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Marriage

Marriage is a social union or legal contract between individuals. It is an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are acknowledged by a variety of ways, depending on the culture or demographic. Such a union may also be called matrimony.

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Why would someone have a bad attitude towards their husband or wife after having an affair?

This could possibly be due to quilt getting to them. Some people don't handle guilt very well, so they turn it into anger, or even try to blame their partner for the affair.

If your spouse had an affair and is now displaying a bad attitude towards you, try to talk to them and find out how they do feel about the affair, and about the person with whom they had the affair. Let them know they can be completely honest, that you only want to make your marriage work. If he or she has already apologized, don't continue to berate them for the affair, but at the same time, you do deserve answers.

You have a right to know why s/he had the affair, as well as why s/he has a bad attitude about it now. Maybe your spouse is struggling with the pain it's put you through, which could definitely account for a bad attitude. Just don't let your spouse try to blame you by trying to convince you that the affair was your fault for doing or not doing this or that.

The two of you need to talk through everything, even if it takes days or weeks. Your spouse owes you answers to your questions, no matter how difficult it may be for him or her to give you those answers. But once you do get the answers you want or need, then you need to decide if you want to try to make the marriage work. If you do, then you will have to let go of the affair and start from the present, not going back to the past. You can't keep bringing it up once you do get the answers you need or want, or you will never be able to move forward with your marriage or your life together.

What is the position of Mormon on mixed marriage?

Members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (the "Mormon" church) are encouraged to marry others within the faith, but do not object to mixed-faith marriages. Mormons do not object to mixed-faith or mixed-race marriages.

Can a husband legally take wife off of all accounts?

Yes it can be done, for this procedure both parties need to be present. Go to the bank to fill and sign a specific form, and the bank will process the request. And it is legal.

Priest should be allowed to marry?

Priests should not be allowed to be married. They are to be Christ's earthly representatives, to live as He did, and that cannot be done with a wife in tow.

Should you still be intimate with your spouse even when they say they are no longer in love with you?

  • It's very difficult to be intimate in any way with a spouse that no longer loves you. Both of you need to sit down and communicate and decide if you are going to work on your marriage (or if you are living together) or not by seeking marriage counseling. If your spouse refuses then you need to move on with your life. Life is to short to stay with someone you no longer love or they don't love you.

Is there sales tax on music wedding bands?

  • If the wedding band has a company and pays taxes then yes, they would have to pay sales tax. If they are just playing for the pleasure of it and are paid (under the table ... cheating the government) then there is no tax. If a friend has a band and they play and get paid there would be no tax and if that friend has a company they can write it off as a wedding gift.

What is passive congenial marriage?

This is a marriage that the partners have a low emotional investment in the marriage and few expectations of each other.

What are the red flags in an abusive relationships?

Yelling, screaming, hitting, punching, controlling, an demanding.

There are a lot of stuff that can lead to an abusive relationship.

However, you need to be very cautious of how he/she acts toward you if you think things are gonna get bad. If they start getting really controlling and telling you what you can & can't do, you should leave. Love doesn't revolve around abuse.

How do you convince Muslim parents to accept Christian-Muslim marriage of their son?

the woman should convert to a Muslim before marriage. Otherwise Islam does not allow for a Muslim to marry a non-Muslim.

if they do marry there will be many problema :

1 the religion of the children

2 the conflicts of beliefs

3 the performance of obligations such as Zakat , namaz

4 the way of marrying either Muslim way or christian

5 the rules of having a sexual relationship

etc...

hope i answered ur question.

Or maybe the man should convert to Christianity. Or maybe they should both agree to be agnostics. Note that anyone converting away from Islam risks death.

Why does wifes hate their husbands after 30 years of marriage?

Feelings of resentment in long-term marriages can develop for various reasons, including unmet expectations, lack of communication, or growing apart over time. Changes in life circumstances, such as raising children or dealing with financial stress, can also contribute to feelings of frustration. Additionally, if one partner feels unappreciated or neglected, it can lead to bitterness and hostility. Ultimately, the dynamics of each relationship are unique, and open communication is key to addressing these issues.

Who has info about disciplining wife My wife has agreed to be spanked for lying I want to find someone to do it I would stop when she starts to cry?

