Breakups

Woman, get use to it. They are all like that!!

Not all individuals do but in most cases its best as to get by and over your feelings. If your always around then it is harder to move on and forward.

Well you have 2 tell her that u love her and that u can't live without her. u got 2 be by her side in every moment. u got 2 be nice and care 4 her

If you go back to him then you are indicating to him that his dumping you was OK. In the future, he will probably take this as permission to do it again. You need to decide how much you are worth to yourself before you allow someone back in to your life who has hurt you in the past.

Probably but they broke up so its hard to tell probably yes!

Probably, He probably feel bad for cheating and wants to get back with you. If you do, i know it will be hard to trust him and you'll just have to see if you can ever fully trust him for the relationship to work.

There is no reason why you should not be able to comunicate normally with your ex. Just because your relationship has does not mean you cannot still communicate, or even be friends. Unless your ex tells you not to contact them, in which case you should respect theri wishes and leave them alone.

It could be many things, he may just of been friendly or he may have feelings for you. Mabey try talking to him in order to find out. It also depends where it was it could of been a dare or something along those lines. Also if it was a recent break up who broke up with who? Because if you broke up with him, he may still have feelings for you. Hope this helped :) x

Get over it!

• Sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder (meaning that when one has gone away they may realize they love that person) but, meanwhile since this is a break up it is wise of you to start dating and let your ex see you are not moping over his leaving and that in itself may have him come back to you. Chasing after someone who has left you or moping around once they are gone generally does not bring that person back into you life. By dating again there is a chance he will come back, but if he doesn't then fate has taken it's course and that means although you may not understand it yet this young man was not meant for you, but there is someone special out there that you will meet and fall in love with and they will feel the same about you.

yes they are divorced .

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What he really meant was he wants to remain friendly; that is, he hopes the both of you can act civilly toward each other. He doesn't want to be your friend, but he doesn't want to be your enemy, either. In English, as practiced by modern Americans, we have but do not use words to describe the state of knowing someone but not really being friends, unless we dislike them (enemy), or work with them (co-worker). In other countries and languages the use of the word friend is more clearly regulated. We've more or less let aquantience drop from everyday use here, which leads to the confusion. But I figure what he's probably trying to say is that he doesn't dislike you, but he's not really interested in being close to you any more. He still needs time to get over that feeling towards you. He is still not confident to approach you without that old feeling yet.

Most likely he is a "control freak", and wants to see that you are still under his control. If you've moved on he will feel like he no longer has any control over you.

Of course you can! "Engaged" means that you are planning to marry someone. You can plan to re-marry even though you are married to someone else.

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Engagement is just a promise or statement of intent. It has no real legal standing or requirement. It would, however, be good to let the "intended" know that you're waiting for the divorce. If being engaged shows an intent to enter into a contract. Then (where polygamy is illegal) you are also showing wilful intent to breach your current contract of marriage to the person you are currently married to if you have not filed for divorce. I am sure this would have legal implications on financial settlements and child custody arrangements.

There are also etiquette questions about announcing an engagement before a divorce is final. It might be considered rather tacky to announce you are engaged to someone else while still married to a current spouse.

Depends if you love your boyfriend more then your ex or if you love your ex more then your current boyfrind!?!Confusing right ive been through it

Answer No. Answer It is a nice name because it means fate.

Only she knows how she feels however, whatever this is it is not healthy and its would be in your best interest to cut all ties from her so both of you can move forward as it seems she already has.

* It sounds like your exes friend is keeping an eye on you and reporting to your ex. You should be angry! This means your ex isn't willing to commit to you yet has his friend spy on you to see who you are perhaps dating or where you are going. Your ex is controlling! Ignore it and don't bother talking to your ex unless he's ready to commit. Get on with your life and start dating again.

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I've been asking my-self the same question for a while. Usally if your boyfrien says " I DONT KNOW" it probably means that he doesn't care about the relationship or you have bugged him so much that he just doesn't want to answer the question to you at the time. sometimes he may not ever give you an answer. FOR ME THIS IS WHAT HAPPENED: my boyfriend and i were doing really well for half a month and then it started going bad.. he asked for space and i wouldn't give it to him. i kept asking why and i ketp talking to him over and over. i would calling him sevrel times a day. evenually i stopped not to long ago after i asked the question to him. " Do you want to try again with the relationship?" he saidright now my answer is " NO." then i asked him " is there a chance that we will try again with our relationship?" he answered " I DON'T KNOW." so i left it at that and I've been reading something on how to get my boyfriend back and so im trying some new things with it. In this case when when my boyfriend said that he wanted space that meant that he wanted to break up... but not all the time when someone says they want space who is in a relationship wants to break up it just means that they need there space to them-selve or they are tired of you being around themm all the time. so this is all i can say about this and here are some tips on how to help your relationship out and save it.

