Breakups

Untill u kno that u are over the girl and if u kno if u moved on or not just be you like when u were just close! she will feel the same way. it might take a while but u will be back to normal in no time!!=)

Everyone has experienced one or more heart breaking split ups. It is actually a form of grieving. It's similar to losing someone to death and, in fact, you have lost someone. People grieve differently and there is no exact time limit on that grieving. The fastest way you can get on with your life and leave the hurt behind is getting out with your friends and back into the main stream of socializing. By doing so you are having fun, but loosening yourself up to meet that special person you actually should be with. It works because I've done it myself and so have many others. Learn to be independent, embrace the hurt for a little while, then dust yourself off and get back up and get on with life.

What was his reason for dumping you? If he's still flirting with you. Then it could mean two things. He either still feels an attraction to you or is just trying to mess with you.

The name "Kirstin" means "follow of Christ".

No.
And its time for her to call a good lawyer immediately.

well apparently that means he still loves you

because they are not rite for each other?? i dont knoww

I have no idea why you would consider this man is lying. He obviously loved her very much, but perhaps they both wanted careers, had to study hard and didn't have the time to date, or perhaps he couldn't afford to go to the same school as her or possibly it was a private school. These things happen. He must have been very hurt by that and perhaps she was too. It's really none of your business as he gave you a good enough explanation when he didn't have too. Haven't you every had someone hurt you badly? I don't think you would like to rehash it over again. Let by-gones be by-gones and don't bring this subject up again to him. He's trying to get on with his life.

He is chicken. He wants you to do it for him, but you shouldn't. You don't want to be the messenger for a break-up. Give him advice on what he should say to her, but that is it. The girlfriend will hurt, there is no easy way around it. Ok so did he have to ask you for help to ask her to be his girlfriend or go out on dates or do all the other stuff that comes with a relationship?? I wouldn't think so that would be so strange and so wrong if so. Either way the girl's gonna be hurt, if your friend is so "worried" about hurting her do you think by you telling her she'll feel much better? Don't think so...you might want to sit this one out and tell him he needs to be mature enough to do it himself just to be honest as to why he feels he needs or wants to break up with her. Chances are she'll appreciate his honesty and at the same time you'll be helping him be somewhat independent plus you don't have to be the "Bad Guy".

==new answer== We are all spirit expressing through the soul using a physical body during our physical stay. Rather than a crossing over it is really a withdrawal of attenion from the physical body so that the body ceases to function. Our attention is withdrawn from the physical into subconscious mind or soul where we reside until the next incarnation. So to answer your question, you will know when the spirit has left the physical body when it has ceased to function.

• If it is the mother of the child that wants to keep the baby then most mothers would not let anything stand in the way of the child and herself. In this case she can tell the father to leave, but he will be paying child support. If it's the father that wants to keep the child then he has a chance to fight it in court and should seek legal counsel.
  

ignore the person and make him or her think you are not interested in that stuff

This really depends on the couple. Some people refer back to the original date as their anniversary. Some people will say things like we have been dating on and off for this amount of time. This varies based on the particular couple, and what they feel is most accurate pertaining to them.

She doesn't want to talk to you A. you did something to hurt her, B. She needs time C. she probably hasn't checked her e-mail don't worry its her loss if she doesn't want to go out with you

Be patient. Don't rush to the first guy that catches your eye. Your heart will tell you when the time is right [ be sure it's your heart , not a body part further South ] .

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When I was still single, when I broke up with my boyfriend, it took me 2 weeks and a half before I start seeing another man. I gave myself one week to focus of what happened to my relationship, and the second week I already moving on without thinking about the man that I broke up with..

Let her know that you don't feel That it is necessary for her to talk to him because you just broke up and don't know how you would feel if she was to start talking to him. You have to tell her nicely or she won't listen to you.

You can have a good fling baby, but lets face it if you hate them you don't love them and don't want to be in a serious thing with them. Find someone better.

Don't mistake romance and attraction for love. If you're in a relationship with someone you hate, it's for an entirely different reason. It would be wise to find out why you would do that or you could end up in a string of relationships with people you hate and life is much too short.

If somebody lies to you with the intention of not wanting to ruin what you two have then it's a foolish move with most likely good intentions, however if you've been lied to so a blow could be softened (for example; "I didn't want to tell you I cheated on you because I still want to be with you") then I wouldn't bother trying to rekindle the fire that you once had with that person. It's important to remember that however much the truth may hurt someone it's almost always the right thing to tell them, the bottom line is you've been lied to.

You could look at it with the view of: What I have with this person makes me forgive them for lying to me. But that view can often lead to problems and is probably no longer useful to you as one of the categories you've placed this question in is "Breakups".

The right thing to do mate is probably just accept you've been lied to and move on in your own time.

If there was more information involved I'm sure we could be more helpful.

• That's what most narcissists do so well ... lie and deny and have feelings of self importance and have no moral standards. It's all about them. If there is a door where you are all you have to do is walk through it and not look back and that's a good suggestion. Narcissists do not change and will only become worse.

Let him be. Give him some time and space - he obviously does not want to be in a relationship right now and by pestering him and constantly bugging him you are just pushing him away further and possibly getting him to be annoyed and detest you. You probably have come across as very needy and overbearing to him and that is a huge turn off for guys. It is best to move forward and let him be. I realize you may be sad and hurting as this is how rejection makes us feel however, things will get better and you will find someone down the road that respects you and wants to be with you.

I realize you may want to resolve things or smooth things over but at this point with all the circumstances surrounding your past relationship it would be in your best interest to just let things be, let him be, let go and move on - learn from this relationship as to hopefully not repeat things in the future. Trying to talk about things let alone anything it seems will just begin an argument of sort and open things up again that should just left be - not all people are compatible and that is just something that has to be accepted.

Maybe. From what you've said, it looks like he's just trying to sort out his feelings for you.

Saying that he wants to be single for a week means that he just needs some time by himself. This could be because of a few things. Some examples:

# You two spend too much time with each other or one of you is being clingy.

# He saw this other girl and thought that he might have deeper feelings for her. Being alone for a while would help him figure out if you meant more to him than she does. # He doesn't feel like he's ready to date anyone seriously. Maybe this small twinge of feeling for this other girl made him realize that and made him want to seriously think about it. It could be a mixture of all three and/or maybe more.

But anyway, since he isn't dating this girl and refuses to, chances look good for him to come back. Frankly, it depends on how he really feels about you and seeing as your relationship was so good to begin with, he probably really cares about you.

This is something you need to think long and hard about. Even if the babys father doesnt want it, you need to decide if YOU want it. I can only imagine how hard it would be for a woman to abort her unborn child so make sure you get lots of advice from friends and family before making any hasty choices.