Umm no there is nothing wrong with you or your wife,, many couple practice Domestic Disicpline. If you your self can not do it and you would like to find a mentor or proper disicplinarian in your area i would try the following site www.spankingneeds.com if you wouldlike more information on DD try www.lovingdd.blogspot.com If u need anymore hlpe im my on yahoo as asut0226ap or aim as aliciaphillipsm Best wishes, Alicia

My live in boyfriend still talks to his ex wife. They were married for 10 years and cared for each other when both of their fathers passed on. But she calls him about everything Should i be worried?

When people marry strong bonds are formed. When my parents divorced they still called each other on a daily basis just to talk, this went on for almost a year. Now when they meet they greet each other like old buddies. It is not surprising if they still have feelings for one another, it's natural. I wouldn't be to worried about it, but if you are concerned about it then monitor his calls. If he is on the phone in another room, just listen, and when he is done enter the room and ask him who was on the phone. If his answer doesn't fit with what he was saying then talk to him about the relationship between him and his ex wife. Be firm, but don't get angry, demand his respect.

Is Gillian Anderson married?

Yes, Gillian Anderson married to Clyde Klotz in 1994 Yes, Gillian Anderson married to Julian Ozanne in 2004

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When talking to my children why does my ex husband refer to me by my first name instead of MOM?

* Often couples that have separated or divorced at least one of the partners is bitter and your ex may be doing this to make a quick point to you that he is displeased. When your children are not around tell your ex husband you do not like him referring to you by your first name when talking to the children and that you are their mother and that's what they he should refer to you as! If he can't give you that respect then tell him he's not welcome in your home.

What is the correct grammar wifes or wife's?

The possessive of the singular wife is "wife's": your wife's car. If you had more than one wife (rather unlikely) you would have "wives" and if they had more than one car it would be "your wives' cars." Proper use of wives is when you are referring to two or more; as in "our wives enjoyed the wedding". The possessive of the singular is the same; "Our wive's coats were checked at the front door when we arrived".

What is interethnic?

If you google interethnic it gives you an answer faster than this. The first link on google says: "between, among, or involving members of two or more ethnic groups" Since you have posted this in marriage and family I assume you are referring to interethnic marriage. Try googling "interethnic marriage".

What do you do if you are in love with man who is in love with you but he is married and you are in a relationship?

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This relationship with the married man will only cause you a lot of pain unless you each end your current relationship/marriage.

If the married man isn't willing to get a divorce, end it with him and tell him you are willing to be with him once his divorce is final. Don't be fooled by any excuses as to why he can't get a divorce.

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You need to get out of this relationship unless you're up for a lot of pain. besides if he does get a divorce, and decides to be with you , whose to say that he won't do the same thing to you in the future? don't believe anything he tells you regarding whether or not he can get a divorce and if he says he is willing to, don't believe a word of it until the final papers are in hand. good luck.

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How can one possibly truly "love" someone that is cheating on their spouse? Obviously they can't be trusted.....true love requires trust.

If a man cheats on his wife, what makes you think he wouldn't cheat on you someday?

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Please see my response to "Has anyone gone from a mistress to a new wife and still feels the relationship was true love?" on this site. I have experienced the other side, but can remember what it was like to be where you are now. However, our promises to each other WERE fulfilled. My contact information is at the bottom of my entry if you would like to contact me personally. I certainly empathize with your situation.

I am in the same situation an know ecatley how you feel

How can one protect oneself from a manic depressive spouse who has maxed out credit cards and a inability to pay them and is divorce the only way?

