Why is it so hard to hold an abusive person accountable for their actions?
It is hard, because it is not your job to parent them. Understand that verbally they will win and physical abuse is not far behind. When you are finished trying to make changes, it is time to leave. A good book with things to try is Patricia Evan's Verbally Abusive Relationship.
Because they deny that they are abusers to start with! Abusers regularly deny the abuse ever took place - or rationalize their abusive behaviors. Denial is an integral part of the abuser's ability to "look at himself/herself in the mirror". There are many types of denial. When confronted by his victims, most abusers tend to shift blame or avoid the topic altogether. Total denial 1. Outright denial Typical retorts by the abuser: "It never happened, or it was not abuse, you are just imagining it, or you want to hurt my (the abuser's) feelings" 2. Alloplastic defense Common sentences when challenged: "It was your fault, you, or your behavior, or the circumstances, provoked me into such behavior" 3. Altruistic defense Usual convoluted explanations: "I did it for you, in your best interests" 4. Transformative defense Recurring themes: "What I did to you was not abuse - it was common and accepted behavior (at the time, or in the context of the prevailing culture or in accordance with social norms), it was not meant as abuse" Abusers frequently have narcissistic traits. As such, they are more concerned with appearance than with substance. Dependent for narcissistic supply on the community - neighbors, colleagues, co-workers, bosses, friends, extended family - they cultivate an unblemished reputation for honesty, industriousness, religiosity, reliability, and conformity. Forms of denial in public 4. Family honor stricture Characteristic admonitions: "We don't do dirty laundry publicly, the family's honor and repute must be preserved, what will the neighbors say?" 5. Family functioning stricture Dire and ominous scenarios: "If you snitch and inform the authorities, they will take me (the abusive parent) away and the whole family will disintegrate" Confronting the abuser with incontrovertible proof of his abusive behavior is one way of minimizing contact with him. Abusers - like the narcissists that they often are - cannot tolerate criticism or disagreement. Answer These they never want to face up to being wrong and if their alcoholics who have black outs, you will never hear I'm sorry. Most of the times they odn't remember what they said and even deny having ever said such words. My mother who is an alcoholic for 30 years is a fine example. She never has to apolize because she has no recollection of her words the next day. These people are incaple of feeling anything real, and a horrible breed of people. I really don't like my mother at all, and I think she'e very sick. Answer If they cared to be accountable, and responsible they wouldn't be abusing you. Being accountable means they have to recognize the behavior. Recognizing the behavior means that they take responsibility. Taking responsibilty means they can't be pukes. Not being pukes means they have to be productive... get the picture. Holding someone accountable.. means they have to change, be responsible.... abusers don't want that. Answer There are few things abusers dread more than having to face up to their own odious selves. Emotionally, they are firmly stuck in the kindergarten playground. They can't own their actions. Instead, they go to the playground supervisor, and howl, 'It's not fair. Everybody's being **beastly** to me'. (Sob, sob). It never enters their tiny minds that they are the ones who're being 'beastly'.
How do you fix a hacked computer?
You can't "fix" a hacked computer. It depends on what has been done, but if they install a virus, use a antivirus program or format the harddrive. If they just connect to your computer and hack the password, reset the password and change your IP.
Easy as 3.1415926535
What happens when you get hacked?
someone gets into your files and your personal information, and usaly puts viruses and other things that can harm your computer
It depends on how young he is. Usually men 18+ wouldn't be with a person they cared about unless they wanted too. Even if they were shy they would just fade away out of your life. The best thing to do is sit and talk with him. Ask him directly about how he feels about your relationship together and assure him you'll understand if things are going a little too fast for him. NEVER second-guess someone and it's always best to just plain communicate. Good luck Marcy
The man who strays from the truth and the natural way of being, we all make our choice and sow our seeds.
Where did the Trojans come from?
they came from no where . they were allready there and they were turısh !!!
Because in the anger, hatred, and rage, they have only one mission left in their miserable existence, and that is to see each and every human being dead and damned for all eternity. They are fallen angels, and they retain all their angelic power and might. They do not sleep, they have no bodies, and no bodily needs, and they are evil itself. Individually, we are no match for even the least demon, and without Christ, we are lost.
Either fine out where it is in your computer and manulay remove it or get a real antivirus such as nod32 or kaspersky.
Computer virus How destructive it is?
They can vary from annoying, to making your computer completely unusable.
Either something that saves a net, or something that results in a net saving (more saving than expenses).
How many types of antivirus do you have?
There are dozens of anti-virus programs. However, having more than one with a particular operation system can lead to conflicts.
What is the function of the WR signal on the memory chip?
what is the function of the wr signal on memory chip
Are viruses transmitted by music files?
Yes, all music files contain horrible sound viruses. They were put there by the RIAA to track all your personal information and to steal your children.
What are the names of the things on a windows desktop?
It varies depending on your operating system, but in general the bar along the bottom is the taskbar, the picture you see is called the desktop background, and the programs on the desktop background are called icons.
How do you get rid of wininnet.dll virus?
First you need to find out what this dll file has attached itself to. If you go to run and enter procexp then hit enter. Go to find dll or handle and enter wininnet.dll. It will show you the processes and handle that it is attached to. Right click on the process and kill the process if it's not a necessary process for your computer to run. Then you can delete that dll. If it's something like Winlogon or Explorer (which I just dealt with), then you will need to right click on the process and go to properties. Listed under the threads will be all the dll's associated. You will need to right click and kill every instance of the wininnet.dll. You will also need to right click on the handle and kill that process. Then you should be able to delete or move that dll to another location. If you can't delete it, simply move it to a new folder. I created a "virus" folder in My documents. Then rebooted and was able to delete that dll damed virus. Good luck.
What is the best keylogger to send via email and how?
I am using the best keylogger from http://thebestkeylogger.mine.nu/
and just configure the smtp server in the program and it will send you email when ever you like.
BTW: Really easy to use software.
How do you adjust size of desktop picture on vista?
1. Right click on your desktop and click personalize.
2. Go to desktop background.
3. there should be a bar with a few options such as stretch, tile, and keep dimensions.
Computer icons are small graphics meant to represent data files. Embeded icons are actually stored in the file itself.
How do you say may i have a menu in spanish?
Una lista de platos, por favor. (Oonah LEEstah they PLAHtoss, porr fahVORR)
('th' as in 'they')