Friendship

Every person in the relationship is used to being surrounded by people who love them but as they grow older old start to die one of them is going to end up being alone.

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I don't know what that was supposed to have to do with polyamory,...

But here's my take on it having been in the lifestyle for over 15 years with my wife and living in a full time triad for the last 4 years with our girlfriend.

Polyamory is a great lifestyle IF you have the mentality for it. It is estimated that less than 12% of the popularion has tried it, even fewer than that are sucessful. It's exciting, can keep your life with your partner vibrant and fun, but it's not easy by any means. You have to be able to separate the act of sex and the emotion of love, understand the difference, and always communicate fully.

The cons of a poly relationship are much the same as in a more traditional relationship really. The common misconception is that adding another person only doubles your problems, adding two (as in couples swapping) tripples them. It's actually a LOT more complex. Each persons interaction with every other person adds potential, so while there are actually triple the potential for issues between three people, it's actually six times the potential with four people. Understanding all this allows for a person to be better prepared for things, but it still comes down to human nature.

The worst thing people can do it not to be totaly honest with their partner/s about what they want, what they like, and most of all what they don't want. Rules are essential, and they can never be optional. You can change them as you grow and learn, but never on the fly. People without rules are typicaly the 1st to have a relationship implode. Next to that the most common bad idea is to try adding to a relationship to spice it up, or save it from decay. Most times these are people that have too much invested in their relationship to throw it all away, but recognize decay when they see it. unfortunately you're eaither going to reviatilaze your passio for each other, or more likely you're going to find someone/something more exciting and acclerate that decay. People change, desire fades, you never know if the next person you meet will bring new light to your life or be what starts tearing it apart. Pretty much like any relationship, just in polyamory people tend to be better communicators and more honest with each other on average.

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If he is your friend rather than your boyfriend and you want to settle down with him, then you need to be sure the feels the same way or it could be be very awkward. If you are already dating him, then he may feel the same way although he may not be ready to get serious. Just talk to him, about your futures, but dont scare him off. Usualy does not work.Will most likely ruin the frienship after wild short sexual relationship.

Just say "Blah I would like you to meet Blah." (Blah is the persons name.Mot saying that your dumb some people just do not get it.) :)

It all depends on what made her angry. But never say 'I'm sorry'. Remember, deeds do more than words.

Well judging by the way you asked the question, my guess would be you kinda have a thing for this guy. lol When someone says something like that it can be his way of flirting, or being nice. If im correct in saying you like him, don't give up on it. Get to know him and who knows....maybe you guys can end up in a relationship oneday. Either that or im completely off and yo just wondered what he meant lol. Either way, I hope i answered your question.

Why not take the direct approach and do the asking yourself? If you're not comfortable with a date, get a group of friends together to go to the movies or mall and ask him/her to join all of you.

because they r gay and want your life to be hell i have the same problem the best thing todo is to get angry and tell them it upsets you

Hello,

TOTALLY not the right answer to this question that answer, stinks. My friends fight because that hate each other. But my best friend and I fight because everyone's different and we are VERY different and also because she has mental problems. You need to explain why you are angry and help them fix it.

Hope this helps

Better answer:

I'm having the SAME problem right now!!!! My friend Janelle told me about it... So what I'm doing is I'm just ignoring it, and anyone that talks about it, I tell them:

That's not nice. You don't know the truth, that is a roumer and you are a follower so you obviously need to tell other people.

& They may think your weird or retarded, just let it slide. Your real friends will back you up!!!

Hope I helped. & Only you know your story, not them (:

THIS IS FROM A NEW PERSON I DIDNT WANT TO DELETE THIS INFO BECAUSE IT IS GOOD BUT I WILL ADD STUFF...

This is happening to me right now at school, Everyone is saying I like this guy that I don't and I just play along with it. I just say yeah I do like him go a problem?, Even though its not true people will not be expecting you to do it so they will proberly stop teasing you like they did for me!

What others said might be right , but I'll like to tell you that you shouldn't care for what people say because people don't care if it's right or wrong they only want to talk and talk and talk and spread rumors ,so don't care at all and enjoy your quality time with your friend.. hope by now the rumor is off and hope that i helped

That depends on which part of the sentence the phrase is in (whether those people are the subject of the sentence, or the object of it). If you're the subject of the sentence, it's "I" ("Your best friend and I want to take you to the club"); if you're the object, it's "me" ("Please do this for your best friend and me"). In either case, you can take the best friend out of the sentence for a moment, to determine whether you are "I" or "me".

