Marriage

Itsounds like you may have said or done something that he interpreted as a negative to his sexual prowess or even his sense of self. Maybe it wasn't even directed at him. Men have very fragile egos when it comes to sex. If a guy feels he can't be exactly what he perceive his woman wants, he shuts down. A bruised ego is hard for a man to overcome. It's easier to just avoid all sex with his woman than to face the pain. What may seem very minor and insignificant to you may make a world of difference to him. Also, something said at the wrong time can do this. Once when we were making love, my wife mentioned to men that she didn't want me touching her rectal area this time - something she sometimes wanted and sometimes didn't. Although appropriate for us to discuss when not in the middle of making love, it shrunk me right up at that point because of her timing. She felt horrible, and so did I. We talked about it, but it STILL took me awhile to be able to get it up for her again. We decided at that point that - barring something causing pain - we would not ever mention what we don't want while in the midst of making love, only what we DO want. My wife and I are great communicators, and even so, problems happen. For guys who are used to or are not trained to talk about sexual problems, imagine what a difficult situation it is for them. Regardless, your husband sounds very hurt by something. If he can't or won't tell you, it may be best to simply stroke his ego for awhile. What did you used to love about him (not just sexually)? Bring up those things. When you are talking with a friend in front of him, talk about how great he is and be specific. Bring up all those sex emails we all get and laugh and say, "Why would I be interested in stuff like when I have big Jim (or whatever his name is) to please me?" If he still doesn't gradually come around, then there may be something much deeper going on. Best wishes to you.

Traditionally, the Igbo people believe that a girl should be submissive to her husband and should fulfil the roles of homemaker and mother. Men are traditionally the head of the household, but in modern times these attitudes are changing or are at least relaxed.

• If you are talking about personal mail coming to your home by the postal service then it is a crime to redirect that mail and it should only go to the person it belongs too. If it is email this too is a crime, but there isn't much you can do about it. It is always best to clean out your emails each day and save what you want and delete the rest. Also change your accounts on the computer. You have the option of reporting any mail coming to your home by a postal worker to the post office or, if you would rather not make a fuss go to the postal office and have it changed back to you home address.

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You might use a simple block personal letter format to write a letter to a friend regarding your inability to attend his sister's wedding. It is a good idea to be apologetic in this letter so that he understands that you are sorry that you cannot attend.

• Your wife chose you over her ex boyfriend. In a relationship there has to be a bond of trust and only you know how well the two of you are communicating and getting along. If everything is fine between you and your wife then you have nothing to worry about and, it's quite possible her ex boyfriend either has a girlfriend or is married himself. Don't get into the habit of second guessing your wife and just sit down with her and voice your concerns. A good marriage is one in which you can talk anything over without fear of an argument or ridicule.
  

• The husband should kick her rear right out the door! No, it's not normal to stay with a husband as long as she can see her lover. There are no compromises after taking marriage vows and when those vows were taken that meant you were suppose to remain partners in marriage throughout your lives. Granted, not all marriages work out, but cheating is cheap and disrespectful to the partner and that bond of trust one has with their mate is gone and hard to get back. She needs to make up her mind and the husband needs to get a backbone!
  

He doesn't have to maintain a relationship with his ex-sexual partner; one cannot have an emotional/physical relationship with someone else when he/she is married, he/she will extenuate when frustrated a choice will be made and this is the nemesis of your marriage.

However if you feel like you have to deal with it because you see it from a healthy point of view, then it's up to you to build up/reinforce the trust that you have in him, and let him know about your point of view, how you see things and how you are going to deal with it; which is an absolute surrender to trust only on a daily basis.

No. In fact parents play a very small role in their childs choice of a marriage partner.

When an Old Order Amish adolescent reaches the age of 16 they enter a period called rumspringa where they will typically enter a "peer group." Groups are not formed by adults but are often defined simply by their level of deviation from the norm. In my area (the 3rd largest Amish settlement in America) they have even named the groups. One is very wild, experiments with liquior and drugs and drive cars. Another group drives cars and dresses in modern clothes. Another group does not drive cars and maintains more traditional dress. The latter group participates in what are called home singings.

From their peer group the Amish teen will often select a spouse. The boy and girl make the decision together and then inform the parents of their decision. It is kept a secret, although many others have discovered it by this point, until it is publicly "published" about 8 weeks before the wedding.

While parents may instill in their children certain values or hold certain families in high esteem, both of which may influence their selection of a peer group or spouse, the parents themselves have little if any role in the the selection of a childs spouse.

In Malayalam marriage means kinship. This is what they call dating too.

Getting married is not a scientific issue and therefore no scientific reasons can be given neither for nor against it. Just reasons or opinions.

