Breakups

he broke up with you for a reason, maybe it was for another female. if he loved you in the first place he wouldnt have broken up with you. theres plenty of good guys out there dont settle for someone who wouldnt settle for you

No, I do not. Women and men are not so inter-dependant upon each othe in this age of independance, and so they grow apart. Furthermore, no money no love.

Its already not fair or right for putting your wife in this position and your not doing her any favours staying with her at this point when your feelings, heart and head are with someone else. You inevitably have to do what you think is best but its also best to not lead your wife on anymore and do the decent thing and let her go.

Answer If some guy tells you that he loves you but still lives with his ex, then the love for you can't be that great and maybe he's telling you this so he can get in your bed and between your legs. If he truly loved you he'd leave his ex. If I were you, I'd dump this liar and find a guy who isn't living with an ex and only wants you in his life. Good luck

You could take her back, if you feel fine with being her second choice. She's just using you as if you were a sucker. She left because she did not want you, she still does not want you. She just wants you to support her, until she finds a better man. Once she finds another man, she'll leave you again.

Oh, honey, it could be anything across the spectrum. He might not mean it, he might mean it too much. He might be shy. Men are not socialized for comfort with big emotions. I have experienced versions of what worries you with people I was quite sure did care about me, so I know it can happen. But your asking this tells me you are worried about more than just eye placement. If you tell me more, I will try and help you more. I have been where I think you are. Good luck.

let him know, nicely, that your still upset and that you know he is sorry but you still need time to get over it.

no!

just try your best to move on and always trust in god. Pray to him and you will see how things will change

a broken hearted love is where the male/female doesn't love the other and breaks up and breaks the other persons heart at the same time and doesn't give a damm about how, where or when they break up 'cause the don't care at all.

Its hard to stop loving or liking someone that is using you because love is a very confusing thing. However you have to realise breaking it off with this person is the best thing for you

well we have been fighting for awhile but we always work it out but i got jealous of some girl at his work.then one night right before he left he hugged me and said i will love you no matter what.but i havent talked to him since then and wont answer my texts or calls anymore but when we did answer them all he wont say was "i just cant anymore"and"you'll find someone better" he thinks this just because i never had another boyfriends but that was my choice i didnt want any others.he said that if i dated someone else then i would really know if he was the one and he said he would date someone too but i can't because i feel like its cheating.well all i want to know is how to get him back?to let him know im better?not as jealous?and that he really is the best?(but he won't answer my calls or texts)

It is normal to miss someone with whom you shared your life. Try to remember the abuse episodes. It helps to counter the nostalgia.

Think of when they hit you.

It is possible that you are not "missing" the abusive/narcissistic ex, but rather you are grieving that the euphoric beginning period of the relationship will be gone forever. Narcissists and other abusers are famous for creating these "moments" in time; After all, it's a part of pretty much all personality disorders where abuse is involved to "split" the partners onto the "good" side; When the abuser's partner can no longer meet the abuser's needs, the unsuspecting victim is battered with emotional and physical violence unlike anything ever imagined;

For some victims of abusers, this might be the first (or only) time that (s)he appeared to be adored by another person. Only after a lot of self-analysis and inner-revelations does the abandoned ex realize that it was all just a mirage. And that is exactly how can you stop missing your abusive ex; look to yourself on how and why you got into the relationship to begin with.

Causal connectives are used when one simple sentence is dependent on the other. For example, I put up my umbrella because it was raining."

You can't use a connective like "and" or "so" here, because the first simple sentence "I put up my umbrella" is dependent on the second simple sentence "it was raining".

The Spanish phrase Como esta tu trabajo means how is your work, in the English language. Spanish is spoken in almost all of Latin America.

QUESTION EXPLAINED: I started dating a guy around 4 months ago. We dated for around 3 when I started hanging out more with a guy friend of mine. I didn't tell him, because I knew he would be upset, but I didn't think there was anything to worry about. The guy ended up trying to kiss me and one thing lead to another and we broke up. We tried the friends with benefits thing but ended it when he thought I started acting too much like we were in a relationship. We were friends for a while, then started benefits again, and just recently I ended it telling him it was all or nothing. He is the best friend I have ever had, and does more "friend things" than anyone else I have ever known. I don't want to lose him as a friend, but I can't help finding myself still wanting to be with him. I know I made a mistake by not telling him who I was spending my time with an I feel horrible. I know that hurt him, but now I am hurting. After sex I ask him how he feels toward me and his reply is "A little more than a friend, but not like a girlfriend." I know the sex is wrong, but I am absolutely torn apart and I feel like Im leaving on this hope that maybe one day he will miss me. While I rarely see the guy that tried to kiss me anymore (I told my ex as soon as it happened), I still talk to him occassionally, almost as a source of comfort. I know that is wrong too. I want my comfort to be my ex. I miss him, and I'm so confused. What am I supposed to do?

Just be yourself. Smile when you see him, give him a quick hug if you want too. Nature will take it's course so don't push it and you just never know, you could get back together again. If this isn't the case then simply smile, say hello and ask how he's doing and move on. Act as if he's simply an aquaintance. Well, if its just a casual meeting to chat, then just chat about what has been going on in your life since the breakup and dont bring up your relationship with them or new ones, be vague about the new ones, if any. If its to rekindle, then you have to get all the reasons you broke up in the first place on the table, resolved and a plan for them not to happen again.

If you are wrong it is.

You write this person a letter, telling them your sorry and that you would like to talk to them about what was going on in your heart at the time, and what is going on in your heart now. You say you would like to talk, but in their time. You deliver it to their postbox and wait. Dont call, dont try see them. just wait. and see how they respond.

Hey I was like in the same place as you. If u still like/love the person and they don't want you and it hurts you to see that person and not be together then I suggest stop being friends for a little while until u get over it then can get back to being friends or whatever :)

• The problem is Facebook itself and as long as your ex is in control there is nothing much you can do about him deleting you from his Facebook. You can control yourself by doing yourself a favor and staying off Facebook. As far as the keys to your house get a locksmith up and get your locks changed. If you try to get the other keys back it will only bring on more anxiety and he could well have had other copies of the keys made. Locksmiths aren't that expensive.

Not crying doesnt mean anything. Eveybody shows emotions diferently. Some people cry, some people yell, and some people want to cry but just can't.

U PUT OUT!!!!!!!

Doesn't love suck! You just have to try to convince him that you do really love him and only want to be with him. maybe he will come around.

"The Long Love that in my Thought doth Harbour," is a poem written by Sir Thomas Wyatt. Wyatt was an English poet during the Renaissance.