1) DON'T BE NEEDY ALL THE TIME2) LET HIM HAVE FUN WITH HIS OWN FRIENDS3) HANG OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS AND NOT WANT TO BE WITH HIM OR HER ALL THE TIME4) DON'T CALL HIM OR HER ALL THE TIME5) WHEN THEY SAY THEY NEED SPACE GIVE IT TO THEM6) LISTEN TO EACH OTHER DON'T INTURPED EACH OTHER WHEN TALKING7) HAVE FUN

Hope this will help you out.

ANJA

I am so sorry you are going through this. I have been divorced before and am happily married to my 2nd husband. Love does hurt. I don't mean to hurt your feelings, but I shoot straight from the hip (I get angry when nice people like yourself don't deserve it and get hurt) and I feel he's using you as a "pit stop." If he can come back into your life anytime he wants and you end up in bed together then I guess he'll keep coming back. One thing about men is, many of them don't care where they get sex as long as they do. It's confusing to women because sometimes it's difficult to tell if the guy really cares for you or it's all about sex. It's possible your husband does love you and he's confused so you have to "untie the knot" and here is how. Take a risk! Sit down with him and communicate how you feel, then let him have his say re his feelings. Tell him he isn't coming back into this marriage without some commitment and trying to get along and you won't put up with him splitting up every time there is a problem in your marriage. Stand strong, sure-footed (even if you are shaking inside) and don't ever let anyone control your life or take your dignity away. You aren't asking him to commit a crime, but to commit to a relationship and the sanctity of the marriage vows he took. Meanwhile girl, get loaded for bear! That means, get a new look. Get your hair done in a different style; have a girlfriend over for the evening and try different types of make-up (less is best) and buy a couple of pieces of clothing (good prices out there if you know where to look) and besides making yourself feel better it may just knock the socks off your husband. Let him see what he's missing! Sometimes it's easy if a woman is raising kids, cleaning house (some working as well) to look your best all the time, but it can be done on occasion. It's not good (I'm not accusing you of this) to let yourself go and that includes the husband or boyfriend. I go around in jeans or sweats during the day with no make-up on (letting my skin breath) but my hair is always nice and I keep myself in as good shape as I can without being a prisoner of exercise and I eat a fairly good diet. I can't stop the aging process, but, I can look the best for my age. So far, so good. LOL When I go out shopping, out for the evening or even visiting a girlfriend, I'll always take the time to look fairly good, but probably dress in jeans and a nice sweater or blouse, have make-up on and my hair done nicely (I do my own hair.) I love to dress up for fancy special occasions because it makes me feel like a "sexy mama!" LOL Life is more interesting when we, as women, look once in awhile out there to see how we can improve upon ourselves. That doesn't mean plastic surgery, crazy diets, but just general things. Women should look neat, like they care about themselves and again, that goes for the men. Who wants to look at a guy sitting across from you with a dazed, unshaven look on his puss, and stains down his T-shirt, with no hygienic matter going on. Fat, thin, tall, short, doesn't matter. Be the best you can be! I really wish you luck hon, because I know you must feel lonely and probably think you have failed in the marriage (when you haven't), but remember ... it takes two! Go for it girl and stand strong! Good luck Marcy

If love is unconditional how could you lose it. It is a paradox that cannot be answered. For instance that is like saying how do continue a never-ending line that stopped in front of my neighbors house. If, however, you are asking if it is possible to regain lost love than the answer would be yes.

(not if they have conditions)

1. Don't

2. B honest (if u have the guts)

3. If she finds out you're either way done for... since being brutally honest with her is the best way to go about this. As hard it is going to be, don't water it down or make it seem innocent or like you're the victim, as that won't work either. Just be a guy about it, and tell the most bluntest way you can, as it will be over quicker that way, as at least you aren't trying to hide it at all, which is always the worse choice.

not a good sign. this means noticed you but isn't ready to take it further. if you force a relationship on him it will end in tears. play along make him like you but not as a friend you have to maintain a balance. maybe other people for a while just ot show you're ready.