The man must find out about her

Let his family ask about her

Ask her family, her friends, her Classmates/coworkers and

her neighbors

If a man wants to get married, and he has decided to propose to a particular woman, then he may go to her guardian on his own, or with one of his relatives such as his father or brother, or he may delegate someone else to propose marriage on his behalf. The matter is broad in scope, and prevalent customs should be followed. In some countries it is regarded as improper for the suitor to go on his own, so attention should be paid to that.

What is prescribed in sharee'ah is for the suitor to see the woman to whom he wants to propose marriage, because of the report narrated by al-Tirmidhi (1087), al-Nasaa'i (3235) and Ibn Maajah (1865) from al-Mugheerah ibn Shu'bah (may Allaah be pleased with him), who proposed to a woman and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Go and look at her, for that is more likely to create love between you," i.e., ,ore likely to establish lasting love between you. This hadeeth was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.

Good luck !

Exactly what it says. Love is the most precious and priceless thing in the world. Those who have it are therefore the richest people in the world

There is natural herbs that can help. Horny Goat Wheat, Ginseng. If this doesnt work you can try Viagra. And if that doesnt work The woman should buy a self sex toy.

erm maybe it doesnt fit the other finger propperly

He has 5 children. The 2 sons are adopted and he has 3 daughters with his wife, Taffi.

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Sorry to do this, but I have to be hard on his one. With all the single men in the world please don't tangle yourself up with a married man. This man you are going with is getting his cake and eating it too. He has no intentions of leaving his wife. He is probably bored with his every day existance with her and you are nothing but a toy. Something new, bright and shiny. You have nothing more than what he use to see in his wife and one time and in the near future he will find you boring and move on. Take what pride you have and stop seeing this man. If in doubt, think of how you would feel if some other woman was fooling around with your husband. How would you feel? This man is never going to marry you and I think in your heart you know it. If he was serious he would have left his wife by now. Oh, by the way, if he gives you that lip and says, "Well it's simply not that easy. I have business ventures with my wife's name on it, the house, property and cars" don't you believe it! If he loves you enough he should face his wife, go to court and split the difference with all their assets. Be smart, look up on the web what the laws of divorce are in your state. Get that pride of yours back on track, and find some nice single guy that will treat you right. Good luck Marcy I think there should be a law against people cheating especially those who know they are cheating on a married person. This is purely risky bussiness and you are setting yourself up for a huge disappointment (s). If we all had a decent heart we would think about the unsuspecting partner not about yourself. There are plenty of single fishes in the water and be careful of those that either pretend to be there or want more than they can chew. Don't waste any time on this puppy, he just wants to play. You need someone that can devote his entire self, soul and being to you. I wouldn't want to share my boyfriend fiance or husband so neither should you. Respect the unsuspect wife and respect yourself you will feel better about this. Good luck Please see my response to "Has anyone gone from a mistress to a new wife and still feels the relationship was true love?" on this site. I have experienced the other side, but can remember what it was like to be where you are now. However, our promises to each other WERE fulfilled. My contact information is at the bottom of my entry if you would like to contact me personally. I certainly empathize with your situation. In seven months, he hasn't separated from his wife, filed for divorce or admitted to his wife about your affair so that she can decide the fate or their marriage. What exact timeframe has he proposed to leave his wife? More than likely he is offering long distance promises "When the kids are older," "When I get my finances in order,", "When I feel (his wife's name) can handle being told,". All of the above are time worn excuses used by cheating spouses and they don't mean a thing. He will continue to say these things to do for months, possibly years, until you wake up to reality and end the affair or he gets tired of you and ends it with you. End things and make it clear you would like to be with him--once he gets his divorce.

Oh yeah we come back, for more action. Not for marriage. Don't kid yourself, breaking up is hard but you have to move on. there are better Men to hook up with, don't be used, and more importantly think with your head not your heart.

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There are obvious negative effects of sugar, but really only on the heart. Your brain on sugar is much more hyper active. Your neurons fire faster, and cause messages to be sent quicker. The reason there is a crash after eating a lot of sugar is because of a waste product of your neurons firing. The waste product is called Adenosine.

Caffeine works by inhibiting Adenosine receptors which cause you to sleep. If you take sugar and caffeine together, you get hyper, with a slower crash rate than if you just had sugar.

You can find out more about all of these things (sugar, caffeine, and adenosine) on sites like wikipedia, or more trustworthy sites...

A married man would use condoms with his wife in order to prevent a pregnancy, the same as with any other man with any other woman.

Yes, they are married and have two kids.

No. Yet, there are some people with a psychological condition that attach to an object and not a person. If you have this please seek counseling to help you.