Marriage

• When you husband spies on your sister in the shower this is voyeurism. It is wrong; you know it and you owe your sister the safety of her privacy so confront your husband as soon as possible about it when you sister is not at home. Your husband has problems that need to be dealt with and spying on your sister in the shower is only the tip of the iceberg and he is up to much more. If he refuses to stop doing so then you will have to ask your sister to move out and tell her why or, you will have to make a decision to leave your husband unless he goes for psychological help.

I'd say you're one bright person and it's refreshing to hear someone ask that question.

I've been married almost 35 years and more important than sex is COMMUNICATION. My husband I take an hour off for each other when he gets home from work and he'll have a wine or perhaps tea with me and we talk over our day. If there are problems we work through them together. If we get angry with each other we separate and either go to another room of the house or get out of the house (and walk it off) to cool off. The main thing is not to expect perfection. There is nothing in this world that is perfect and all you can do is the best you can.

Both partners should take care of themselves physically as far as hygiene and not looking like one was just tossed out of a laundry bag. A pair of jeans, nice top (even a nice T-shirt) a little make-up, hair brushed, etc., during the week is fine and when you go out to a party or a nice evening out on the weekend your clothes don't have to be expensive to look good on you. This applies to both partners. My husband and I have a "grub day" where he doesn't shave (but is clean) wears old jeans and an old T-shirt (one of his many favorites) and I may not wear make-up and wear comfy jeans and a sweat top.

When a young couple decides on starting a family they should discuss that they both need to apply themselves with the babysitting, getting up off and on during the night, agreeing on the discipline of the child and trading off with friends to babysit so you and your husband can have a Saturday night out for some fun.

Try to take a holiday once a year even if it's a mini weekend at the beach and not that far from where you live. Don't lose touch with each other, but still have "head space" from each other such as you having hobbies or going out with your friends or your partner doing the same thing.

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I have to just add this because while it is good advice it seems too boring and vague. I have been with the same man since I was 17 years old and then married at 24 and we are celebrating our 22 year anniversary this year. Communication along with a sense of security and love is the most important thing to a woman and sex along with a loving and caring wife is the most important to the man. Our marriage has been a sea of ups and downs and it is weathering those downs that keeps us together. We have both made mistakes and at times we have both been bad spouses to each other but you have got to be creative and find ways to reinvent your relationship. Every once in a while I feel insecure and am just a giant "B" to be honest and every once in a while he starts really taking for granted that I am here and a person with feelings. I have to say that whether you are the man or woman in the relationship that you must be willing to make the first move or be able to eat crow on many occasions. I have reached out to hold his hand in the car or said "I am sorry" more times then not when I truly believed I was right in the argument. The rewards of this out way anything you can find outside the marriage. There will always be a more attractive or more exciting man or woman out there but it is making things new and exciting in your relationship that keeps the spouse at home and the relationship healthy.

I sometimes get into a rut and sex is not that exciting to me and I look at him and I wonder "what am I doing here?". I then just flood myself with good music, the kind that gets you pumped, I buy something that makes me feel good, like a new pair of sexy jeans or some new perfume. I build myself up with some "attitude" and say "I am sexy, I want to make him want me" then the games begin and pretty soon we are out of that rut and it is red hot again. If I left it up to him it would just not happen and this can go both ways. It really depends on who in the relationship is more aggressive. They are the one who needs to make the first moves or perhaps swallow the pride more often then the other who may be happy to continue with the downward status quo.

I am NOT one for being the perfect house wife and being at everyone's beck and call. A powerful, sexy, independent, woman who is not afraid to go in uninhibited and take good care of her man will keep her man. Or a man that has it all for his woman. The key to this is to make sure you are communicating that this "attitude" is for your spouse and no one else. Be a great cook but be even better in bed! Make it fun, exciting, do something a little different, surprising. Keep a few ideas to yourself for the years to come when things get a bit flat again. I sometimes cruise the internet for some new ideas, ways to do something different and fun.

I truly listen to him and I want him to be happy. We fight with passion but I let him know that it is a fight, a small moment in time and we allow each other to be angry with each other but I try and never let it go too far. Not everyone can control their anger and not everyone can always follow the rules of not going to bed angry. The key is to make it up to them as soon as you can after the fight. You should strive in your relationship to get phone calls where they say "WOW, I can not get last night out of my head!" Those will carry you through the bad times which there will be plenty of with each year you are together.

Charlotte was never married to Henson...

He procrastinated for years, and by the time he proposed, on her 24th birthday in 2010, the relationship had run its course...