You will not be able to cure this person. They have a serious illness. There is no point in living in that uncertainty. See a counsellor and start making plans to leave. You owe it to yourself to be happy. I am yet another writer experienced in living with a manic depressive person who also self medicates. When we went to the doctor about this issue she did nothing to help. Actually, she made things worse but administering self diagnosis in which she is an MD and not a mental health professional. She gave him an anti depressant which made his manic flare out into rage attacks. Then she added more pain medication since he continued to complain about pain from work. We told her he using these meds to self medicate and at times alcohol to bring him down from a manic. I went to see the author of " What goes up" a newer book about a manic spouse who eventually committted suicide. Her experience was like mine and she herself was a social worker with no one listening to her about her own spouse. These people are charmers, and often what they do privately does not show the same was in public. Often additional mental health issues come with this especially if you notice their own family in denial about these matters. My husband has gotten worse over the years. He denies any problems other then it is me or his children but never him. He has no empathy for others, sleeps in our masterbedroom alone, allowing me to come in occasionally. He helps with nothing and when manic with rage strikes, everything is destroyed. My children have all moved out now and do not even come home for holidays because he is either moaning and laying in a bed or up and raging manic behavior and it destroys all our holidays. I have not had one Christmas in 15 years because of him. Loyalty or not this is a behavior that no human needs to endure. Many people are sick but when they ride the fence and show others their con job of lies about how bad it really is and when a doctor can actually play co dependent and make matters worse, There is nothing more to be done. My children know no peace. My health takes a beatting from his insanity. Your life is worth more then this..........this man has had three wifes now and I am the first to hang on this long since 1987. When is enough enough ? It is not just about credit cards, those are easy to stop. It is all the other insanity and lack of love and a life. Don't tolerate it. There are sane people out there willing to be partners. Elizabeth read that book WHAT GOES UP......... Divorce is your decision because living with a manic depressive person can be difficult at best. I always believe (other than abusive behavior in a married relationship) that we are in marriage for the long haul. There is no guarantees as to which mate is going to become ill or with what. It's so easy to run away when things get a bit tough, but you sound like a strong person and want to make things work between you and your spouse and also you reflect being a made that is loyal. Firstly, see your family doctor (your spouse doesn't have to go with you for the first appointment) and see what your options are. There are medications that can certainly help your mate over-come manic depression, but they need to stabilize on medications first in order to concentrate on the counseling that comes next. CUT UP ALL CREDIT CARDS! Most Credit Card Companies want their money and would rather work with you to help you pay off your debts than not get the money at all. Write the Credit Card companies and explain the situation and then ask for a lower percentage rate on your outstanding debt. They will reduce the percentage rate (by law!) As long as you don't own an expensive home, own several cars and go on vacation, but you are basically just making it from pay check to pay check Credit Card Companies will work with you if you can pay the minimum payment with the new low rate of interest. This way you will keep your credit rating up. Don't let your mate have ANY credit cards and give your mate an allowance in cash if it's possible. When I deposit my husband's pay check into the bank I know how much free money we have and first I pay our bills, then I put a little into an emergency fund and then I divide what is left between my husband and I. That's our allowance! Sometimes it's a good amount and other times we're lucky if we can take in dinner and a movie. If you follow the above steps and get your mate in for proper medication and some counseling there is no reason your marriage can't become successful. If your mate refuses help then it's up to you to decide if it's worth the pain of going through all this and perhaps you need to move on. Make sure you make your feelings clear to your mate. Good luck Marcy * In the US an adult (spouse or otherwise) cannot legally prevent another adult from using credit cards or obtaining other sources of credit unless said adult agrees, has granted a power of attorney or the concerned adult (spouse) has been awarded adult guardianship. They cannot take the credit cards from the adult or destroy them or close the account without the legal authority or permission from the account holder even if the accounts are joint marital ones. To do so arbitrarily can result in serious legal consequences for the person acting against the non compliant spouse. The best option for the spouse to protect herself is to consult with an attorney concerning the "innocent spouse" laws for the state in which she resides.

Is the INS interview to determine if the marriage is valid or to determine if it is a loving marriage?

Some people believe it should be one and the same. Be that as it may, an INS interview is to make a determination of whether the marriage was entered into in good faith between the parties or if it is a marriage of convenience to allow the non citizen spouse to obtain permanent residency and citizenship. Entering into a fraudulent marriage for the purposes cited is a federal felony and both parties can be imprisoned and/or fined if they are found guilty of the act.

Why do women cheat?

Women cheat for the same reason that men cheat. It is simply because they are selfishness in love,dishonest and unsatisfied . They can't control these feelings, love is just a natural occurring emotion.

May as well ask why people cheat. All kinds of reasons, not just one or two; for example, lust, curiosity, weakness, and revenge come to mind. And some people would never cheat, no matter what, not even if cheated on. We could ask the reason for that, too. The answer simply is because they are dishonest.