"What can you do if your abusive gf ran away and you are batteling each other with a nasty ego war and now she is gone but you still love and miss her?" Be a man, pick up the telephone, and call her. Best wishes for the future. Are you really in love with her or are you simply missing her wild and erratic ways? Believe it or not some of the greatest romances were all about arguing and not getting along. For example: Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton (they ended up marrying twice.) They were extremely abusive verbally/physically with each other and they made no bones about it, but the fact was, they really did love each other. I have a brother and sister-in-law that are like that. However, no matter how much you love someone somethings gotta give and one of the two will leave. Your abusive girlfriend isn't that way because she's a rotten person, but she has hidden ghosts in her past she has never had the guts to face and seek psychological counseling for. If she doesn't she will have a very unhappy life. People with different haunting problems are the type of people I call "runners" and all they do is run and never take the time to slow down, assess themselves and get help if needed. All of us have difficulties in life, but it's the smart ones that know when they have a problem and get help for it. By staying with her you are actually enabling her behavior. She's like a run-away locomotive and she can't seem to control how she is and I have no doubt she hates herself for the way she treats you, so she runs. On the other hand you are the one that should have been mature enough to see such a problem and helped in every way you could and if it didn't work you should have moved on. There is no place in love for large egos. Both should be equal and respected. You chose the ego trip. Living with an abusive personality is very hard and I did myself. I was married before at the age of 21 and my marriage lasted 3 1/2 years. My husband cheated on me on several occasions, and was also verbally abusive and it started to turn into physical abuse. We would argue, but I realized the arguing (both of us were stubborn) was getting us nowhere and I suggested therapy for both of us, but he would have no part of it. Once those words parted from his lips, I parted! I left, filed for divorce, found my own apartment, changed jobs, got new friends and moved on. I am happy to say I met a wonderful man a few years later and we will have been happily married 34 years this August. Do we argue? You bet! The difference is, we go some place and cool off and we never let the day go by where one of us (both equal on this) doesn't apologize to the other person and then we sit down and discuss how we feel about that particular problem and we meet half way. That's maturity and that's the way it should be. This sort of rationalization comes with age and I've learned a lot of hard lessons in my lifetime. LOL If she should come back into your life I suggest you only accept her back (not living with you) if you both can go for help. If she refuses then tell her the relationship is over. I know what I am asking of you is difficult and I feel badly, but, the sooner you get out of the denial mode the healthier and stronger you will become and think of it this way ... it frees you up to meet some wonderful girl you can have a happy life with. Good luck Marcy
Who are the parents of the veronicas?
The Parents of Jess and Lisa are two Italians there names are Colleen and Joseph
Free sheet music for untouched by the veronica's?
Go to www.sheetmusicdirect.com/se/ID_No/69098/Product.aspx
Is 3 months into a relationship too soon to be in love with each other or can it be real?
To answer your Q, you must ask yourself:
1. What do I feel right now, at this very moment about this person.
2. Are my feelings being influenced by ohter people, (eg to fit in)
3. Am I old enough to really know the difference between real love (where two people gel to make it trully wonderful, and not by the one person), and the love someone claims to be feeling for their own gain( to not feel lonely, or for sex).
4. Why am I not already in love with this person (who made this stupid rule about 'rushing things' anyway!?!?)
5. Who am I as a person?
Straight up, if you didnt feel like you were in love with this person to start with, & your waiting for to fall in love with this person, don't get into it!!Work out what it is you 'NEED' or no less 'DESERVE' in relationship, and not what you 'WANT'. Every body wants a hot guy or girl, and we tend 2 forget about what really drives our human need, to feel loved, security, passion, touch.. but what you should focus on is what R U wiiling to do to be the best partner U can be, and is the other person feeling the same way U do?? You see, if both of you are about givng & giving to each other, your not thinking about what you R to gain from this, but what i mean as a partner, about giving, being a loving caring human being.. who you R as a person and what you stand for?
So. You should already know the answer! think about it. Dont let anybody give you advice about YOUR relationship.. only you know what you really feel inside.
And if people make you doubt yourself, walk away and have some private time to think. Dont fall in2 the trap of listening to people, who pretend to know what you need or deserve, and think 4 yourself. Use your heart and mind, NOT your surroundings to make decisions. But 1st work out, who U R. And then make the necessary changes to your self. the sooner you start doing this the sooner your character and inner wonder & wisdom will prevail, and you will ATTRACT the right person.. you wont be looking.
Ask yourself this. "Have i been in a relationship, that when we broke up, i said 'i cant believe i WAISTED so much of my time on this relationship'"????Has this ever happenned to you? it haapenned to me, TO MANY times before i learnt this basics about relationship.
DONT WAIST ANY MORE OF YOUR TIME OR THE OTHER PERSONS TIME ON SOMETHING YOUR WILLNG TO GIVE UP ON, OR YOUR NOT SERIOUS ABOUT, OR YOUR NOT SURE ABOUT.I hope this atleast made you think about what you deserve as a person. Take care & enjoy your life and make relationship something empowering, not confusing!!
AnswerYes you can be in love after only 3 months. Me and my husband said i love after 2 months and we have been together for 4 almost 5 years!What is the name of the song the veronicas played during the 90210 episode?
Untouched and Take Me On the Floor =]
I got engaged at 17 & my boyfriend was 20. My advice is it's ok to be engaged for a really long time. From personal expereince & this is totally true. What you are feeling now is no garentee that you will feel the same as you get older. Those strong in love feelings do pass for most people your age.
If you're in love, then what is the harm of waiting?
What's the rush?
Marriage can be a real pain in the a$$
no the veronicas are not lesibans they are to twin sisters from (london) do your research guys
Hi its Lisa i cant tell you guys where we live but i will give you our fan number.