No not without parental permission. If the mother of the friend is willing to accept responsibility for you, she can petition the court for legal guardianship. However, your parent(s) will have the right to contest the action and it must be proven to the satisfaction of the court that it would be in your best interest to grant the guardianship. Unless there is substanial evidence of abuse and/or neglect in the parental home, a judge would NOT terminate parental rights and grant custody to someone else. If you believe yourself to be in an abusive or neglectful situation you should contact the Department of Social Services in your city or county. Or call any of the following numbers for guidance and assistance, National Child Abuse Hotline 1-800-392-3738, Youth Crisis Services 1-800-448-4463, Youth Emergency Service 1-800-899-5437. You might like to vist the web site Teenline Online, which is staffed by teens helping other teens without criticism. http://www.teenlineonline.org

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I don't think so it is the most important thing.AS human nature we have some needs e.g.moral support,cooperation,sympathy ,sexual support,sometimes time pass as well. so satisfying these needs friendship is important but not the most important thing.

Some people have problems with family and etc so if they don't have enough family or whatever then they have friends instead.

That's why friendship is important.

Friendship is important in these ways:

1. You can talk out your problems with them

2. You can cry on their sholder

3. They care about you

4. You care about them

5. It can tie friends closer together

6. It can bloom into love

7. You don't fell lonely

8. They can get you places (i.e. a promotions, a job ect.)

9. They share the same intrests ( that's why they are your friend)

Last but not least:

10. Friends like you for you, not for the clothes you wear, the shoe's style, if you have red frizzy hair. To them its whats on the inside that counts.

It really depends on your personality. If you need to bounce

your ideas off another, or confer in order to solidify your

position on something...or just need the physical closeness

of another..it seem very important. However, if you're

a solitary person who's expression re life is conferred

through your art form, the need for friendship is usually

less as the person is always busy concentrating on their

vision. Very subjective

Friendships have changed over the course of life. Friends in the past were good friends, but as I changed as a person and they changed/or stayed the same, the relationship became problematic rather than supportive.

People who believe that a "friend is for life" are often stressed out beyond recognition about the friends in their life.

A Buddhist might call this an issue of not seeing the impermanence in life.

I could become your best friend. However, if your life does not support me in my efforts to have the life that I need, our friendship would begin to deteriorate over time. For example, if you were to become an alcoholic, an alcoholic is not conducive to my personal or professional goals and plans in life. I would wind down our friendship and find other friend who made other choices.

If you mean "is it possible" - yes, sure, assuming there is the necessary anatomical equipment, coordination, and cooperation of both parties.

If you mean "is it appropriate" or "is it a good idea" - most people in my country (USA) would say no, it's very sexual, appropriate only between lovers.

it means U R Perfect Or........ It means someone else got the other two

it probably means he really likes yooh and is about kiss you.

It depends on how she act around you. if she flerts with you and the way she looks at you.if she look into your eyes and give you that look which is hard to describe you will no what i mean when you see it then maybe yeah.If shes just normal the way she is with everyone then maybe no.But don't just take my answer if you think there is a chance then go for it.do what ever make you feel comfortaple.good luck.

Well, truth be told, it wont ever be that nice if you just turned him down. But to be nice you can tell him that you are just too much of good friends and if you go out it might be awkward or ruin your friendship. Because what happens when you go out and break up? Are you still going to be good friends? Anywho, hope this helps you!

You should not let her. When someone gets back with an old lover just to hang out sparks can fly. I was reading this thing on the internet and it says that getting back with an old lover could be great because of the sex. I would not take the chance if I were you. My boyfriends EX girlfriend would go over to his house so she could "visit his mother" but he says that she would try and talk to him, and that makes me think... you know? What if something went on between them?

i don't think that people get easy friendship online as some times we don't know who are we talking to or what the online friend what.....

God knows that we humans are weak. We need godly friends who will support and encourage us. Having friends with whom we can pray is a gift. They help to boost our faith, and give us strength. They pray on our behalf, upholding our needs before God and we, in turn, can support and encourage them in the same way.
That's not to say that we cannot be an influence and a light for those who do not know God. We can. And our godly friends will help us to stay true to God if the more earthly persuasions of this world try to drag us down and take our focus off God.

Just start talking to her find a common intrest! such as if she is in some kind of sport ask her what position she plays or what other sports she plays! If she doen't seem interested try asking questions that have more that one sylibal answers! then say hey you want to go to the baceball game today ( something that you were talking about!)

good luck and remember the worst they can do is say no!

Ask to go somewhere light, like maybe coffee, a fast-food lunch or something else non-threatening. Make it something that's not QUITE like a date, more like a friendly outing. Build up to a real date slowly. That way if she doesn't want to be more than friends, you won't loose out, AND you won't feel quite as uncomfortable asking her out.

That really depends on how he is treating you and how much older. You have to be very careful as some older men want to take advantage of younger people for their own selfish reasons so you really have to use your instincts, judgement and really read the signs. If you find he is being overly nice chances are he is interested in more than you may want and it may not be a good thing and he likely has alterior motives. Be very careful.

There are so many names to choose from! Depending on how creative you all are, or what really brings all of you together, you could come up with a number of great names. Here are just a few: a trio, 3 peas in a pod, or a tripod!