and for Magisterial District Courts of PA go to: http://ujsportal.pacourts.us/DocketSheets/MDJ.aspx For North Carolina: http://www1.aoc.state.nc.us/www/calendars/CitationQueryByName.html try www.publicrecords.com
He thinks he OWNS YOU! It's all about control and you are chattel to him. He feels you are his property and he can do what he wants with you. He doesn't see his victims with feelings or cares what their hopes and dreams are. Abusers share little of their inner selves with anyone.
He's not trying to make you jealous, he's letting you know he can replace you! Women of abuse can get jealous. These feelings are odd to the victim because they basically detest their abuser, but, it's learned habits and the abuser has done a fine job creating his "perfect woman" so he can control her, tell her she'll never make it out in the real world, and no man would want her. After being abused for years the victim can believe just about anything told to her.
Abusers are in total control of what they do best "control women" and he's using this other woman to pour salt into your wounds. In his sick mind he thinks he's the best looking guy on two legs. I hope you have gotten away from this jerk and moved on. Stay away from friends you use to hang around with when you were with your abuser. You don't need to hear what he is doing and for that matter, why should you care?
Before you get confused and perhaps feel you are missing out with a life with your abuser (and you sure can feel that way) please seek counseling from the Women's Abuse Center in your area. You have been brain-washed and made to feel that you love your abuser and can't live life without him. You may now live on your own, but way back in the recesses of your mind, you ponder the thought of wanting him back. Life can be tough out in the world and lots of us would rather go through life with someone than alone. Don't sell yourself short and get that help, and move on. There are better things waiting for you.
Good luck honMarcy
AnswerHi Marcy: Thanks so much. I appreciate your advice. He has resorted to all sorts of tactics now that he knows Im finished with him. He has tried the sympathy ploy which didnt work,the silent treatment, the too causal don't care im around rotuine, the very nice waiting for me routine, he tried this thing with that woman and he could see I was still myself and happy, then now he is trying the old," I didnt appreciate what I had" deal. I know and call me nuts for thinking this cause with him I have questioned my reasoning. He is telling everyone he is miserable with life. But I think he is trying all these things to get me back with him. I think he is very mad that I am doing whats right for me and not falling for him and his tactics anymore. He seems to be quickly moving from one tactic to the next in a desperate atempt to get me back. I even told him to get lost on the sympathy stuff and told him I see what hes doing.. Then he switches to something else. It doesnt stop. That is why I avoid having contact with him and will get another job! Im hurting yes, but I am realsing more and more every day that there is alot more to life than being worn down. I also am noticing the respect I get from others. I have alot to offer the right man and I do not want to waste it on someone like him. I am to the point though where I wonder at times, is he really that mean that he would be so manipulative to use this other woman to get back with me? Is he really so cold that he thinks he has to resort to playing up the sympathy routine to the extreme? I think he is. I got a feeling he wont give up anytime soon. But I also know I am stronger and getting stronger everyday. Its so hard to believe that someone could be so manipulative and why do they do this. Thanks again. AnswerHi Hon:I am so very proud of you. You are doing all the right things. Of course you are wondering if he was all that mean, but when someone makes you as unhappy as he made you so that you had to run from the situation, then kick this jerk to the curb!
I was married before to an abusive man and it probably started out very similar to yours. There were just suttle signs, but I wasn't use to abuse, so never heeded the signs even though family and friends didn't like him and thought I could do better. I thought I could heal him! Right! LOL We were married 3 1/2 years and I left him. He ran around with other women, cheated on his own mistress as well as me; became verbally abusive and then physically abusive and I kicked him to the curb. Like you, I moved out, got a place of my own (was very lonely and was asking myself the same questions as you are about my abuser) but stayed strong, made new friends, got a different job and I've never regretted those choices. I have been married to a wonderful man for almost 34 years. Thank God, I left that other jerk and found the man I am spending the rest of my life with.
Women who are abused are not weak and that's a pure misconception in society. It takes guts to leave an abuser, and there is no manual that comes with a mate you may choose. Abusers can be sneaky and ply you with gifts, tell you how much they love you and then they get you in that web of theirs and you're a goner. Before you know it, you've become a victim of abuse. Hold your head up high, and you NEVER need to prove to anyone else how strong you are, but yourself and you've done that with flying colors!
I wish you all the very best and I know you can make it. Keep looking forward, don't look back! Don't answer his phone calls, emails, etc., and ditch this guy.
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The problem with jealousy is that, while you're seeking to hold your girlfriend closer, you're actually pushing her away. Could this be one of the reasons you fight so much? It's very important that you learn to trust her and let go of some of your insecurity and need for control. Otherwise, you will surely push her away and that guy at work may just be waiting for that to happen. Wise up, be mature and trust your girlfriend. If you don't, you could lose her after all. (And if you end up losing her after you trusted her, at least you won't end up looking like the bad guy.)
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that is so true. its like this: SHE'S A GROWN WOMAN. U GROWN TOO. u cant MAKE someone do anything jus like u cant MAKE someone be faithful to you. if they gonna cheat they gonna cheat regardless of how u beg scream or cry. if its in them it will eventually come out. but u have to give ppl chances u cant live ur life in fear or not trusting people cuz u'll get no where like that. stop tryin to make her not cheat by worryin urself to death. its just like tryin to raise a full grown person. its too late they already grown now... so if they cheat they'll be the azzhole not you. n then its up to you if u'll give them another chance to do it again or get the heck outta there. but u shouldn't worry about things u have no control over anyways. u have absolutely no control over someone cheating or not so why worry and make urself sick? over nothing. cuz if they do that to you they obviously don't deserve u anyway and it jus wasnt meant to be. u should feel good that maybe there's someone out there better but if u get wit someone new, don't push them away with a problem YOU'RE dealing with cuz its just not fair at all.
How do you turn someones jealousy towards you into honoring?
If you feel that someone is jealous of you, then all you can do is make them feel as if they are a part of you, because jealousy occurs where there is oneness is not present. You can try and help them in their work (I am assuming jealousy because of talent) You can also try and show them that they also can do this. Be friendly to them, wave your hand at them whenever you see them. The other alternative is to not talk about that feild(ex - violin playing)with them and try talking about something at which they are good. This will certainly make them feel embarassed and jealousy diminishes. If nothing works then put your head in the table and go to sleep
Why is your man not jealous of what you do?
There is a limit for everything. The fact that your man is not jelous of some things you do does not mean that he is not interested in you or minds what you do or do not do. However, if your man does not get or is not jelous even if you hang out with other man or give that impression then I would question his interest in you. Some men show their jelousy in a very strong way because that is their nature just as some men who do not show it at all. I would have to know what things you do that makes you expect jelousy from his part in order to say whether his reaction is normal. Talk to him and question him what actions of yours would make him jelous and why, especially if they are related to other man in your life. You might find the answer. First off - he may well be jealous - or very bothered by your actions - but as men are trained that this is now frequently considered inappropriate behavior to exhibit, doesn't. In fact, many women do feel that a man would be imposing control over them and want to end the relationship if one does so. I guess if he's a "good man" and your enjoying what your doing, you may wake up and find him gone - as it's possible he will simply leave you alone to do what you want. And, if the actions your doing you actually do act like you enjoy, shouldn't he just allow you to do so, even be happy for you, and just figure it's not his to make you stop? I mean if your making it seem like you just love blowing all his friends, and he actually hates you doing so,...should he tell you to stop doing what makes you happy? A better question may well be why do you want to make him jealous? It is not a good thing in any way...it hurts!
