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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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What questions do you ask when you are broken up from someone?
- When a couple that were going together on a steady basis break up then the person that is being left behind because the other is breaking off the relationship has a right to know why. Sometimes the ex will explain themselves and other times they will continue to move forward and you will have to accept that. When young it is not uncommon for love to come and go, but, in the end you will find the true person you should have in your life.
You like this guy that thinks you hate him. so what should you do?
to be honest, i would try to get over him. there are plenty of guys out there and there is no reason to waste your time on someone who has no interest.
-twisdalegirk- I am going through the same thing, i think you should try to get over him but if you REALLY love him no matter what wait and pray just maybe he'll come around(: best wishes:)
Why does your girlfriend freak out when your dancing with another girl?
short of a family member you should never dance with another girl and dont even ask why there is no real reason just don't do it and dont ask her why
What does it mean when your ex says 'I'm in ever-growing love for you'?
He means that either: 1. he wants to get back together 2. he wants to get in your pants.
What does it mean if your partner says 'It's not working'?
One thing it does show you is this person who said it to you has #1 limited speech, #2 is non-communicative (a fault) and #3 immature. It's a good thing you find out now than later. "It's not working" just means this person feels the relationship is not working out and they aren't happy. It probably isn't anything you did wrong at all, but being attracted to someone is all about chemistry. Some people can fall madly in love with a person, and a few months down the road fall out of love with them. These people are "in love with love" and know very little about what love really is. It's egotistical and their life and especially their feelings are all about themselves.
Consider yourself lucky, hold your head high, and say, "You know, something has been bothering me about our relationship and I wasn't quite sure what it was. Thanks for clearing it up." Keep walking, because there is someone special out there for you.
Good luckMarcy
AnswerThanks Marcy,I dated this girl for 5 months. It was a blind date. I thought that things were going wonderfully. She introduced me to her parents after a month of dating and said that they loved me. Went on holiday in July and she asked me questions about my past and ex etc. I asked her and she told me she has dated a few guys since her long term relationship. Her long term ex went and got married to someone else. I asked how did they split up and she said that they didn't really split up "confused" what does that mean? Her ex is married and lives in another country... I said are you over him and she said yes. She also said that she gives her boyfriends a six month trial period??? In mid July she said that she wanted a relationship not just based on sex. So I said I can respect that. We didn't sleep with each other for over a month and we just went out. Then at a family firend of her dad's wedding reception we stayed at a hotel room togather and got intimate and thought things were fine. A few days down the line before she was due to go on holiday with her parents I called her and she said this isn't working, that Iam not confident enough and too predictable. It was left at that when I called her in the evening and asked if we were going to meet up. She said yes and then said yeah this isn't working and I reacted and said you are right and that you are cut up over your ex and cannot have a meaningful relationship. So she said is that good bye and I said yes.. Confused. I called her after 1 month and she talked to me saying that what she said was constructive criticisum so that I should be better aware for my future relationships and said that I had relly hurt her and she cannot forgive me or can ever be friends.. I guess that's the end of it. But this has left me confused as I did say to her why she didn't tell me this earlier on as you know if you like someone or not in a couple of months of going out with them?
AnswerHi thereMy pleasure! I know you're hurting, but now that you have explained more, guess what ... it is she that has the problem and not you! She is the one that's immature, confused and selfish. She is playing one man against the other and here's something else ... she has zero confidence about herself because she could fight for her ex, not involved you without any respect for your feelings. I'm very proud of you for standing your ground and I hope I don't offend you by saying ... you're one great guy, there is nothing wrong with you and there is a special girl out there for you and she'll be lucky to go through life with someone like you.
Kick this girl to the curb and let her drift through life. The old saying, "the head of the snake always bites you in the butt" is going to be so true for her. She is playing with fire. The other guy is married, she is playing head games with you. Of course she has left you confused because she has managed to have you believe it's all your fault, when in reality it's hers!
I was married at 22 to a guy my family and friends didn't like and warned me about. Of course I thought I could change him, but deep down I knew I couldn't. He loved women and obviously I wasn't enough for him, so one day (just like you) I'd had enough and after being silly enough to marry him, I left. I was scared, heart-broken and felt guilty as if it were my fault. It took me six months after I started living on my own to realize it wasn't my fault at all and I had no control over his actions, but I sure had control over my own destiny. Thank God, I got out of that mess, because a year later I met my wonderful husband and we have been married for 33 years. If I hadn't gone through that heartache I wouldn't have gone down the path I did and met my husband. I know this will happen to you as well.
So proud of you and I really wish you the very best of luck finding that special girl soon. I know she's out there.
Stay strong & good luckMarcy
AnswerThank you again Marcy,I didn't think of it like what you have described her mentality as. That really she is the one with the issues and zero confidence and I now realise that she is playing head games and playing one man against the other. It's a shame that there are people like her out there. They should be banned from dating or maybe they should introduce a dating passport with history of past relationships on record so that it weeds out people like that.
The thing I could not understand is that her ex got married 3 years ago and lives in another country Kenya about 3000 miles away from the UK. But she still keeps in touch with him over the phone. She did tell me that he doesn't like her to go out with other men but he can't do much about it. So now I get it!!! she tries to make him Jealous by having relationships and hopes that one day he gets back with her... She is 31 years old and not a kid or anything special to look at.
You didn't offend me by saying I am a great guy. Thank you. But I kind of wonder if being a great guy is a liability in life as you then are an easy target for girls like her and it seems all the bastards always get what they want. But hey that's life..
You are so right. Kick her to the kerb and let her drift through life. Move on.