The answer to the question of when Charlotte started to date Henson is shortlly after her 19th birthday, in 2005...

Thank them for all the small things they do each day to make life easier. Tell them, that you may not take the time to say it at the time, or say it often, but you do notice and want them to know how special it makes you feel.

It is best to let a Mulim make the first move. They are different sects within Islam, so in order to give no offense to any, just let any Muslim make the overtures in greeting, and just follow along.

it depends. it depends. it depends.

Yes. Even orally as long as she doesn't swallow!

Probably but he can't do anything about it.

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Would he, good question. Maybe he can because this married man love his ex mistress, but he doesn't have that right. He knew that he was married when he approach her before the affair, so what ever his ex mistress was doing, he doesn't have any say on that. He also ruin her life and no one put a gun in his head to have an affair with the other woman. It's all his, no one else.

Typically the only requirement is that is is a complete circle symbolizing unending love.

It is the Emerald anniversary, if that's how you say it. But I definitely know it's Emerald!

Solemn means the same as serious.

No. He or she must still apply for permanent resident status and then citizenship as required by US immigration laws.

On you 55th wedding anniversary, the traditional gift is emerald. The tradition of the wedding gift dates back to the Holy Roman Empire.

* nothing happened * he's just a friend * he's just a coworker * he's just ____________ * we were just talking * I was with ( insert girlfriends name here) * I have a headache * Im too tired * you dont meet my needs * I want to separate * I need space * I need to find myself * I was (insert bogus activity here) * I want a divorce word to the wise....Women won't leave something for nothing.(this means they dont leave one relationship (guy) without have another in the wings.)

Not if you're just looking. Lots of men check out other guys, although in the U.S. we're sort of awkward about it. But if doing it turns you on, you're either gay or bisexual.

Young males growing up routinely check out penises from other males. It's completely normal and is part of maturation to compare or admire. Adult, heterosexual porn involves looking at the male penis again...kinda hard to ignore; so with heteros there must be some sort of turn on there as well. I remember being taken to a private viewing (in a hetero home) of Johh Holmes getting head. All the hetero men in the room were commenting on his penis and cheering for a climax. Only one gay there-me.;-)

No- 50th wedding anniversaries are so common that they aren't regarded as achievement enough to warrant special official recognition.

It used to be the case that The Queen sent a congratulatory telegram to persons on their 100th birthday, but this has now been discontinued as more and more people are living so much longer, even reaching 100 is no longer as rare as it used to be!

Usually, yes. But if you are good enough, you can convince her/him to sign it then you don't need to sign it.

Another view: While in theory, the foregoing may be true, it may make later enforceability harder. That is, the fact that you did not sign it but your spouse did may make it appear that you exerted undue influence upon him/her.

Its not hard, smile, and say I love you. If there is no reply or other response, then something is wrong, and not for me to judge, he has issues. Seek professional guidance. They are qualified more in such aspects then what us men are, or women.

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How to tell will be so easy, your heart will be your weapon to tell your husband. Love means that you accept him for who he is. Through thick and thin, good time to bad times, bickering are part of being married. And most of the time, just the way you look at him will tell him your true feelings for your husband.

Never stop telling your husband how much you love him, because if you don't you'll never know if you will be alive the next day, or vice versa. Most of the times we all take advantage on how to show our true feelings towards our spouse. Take my words for it, because this is the huge problem that I have with the man I married.

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Asking the girls father for her hand in marriage is a bit old fashioned. I'd ask the girl first, see what she says, and ask her what she thinks about going to her father. She may not appreciate that jesture. She should be of an age where she can answer for herself, and doesn't need her father's permission.

If the man is a US citizen, yes, by all means. An American woman can marry any guy she wants to in the United States, regardless of how long he has been in the country or his citizenship status (at least as long as he's here legally). In an age of increasing paranoia about gay-marriage, the American government actually encourages an American woman to marry a man. Of course, anyone wanting to marry should check with their local government offices for the marriage license and any other requirements.

In order to obtain US citizenship, you must marry a US citizen in the first place. Your fiance must file a "fiance visa" which will award you temporary status in the US. You must then apply for permanent residency via the I-485 application (greencard.) Then, you must wait an indefinite number of years until you are eligible by law to become a naturalized US citizen.

Well no man should neglect his wife. As the wife you must confront him. You need to sit him down and talk to him and tell him exactly how you feel. If he tries to ignore you, you make should he listens and you stand your ground. If he cares for you he will listen. The next step, if you are a good wife, that means there some things that you do that he likes. So if he wants to neglect you, you just return the favor until he learns.