0439531887.:)
Do the veronicas write their own songs?
They write most of their own songs. Two examples are Revenge is Sweeter and In Another Life
At the moment the Veronicas are 25 and in 2011 they are turning 27 on the 25th of December I LOVE THE VERONICAS
Is it more important 'to be in love with' or 'to love' each other?
Love If it's that important there isn't much spontaneity to it.And that expression one always hears"I fell in love with him" or "I settled down". Listen to those words. It's as if admitting you fell flat on your face for this person before you even knew them well enough and then you "settled". Don't ever settle for someone who thinks they are in love with you or you with them. Find out what love really is. That takes 2 or 3 divorces. No, just joking. It just takes time.But don't put so much importance to it and it will happen all by itself. Some people are just in love with the fact of being in love; so I suppose the answer to your question would have to be just to love each other and remember there are only a few soulmates for you in this entire world. Never use the word love loosely. I hate people who say "Well, I've been in love about 7 or 8 times now.I don't know. I guess I just quit counting."No, they just quit caring about what the word really means.
Here are opinions from WikiAnswers Contributors:
Love is an action. It requires daily upkeep that cannot fail. In a marriage relationship, love is what binds two together; it brings out the best and the worst. Love cannot fail. Feelings of love are like wind that are here today and wrap you in a whirlwhind of passion but tomorrow is gone. Love must be steadier than that. It must be an anchor in a wild and stormy sea that will hold tight and never let go. Which love would you prefer? To share a love that is here today or gone tomorrow? Or would you prefer a love that lasts the ages. To be "in love" with someone can change. The one you are "in love" with can have good and bad feelings about life every day. One minute happy-the next minute sad or angry. When someone is sad or angry, is it hard to "be in love with them" at that moment? probably. But "To love one another" never fails. It loves regardless of the situation, time, or moment. It loves constantly. That love is patient, kind, it does not envy or boast. It is not proud or rude or self seeking. It is not easily angered and that love keeps no record of wrongs. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres. That love never fails. Which would you prefer? To have changing feelings? Or a love that never fails...
AnswerI think that they're both equal. To be 'in love' and 'to love' are slightly different, but both are important just the same. You love your family and friends, but you could be in love someone. That doesn't make the people you love inferior or less important, or vise versa.
Both are Importent However It is better to love each other because very simply you could Be Infatuated with that person. now if married both are Importent. But the partner should love you for who you are and view you as a Man a mortal man or woman . But you should love each other More because outside Influence should not play a role in relationships also known as monday mourning quarterbacks.
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I think you have to "fall in love" with the person first. It DOES take, sometimes, a long time to find a true love...not just a romantic love where it can change with the wind but a true love that does involve passion, romance, makes your heart flip, your world brighter, you think of them always and would do anything for them. A true love is unselfish, caring, respectful, and trusting and when you have that foundation to start with you have a much stronger bond. You end up being "in love with" and "loving" that person for everything that they are, faults and all. I "settled" before and thought I was "in love" but it didn't last. I loved that person as a person but the "in love" was not present and the relationship did not last. Once you have met your true love, your soulmate, both kinds of love are present and it is absolutely wonderful. You will look back and realize that you didn't know what love was at all! At least not the kind of love that is real, true, and long lasting. The kind of love that gets you through anything together. So, my opinion is, you have to be "in love" and "love" the person in order to experience real happiness and long-lasting marriage or relationship.
well it takes balence!! not one more than the other.... too much of anything isn't good!! :]
If you truly are meant to be a couple. Privacy wouldn't be and issue unless it excessive and secretive. To also not be able to take one another means that there are issues that need to be resolved or you will never, ever have a meaningful relationship. You sit down as two mature adults and calmly speak to one another, not at one another and no barking. One at a time talking and no finger pointing. If you cant do this then move on, not worth wasting precious time over each other. You may have to face the truth, you may "love" one another on some level but not ENOUGH to give yourselfs each other.
What is the height of the veronicas?
They're very short. Lisa is like.. 155cm and Jess is 2cm taller.
If you really do love each other that much then he is just talking to the other girls for fun. If you take away the fact about the flirting part, you trust him right? If you trust him and he trusts you, then even with his flirting his heart has always belonged to you. I understand that you're jealous and probably frustrated and confused but you can always ask him why he is flirting.
How tall are jess and Lisa from the veronicas?
Jess is taller by 1 inch and is 5'2", so Lisa is 5'1".
Names of singers who sang Rudolph the red nosed reindeer?
Gene Audry sang "Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer."
IF YOUR BOYFRIEND LIVES WITH HIS GRANDMA THEN HE MUST RESPECT HER WISHES, AS IT IS HER HOME HE LIVES IN AND MUST ABIDE BY HER RULES. THAT IS WHAT BEING MATURE IS, RESPECTING RULES. THERE MUST BE A REASON THAT HIS GRANDMA WONT ALLOW YOU TWO TO SEE EACH OTHER??? DID HE DISREPECT HER? WERE YOU TWO BEING SNEAKY? I CANT IMAGINE A GRANDMA BEING CRUEL. PERHAPS YOU CAN ASK HER PERMISSION TO VISIT HIM. TALK TO HER. MAYBE THE TWO OF YOU ARE HAVING SEX AND SHE FEELS IT IS MUCH TOO YOUNG, AS DO I. YOU NEED TO COMMUNICATE WITH HER BUT ULTIMATELY YOU CAN NOT DISRESPECT.
Does Jess from The Veronicas wear coloured contacts?
=yes!!! if jess had glasses shed look like a geek/dork.=
Why do i have 2 periods within 1 week of each other?
If you have been on the pill that can muk up periods but other than that sorry i dont know.............