Thanks again for all your advice and you are a great source of help. Whish I knew about your website when I was dating her. I would have moved on much quicker : )
If you can think of something that you only think of You have imagination
take a deep breath bite your tounge and get on with your new life it happend to me 10 years ago and things couldent be better keep a good relationship with your ex and let her go find herself remember when she calls and starts nagging you can just hang up its like an off switch
Why does your heart ache when you see your first love?
It does not, it's just a feeling that you get because you have deep feelings you get and since people say that your heart stops when you have love, well that isn't true. You would be dead if it was.
What does it mean if you keep seeing your ex boyfriend in your mind?
Maybe he's suppose to be there for a reason. Maybe your just suppose to talk him about something important, something that maybe was left unsaid?
The mind can be a tricky thing to understand.. But Love is most difficult.
Why is it taking so long for your girlfriend to warm up to you?
I'm sure you know some girls can be shy or unsure about a relationship and if you comfort her without freaking her out then she should probably warm up to you just fine. You may want to ask her about her morals and beliefs or find out about them. Depending on what warming up means to you she may just not be okay with it yet. She may have never been in a relationship before and is unsure of what to do. Again comfort her and above all do not rush her into anything she does not want to do. Just keep reminding her of why she went out with you in the first place (not verbally you idiot) and I am sure she will be more comfortable with you in no time.
If a person is 74 years old what year were they born in?
- In 2010 when a person is 74 years old they would have been born in 1936.
What does it mean when there's a crash course in a relationship?
It means that somewhere in the relationship you will fall out and have arguments. It happens in every relationship, and it should.
How do you know if your back is broke?
u wont move it and u cant breath good and when u try st reaching Ur neck it will hurt
you should break up its not worth it your other half is a compulsive lier¬!!!! yeah cry
What do you do when someone broke your heart but i still love her?
depending on how they broke you heart, you either chase after them.... or you let them go. Truthfully, more often than not, the right thing to do in that situation is to let them go.
What should you do if your husband left you for six months but now wants you back?
Sit down and try and remember how you felt when he left you, and how you felt while you two were together. If you were happy then maybe consider taking him make, but if he made you miserable or abused you in anyway, then you have been given the chance to escape, and there is no point in not taking it. If this man has left you once, would he leave you again? How do you feel about him? Can you imagine spending forever with him, and does it make you happy thinking about that? Hope this helps. If your husband is abusive, tell him to leave...forever.Tell yourself to seek council & read everthing possible about abuse in order grow out of disfunction.
As painful as it sounds, you don't. It's not what you want to hear, but it's what you need to listen to instead of believing that you can somehow change someone else's mind. You can't. She's been honest that her feelings towards you are not the same as they were when you first came together. It doesn't mean that you aren't a worthwhile person or that other people won't find you attractive; you two simply are no longer compatible emotionally, she feels that you both have grown apart. Respect her decision, give yourself the space from her that you need; you don't need to be her friend but don't hate her either. It's better to have someone be honest about their feelings than to stay in a relationship where they are unhappy and taking it out on the other person or cheating. If you are older than 16 then it may be harder or easier depending on the girl. Your girlfriend must have had strong feeling for you in the first place. But I am pretty sure she didn't feel a bond between the two. So she just stuck around through a thin thread. The she finally realized that no bond is going to evolve. So she gave up and she made up the excuse that she dosen't have the same feelings for you. And she may have found someone else that she has this strong bond. That can not be explained in words how it feels. But it is like that she can talk to the person easier and she tells him more things than she tell you. (I am hoping that you are the boyfriend in the relationship. Because that is what I am reffering you as.) You have to trust me on this one. Because I just dumped my boyfriend for the same reason. And it sounds just like mine. But as to "winning her heart back". That is something that no one can tell you. You have to figure that you yourself. Because you know her. And none of us here know her like you do. (Personality wise) So you have to look deep down in you heart and search for the answer yourself. Not that I am being mean or anything. But, the advice that other people will give you may just not suit her you know? But you have to ask yourself. Am I really in love with her? Do I really need to do all I can do? And if you do have this strong love for her. Show it. In any way you can. And I promise that is the one way that you are going to win her heart back. Just do something special. And if you do love her, then just love her. And she'll know you can't live life with out her. Just let go of her and accept that she does not like you anymore.
What is the true meaning of trust?
If you can lock your love and an attractive mate in the closet for 24 hours, and TRUST they wil not do anything. Then you can trust them.
In relationship trust means If you can be a compatible partner. You have goal and you have dream if he/she can fullfill your dream you will trust him
Let me give you an example, you meet a guy who is honest, loves you so much. he respects you and he is an amazing kisser but he is not good with money. Saving or stable job or good career.
How can you trust and share your life with him?
Or someone is amazing and successful and even lie to you for small stuff.
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What is the meaning of an old citizens home?
- An old Citizens Home can be for elderly people who can take care of themselves, but have nursing care handy, or they can be debilitated enough to be in a Nursing Home when they can no longer manager on their own.
What to say to a guy to make him want you back?
Yes, *You can, but if that is what it takes to get him back, the relationship most likely would not be worth having. A better solution would be to leave him alone and let him contact you if he decides he wants to get back together. Oyherwise, forget him and get on wih your life.
What are some really cruel things to say during a break up?
- It hurts when someone you love breaks up with you, but to be spiteful and cruel is only lowering yourself to their level and, also it shows you have little character and you will only end up looking like the fool and not your ex. It's better to go through the grieving period of a bad break up and then get out with friends; start dating again and move on in your life. The best way to get back at the person that left you is by moving forward in your life and dating again instead of being angry or moping around.
- Your breath stinks, i just stayed with you because I'm a nice person
- Eew Your friends begged me to go out with you.
- Why would i date someone with that face?
- If a boy then say: Your mouth (refer to oral sex) was great so that made up for your face
- If a girl then say: Your little dick wasn't worth it
